Chapter 56: Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law War

When Ji Conan saw the woman in front of him, he was startled and almost unrecognizable.

She had short hair, a bulging belly, and her clothes didn't seem to fit in any way. Because of pregnancy, my face is whiter than I remembered, maybe because of a lack of exercise, or because my nutrition has not kept up, which makes people feel pitiful.

This woman is Ji Conan's wife, she saw Ji Conan, and immediately threw herself into his arms and said, "Husband, you are finally back." Missed me. ”

Ji Conan picked up his wife, turned around, turned his wife unconscious, and shouted again and again: "Let me go down!" Be careful with your child. ”

Ji Conan immediately put down his wife, then put the suitcase and backpack on the ground, and put his head close to his wife's belly, eager to listen to the child's movements. This is a new life in the future!

"Husband, you see, our baby has telepathy with you, and when he knows that you are coming back, he is kicking me hard." His wife said. She seemed excited, as if she was kicking her for the first time, or the feeling of someone who had never experienced the joy of a pregnant mother.

"yes, I'm going to listen to it." Ji Conan said as he listened carefully.

Sure enough, the boy rolled over in his wife's belly, as if he wanted to come out and hug his father. This made Ji Conan very excited.

"This is my child, a new life. It's great that I have kids. This guy has long legs, is powerful, and will be stronger than me in the future, which is simply great. He said excitedly, tears glistening in his eyes.

Hearing that her son was back, Ji Conan's mother came to see her son.

Ji Conan said to his mother, "Mom, I'm back." How have you been? ”

"It's fine. When are you leaving? His mother said. Ji Conan was stunned for a moment, and immediately reacted, his mother spoke straightforwardly, she would not beat around the bush, and she asked when she was going to leave as soon as she came back, this is what many people wanted to ask but didn't ask, this, there are also genes in Ji Conan, there is no turning around when asking questions, it is straightforward and simple, leaving no room for it, this habit is not good, acquaintances can accept it, and strangers are vulnerable. Acquaintances are hurt too much and become numb, and strangers have hearts that are not strong enough, and they are fragile glass, and if they are not careful, they will be shattered.

"In a week." Ji Conan said.

His wife stood by the door, and did not call her mother, nor did she invite her mother-in-law to sit, but ignored her. Is this a Cold War? It's really a bit similar, but Ji Conan won't think about it in that direction, striving for more harmony and less strife. No one is perfect, no gold is enough, why bother to seek perfection?

Ji Conan found that there seemed to be some problems between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but he just came back, and it was not easy to ask, and there were some things that could not be asked.

Ji Conan went to the bathroom to wash his face, and he was dusty along the way, and there was a lot of sweat on his face, so he was so happy that he forgot what his face looked like. The wife began to cook, and Ji Conan came out to see that his mother had closed the door of the living room and left.

Ji Conan also has a younger brother who lives in another building. Not far from Conan's home, it is a distance of about ten meters, this distance, you can hear the sound of his mother sitting at the door sneezing, you can also hear the sound of neighbors shouting at the family to eat, and then, the sound of mobile phones changing stainless steel basins, selling peanuts, selling cotton, collecting waste and tatters, etc., the sound is endless, always heard very clearly, without hiding and tucking.

His mother once lived with Ji Conan for a while, and later, his younger brother was a heavy drinker, often drunk, immoral, often made some jokes, he didn't laugh, and he regretted the pain when he woke up, and his family was always in pain. His younger brother is in a drunken state, living in his own world, not thinking about others, and numb, not wanting to think, as long as he lives well, no matter whether others are happy or unhappy, his life, at least the first half of his life, is like this in a daze, he doesn't know what happened in the second half of his life, whether there is a plan, whether there is a goal, no one knows, the key is that the winery does not go out of business, he has the hope and meaning of living.

His mother was worried that something would happen to his brother, so she moved in with him and never moved back. Because his younger brother Cauchy has always been like this, he has always been unable to lack someone to take care of him. This is the greatness of the middle ** parent, the sense of responsibility is too strong, the child has been willful for too long, and has been numb, both sides are like this.

Since his mother moved away, it has become a world for two, and it is relatively free.

Living with the elderly, there will be some scruples and unfreedom, and there will be embarrassing moments.

Ji Conan thought, since they can't live together, they can live separately, and they can often go to see the elderly. In this way, he didn't worry much about the family, he just focused on working outside, and he rarely asked about the trivial matters of the parents at home.

Ji Conan feels sorry for his wife's tiredness, he cooks by himself, his wife doesn't like to eat, she has a strong taste recently, she likes to eat bitter gourd, pepper and other vegetables, as the saying goes, sour men and hot women, I don't know what his wife will have in the future. Having said that, no matter what he is born in, he is the descendant of Ji Conan, no matter how you say it, it is worth celebrating.

At night, I go to bed after having washed it. Ji Conan's wife began to complain in bed. said that his mother can't do this, that can't work, and it doesn't look good. Conan thought to himself, since ancient times, there have been few daughters-in-law who say that their mother-in-law is good, and vice versa, mother-in-law always looks at her son and is always unaccustomed to looking at her daughter-in-law, no matter how good her daughter-in-law is, she can't always pick a bone in the egg. The daughter-in-law is too, and the relationship between the two is water and fire. Men, in the middle, in the water, and in the fire, in short, are either cold and biting, or the heat is unbearable, therefore, men, the heat expansion and cold contraction of the kung fu is very good. Therefore, the big husband can bend and stretch, that's what he said.

Ji Conan was annoyed, and his wife said this, which actually made it difficult for him to be a man.

On one side is the son, the mother is destined, there is no choice, it is impossible to replace; On one side, his wife is pregnant, and it is impossible to divorce immediately, and it is a difficult problem who to kiss and who not to kiss.

His wife was always chattering, and her ears were about to be calloused in a short moment, but he had to be patient. After all, it's not a young man, so you can't lose your temper and say it, pull it down! And leave home arrogantly, or divorce justifiably.

Ji Conan knows this very well, so he has to put up with it. Enduring is also a lesson, and I'm afraid that many people fall off the horse and fail. So I have to retake the exam.

The game between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began as early as when they got married.

The daughter-in-law said that she didn't have a good bed when she got married, and the mother-in-law promised to buy it, but it didn't materialize. It's not that I don't give money, I give money, but if it's less, my daughter-in-law can't like it, so I don't buy it, and I don't have a new bed.

The daughter-in-law should take a wedding photo.

Ji Conan was in a law firm at the time, just working as an assistant, of course, he didn't have a lot of money in his account, and taking wedding photos was very expensive at that time, so he didn't take a photo. And Ji Conan was ashamed to open his mouth to his mother, and the wedding photo was delayed.

There were no cars on the wedding day, only taxis.

It's still the fault of less money.

It just so happened that the wedding did not count the days, and the day coincided with the market, the traffic jam on the street, the taxis turned around and ran, and they were unwilling to come, even if they came, it was difficult to pass.

In the end, I had no choice but to take a rickshaw.

Look, the two of them got married almost naked.

Fortunately, Ji Conan's father made up his mind before his death and left him a set of welfare housing, but the decoration was powerless.

His house is basically undecorated, it is a rough house, just like that, taking his daughter-in-law home is considered a marriage.

The daughter-in-law was still angry, and the wedding banquet was actually at home.

Relatives didn't come a few, three tables, not lively at all.

It's just a!

Ji Conan was proud that even so, his daughter-in-law still coaxed him.

So, he said he would be doubly good to his wife.

If you don't get married, you will be able to satisfy your daughter-in-law with your hands after marriage.

As for the platinum ring for the wedding, not to mention, it was small and thin, not worthy of the slender and beautiful fingers of his daughter-in-law.

"In the future, if I have the chance, I will buy you a diamond ring. It will definitely make you happy. Ji Conan said.

For this promise, his wife is engraved in her heart, and she always has nothing to do with his words, but as everyone knows, nine out of ten men love to boast and talk big. What Ji Conan said had already been thrown out of the Nine Heavens Cloud, and he couldn't remember it at all.

It's okay that Ji Conan doesn't go home, but once he comes back, something will happen.

Two women compete for a love, how does this scene end?

Ji Conan's mother worked hard to raise him, and the child she was unwilling to raise was handed over to others, and it was another woman.

This loss grew as the son fell into the arms of another woman.

And his daughter-in-law, a child raised by someone else's family, is not easy.

A girl as big as his daughter-in-law left her mother's house and came to her mother-in-law's house to get a man, of course, she was a little unaccustomed to it.

got a man, of course, he had to defend it to the death, but as everyone knows, this man didn't fall from the sky, but was raised with a handful of and urine after countless sleepless nights, and was fed with a grain of rice and a drop of water. The body is no longer straight, and wrinkles and gray hair gradually increase.

A young daughter-in-law can't appreciate the hard work of being a mother before she becomes a mother.

What Ji Conan hears most in front of his wife is his dissatisfaction with his mother. In front of his mother, what he heard the most was his mother's dissatisfaction with his wife.

Ji Conan pondered and meditated, and finally came up with a way, if he wanted to not offend both sides, he simply listened to both sides and did not express his position.

After the run-in period, let's see how it goes. This is a protracted war, and trying to solve family conflicts in a quick way is simply wishful thinking and a fool's dream.

It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and there is no right answer to these things. You can only find a way to procrastinate, and procrastination is the best way.

Ji Conan believes that this is a kind of cold treatment, and cold treatment is not not not not treated, but one step slower.

Many people are prone to do wrong things and regret things when they are hot-headed, and it is probably better to deal with them calmly.

But his wife did not accept it, and she wanted to solve the problem quickly.

Her idea is to let her husband teach his mother-in-law a good lesson, give her time completely, don't always favor her mother-in-law, fully support herself, and firmly stand on her side on the issue of position, carry out her orders to the letter, maintain the world of two, do not allow her mother-in-law to enter this world, and do not give her mother-in-law the opportunity to destroy the harmony between husband and wife.

The husband should be completely filial to his parents, be kind to his older brothers and sisters, at least better than his sisters and younger brothers, and treat their relatives differently. You can't let your husband's relatives take the lead.

The result is a conflict.

Within three days after coming back, the husband and wife were in love, needless to say, three days later, Ji Conan wanted to leave.

It's only half past the holiday, and I have to get through the extra few days.

He didn't know how to deal with family conflicts, and he was exhausted on this battlefield without gunpowder.

This also sharpened his character and learned to tolerate.

These are things that he would never have faced when he was single. The single era was wonderful, but it is a thing of the past. The present state is in the present continuous tense. No one knows what the future holds, and maybe what will happen again.

Ji Conan looked at his sleeping wife beside the pillow, with a lot of thoughts and a lot of thoughts. Perhaps, only adults have such thoughts and sorrows.

His mother was the only old man, and his father had died.

His father suffered all his life and did not enjoy the blessings, and he wanted to use his modest efforts to fulfill his filial piety to his mother to make up for his debt to his deceased father.

But his wife didn't understand. This emotion is best known only in the hearts of the parties.

On one side is his wife, and on the other side is his mother, both of whom are the most important people in his life, one who gave him life, and the other who is giving birth to life to help him continue his descendants. Neither can be offended, and both must be treated well.

After thinking about it, he still has to learn to maneuver between the two women more skillfully, so as not to make a mess of the family.

This requires wisdom to deal with, and it also requires courage to face it, and it is not a problem that can be solved by escaping.

When he got up in the morning, Ji Conan went to his mother's house to see his mother and younger brother.

Mom was preparing breakfast, and my brother was still sleeping. I drank too much wine last night, and I was still dizzy, and my brother slept on the bed, opened his eyes, saw that it was his brother, and said, "Brother, you are back." ”

"Hmm!"

"I have a headache and don't want to get up."

"Are you still drinking?"

"I drank a little more last night."

"Nonsense! How is it possible to drink a little? If you don't drink to a certain extent, you won't stop. Don't you know when I don't? It's time for you to wake up, your mother can't walk with you for the rest of your life, what can you do without your mother? ”

The younger brother stopped talking, his eyes closed, and two tears rolled out of the corners of his eyes.

Ji Conan didn't bother to look at it, so he left. When he went to the kitchen, he saw his mother and asked, "Is there anything you need help with at home?" ”

"Yes. The light in the kitchen was broken and needed to be repaired, and there was also a light in the bedroom that needed to be replaced. His mother said.

Ji Conan went to take a look.

"I see. Do you have a new light bulb at home? Then he said to his mother.

"Nope."

"Then I'll go out and buy it."

Just as he was about to go out, his wife appeared at the door.