Conan said: "I know, I'm more mature, you have a crush on me, in fact, I don't have money, I don't have a tall and handsome appearance, I only have a sincere heart." ”

"It turns out that it is not enough to have a sincere heart. It is not easy for those who leave their homes to make a living in other places. Also angry. The heart is on the inside, not easy to see, and maybe the outward actions, you can see your heart. You are a well-meaning person, you do good deeds, and you also have to do good deeds to the people of your family, which is comprehensive. It can't be used as a burden to shave your head, and it's hot, right? Ji Conan's wife said.

"It's okay now, each is responsible for its own project points, no contact, no interference, no responsibility for each other, all responsible for Miss Liu, okay. It's just that you can't take care of your family all the time. I admit this, especially now, when the child is still young and needs his father to be by his side, after this village, there is no such shop. However, I can't help it. You have to be more understanding and more patient. Ji Conan said.

"It's good now, but it's hard to say in the future. What should I do when my child grows up and wants to go to kindergarten, elementary school, middle school, and university? Are you still floating out like this? How do I get the tuition fee? Give your child a bright future and don't let him lose at the starting line. You work outside, either you have money, or power, or property, or connections, you have to take a head, if you don't have anything, it's better to go home, what are you trying to do here? She asked.

"This is what men should do, I'll figure it out. It won't embarrass you. If you are poor, you will live in the way of poverty; To be rich is to live in the way of affluence. It's not going to make people beg for food. Ji Conan said.

Conan thought to himself, he has a little dead salary every month, and he has no problem eating, but he can't save money, what should he do? Originally, he was doing charity, poverty alleviation, helping others get rid of poverty, and seeking development, but he was poor and couldn't open the pot, how to fight the war and how to do the work? It's a difficult problem, and it's no wonder that men are so difficult! When an ox grinds grain in the threshing floor, do not bind its mouth. Actually, this truth is very simple, it just can't be done.

When people ask, they don't know how to answer, such as: "Since you give love, why do you talk about money?" ”

The public always thinks that charity is done by big capitalists, rich people, and there is so much money that there is no place to use it, so it is distributed to the poor. But these people who give money are themselves poor, and who will give them money?

People who do social work that gives money do it themselves hungry, and after a long time, no one wants to do it. Dealing with money, seeing money, touching money, just can't put money into your own pocket, this is the bottom line, is the principle.

The battle between ideals and reality is never over, but sometimes either ideals or reality give in, but until now, it is impossible to know who will win and who will lose. If you don't do it well, your conscience will be condemned, and if you do it well, you won't be praised, and in the end you will still be depressed.

After playing for a while in the little garden, Conan said to his wife, "Let's go back." His wife nodded, no need to ask the child's opinion, it is useless to ask, the child is like a treasure on the body, wherever you go, take it with you, don't lose it, and when the child will leave, you will express your opinion, you can ask his opinion, even if the opinion is very absurd, very ridiculous, very naïve and naïve, also ask, there will be no harm, only good.

For his wife, it was difficult to descend the mountain, and it was even more difficult to go up. Walking through a winding flat road, it's nothing, the problem is that it is difficult to face countless steps. Conan climbs the mountain and feels laborious, not to mention his wife.

Of course, Conan has been working in the mountains for more than two years and is still more accustomed to this kind of "exercise", which is simply difficult for his wife to get to the sky.

Conan said as he walked: "I usually have nothing to do but watch less TV, go to the supermarket more, and take the children to the garden to play." Doing more outdoor activities or sports is good for you and your children, watching TV every day will definitely affect your health, be careful to grow like potatoes. ”

"Damn! Also to the supermarket? It's much better to be able to buy some food at the door and send some food money to those grandparents. It is difficult to buy a vegetable and run a few miles, and go down and up the mountain, but it is good to deliver the food to the door. I can't afford that. ”

Conan said, "You are afraid to climb the mountain, so you deliberately say something nice." If you don't give money to the old lady and grandfather, they won't give you food, right? When they grow some vegetables themselves, they can't finish eating, they can't finish eating, they sell them, and their bodies are exercised, and they don't have to buy vegetables, and they make money again, which is really a triple win. ”

She said: "Ghosts are willing to climb mountains, to be honest, climbing mountains is really terrible, I really don't fit to live here." If you want to be here, whatever, I can't help it. ”

"If you want to be slim, you need to exercise more, and women who have given birth to children, there are very few slim ones. The key is that lack of exercise and eating too much, too much nutrition, is not a good thing, you have to eat seventy percent full, eat enough, and die early. If you don't believe it, just look at the people around you, there are many such examples. Abound. Conan said.

"Do you hate me? I can hear it, I am stupid for three years when I am pregnant, and I am afraid that if I give birth to a child, I will be stupid for thirty years. You're not going to want me, are you? She asked.

"If you don't dislike it, why don't you want it? Seriously, I'm doing it for your good, too. Ji Conan said.

"Forget it, I'll arrange it. Don't worry too much. Your wife has a solution. She said.

When Conan heard her say this, he stopped insisting. Conan knew very well in his heart that Mrs. Ji was a very individual person, insisting on principles and refusing to compromise easily, and she didn't want to climb the mountain, which was understandable. Because she grew up in the plains, where is she used to living in the mountains?

It's not for her family, for her children, or for her husband, she doesn't want to come to this deep mountain. If you travel, you can take a look around, open your eyes, be fresh, satisfy your curiosity, and if you settle down, you don't want to kill her.

Then again, people who are accustomed to life in the mountains and are forced to move to the plains will not be satisfied either. The people who migrated to the plains from the Three Gorges have returned to the mountainous areas one after another, and even if they cancel their hukou, they will not be able to stop the pace of returning, and they would rather not have a hukou than stay in the vast plains. This is in response to the saying, called "the homeland is hard to leave". Quite right!

Halfway up the mountain, Conan sat on the steps with his child in his arms. After the rain, the steps are quickly dry, the steps made of bluestone, some places are not completely dry, some are wet, earthworms crawl over, leaving long traces, and there are some busy black ants, working diligently. Conan pointed to the little beetles that were running past and let the children see, the children did not react quickly, did not look, but stared at Mrs. Ji who was slowly moving up the mountain, the target was larger, and the children were familiar, of course, more attractive than the beetles or ants. Maybe in the near future, he will pay attention to these little bugs.

Conan had no choice but to let the child stand on his lap and watch his poor wife climb up the mountain, and Conan shouted at her: "Wife, come on, wife, come on!" The little one was also very happy, standing on Conan's lap, jumping up and down, and his calf was very powerful.

When Mrs. Ji came up and saw that her head was covered with beads of sweat, Conan took out a napkin, handed it to her, and asked her to wipe it. Mrs. Ji said, "Husband, you killed me!" My heart was beating out. It's really damn, it's terrible! ”

"It's okay, in case it jumps out, I'll put it back in. I'll do a first aid on the spot, it should be fine, trust my skills. Conan said.

"I'm too lazy to pay attention to you, I don't even want to talk. Every word you say requires a lot of effort. It feels like I'm dying. She said.

"Fortunately, I don't work in Tibet, if that were the case, you wouldn't have gone to Tibet, would you?" Conan said.

"Not necessarily," she said. I heard that Tibet is a plateau, and when you go up, it is flat land, and everything is good except for lack of oxygen. It's really exciting. When you arrive at this Guizhou, you can't go up, you can't go down, it's not good. ”

"It's convenient. At least you can go home often. If we go to Tibet, it will be difficult for us to meet. Conan said.

"Not necessarily," she said. Wouldn't it be better to have a family in Tibet like we are now? ”

"The head of the unit won't let us be together. Afraid of affecting work. In addition, it is not possible for the unit to open a project in Tibet, which is a Buddhist area and does not welcome Christian institutions. Ji Conan said.

"Regardless of faction, they all serve the common people, so what does it matter? Isn't religion all about exhorting people to do good, to do good deeds? Why ban it? This doesn't make sense! She asked.

"Not what you say. This region is very sensitive, especially the issue of solidarity, which the relevant departments attach great importance to. Even if we want to go, there is money, there are people, there are projects, and the masses need it, if the relevant departments do not agree, we still can't go. ”

Mrs. Ji said, "Oh, that's right. That's it. I don't understand. In this case, you still need to know more. lest I ask three questions and make people laugh. ”

Conan said: "Your first task is to raise the child well, and in the future, when the child grows up, maybe Tibet will allow foreign agencies to do projects there." ”

"I don't know what year it was," she said. ”

Conan said: "There are seedlings that don't worry about growing, and no seedlings who want to panic." Look at our baby, his legs are very strong, and he will definitely be stronger than you in the future. ”

"I wish he had been stronger," she said. It's better to be stronger than you. ”

Conan said, "Not only to have a good body, but also to have a good mind." ”

"Then it's about the development of personality," she said. ”

"Yes, wife, you are very far-sighted, and the words you say don't seem like you came up with them."

Mrs. Ji shook her head and said proudly, "Of course, I learned from TV." ”

Conan said, "You have a good memory, you should read some books in your spare time." Reading books can enrich your knowledge, but also allow you to see problems from different perspectives, and better express your opinions. Because the vocabulary has increased and there is ink in the stomach, there is no fear of not having the opportunity to perform. Of course, your knowledge and talent will naturally flow out. ”

She said: "Forget it, forget it, I'm most afraid of reading, and as soon as I read a book, I go to sleep." ”

Conan said, "Read some books, books can keep you from dementia." ”

She asked curiously, "Really?" ”

When Conan saw her, he felt that he really needed to help her develop the habit of reading, but how easy was it to say? Now that she has a child again, time is given to the little one, and only when the child sleeps can she be free, a little time, and she can't resist the temptation of TV shows. Those boring TV series can indeed be used to pass the time.

"What do you think, can you go?" Conan said.

Mrs. Ji said, "No problem, let's go, walk this step in one go." ”

Conan walked behind with the child in his arms, and his wife asked him to go ahead, and Conan asked, "What's wrong?" ”

"There's a dog up ahead." She said, looking disgraced.

It turned out that when his wife was going down the mountain, she noticed that there was a family nearby that had a yellow-haired dog, but it was chained, and every time Conan walked and passed by that family, he didn't have to worry about anything, but his wife was afraid, which may be a psychological effect.

Actually, the dog was still a little yellow dog.

There is a difference between men and women, and the little things show the purity.

Back at home, Mrs. Ji was paralyzed on the bed, not even leaving the bed to breastfeed, shouting "rubbing the thighs, feet and neck", Conan was busy cooking, massaging his wife, and peeing on the little guy, so busy that he even regretted it a little and took them out to play.

Obviously, the evening show was a bit mysterious. Conan washes his wife's face, feet, etc., washes his children, washes himself, and is too lazy to watch TV, and he is bored.

In the middle of the night, when she was a little relieved, her wife took the initiative and gave Conan a little comfort and tenderness. The strange thing is that Conan was just tired, and when she encountered this kind of thing, she was full of energy, and she was full of strength, which made her addicted, and then, she urinated on the child and fell asleep.

Conan was like the tiger killed by Wu Song, his strength was exhausted, and then he also fell into a deep sleep.

When he got up in the morning, a beam of sunlight shone into the bedroom through the silver curtains, and Conan opened his eyes and saw that the mother and son were still asleep, so he quietly got up to cook. Looking at his good-looking wife, Conan took the change of clothes to the bathroom, put them in a basin, took the water, and soaked them.

Conan cooked, his wife and children got dressed, and Conan called his wife to eat.

"How?" Conan asked.

She said: "It's okay, but my calves are still sore and sore." ”

"It may take a few days before it doesn't hurt, take your time," Conan said. It's like this when I start climbing the mountain. ”

She said, "Not for you, I didn't want to do it last night." ”

Conan looked at her, smiled and said, "Only my wife loves me the most and understands me the most in the world." ”

"Don't talk about the hemp people." She said.

After Conan finished eating, he hugged the child and asked his wife to eat well, and after his wife finished eating, Conan went to wash the dishes. She said, "No, you can go to work." ”

"It's okay, the first train hasn't come yet. Now that the bridge is open to traffic, there is no need to rush. There is a car to sit at any time. Sometimes, there are more cars than people. Conan said.

She couldn't resist him, so she asked him to wash the dishes, Conan cleaned up the table, picked up his backpack, kissed his son, hugged his wife, and walked down the mountain.