Chapter 68: Love is Love

As soon as the man came, he opened the car door, and it looked like he was going to fight.

This is a young man, with organic oil on his body, dirty, and a violent atmosphere, his aura is obvious, his eyes are fierce, completely like a direct light, there is no gentle soft light, this person, the person who comes is not good, I don't know what he wants to do. The round face asked, "What are you going to do?" The round-faced girl's question represents Ji Conan's heart.

"I want you to make it clear what's wrong with me." He asked fiercely. As soon as this sentence came out, the stone in Ji Conan's heart fell to the ground, what kind of thing is this? Isn't it just an emotional dispute between men and women? A little thing, a little thing.

"I'll talk about this later, don't delay my business. Look at you, big man, have a long snack, and you have to be a little ashamed. Shame and courage, you know? The round-faced girl said unceremoniously.

The man looked at the resolute gaze of the round-faced girl, and retreated, like a deflated bear Da Xiong Er, his figure seemed to be a little smaller, and the person had completely lost his fighting spirit, he closed the car door, and the car drove down the mountain.

"Who is that man?" Shen Jing said to the round-faced girl.

"It's my ex-boyfriend." The round-faced girl said, blushing, and continued driving. She seems to have been discovered a little secret in her heart, and she is very unaccustomed to it, but she has already made it a fait accompli, so she accepts her fate, no longer talks more, and concentrates on driving.

"What's the matter, I can't see that you have an ex-boyfriend at a young age." Shen Jing asked, full of envy. It's really a full man, I don't know that a hungry man is hungry. The round-faced girl already has the capital to show off. Shen Jing just wants to elope and hasn't found a suitable co-elopement partner.

"What is this? It's nothing to talk about friends now, but it's strange not to talk about it. Some of our children are already able to make soy sauce. I'm still playing and haven't had a chance to complete this plan. Round Face said disdainfully.

Shen Jing listened, and her heart was not good, it turned out that in the eyes of the current little girl, she was a strange person if she didn't talk about her friends! Now so many leftover women are weirdos. She doesn't know, the leftover women in Kyoto are like clouds, too thick, they are really beautiful like clouds, but there are no male tickets.

After a while, the car was still rushing forward, the round face was quite skillful, she was talking while driving, this technique has been practiced for many years, and she is familiar with this road.

"Can I ask you a personal question?" Shen Jing still couldn't hold back and asked.

"What, you're welcome." The round-faced girl said.

"Isn't it hard to talk about friends?" Shen Jing said that Shen Jing wants to learn from the round-faced girl and learn from the round-faced girl, and plan for her future, after all, her youth is short, and if she continues to consume, she will suffer, and now many people, seeing that the situation is not good, immediately change the direction, can not go all the way to the black, of course, there are also people who persist to the end, and the victory belongs to the support of my ideology, and there are a lot of them, and they are unwilling to compromise on this, and they have lost all their efforts.

"I don't think it's difficult. If you can't talk about it, you can talk about it, it doesn't matter, who hasn't been in love more than once before marriage now. The first one is unsuccessful, and there is the next; If the next one is not successful, talk about it again, if you don't believe in it, you can't talk about it, and you won't be a hero if you don't reach the Great Wall. The round-faced girl said.

Shen Jing smiled, and she said, "Then do you have premarital sex?" ”

"This is nothing, is it strange for people to talk about friends and have relationships now? If you don't have a relationship all the time, then it means that this woman is a saint, and most men are vulgar and unbearable, unwilling to wait, and they are all taking advantage of it. Just like fishing, you have to seize the opportunity, you can't pick up the rod early, and you can't do it late. It's early, it scares the fish away, the rod is late, the bait is eaten by the fish, and the rod is stupid. That is to say, time waits for no one, don't you say? The round-faced girl said.

Shen Jing didn't want to ask anything more. Sometimes it takes thought and courage before taking action.

Maybe this issue is not a sensitive sensitive topic. When Conan listened, he wanted to laugh but didn't dare to laugh, for fear of causing dissatisfaction, but for this topic, people's openness and tolerance are amazing. It's not even an after-dinner conversation.

The car soon arrived at the county seat, Shen Jing and Conan got out of the car, waved to her, and went directly back to the dormitory, and when they passed by the vegetable market, they bought some vegetables and prepared to cook and eat.

When they arrived at the dormitory, they saw a notice posted on the doorpost at the gate, that is, they asked to move before the end of October, because the water level in the Three Gorges reservoir area was going to rise, and the houses in the original living area were going to be submerged.

Conan looked at Shen Jing, Shen Jing looked at Conan, and the two smiled, this place will become a house for fish and shrimp in the future, just like the Crystal Palace, it's really good. So they opened the door and went inside.

Shen Jing cooks, and Conan says he washes the dishes. This division of labor is also fair and reasonable.

Conan was reading the newspaper he had just bought, and when he heard someone knocking on the door, he got up and opened the door to see that it was Zhang Nan upstairs, and she said, "Mr. Ji, have you seen the notice?" ”

"See." Conan said.

"When are you going to move?" Zhang Nan said.

Conan said, "I don't know yet, I haven't found a house yet." We will wait until we have all arrived and discussed it before we can look for a house, and we can only move after we find a house. ”

"yes, we didn't look for it either. It seems that the notice was just posted. I see the glue is still wet. Zhang Nan added.

"Where's Niu Niu?" Conan asked.

"At her grandmother's house." Zhang Nan said.

Conan thought to himself, this woman is also pitiful enough, she has found a husband, her reputation and status are very good, she looks happy on the outside, but in fact she has so many misfortunes.

You can't just look at the outside, you have to look inside, and the things that are not easy to find are often the most real. The whitewashed peace will not last long, just like the fire running underground, sooner or later it will erupt one day, and at that time, the scene will be quite shocking.

If the problem is identified early and solved early, it will not become more and more out of control.

Zhang Nan felt unhappy, and it was only those in the know who discovered this fact.

If someone says that Zhang Nan is happy, then some people will definitely believe that after all, the brilliance of the appearance will make people's eyes dizzy and unable to see things as they are.

"Mr. Ji, I think happiness, for me, just stay in the book, I can't talk about happiness at all. In addition, love has nothing to do with me, it seems that those love stories are just legends in books or film and television dramas, which are so far away from me. I think love is a luxury, not something that ordinary people can enjoy. I'm just an ordinary person, and I don't expect love. Zhang Nan said.

"Happiness is not as ideal and abundant as you think, happiness is actually very simple. It's just that life is not very tense, there is basically no economic pressure, there is time to read books, write, not be separated from family, and be in the mood to drink tea or coffee, and brag with good friends, which is happiness. Other than that, there is no special meaning. Conan said.

"You have a point. I also think that happiness is actually very simple. Zhang Nan said.

After a while, Shen Jing cooked the meal.

Seeing that Zhang Nan was leaving, he hurriedly stopped her, and had to invite her to have a meal here. Zhang Nan looked at the situation and had to give in and stay.

She looked at Conan and Shen Jing without speaking, just laughing while eating.

Shen Jing was quite puzzled and asked, "What's wrong, is it delicious?" ”

"I think it's interesting, you two, lonely men and widows, don't you have any ideas together?" Zhang Nan said.

Conan couldn't figure it out, and so did Shen Jing, so he asked, "What kind of thoughts, it's quite normal." ”

Zhang Nan said: "Most people will think that you will not be able to control yourself, because you are young, and your physical needs should be particularly strong. A man and a woman, young and young, in a closed space, no matter how innocent they are, they will cause misunderstandings. Behind your back, someone must be talking about something, but you haven't noticed it yet. ”

Shen Jing didn't have a formal experience, and said, "No." I've never thought about it that way, it's just that I'm too busy at work and it's completely boring and unnecessary to think about it. Is there any basis for what you say? ”

"Absolutely. Normal young men and women, as long as they have had sexual experiences, will be inseparable from each other. Unless you're not married or don't have those features, most of them will have some ideas. Zhang Nan said.

After they finished eating, Zhang Nan rushed to wash the dishes, but Shen Jing refused, and Conan said, "It's my turn to wash the dishes." We have a division of labor. Shen Jing cooks, I wash the dishes, I can't mess with the rules, lest there be no way to implement the things discussed in the future. Besides, when you come to us, you are a guest, and the common feature of hospitality in the world is that you will not let guests do things. You can sit back and talk to Miss Shen. ”

Shen Jing had no choice but to give up and talk to Zhang Nan.

"Is your husband treating you better now?" Shen Jing said.

"It's a little better. However, I still have a relationship with the previous woman, and I saw his WeChat chat history by chance. In addition, in the middle of the night, he also went to the bathroom to make a phone call. I pretended to be asleep, and I knew all these little movements of his. Sometimes I come home late at night for an excuse, and sometimes I don't go home at night. Zhang Nan said.

"That's not good, it's not fair to you to go on like this." Shen Jing said.

"Yes, I think I'm a bit of a coward, only allowing men to look for women outside, but not women looking for men outside." Zhang Nan said.

"You're in an ethnic minority area, so it's okay. In our Han areas, the phenomenon of preference for sons over daughters is even more prominent. Shen Jing said.

"It seems that men cannot have money or power, and both of these things take away the happiness that belongs to women." Zhang Nan said.

"What you say is classic, and it is true. However, women all over the world hope that their husbands can grab money, sit in a high position, have social fame, and feel superior when they go out. Shen Jing said.

As he spoke, Togo opened the door and came back.

"Togo, have you eaten?" Shen Jing asked.

Togo looked tired, and he said, "I haven't eaten yet." ”

"How about I get you something to eat?" Shen Jing asked.

Togo said, "Forget it, no need. I just ate a pancake and I'm not hungry. ”

Shen Jing heard him say this, so he didn't say anything. When Togo saw Zhang Nan, he nodded, and went to sleep in his small room.

Zhang Nan continued to talk to Shen Jing.

"I wonder why a man has a wife and has to go outside to find a lover." Shen Jing said.

"You don't know, a man's heart is very big, and he can't wait for all the women in the world to be enjoyed by him alone. Men want to be the emperor, because the emperor can marry seventy-two concubines in three palaces and six courts, and there are many extravagant kings in history, probably all of whom are defeated by these women. Even so, there are still many restless men who want to be emperors or officials, and possessing women is one of the motives for these lustful men to move forward. Zhang Nan said.

"According to what you say, I don't dare to marry anymore, men are too dangerous." Shen Jing said.

"No, it's not that there isn't a good man in the world. No, you see, there's one there. Zhang Nan said, pursed his mouth, and pointed over there.

"Who? The one who just came in. Shen Jing asked.

Zhang Nan shook his head.

Shen Jing understood, she was referring to Conan.

Shen Jing lowered her head, pondered for a while, and then said, "The family is already married. I know he's good, but it's a pity I'm a step late. ”

"Yes, if I didn't get married, I would be willing to chase him." Zhang Nan said.

"I've seen his wife, very beautiful, virtuous, a nice woman." Shen Jing said.

"I don't mean that, I'm looking for someone like Mr. Ji as a boyfriend, so that I can be happy in the future. There is no complete love in the world, only the incomplete, and there are no perfect people in the world, only bad people. We all need to work hard to correct ourselves and be dedicated to goodness. Zhang Nan said.

At this moment, Zhang Nan's mobile phone rang, she looked at the caller ID, answered the phone, and after saying a few good words, she closed the phone and said to Shen Jing: "I'm going to send Niuniu to school." Thank you, and I'll invite you to dinner later. ”

Shen Jing said yes. She may not be able to understand what she thinks and does as a mother. After giving birth to a child, a woman gives almost half of her life to the child, without her own time and space, without her own hobbies and pursuits, and almost completely surrenders the second half of her life to the child.

After Zhang Nan went to the kitchen to greet Conan, he closed the door and went to send Niuniu to school.

Conan finished washing the dishes and invited Togo, and the three of them discussed finding a house and moving. When Togo heard that he was going to move, he came to the spirit.

He swept away the tiredness just now, and said vividly: "This time we must move to Xipo, which is the county seat, very beautiful, and it is convenient to shop and buy things." ”

"It is the county seat, of course, it is good, but the county branch will not move for the time being, because the office building of the old county branch is located at a high place, and the water in the Three Gorges Reservoir area will never flood there. Besides, the construction of the new office building has not yet begun, and if we move to Xipo, it will be inconvenient for us to come to the county branch to do business. Conan said.

"I feel like I still have to move. As for where it is better, I think it is best in the middle. You can take care of both sides, you just have to go out and find the right house. Shen Jing said.

As he was talking, there was another knock on the door, who would be this time?