0579 On the Importance of Names
Students listen carefully, and teachers are naturally serious.
Bai Shou said: "One is life, I think there are mainly two aspects. On the one hand, there is character, and when you are born, your character is basically determined. On the other hand, there is family background, and people cannot choose a family. Just like me, not only is my family extremely poor, my mother is frail and sickly, and my father is unreliable. ”
"The second is luck, which is luck. No matter who you are, you will have luck in your life. There are two categories of luck, good luck and bad luck. This is how I understand this luck, in addition to luck, it also depends on whether you can catch the good luck and avoid the bad luck. I don't really have any great skills, but I'm bold, not afraid of failure, and dare to catch luck. So so far, I've had pretty good luck. ”
"The third is Feng Shui. This feng shui is very complicated, and I didn't understand the few broken books left to me by my grandfather Tong. All in all, Feng Shui exists, and it must be paid attention to, and it must not be disbelieved, and it cannot be fully believed. ”
"The fifth is diligence, let me first say diligence. Everyone understands diligence, because we are all farmers, and farmers are the most diligent. We are the kind of people who have been lifted out of poverty and become rich, relying on hard work. Anyway, I have never seen a lazy man in this world who can hide at home and lie in bed to make a fortune. ”
"Now let's talk about the name. A name is a symbol, and it doesn't seem complicated. But in fact, the name is the most particular. The name is divided into three parts, one is the surname, the second is the character, and the third is the name. Nowadays, people don't pay attention to words, only surnames and first names, so let's only say surnames and first names. This surname is passed down from the elders, and you can't escape it. You can change your name, but you can't change your surname, it's definitely not good to change your surname, which is destined. ”
"As for the name, it can be changed, and if the government allows it, you can change the name every day. But in general, it's better to change the name with little or no change. The older generation always says that the cheaper the name, the better it is to feed, which makes too much sense. What a dog and a cat, what a dog has leftovers, in short, at least most people's nicknames are cheap, which shows the humility and low-key in our traditional culture. ”
"There are a lot of taboos in naming names, and there are many of them that you have to believe and obey. I just said one, and the name is cheap. There is another one, and the name is very bad. For example, there is a saying that men do not touch the sky, and women do not touch immortals. What does this mean? That is to say, men cannot have the word heaven in their names, and women cannot have the word fairy in their names. ”
"This brings us to Lao Zhan, Zhan Tiancheng. The word "sky" is too tall and too big, and the person's name should not have the word "heaven", but Lao Zhan still uses it. It's not enough to use a heavenly character, but also to use a written word. Naturally, relying on the sky to eat, the nature is not right. The sky is too big, people can't hold it, and you still hope that the sky will help you succeed, which is a big mistake. ”
"Besides, my name, white hand, is neither good to sound nor good-looking, and the actual meaning is not on the table. But don't say it, my name is not good, but it saved my fate. As for the name, I have to thank my unreliable father. If he calls me a day and a white dragon or something, I really can't afford it. He casually did not act, but helped me in my life. ”
"There are five brothers and sisters in our family, and the names of four of them make people laugh when they hear it. My name is Bai Shou, my second brother is called Bai Dang, my third brother is called Bai Mian, and my eldest sister is Bai Mi. My little sister's name is Bai Xue, which is a reliable name. However, even if the name is not good, it seems that now all of them are developing well. The second brother was white, and he dared to go out and work alone at the age of seventeen. The third brother is white-faced, and his reading performance can't be too good. ”
"Let's talk about Lao Zhan's son Zhan Haitao. The name Haitao, I also think that it is too big, and his son may not be able to hold it. If his son is short of water in the five elements, the name Haitao is so-so. If there was no shortage of water in the Five Elements, and he gave the name Haitao, it would not bring benefits, but would have a bad impact on his life. The sea is so much that it will drown itself. ”
Speaking of which, the white hand was ready to close and come to an end.
But Xie Flood stopped drying up in the first place.
"Xiaobai, according to what you say, my name is not good. Thank you for the flood, there is too much water, and the flood is monstrous. Xiaobai, I'm not convinced. ”
Bai Shou smiled: "Old Xie, don't be unconvinced." Your name is good because your surname is Xie. Xie Flood Xie Flood can be regarded as thank you for the flood, and it can also be understood as a rejection of the flood. I have calculated your five elements, gold, wood, water, fire and earth, you are the most short of water, so it is not a problem to have more water in your name. Your surname is Xie, a word Xie, which can block the surging river. ”
Xie Honghong smiled, "Xiaobai, as soon as you say that, I feel comfortable in my heart." ”
Dong Peiyuan rushed to say: "Say I, Xiaobai, tell me my name." ”
"Dong, I understand. Cultivators, raise also, keep also. Yuan, the original also, the original also. Lao Dong, your name, your father who doesn't know ten big characters will definitely not be able to get up. ”
Dong Peiyuan slapped his thigh, "Speaking of which, my name was given by the principal of our village elementary school." In our entire mountain village, he was a high school student in more than ten years. ”
"I didn't guess the meaning of your name, did I?"
"You kid guessed right. Our principal said, I'm a good boy. He also said that a good child should keep this good, and if he does something bad, or once he does a bad thing, he will never recover. ”
Bai Shou said: "Your headmaster is a person who understands. There is a saying that the prodigal son does not change his money when he turns back, and that is for the bad guys. As for good people, they have to keep their duties, and if they can't keep their duties, there is no turning back. ”
Zhang Xiaonan said: "Xiaobai, it's time to talk about me." ”
He looked at Zhang Xiaonan with his white hand, "Old Zhang, I guess." Tell me first, who came up with your name? ”
"My grandfather. My grandfather graduated from elementary school, and in our village, he was an intellectual. ”
"Tell me again, has there ever been an unfilial person in your family, or something unfilial?"
"Let you speak again. I have a cousin who eats, drinks, prostitutes, gambles, and kills his father in order to ask for money. As for me, I was born that year, after my cousin killed his father. ”
Bai Shou said: "That's right. Zhang Xiaonan, this south of yours should be difficult, difficult and difficult. Your grandfather thinks that filial piety is the hardest, and hopes that you can be a filial son. ”
"So, is my name good?"
"Okay. Lao Zhang, if you are a filial son, your name is good. You can't be a filial son, your name is not good. Lao Zhang, be filial to your elders. ”
"Xiaobai, thank you."
said Zhang Xiaonan, it was Fang Zili's turn.
"Xiaobai, how is my name?"
Looking at Fang Zili with white hands, he smiled and stretched out three fingers, "Old Fang, can you answer my three questions first?" ”