Chapter 87: First Father

Conan heard this roar of the lion in Hedong, and quickly sat up, with a shocked expression, I don't know what kind of tantrum his wife is going to have, Conan's wife saw it, "poof" laughed, she said: "Look at you like a great enemy, am I a tigress?" ”

Seeing that the situation had changed, Conan smiled and said, "What's the matter, what's the instructions?" Shocking. ”

His wife said, "Oh, that's too much, isn't it?" Where can you jump? Listen to the kid, he's listening to us, and he's still clapping. ”

Conan saw his wife's face full of happiness, and he sounded close to his wife's belly, and sure enough, there was movement in his stomach, and the little guy was pushing his mother's belly, it seemed that he was going to come to this world in a hurry!

The little one is coming into the world, and the family is about to add a little more, which is really a wonderful thing. He thought, the child is coming, is he ready to meet him? Conan asked his wife, "The child is about to be born, is his things ready?" ”

"It's all ready, I don't need you to explain, this is the nature of mothers in the world, and we must find ways to prepare for our children. If you don't say it, I don't know, our parents will explain it, they are more anxious than us. His wife said.

Conan didn't count in his heart, it's true, these things don't have to worry about, his mother and mother-in-law will worry about it, the more he goes into labor, the more frequent he asks, and he also asks for some unused baby clothes from his neighbors, saying that it is to suppress evil spirits, who knows? Conan doesn't believe in that, it's superstition, but it's always true that you have something, and you don't have to panic when you are born.

Conan listened for a while, and his heart was filled with joy, and a new life was about to be born, which was really exciting and exciting. Who will the child look like in the future? Obedient or disobedient, is it a boy or a girl? Conan and his wife talked about these topics and fell asleep before they knew it.

The next day was Sunday, and Conan and his wife went to church for a service.

His wife was not a believer, so Conan invited him to go, but this time his wife readily agreed.

He was delighted. At the church, the service had begun, the choir was over, and the pastor was standing on the stage to preach. She had already talked about the second title, but Conan didn't hear it clearly, and when it was time to turn to the Bible, he couldn't hear which chapter or verse, and he was too embarrassed to ask, for fear of affecting others, so he had to leave his notebook empty.

When my wife arrived at the church, she was very upset and wanted to leave. There are many people in the church, but there are few who listen carefully, most of them go to the toilet, pour water, chat, and walk around in it at will, and it is a mess, and the pastor stops several times to emphasize discipline, which is useless. This place seems unsuitable for a second visit, especially for pregnant women. It is also not suitable for people who want to remember something and want to gain something, and those who are spiritually hungry may still be hungry when they come here. If you don't have enough to eat, how can you grow?

At the end of the sermon, the choir sang again, and before the priest's blessing was finished, someone left, looking at these situations, it really makes people wonder if it is in a solemn and sacred church, and it is easy to think of the market square.

With the flow of people out, Conan and his wife also went out of the church, some parishioners Conan still know, they also know Conan, but in recent years, Conan has been helping poverty in the mountains, and there are not many opportunities to meet, everyone is gradually drifting apart, and they usually have little contact, and they are busy with their own things, and the previous memories are gradually fading until they are completely gone.

Conan and his wife leave the church, and it suddenly occurs to Conan to go for a prenatal check-up for his wife. I don't know if God asked him to do this, but he had this strong idea. So he said to his wife, "I think, for the sake of the child, I suggest you go to the hospital for a check-up." ”

Unexpectedly, his wife readily agreed again.

Conan is very proud, why is his wife so sensible? Is it that the woman who wants to give birth is becoming more and more dependent and obeys her husband in everything? I really hope that my wife will always be in labor.

Arrived at the hospital. This is a county-level hospital, and the facilities are not the best. But just do a general check-up, and you should be able to deal with it. It is precisely because the conditions of the hospital are average, the charges are not expensive, so there are many people who come, doctors often practice, and gradually experienced doctors come, for routine diagnosis and treatment, hand to catch, no problem, to here, with the big hospital is the same thing. Everyone is the same, nothing more than fame. Wherever a child is born, it is all born, and the key depends on the physical condition of the pregnant woman herself.

Conan took his wife to help his wife register, found a gynecologist, and the doctor asked about the situation and suggested going for a B-ultrasound.

Of course, when he arrived at the hospital, he had to listen to the doctor for everything, so Conan took his wife to do a B-ultrasound.

There's a doctor in the ultrasound room, a woman. She asked her wife to lie on the bed, lifted her clothes, smeared something slimy on her round belly, and then took a probe to shine back and forth on her belly, and the image could be clearly seen on the monitor next to her. Conan wanted to know about men and women, but the doctor wouldn't say.

The doctor then asked Conan to wipe the ointment off his belly with paper, and his wife got out of bed and went to the gynecologist again with the doctor's diagnosis.

Conan quietly asked the doctor whether it was a man or a woman, and the doctor smiled but did not answer, saying, "There is a price to pay for asking." Don't ask. However, I see that the due date has arrived, and there is no fetal movement, so according to the age of the mother, it is recommended to have a caesarean section. ”

Conan was reluctant and asked his wife, "Would you rather give birth to a baby, or take it out?" ”

Conan's wife said: "It hurts, I used to be in charge of delivering babies in the hospital, and it hurt terribly. I am willing to have a C-section. ”

Conan listened and nodded.

After this decision, Conan signed the application and the doctor went to arrange the operation.

After a while, the doctor said, "Don't eat at noon, start the operation at 3 p.m." Now the operating room is occupied. Seats are only available in the afternoon. You can book a room. ”

After Conan heard this, he immediately went to go through the admission procedures and found a good ward, which was really good, it turned out to be a single room, but the money was the money of the ordinary ward, today is really a good day.

After Conan had arranged all this, the gynecologist said to Conan mysteriously, "The ultrasound results show that it's a girl." ”

Conan's heart sank when he heard this.

Conan was influenced by his father and felt that it was better to have a boy and more troublesome to have a girl, but his father was an old feudal thinker and was outdated. If you give birth to a boy and marry a wife in the future, your heart is not with your parents, but with your daughter-in-law, how can you care about your parents? Giving birth to a girl, how to say it, is also the intimate jacket of the parents, big and small things will be considered for the parents, and the heart is careful, which is better than the son's big grin.

The son is careless, regardless of the parents' grabbing a handful, but the daughter is in the minority, to put it simply, the parents who gave birth to a daughter are happy, and they can earn half a son back in the future, and giving birth to a son is a full loss business. Thinking about it this way, Conan suddenly became enlightened, and it was okay. Give birth to a girl, give birth to a girl. This is the method of spiritual victory. Don't be afraid of other people's discussions, as long as you move forward bravely. Laugh, let them laugh, see who has the last laugh, see who wins in the future. People have no vision, take one step at a time.

The gynecologist saw that Conan's face turned from cloudy to sunny, so he didn't worry about anything about the abruptness just now. She only revealed the secret when she saw that Mr. and Mrs. Conan decided to give birth in her hospital immediately, and she didn't worry about inducing labor or anything. After all, in many regions, patriarchal traditions have not changed.

At noon, Conan ate some noodles, and his wife wanted to eat them, but because the doctor had an explanation, she held back. Conan then told his mother and his sister and brother about the birth in the afternoon, and told him which hospital he was in. On the wife's side, she was informed by her that only her sister and brother-in-law were around.

At three o'clock in the afternoon, the wife entered the operating room. Conan waited outside. After a while, a nurse came out, wearing a mask, and held a slip for Conan to sign, and after Conan read it, he confirmed the signature. After a while, the door of the operating room opened, and this time it was the doctor who came out, and he said, "Your wife is not suitable to have any more children, and we want to do the ligation operation together, so that we don't have to do it again next time." Sign it if you think you can, and your wife has agreed. ”

Conan thought to himself, now the policy only allows one child, he is a city hukou, there is no way, and his financial ability can only afford one child, forget it, only have one. He signed it.

And then there's waiting anxiously outside.

Conan climbed from the doorway to the bend of the stairs, ran down again, climbed up and down again, and was really restless. Then he was quiet and prayed.

After the prayer, his wife's sister and brother-in-law did not come, Conan's brother did not come, and none of the relatives in the family came. There were only Ji Conan and Angel present. Ji Conan firmly believes that the operation will be successful. For this child is a servant of God, to come to serve God in the world. God cannot leave him alone, but will take care of it and be responsible to the end.

At this moment, Conan heard a cry of "wow-" inside, such a loud sound, Conan couldn't help but shout "It's done", and after a while, the door of the operating room opened, and the nurse came out with a baby in her arms, wrapped in a white cloth, and the little nurse said, "Congratulations, it's a boy!" ”

When Conan heard this, he was overjoyed, as if he had heard it wrong, and asked the nurse, "Really?" ”

The little nurse said impatiently: "Why can't I lie to you, take it back and see it for yourself." ”

Conan thanked him, and the nurse told him to take the child to the ward, where the nurse bathed the child. Conan said "yes" and went downstairs with the child in his arms.

The little guy closed his eyes, he didn't cry at this time, and when he got to the first floor, he went out of the operating building, and when he got to the courtyard downstairs, the little guy opened one eye and looked at Conan, Conan smiled, this kid is really open and closed, and he will be suitable for socializing in the future. You can see everything, think it through, and don't get entangled.

The little one's forehead was a little unwiped blood, and Conan carried the child to the hospital room and handed it to an elderly nurse, who told Conan to go to the operating room and get his wife back. At this time, Conan's brother-in-law came, and at least four people were needed, and there were not enough people, and at this time, there were other patients' family members, who were also husbands who had just given birth, and promised to go to two to help, so they went to the operating room together.

When Conan's wife was carried back to the ward, Conan's mother was already waiting in the ward, she arranged the room, packed some things, and his wife's brother-in-law came, and Conan's brother Cauchy also came. They wander the streets. These young people really can't count on it. It's too big to play. The more critical it is, the more it disappears. There is a saying that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and it makes a lot of sense.

When everything was settled, Conan's mother said, "Go to the supermarket and buy some toilet paper and baby bottles." The doctor also explained it just now. In addition, you should also buy some milk powder for newborn babies. Conan listened and hurriedly went to do it.

Conan came back from the supermarket and saw his sister in the ward, gave Conan 2,000 yuan, and said, "Buy some milk powder for the child." She then asked, "Boys and girls?" ”。

"It's my son, my good grandson." Conan's mother rushed to say happily.

"It is true that poor families have many sons." Sister Conan said.

When Conan heard this, he was not happy, why did he say that he was poor? Conan's brother-in-law gave her a blank look, and then looked at Conan's wife, who pretended not to hear, turned her head away, smiled, and did not respond. After all, Conan's sister took out two thousand yuan, and she herself is not rich, so she is not bad for her mother's family. Besides, she is a woman, she grew up in a patriarchal family, and she has a fire in her belly, wanting to pursue the same treatment as men and women, but in fact she can't achieve this goal, and she always feels depressed.

Time flies, and Conan sees that it has been arranged, and the irrelevant people should leave. The first to leave were Aunt Conan's sister-in-law and brother-in-law, and then his brother. Conan's brother-in-law and Conan went out to eat, and then, with nothing to do, also left the hospital. Conan had a treat, he walked lightly, I don't know if he was tired or excited, in short, his legs and feet were not his own.

On the first night, Conan must have to accompany his beloved wife and the little one, and Conan asked his mother to go back. Bring some porridge tomorrow morning. After arranging all this, Conan's mother left the hospital.

All that was left in the ward were Conan and his wife, as well as the little one who had just come into the world.

Conan looked at his sleeping wife and the little one lying next to her with his eyes closed, happy and worried. I am happy that I have become a father, my identity has changed, and I am worried about what to do in the past few days and what to do with my children in the future? Is it really like his sister said, the poorer you are, the more you have sons? If you give birth to a son who will be disobedient in the future, won't you fight against your parents like Cauchy? It's okay to have a son who is obedient, but if you are rebellious, it's much worse than giving birth to a girl. The time at home is always short. Ji Conan has been out for too long, and he needs to adapt to the local situation quickly. Conan is about to leave for work, who will take care of their mother and son?