54, Jiang Bayi who does not give up (2)

The result was the same as she expected, although Jiang Feifei was very tactful to her, and Jiang Wan's letter was even more tactful.

The reality of being rejected is cold, she thinks mockingly, the ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, is it the first time that someone is so excited? Such a haunting emotion, a lingering love that is difficult to turn back, hasn't it begun to die like this?

Jiang Bayi really didn't give up.

He calmed down and reflected slowly, he was really a little in a hurry, he had only known each other for more than a month, and the impression between them was just like that a few times, and the longest time was that time to go to Miaofeng Mountain together, not to mention that there was nothing to understand, such an abrupt confession would definitely arouse people's vigilance.

Although she and her sister are the closest and best friends, the topic of the two must have never revolved around her, maybe this time the two of them will talk about themselves in detail, although they were politely refused, this is not a very bad thing, at least a new topic has been added between the two of them, and this topic is myself.

She thought like this, her heart seemed to be relieved a lot, as the saying goes, Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and sees the hearts of the people over time, as time goes by, there will definitely be a chance, since she claims to be my sister in her heart, then I will care more about her as an older brother, just like I care about my own sister Jiang Feifei, according to the relationship between brother and sister, as a close friend, have a good relationship for a while, maybe God will give me a better chance.

If this is to be successful, it looks like it has to be considered for the long term.

First of all, do a good job of strategic planning, how to get close to her? Creating more opportunities for ourselves and building bridges between us is the key to the success or failure of this matter. Just like traveling to Miaofeng Mountain, there are so many interesting places in Beijing, she is a literary young man who has just arrived in Beijing, and is her sister's closest best friend, so it is natural to arrange an itinerary for her sister, if you find a few more poetic places, can touch their creative inspiration, isn't it the best of both worlds?

This strategy should be particularly good, and if it is well arranged, it can also be extended, and then there will be opportunities for direct contact with each other. Nor can you get in touch, once you are born and twice cooked, there will be no mustard in each other's hearts, so increase the frequency of communication, improve the efficiency of communication, especially cultivate the feelings between each other, this is not a matter of course? Therefore, it is still necessary to inquire about her situation with Jiang Feifei, and then prescribe the right medicine, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.

But unfortunately, the plan can't keep up with the changes, during the eleventh period, Jiang Feifei returned home because the two talked about her situation, and the younger sister clearly told Jiang Bayi that she had started a relationship with a senior in the College of Letters, and the two of them were still very close. This news was like a bolt from the blue, making her mind, as if there were two people fighting, and she had to re-examine this relationship.

She actually found a senior in the same college, so in terms of analysis, people have more advantages than themselves, first of all, they study in a college, although they are not in the same grade, but they often meet each other, and it is easier to get familiar with each other, not to mention that they are in the same college, and many business activities will be with each other, and it seems that the distance is biased towards them.

Another important point is that they are studying at the same university, and they are both majors, and of course the two of them have more common language than their own soldiers. Literary youth are more enthusiastic, so this enthusiasm will soon deepen the relationship between two people, and it is no longer natural to walk together on the basis of love. It seems that in terms of common language, the other side also has the upper hand.

Under the circumstance that the advantages and disadvantages were obvious, Jiang Bayi's unyielding strength was even more aroused.

It's really interesting to think about this relationship like this, a huge challenge is in front of you, is it to follow the trend, or to go against the trend, there is no choice question here at all, if it goes well, it will seem very bland, in the face of such a huge challenge, it has aroused the momentum in her heart even more, how can you bow your head as a soldier who can afford to build difficulties? This challenge should be met, and a good battle should be fought.

Although the other party's advantages are obvious, her own advantages are also incomparable to her.

Generally speaking, after two people enter a relationship, complementing each other is the best choice, although they are very different professionally, but this complementary advantage can not be ignored. Literature relies on enthusiasm, and people cannot live in enthusiasm forever, when the temperature of these passions is lowered, the development of homogeneity will become an obstacle to upgrading, and it will also become a repetition of life in the future.

It should be a kind of nature to be a young person, to pursue novelty and new things, she is not yet 17 years old, and the road of life has just begun, and it is not a good thing to encounter love so early. As you grow older and have more life experience, your choice of partner will change from time to time.

As someone who really loves someone, of course I hope she will live a better life, but in the face of the cruel reality, in their relationship, this danger always exists, no matter how long they can talk, and no matter how things end in the end, this matter is not optimistic about Jiang Bayi.

First of all, the life experiences and family backgrounds of the two people are completely different. Qingfeng was born in a poor and backward place in the 100,000 mountains, grew up in a closed environment in the countryside, it seems that life is very bumpy, even now he is also living by his own work-study, and an only child who grew up in a city, the life paths of the two people are completely different, so there are fundamental differences in the judgment of people and things.

Although both of them are studying in the Faculty of Letters, the ideal of the future will not be the same, Jiang Wan, as a young female poet, has a smooth sailing life experience, everyone is diligent and doting, and she has developed her character of taking it for granted, and she may not be able to understand the bumpy life road in the complex background of Qingfeng. So the standard of treating things and treating people is completely different, so in the process of getting along, it is inevitable that sharp contradictions will be formed, and now they are in love, and all they see are the advantages and strengths of each other, and with the passage of time, all kinds of contradictions will be exposed, and it is likely that there are some irreconcilable contradictions.

Thinking of these problems, Jiang Bayi strengthened his confidence even more.

To love someone is to dedicate, including giving the other party time and energy, even if the other party is still in the process of falling in love, let her experience more, the tempering of time may make her more charming, and she will be silently blessed by the side, but it will not die down, but to have a sense of existence.

This kind of thing has a great chance of success, but to leave room for your own success, that is, you can't let the other party dislike you, many things must be done in moderation, follow the trend, and grasp the timing while paying attention silently. The best and most convenient condition is that Jiang Feifei is her only best friend, not only can she keep abreast of their movements at any time, but some unknown secrets will also naturally reveal to her.

The timing is for those who are prepared, Jiang Feifei sorted out her poetry collection, and wanted to publish this book in the shortest possible time as a birthday gift for her, which created an opportunity for Jiang Bayi. One of Jiang Bayi's best classmates, the parent is the editor of the publishing house, after this collection of poems came to her hands, she found the parent who was the editor in charge in the fastest time, got the book number, and used the fastest time to edit and review, as the focus of the publishing house The bibliography was actively promoted, and it only took ten days for the printing house to produce a sample book, and finally caught up with her birthday.

It is self-evident how important the 18th birthday is for a girl, Jiang Bayi carefully prepared the birthday gift, and did not rely on Jiang Feifei to hand it over, but delivered it to her by express.

In fact, Jiang Bayi got this gift by the way when the publishing house contacted the driver to publish it. The publishing house is editing a series of books on Chinese culture, including a subset of the scriptures and histories of various periods in ancient times, a total of hundreds of volumes, because they are bought at the price within the publishing house, so for people who study literature, this is a rare collection, in order to appear more ordinary, she also prepared a set for Jiang Feifei.

Jiang Feifei can't put it down at home for this set of books, that kind of love comes from the heart, seeing her expression, I also thought of Jiang Wan's reaction, Jiang Bayi prepared a birthday gift for himself, secretly a little smug, it can be said that this is a good opportunity, if there is no publication of this poetry collection, I will not know that there is such a good set of books, God helps me.

Jiang Wan received such a rich birthday gift in the dormitory, and after thinking about Jiang Bayi, a sense of gratitude surged in his heart, and he could only use the phone to express his gratitude.