Chapter 9: Three Thousand Weak Waters
Director Tan's youngest daughter didn't know where to come from, to be honest, Ji Conan was not familiar with the house, this depended on observation, and he was lacking this. The eyes don't care about things, and some people listen to the eight directions and see the four directions, which is too shrewd. Ji Conan can't meet this requirement for the time being, and he doesn't have the ability.
After the youngest daughter came out, she rolled up her sleeves and was about to wash his hair, where had he seen this meeting, he hurriedly declined, stumbled back, and the youngest daughter hurriedly came over to help, and Ji Conan immediately stood firm.
Ji Conan said: "Since I was a child, except for my mother and the barber, no woman has ever washed my hair, not even my wife. How can I afford it? Never, never. You can't make it unlike. ”
His daughter pursed her lips and smiled slightly, but had no choice but to give up, this was not a courtesy, but a natural thing, and there was no bad motive.
Officer Tan only gave him a basin of water. This water is very expensive and cannot be wasted, his daughter squatted next to Ji Conan, staring at him with her eyes, he glanced at her from the corner of his eye, and immediately lowered his head and washed himself.
She instructed on the side that you should use a tea jar to scoop water, wet your hair, then use shampoo, rub it, scoop a cup to rinse, and then use a little shampoo, foam, rub it again, and finally clean it. I can't run out of water in a basin. The way to use the shower is good, save water, and wash clean.
Her guidance is very serious and professional, and she is worthy of doing beauty and health care. If it weren't for the haze, he might never have encountered such guidance in his life. You need some guidance in life, and the lessons you have learned are memorable. What others point out is also the accumulation of experience, and ordinary people don't tell him, and it is related to a certain degree before they can clearly understand this.
Ji Conan listened to her while washing, his voice was tactful and undulating, like a bird in the valley, and his singing voice was tactful.
A sinful thought flashed through Ji Conan's mind, and it was immediately dispelled again, because there was a law of conscience at work, even fierce, unstoppable. Ji Conan was dizzy, I don't know what's going on? Could it be that there are really gods with three-foot-tall heads? Some thoughts and minds are not under one's control, and if they go astray, they must be corrected immediately. Lest you go further and further and end up in the valley of sin, it would be a pity, and you would end up with a bad reputation.
Ji Conan washed his head, and with the head massage, his whole body was comfortable. This kind of ** made him bow his head in shame and didn't dare to peek at her again. Fortunately, by washing his hair, the posture is to hook his head, and he covers up the past. In hindsight, I was really dirty, and I couldn't think like that, I was sorry for my newlywed wife. Some thoughts are just evil thoughts, you can't have them, and if you accidentally have them, you have to delete them immediately, and they must be completely deleted and cannot be recovered. Otherwise, it will be very dangerous and endanger the safety and vital interests of many people.
Fortunately, his wife is not around, and he can't find out his little secret, which is really lucky. This kind of luck psychology temporarily prevailed, and then it was defeated, and in a short period of time, it became so rapid that Ji Conan felt that the power of the gods was very huge, and he had to admire the enormity of this divine power, which could be controlled in a timely and effective manner.
He has used two basins of water to wash his hair since he was a child, at least he needs this water, this is what he thinks is the original, no one teaches him to use one basin of water to solve the problem, of course, there is a shortage of water here, Ji Conan has not lacked water since he was a child, but her method of washing his hair is very inspiring to Ji Conan. It saves water and washes your hair, the best of both worlds. When encountering difficulties, don't be afraid, find a way to solve them; As long as the mind does not slip, there are always more ways than difficulties. This is a common saying in the local area, and Ji Conan remembers this sentence, which is an encouragement to himself.
He suddenly thought that there was a shortage of water here, and water was needed to wash his hair and bathe, and water was not easy to obtain, and it was only possible to get it if it rained. The cherishing of water, I have cultivated this habit since I was a child, I grew up in the city, I have never worried about water, water is very abundant, there is no good habit of saving water.
The local area is another matter, water is not easy to come by, we must cherish it extraordinarily, otherwise, we will suffer a lot of losses. Also, they have to go to Fengya Elementary School at the bottom of the mountain, they have to climb the mountain at a very young age, they have endured hardships since they were young, they know how to take care of themselves, they are self-reliant since they were young, and they are much stronger than the children in the city.
Officer Tan's daughter is one of them. Although the industry she is engaged in is often misunderstood, as long as she is right, she is not afraid of rumors; As long as the body is upright, you are not afraid of crooked shadows.
The boyfriend she made should be able to accept her profession, because he has accepted her as a whole person. Human misunderstandings are hard to dispel. The biggest enemy of a person is himself, followed by his family, misunderstanding will be caused, he needs to be explained, he has a bad impression, he needs to be reshaped, as long as he turns back and changes his mind, sooner or later it will be another life.
In love, if you love someone, you love them all along with the person's shortcomings. If you hate someone, you will even turn a blind eye to that person's strengths, and even turn them into shortcomings.
Children who come out of such a difficult place must love life very much, treat people and things very seriously and sincerely, and will remain loyal to love and marriage.
As for the aspect where she instructed him to wash his hair just now, he was not good, and he couldn't think about it, she definitely didn't mean that, but it was difficult to argue and couldn't say clearly, people's thoughts are only clear to themselves, and others don't know.
Officer Tan's youngest daughter is just taking care of me out of love for her profession and her father's instructions, not because she likes him for anything.
People are sometimes self-inflicted, although he is not emotional, but he has evil thoughts, and this is the weakness of the flesh. Correction will be made later. Don't look at things you shouldn't.
The mobilization meeting was held on the third day after he entered the village. The county branch and technical personnel attended the mobilization meeting. The county branch came from Secretary Tan, representing the county branch, and the township came from the technical staff and the person in charge of the unit. The villagers are represented by households from groups 1 to 5. The meeting took place in the courtyard of Mr. Tan's house. There were quite a few people who came. Ji Conan counted it, and there were almost fifty people. More than 50 people, that is, 50 families.
These villagers had received disaster relief assistance the year before, and the Mars Foundation had sent people to provide relief to the villagers who had suffered from the hailstorm and distributed rice, and they had the impression that the name of their organization was printed on the rice bags.
When the villagers heard that Ji Conan had come to help them solve their draft problems, they were even more happy to attend the meeting. If it was a normal village meeting, they would not have come so together.
The meeting was straight to the point, and Director Tan of the county branch deserved to be the project leader, and his speech was concise and to the point, which was very able to capture people's hearts. Then the head of the technical station and the technician spoke. Ji Conan finally spoke, according to the requirements of the agency, let them recommend the election of the members of the drinking water management team, the ratio of men to women is three to one.
They were obedient and began to fill out the ballots, then the votes were called, the candidates were decided, and finally, after consultation, the members of the management team were determined. Do exactly what they want. This also surprised Ji Conan. The people here are so simple and lovely. If you are in the plains, many people will break the casserole and ask some irrelevant questions, and they will ask questions if they are off topic. In the end, I didn't want to move, which was really annoying. It's really a blind man lighting a lamp in vain. It's also in vain for them. The people here are different, and they are very serious about completing tasks according to the requirements without compromise.
Ji Conan registered the list of the management team, and then asked these people to stay for the meeting, and the other village representatives could dismiss.
He and Assistant Tan from the county branch held a meeting with the management team, and the person in charge of the technical service station talked about the requirements for the construction of the new pool and asked the villagers to prepare. The management team meeting was a success. The group members were very positive. After preparing to return to the group, they began to mobilize the masses to prepare supplies and ask water technicians to determine the location of the new pool. Everything is ready to go, just wait for the start of work. The funding for this project is arranged by the county branch and is carried out according to the progress of the project. As a front-line worker, Ji Conan supervises the progress of the project, and needs to understand the situation on the front line before allocating funds. To put it bluntly, the agency is not very at ease with the county branch, and specially arranges special personnel to supervise the front line.
There are three main ways to collect water in Hecun: roof water collection, hillside water collection and slate water collection. However, each method of water collection is unhygienic, so it is necessary to build a filter tank.
All rainwater needs to be filtered, and the water that passes through the mountain forest turf, stone slabs, and roofs is somewhat contaminated, and may exceed the E. coli standard. The members of the management team all said that the filtration tank would be built in accordance with the requirements put forward by Ji Conan. There are also specifications for the filter tank. After the water is filtered, drink cold water, if it is winter, it will hurt the body; If it's in the summer, it's even worse.
After the meeting, it was still early before dinner, Ji Conan did not take Secretary Tan's suggestion, stayed at his house for dinner, and was about to leave and go to the county seat, because he received a notice that he needed to go back to the city to the dock to receive the other two colleagues from Huanggang.
After Officer Tan heard about it, he didn't stop it anymore, his little daughter looked at Ji Conan and beckoned, Ji Conan walked over, she whispered, "You want to go?" ”
Ji Conan said "um".
She asked, "Are you still coming?" ”
Ji Conan said "um" again, and then she turned around and walked away without saying anything more. These two simple sentences, no one went deeper, just ordinary words.
What can she say, don't think about it.
He got into Officer Tan's car, the body shook, he also staggered down the mountain, and when he looked back, the little girl was standing on a high place and smirked at him.
He couldn't put too much of his mind on her. Always thinking about his new wife, after all, she talked about friends, why bother to bite the gold halfway?
For the happiness of both parties, you can't see one and like the other, that's not what people do. Three thousand weak water, only take one scoop to drink, everyone understands this truth. If that's the case, the man is a male tiger, not a tigress, and the male tiger only mates, but the female tiger is responsible for nursing and raising the cubs. In the final analysis, a man should be responsible, be faithful to his spouse, and not be half-hearted, otherwise, even if he stops his wife and remarries, he will not be happy. This is the secret of happiness. Love plus a sense of responsibility is more perfect, and the premise is love. Many people may not understand this truth and will not say it, but they also make it intentionally or unintentionally.
Women are easily satisfied, as long as men are wholeheartedly good to themselves, even if they are poor. More money is a good thing, everything is inseparable from money, and more money is naturally easier to do. But money is, after all, something outside the body.
It's not difficult to get money, but it's not easy to get hearts. It is easy to get people, but it is difficult to get people's hearts. This will require the efforts of both sides.
Since you choose friends, you have to get along well; Since you are married, you must carefully keep the marriage contract or the vow to commit to marriage. The disadvantage of human beings is that they can only say and not do. Speaking well does not mean that it is done in place, and speaking beautifully does not necessarily move people's hearts.
What people value is still material things, or behaviors, not thoughts, nor motives. Both women and men have desires, both are selfish, and both want to possess. In fact, people want to get more, but they rarely think of giving up, and they don't know how to let go of material things or people.
What is difficult to give up, perhaps the most useless thing, treating garbage as a treasure is actually making yourself heavier and more difficult to walk, without lightening the burden and traveling lightly. This is the practice of human values and trade-offs.
Before getting married, all women have the opportunity to be his wife, and of course only one can be chosen; In the same way, before getting married, a woman also has the opportunity to choose one of the men as her husband, with equal opportunities, as long as you work hard and do it properly, it is possible to win.
Therefore, until a fait accompli happens, all possibilities exist. However, as soon as the facts are formed, it is necessary to immediately abandon illusions, be pragmatic quickly, and think of countermeasures. Don't do things you regret.
Ji Conan's idea is actually very simple, he wants to choose a simple woman and live a simple life. This wish is not difficult to achieve, but he cannot realize it, because both men and women are very complex complexes, not men in the pure sense of the word, nor pure women.
Ji Conan doesn't believe in Megumi Yanagishita's story very much, and it can only be heard as a story. I believed it when I was a child, but it was hard to believe it when I grew up. The more mature you are, the more you will be suspicious. It's a man, and he reacts when he meets a beautiful woman, it's not fake.
Ji Conan even suspected that Megumi Yanashita was not a real man, a little less human than a man, a little less like a man, and even a little less like a man. It's that everyone has a human reaction. Unless it is a wooden person, or a hard-hearted person, there is no emotion, no expression, and no emotion.
"Only one scoop of weak water for 3,000 drinks", that's right, no matter how beautiful a woman is, she can't replace her wife. This is a principle of being a human being and a respect for a holy marriage. For "the bed of marriage shall not be defiled."
In the car, Ji Conan's mobile phone rang, a call came, who is this?