For eating, Conan has become accustomed to it, the time to eat is very short, and the time to talk is very long, so it takes time to eat together, mainly to talk, and the rest of the time is a small part of the time to eat, so, the meal is very important, many things can not be solved in the office, and when it comes to the dinner table, the problem is solved in a relaxed and happy atmosphere, which seems to have become a good way to solve the problem.

At the beginning, that is, when she entered the village, Feng Feifei's fat girl repeatedly explained: "Don't go to the villagers' houses for dinner." "It seems that she is serious, not like a joke, this is an iron discipline that must be followed, there is no room for bargaining.

She also told a story, saying that Song Daliang was very popular with the villagers during his lifetime, and usually invited him to the villagers' houses for dinner, but he didn't go, and the situation changed during the Chinese New Year. In other words, according to the regulations of the organization, you must go to work before the fifteenth day of the first lunar month after the New Year. From the first day to the fifteenth day of the new year, it is the time of the Spring Festival, and I visit relatives every day. It's bustling, and the Chinese New Year is busier than usual.

The system was rigid and inflexible, because at that time everyone in the city went to work, but the people in the countryside didn't. The village still has to wait for the spring flowers to bloom and the frozen soil to soften before they can do things, but the city people do not have farming, so the climate requirements are not very strict. Also, even if you work in the city, you don't have to worry about the impact of the temperature on people, and there is air conditioning in the office, so you can't tell whether it's spring, summer, autumn and winter.

That is to say, on Labor Day, it is not the manual workers who really rest, but the people who really receive the cooling fee in the hot season, who do not have to sweat like rain, and some people who blow air conditioners in the office are enjoying it. Those who work hard under the scorching sun do not have this fee to receive, Ji Conan thought so.

Ms. Lau often said that the staff in the Hong Kong Island office were not as good as her because she did not often spend time in the air-conditioned office, which was not the case on Hong Kong Island.

Hong Kong Island is hot all year round, and the air smells damp and salty, and the body is always wet. Perhaps due to the oceanic climate, for Hong Kong Islanders, almost everyone bathes in the sea breeze.

When you get to the office, it's not good to not blow the air conditioner. The most important thing is that the air conditioning in the Hong Kong Island office is very cold, in the summer, the temperature in the house is only about ten to twenty degrees, you need to wear thick clothes, all year round in the office, occasionally come out, go to the street, a little careless, you will catch a cold.

Therefore, colleagues on Hong Kong Island often have colds, look sick and have no energy. It is no wonder that Miss Liu has fully adapted to work in the mainland and has exercised a good body, although there is no opportunity to shoot in the mainland, but it is worth it to get a good body. There are always gains and losses, and this is life. In order to achieve the goal, it is necessary to formulate a plan of action, not to wander around aimlessly.

When it's time to go to work, you have to go to work, even if you have nothing to do in the village, you have to stay in the village, this request was put forward by Miss Liu. She is from Hong Kong Island, Hong Kong Island is a place that abides by the rules, living from 9 to 5, is their way of survival and strategy, only by abiding by the rules, will not disrupt the order, in fact, Conan is also, from the city, develop a habit, it will create a more beautiful atmosphere of life, I feel that in such an environment, it is really beautiful.

Indeed, at the beginning of the first year of the year, the villagers were busy with the New Year and had no time to do the company's projects. If there is no money to fight on the front line, you can't buy anything, and even if you have money, you can't buy it back without people, and even if you buy it back, you can't do it without good weather. Because the concrete cannot be set at sub-zero temperatures, it affects the quality of the building. It is equivalent to invalidation, which cannot be explained, and there is no way to accept. Instead of wasting materials, it is better not to start work, which is the most economical and cost-effective. At this time, it is also the time when the staff is most idle.

The villagers' homes prepare for the New Year to entertain guests and eat more abundant food for themselves, if they don't finish eating in time, when the weather is warm, the food will be spoiled, rather than throwing it away, it is better to share it with others. In this regard, there is a difference between rural people and urban people. There are still many differences. Instead of eliminating estrangement, they have exacerbated contradictions. That's not good.

So, the villagers were a little conscientious and always came to invite Song Daliang to their home for dinner. Song Daliang has hepatitis B and can't eat greasy things, so it just so happened that at that time, every household prepared a lot of greasy things. What is it that is not intentional? If Song Daliang's condition is aggravated, it will be a very serious matter. If something happens, no one can take care of it. Song Daliang is a celebrity in the company, and everyone who knows this, Feng Feifei's fat girl knows this result.

Therefore, whenever it was time for Song Daliang to eat, such as noon or evening, he hid in the mountains and forests behind the house, so that the villagers who came to invite him to his home for dinner could not find him, so he had to return. Because of this incident, Feng Feifei's fat girl always made a big fuss, asking the new staff to learn from Song Daliang and eat her own. In addition, do not take advantage of the villagers. However, she doesn't say the inside story, you must know that Song Daliang has an old illness, Song Sanpi and him go in and out together, embarrassed to go alone, besides, if he goes, who will take care of Song Daliang?

Conan thought again that Feng Feifei's fat girl had a way out when she spoke, and she also said that if she couldn't refuse the invitation of the villagers, and she couldn't destroy the relationship with the villagers, she would go to eat, but she needed to give money to the villagers after eating. How much money to give? I don't know, in fact, if you give too much, Conan can't take it out, if you give less, people are not happy, if you really get serious, that bit of silver, people will not look at it, don't think that the people in the mountains are poor, they look down on people, in fact, the people in the mountains are very ambitious.

This rule is as ugly as the buttocks of a turtle, and it is difficult to enforce.

According to the customs of the villagers, anywhere, eating the villagers' things and giving money on the spot is often an insult to the villagers and makes everyone very unhappy. Chinese people are subtle, don't want to make things too straightforward, not all evil doctrines, pay more attention to personality, one is one, two is two, what's yours is yours, mine is mine, clear distinction, clear investigation. We don't owe each other, because everyone's mobility is relatively large, today here, tomorrow to go to a foreign country, today to give gifts, is to consider friendship, to a foreign country, there is no way to return the gift, so, simply at the time to figure out the problem, do not leave the future to sign personal favors.

The cost of buying a plane ticket alone is several times the value of the gift given, which is not cost-effective. Since the villagers invite you to dinner, they can afford you, there is no problem of asking for money, you don't believe in evil, and you can only hit a wall with a turtle belly. Because the Chinese pay special attention to eating, they are a hungry and afraid nation, and it is not simple to survive, in addition to tenacious vitality, there is also human nature passed down from generation to generation. And eating, whether it's inviting or eating, is well-intentioned and the best way to connect with feelings. It's not a blunt no, it's not a loss of humanity for the sake of principles.

At this point, Feng Feifei's fat girl is not worth mentioning, but Miss Liu can still understand the hardships of the front-line staff. When they arrived in Hupo Village, Togo and Conan had dinner at a villager's house for the first time, that was before the start of the project, when they visited the village, because the mountains were high and the road was far away, they walked deep into the mountains, and they had to return home to cook and eat at noon. After eating, Conan remembered Feng Feifei's fat girl's teachings, and took out the money to give, but people said they didn't want anything, and they pushed it again and again, but Togo couldn't help it.

I had to give up.

The villagers who invited them to dinner were very happy and happy, and did not feel that they had lost anything. The people in the mountains are indeed simple and enthusiastic about people, in the sparse environment of the mountains, they are more eager to have guests from afar, willing to communicate with people, and will not care about how much food they eat this time, how much money they waste, but they will be proud and satisfied that there are often guests at home. This is a fine tradition, and naturally, the local folk customs are all fixed players playing, but there is no picture, you can see with confidence.

Feng Feifei's fat girl may have come out of the countryside early, she doesn't understand the hearts of the villagers, and she dreams in the office that she has to pay for the front-line workers to eat the villagers' meals. Feng Feifei's fat girl speaks Mandarin, even in front of her relatives. makes people from her hometown look like a stranger, or a Hong Kong Islander, or a foreigner, in short, not a mainlander, not a person from the countryside, she has completely changed, beyond recognition, and even in her heart.

Having said that, if you give money, people don't want it, you can find a way to give, such as buying some equivalent daily necessities, you can buy some snacks or toys if you have children at home, you can, these don't need Feng Feifei's fat girl to explain, everyone knows it, and will do it consciously, of course, some people are exceptions, such as Jin Ping, who only thinks about the benefits of others, and doesn't want to let himself do anything to pay, and even a straw is in his eyes, and he has to take it home when he leaves, and burn it as firewood. This is a reality that needs to be faced, not escaped. If there's somewhere to reason, try it, but be careful. If you don't do it, you will be alert.

Feng Feifei's fat girl always thinks that these staff members are stupid, and always tries to teach them personally, but as a result, she puts herself in the wrong position and plays a bad role. People are not stupid, not looking at the surface, some people look stupid, but they are doing well; Some are well-behaved and smart, but they don't necessarily live happily. There are countless examples of being clever and being mistaken by being smart, whether in the city or in the country. Don't be too smart, don't be too self-righteous, these are not good, people must be good at hiding clumsy, don't do too satisfactorily, otherwise, the leader will have nothing to do. When the leader has nothing to do, you have nothing to do.

For example, she teaches at a school and deals with students. The teacher is high, the student is used to it, the student often sits below, looking up at the teacher, and the teacher has formed a sense of superiority over time, and this sense of superiority has not been adjusted in time, so it is brought to the front of colleagues.

Although colleagues come from all over the city and countryside, and their cultural levels vary greatly, in Feng Feifei's fat girl's mind, they are all her students, although some colleagues are older than her, she always has the upper hand, does not leave others a way out and leeway, criticizing colleagues, is commonplace, as long as she is with her, no one has not been criticized by her.

On the contrary, no one criticized her, and she thought she was perfect. This kind of teacher who ignores her own flaws is very sad, no one will tell the truth or speak her heart in front of her, so she is often deceived and deceived. Feng Feifei's fat girl is a smart person, which is understandable, but if she has no virtue, she is easy to arouse the jealousy of others. Such a woman thinks that she can replace the position of a man, but what she will never understand is that she can never replace the position of a man and can never be a good leader. No matter how hard you work to achieve the wonderful point of life, or as a deputy, it is impossible to dominate a slightly larger organization, you can only command a few people in a small organization, and even if these few people are detached, they don't buy her account.

Because she always remembers the unintentional words that others inadvertently said, she will criticize them indiscriminately at some point, so that people can't get off the stage, and she is simply ashamed. But she ignored this subtle change, and still made a lot of nonsense, fought fiercely, and put people to death quickly.

Conan is most afraid of this kind of woman, who seems to be very smart, but is actually very stupid, but ignores his own stupidity, always tries to hide his flaws, but is self-defeating and laughs generously. Just like people before and after will comment on people, face them plainly. Everything will be averted, no problem. Disguise is a while, not a long-term one, so it is still necessary to provide the police receipt, let him see, prove the area, which district it is in, and you can't take a cold to see a patient.

As for eating at the villagers' houses, Conan himself has a way to solve this problem, and he doesn't need Feng Feifei's fat girl's guidance at all. Because Conan is also from the Midwest, in terms of geographical location, he is closer to the people of Hupo Village, Guizhou County than Feng Feifei's fat girl, and he knows more about the customs and worldliness than Feng Feifei's fat girl, but he is the leader, so there is no need to correct Feng Feifei's fat girl's inappropriate speech and behavior. The fat girl is from the plains, and it seems that there is such a thing as said, but there is nothing in fact.

Of course, Yin Xianren also disagreed with Feng Feifei's fat girl, and he and Conan agreed on this point. Because they are all together, this is the case for a long time, if you want to consider finding a partner, you have to see more, listen more, and talk less, as long as this is the case, you will progress.

For Jia Youhu's invitation, they decided to accept it.

Looking at Jia Youhu's stubborn appearance, Conan smiled and said, "We don't want you to stand here forever, it will affect our sleep." Well, let's go, listen to you, okay? ”

Jia Youhu was happy and said, "It's pretty much the same!" Walk! ”