Chapter 779 - Don't marry, don't marry, get married
But this time it turns out - ginger is still old and spicy.
She made a mistake in judgment, and her mother-in-law judged correctly.
Nianyin and Lao Qiqingqing and I took a while before I realized that there were onlookers around me.
Nianyin is a shy girl, and when she found that she was being watched, she was embarrassed to push away Lao Qi and announced to everyone: "This time I came to marry Lao Qi, please be sure to attend our wedding." ”
"Wow-"
Sure enough, everyone guessed it.
People gathered around one after another, sending blessings and asking questions......
Later, I figured out that although Nianyin went to Jiangzhou this time to marry Lao Qi, after getting married, the two of them would go to Jiangzhou to live for half a year and live in Ji's house for half a year.
It is not the seventh wife to marry a daughter-in-law, nor is it a daughter to be married by the Ji family, the marriage of the two is equal.
There is no dowry, and there is no dowry.
Jiangzhou and the Ji family have their own industries, and they are also AA after marriage, with independent personality and economic independence.
For the sake of the seventh child, he had a deep talk with the patriarch before the Zen ceremony.
She didn't want to give up the seventh child, and she also knew that the seventh child would not be happy when he went to the Ji family. Ji Yingjie disdainfully: "You are just too weak, he will agree if you are tough." ”
"Take advantage of the fact that he can't let go of you now, take the opportunity to put forward conditions, and when it gets cold in the future, I'm afraid that if you give in, people won't agree."
In fact, Ji Yingjie also thinks that Lao Qi is very suitable for pronunciation.
Nianyin has saved her a few times, and she is also sincere and filial to her, people exchange sincerity for sincerity, and Ji Yingjie now treats Nianyin as his own daughter.
A good man like Lao Qi, if he lives in this village, I am afraid that there will be no such shop.
Nianyin told the patriarch what she really thought in her heart, she didn't want to change Lao Qi, if she changed Lao Qi to be the same as the men of the Ji family, it would be impossible, it would only make everyone miserable.
Love is not oppression, but understanding, appreciation, and appropriate concessions, compromises on both sides.
It's just that there is no good result in unilateral blind giving, the heat of love will subside one day, and to maintain a long-term relationship between the two parties, it needs to be maintained by those conditions behind.
She also used Shi Xuan and Sheng Hanyu as examples.
The two of them have been married for many years and can still be in love as before, relying not on the initial passion but on understanding, trust, mutual appreciation and mutual understanding.
Ji Yingjie was greatly touched by these words, no one had ever said this to her, and of course no one dared to do so.
Nianyin didn't dare before, but this time she said that she didn't worship Ji Yingjie as a god again, but confided in her heart like a mother.
After the mother and daughter discussed, they decided to take a trip to Jiangzhou!
Q: Would Lao Qi be willing to live in the Ji family in Jiangzhou for half a year?
If their future children are girls, they will have the surname Ji, and if they are boys, they will have the surname Zhang, which is not only in line with the aesthetics of the Ji family, but also in line with the traditions of Jiangzhou.
Ji Yingjie can make such a concession, which is basically a milestone progress.
How could Lao Qi disagree?
For him, this is a pie-in-the-sky thing.
I didn't dare to dream of it, but it came true, and I immediately nodded in agreement.
……
Nianyin and Lao Qi's wedding held twice.
It was first done in Jiangzhou.
Then go to Ji's house to hold a second session.
Because of the long distance and the special environment of the Ji family, I don't want too many people outside to know.
So the only people who went to the wedding were Shi Xuanxuan and Sheng Hanyu, no, there was another person - Shi Ran.
After careful consideration, the couple decided to take Shi Ran to Ji's house.
Ji Yingjie was very happy to see Shi Ran, in the past few days at Ji's house, she almost didn't let go of Shi Ran's hand, and even invited Shi Ran to share a room with her when she went to bed at night.
Shi Xuanxuan was worried, worried that her aunt would hide her daughter and not return it to her.
So he found a reason: "The child is too noisy, and sharing a room with you will affect your rest." ”
This is a little cautious, Ji Yingjie can see it without using her brain, she ruthlessly debunks: "Are you afraid that I will not let you go back?" Tell you Xuanxuan, go to my territory, it's up to me! ”
The aunt is still domineering, and Shi Xuanren has to bow her head under the eaves.
What's angry is that her husband also thinks that she thinks too much, and persuades her: "Auntie won't be so bad, don't worry." ”
Sheng Hanyu sees people accurately, Ji Yingjie is indeed not so bad.
Shi Ran lived in the same room with her, I don't know what she said, but Ji Yingjie's changes are obvious, she is smiling every day, and she is a lot more easy-going.
Shi Xuanxuan asked the two, but neither of them said anything, saying that it was a secret between them!
After attending the wedding at Ji's house, the forest was deliberately walked when the family of three came back.
The story of the "White Wolf" family of three, Shi Ran has heard it many times and has never gotten tired of hearing it, she has always wanted to see it, but she just thinks about it.
Now that there is this opportunity, it would be a shame not to seize it.
As a result, I deliberately walked into the forest, but I didn't see the white wolf family of three, which is a pity.
Reading 10,000 books, it is better to travel 10,000 miles, if it weren't for Sheng Zichen thinking about eating everywhere, he would have taken him with him this time.
I didn't take Sheng Zichen with me when I went out, and I wanted to bring a gift to Erbao when I went back.
The gift prepared by Dad is an abacus made of pure gold, and the son is the one who will inherit the family business in the future, so it is not a bad thing to make calculations early.
The gift from Mom is a cookbook!
It's the same as the one my sister sent last time.
Because my sister's book was lost in my father's anger, the little guy cried for a long time.
Since then, there has been no smile on his face, always with a small face and a frown.
He looks very similar to his father, who has been old since he was a child.
Sheng Hanyu frowned when he saw the recipe, he felt that his wife was deliberately against him, and he was very repulsed by this gift: "Are you sincere?" I finally got his broken board right, and you sent this thing again, didn't everything I did go in vain? ”
Shi Xuanxuan smiled and said: "If everything you do is so light and easy to be broken, it means that it is meaningless." ”
Sheng Hanyu: ......
Is the wife's realm already so profound?
The progress was very fast, but he was not convinced, and he also took out the list of things that his grandfather taught him back then: "Children can't follow his mood for everything, and I didn't like everything that my grandfather arranged for me when I was a child, but when I grew up, I thought about it, and my grandfather did the right thing." ”
"Sheng Zichen's unhappiness now is only temporary, and when he grows up in the future, he will be able to understand my hard work, and he will be grateful to me."
Instead of arguing, the wife asked, "Are you happy?" I mean as a kid. ”
The smug look on his face paused, and his beard vanished.
Disguised: "What is happy and unhappy, I am happy now." ”
Xu Yu added: "Responsibility is greater than happiness." ”
He also liked things when he was a child, but his grandfather kept instilling things in his mind with "responsibility" and "the future of the Sheng family", and slowly he forgot what he liked before.
But one thing is certain, being unhappy as a child!
Shi Xuanxuan: "People! Always walking and forgetting why you set out, what if you lose happiness even if you win? ”
The couple never agreed on this.
In the end, he always insisted on his own ideas, although it didn't matter if he taught the boy's mother, but what kind of gift the mother wanted to give was still in charge, Sheng Hanyu could only compromise.