In fact, Semin is not only worried about her aunt, but also about her father and younger brothers.

When I had dinner tonight, all the people in Zhang's Mansion were gathered.

Although she had a meal with her daughters, even she felt the alienation and even disdain of the daughters of the Zhang Mansion, and I believe her younger brothers could feel it.

But she couldn't open her mouth, so she could only say this to her aunt.

"It doesn't matter, my aunt doesn't like to socialize with outsiders, my biggest hope is to train the four of you well, what do outsiders think of me, what does it matter? I'm not marrying again, do I care about this?

But I'm locked up here, De Shimin, you accompany me, except for studying and taking classes with the Zhangfu clan, you have to accompany me more the rest of the time.

Try to eat three meals a day with me, otherwise, I really have no appetite to eat alone! ”

Zhang Yurong smiled and half-hugged Shimin, coaxing her to talk, and made a decision by the way, she would not let their brothers and sisters eat with the Zhang family in the future.

Try to avoid it as well.

The children are all smart people, and they can feel the look of the subordinates and the eyes of the children and nephews in the family.

There is no conflict between opposites, and it is better to have less contact.

Eh, that's what happens when you can't stand on your own!

Mother's rice is never delicious! She already knew this!

Tomorrow, when she brings people to each room to see the gift, she will pick and give it away, at least in the short term, the children should not be despised, right?

Take people softly!

"Well, Shimin must accompany her aunt to eat every day, and also accompany her aunt to study, auntie, in fact, I don't want to go to class? What they teach is definitely not as good as what their aunts teach! ”

Shi Min looked at her aunt with admiration on her face, she wanted to accompany her aunt, but she also didn't want to face strangers.

"Silly, those who should go out to see have to go out to see, my aunt has seen a lot since she was a child, and she can really feel at ease not to go out at this age.

If you don't go out to see things at this age, what will you do in the future?

Even if you go out and are bullied, beaten, scolded, ridiculed, squeezed, and isolated, it doesn't matter.

If you don't experience it personally, you don't understand the real life, and you don't understand the human heart.

Only after you have experienced a lot, you understand, and you will get married in the future, and you will naturally see through the various thoughts of your in-laws' family at a glance.

If you want to give face, you give face, if you don't want to give face, you can ignore it if you want to be perfunctory.

If you are really good, you are also sincere, and if you are disobedient or even harbor evil intentions, then stay away, or even fight back with heavy punches.

Go out and see more, and your aunt has taught you everything she can teach you.

People, the sooner they have independent ideas, the more responsible they are, and the more they can become great tools.

You can't always think about relying on your aunt and your father, and no one can always guide you in some small things, especially in emotional choices.

Only when you encounter a predicament, a trap, or a crisis, can you find your mother's family to support you, you know? ”

Zhang Yurong's teaching to Shimin has always been attentive.

But at this moment, it is also with the intention of being prepared, and cultivating Shimin to be independent can allow her to return to Chen Mingyi's side, even if she exercises her ability to manage the back house.

Shi Min's eyes were a little red, and she nodded, she knew that her aunt was right, and it was useless for her to hide.

What's more, what she faced was very small compared to what her aunt was facing.

In such a predicament, my aunt can still worry about herself so much and think about herself, she is actually more distressed about her aunt.

She really wants to accompany her aunt, even if it's just to accompany her and talk more!

But my aunt only thought about cultivating herself more. Early independence is a responsibility.

After appeasing Shimin, Zhang Yurong began to appease her sons one by one.

The three sons were next door to Semin's room, already waiting for them to come.

Shimei, who is the same as an adult, doesn't even need Zhang Yurong to be appeased, just needs to give an encouraging look, and the child can in turn comfort his mother.

"Mother, in fact, my grandmother called us over tonight, it should be to see our attitude, to see our feelings for your mother, and whether you blame your mother.

It doesn't matter how the rest of the people in Zhangfu are, the important thing is that Zhangfu's maternal grandfather, maternal grandmother, two uncles, and key family members are all sincere defenders of their mothers, and they also love the house and Wu to protect us.

Mother don't worry about a few of us, I will take my younger brothers to study hard in the clan school. ”

Zhang Yurong was relieved to hug this adult-like seven-year-old son again.

"Thank you Shimei, my mother feels like I have something to rely on!"

When Zhang Yurong squatted and hugged Shimei, she rested her head on Shimei's small shoulders affectionately.

This child is really not easy, he knows too much, understands too early, and has experienced life and death, but he has grown more and more steadily and relied on others.

Shimei stiffened slightly, and glanced at her two younger brothers with envy with a slightly flushed face, but she still didn't push her mother away after all.

He saw the predicament in front of his mother.

Knowing more about what her mother was thinking, when her mother left the Chen Mansion, she decided that she would not marry the three of them with her.

But judging from my grandmother's hint tonight, the mother's best choice is to marry another, otherwise, the possibility of entering the palace is too high.

If the mother wanted to marry someone else, she had to give up a few of them and return them to the father.

Normally, Dad should be happy, but the key is not to say it normally!

The key is that Dad, who really loves his mother, how can he let his mother marry another man?

Shimei thinks about it and feels that her mother is in a difficult situation.

As the eldest son of his mother, he can't help in this matter, and the only thing he can do is to take care of himself and help take care of his two younger brothers.

After Shihao Shirui and the two looked at each other for a while, they couldn't help but come over and wanted their mother to hug each other.

Zhang Yurong smiled, stretched her arms wide, and the mother and son hugged each other.

"Mother, let's eat with you every day in the future!"

Five-year-old Shihao felt uncomfortable under the fence.

"Well, in the future, you will all come to eat with me, and accompany me three times a day, Shirui, Zhangfu's clan studies, enlightenment at the age of three, you are more than three and a half years old, do you want to go to school with your brothers, or do you want to follow your mother to stay in the yard and not go out?"

Shirui looked at the two brothers, then at the mother, thought for a while, and then replied: "I still go to school with my brothers, but mother, can I sleep with my mother at night?" ”

Shi Rui inquired, a three-year-old boy in Zhangfu, can still sleep with his mother, if he accompanies his mother at night, it is not rude.

"Well, yes, I can sleep with my mother for a year and a half."

Zhang Yurong immediately nodded and agreed, the three-year-old boy slept with his mother, whether it was in the family or in the small door, it didn't matter.

The family that pays close attention to education has a powerful family that lets the boy sleep alone early, but there is still a nurse by his side.

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