231 Really fighting
"Chen Mingdong, do you really want to fight?
In the past few days, you have to take the child, and you won't even give me the slightest chance, and I won't rush to get angry with you and grab the child.
Because I know that the matter of our Chen family's back house can't be made to the point that the whole village knows about it, so I put up with you!
Just now, Shimei Shihao bought that little bit of time to come and get close to me, and I can still say a few words for you, saying that you are because you are in the critical period of life and death of the Chen family, so you are desperately teaching them to become talents.
You touch your conscience and say, what is the reason why Shirui's three-year-old child has not seen his mother who is close at hand for a few days?
Can you also use the Chen family's critical period of life and death, does he need to learn this reason all the time?
Don't make me, I look like I'm going to snatch your Chen family's son.
I have given you a good word, if you don't pay attention to my bottom line and take a concubine, it is impossible for me to take away the three children, and I will not leave your Chen family.
In that case, what are you panicking about? Are you so afraid that the child's heart is towards me, my mother?
You're the dad of the kids, and you've only been missing a few months when the three of them were growing up, and you're so unconfident that the kids would rather not have you as a dad?
If you are sincere, your efforts will be naturally felt by the children, and if you are strong, the children will be able to feel clearly.
So, do you still want to beat Shirui, the son who is only three years old and misses his mother? ”
When Shirui was talking to her father so coldly, her little face was pitiful and clinging to her mother's face, and she was still in tears.
Zhang Yurong saw through Chen Mingdong's mentality, and she didn't care about his indifferent attitude, which made Chen Mingdong feel deeply defeated.
Yes, Zhang Yurong said that night that he still had so much time and mood in front of the family's life and death plan to think about these trivial matters in the back house?
Zhang Yurong also said that he would be out of breath in the face of her suppression, and he felt such oppression.
Just like in front of his eldest brother, he is always easily seen through, and he is always seen as naïve and careless by them.
Perhaps, I need to be quiet and take a good look at how I will look at things and calculate things in the future.
You can't always be looked down upon by her all the time, and see through everything so easily, right?
"Shirui, Dad won't beat you anymore, now you can be with your mother and have dinner, but Dad asks you to read and write with Dad after dinner and sleep with Dad at night."
Chen Mingdong put down the hand that wanted to hit Shirui, and talked to his son about the conditions very calmly.
Shirui was not happy and wanted to say no, but he could see that his father had made a big concession.
"Dad, I still want to eat with my mother in the morning and noon, and my brothers also have three meals with my mother, otherwise I don't want you anymore!"
originally wanted to be weak and obedient to his father's oppressive conditions, but the sharp-eyed Shirui felt his mother's supportive eyes, and suddenly became bold.
not only mentioned the conditions he wanted, but also mentioned the benefits of his two elder brothers.
Do you dare to fight against your mother if you have the ability?
, that's amazing!
Chen Mingdong was suddenly shocked by the bargaining between his three-year-old son and himself?
Is this the way my three-year-old son thinks? Is it that I have educated too well or that Zhang Yurong has taught too well?
It's so good that you have nowhere to discipline him?
"Shirui, can you negotiate with your father?
In this way, my mother will be a witness for your father and son, and you and your father will continue to bargain over the problem you just had.
Remember, bargaining is a constant temptation from the other party's bottom line, and it is also to try to keep the bottom line in your heart.
But you and your father are father and son, not enemies, and your last words, don't want a father, shouldn't be a bargaining condition.
You can try to bargain over how you can increase your own learning, or how you can do something filial to your father, which is a normal negotiation with your loved ones.
If it is replaced by an enemy, if the enemy is far stronger, there is no need to negotiate at all, and the enemy is directly destroyed.
If the enemy is slightly stronger, then step on the enemy's bottom line and negotiate step by step.
If you are weaker than the enemy, then you can only find a way to start from where the enemy wants, this aspect of the mother can not teach you too deep for the time being, and you have to wait for you to understand some more historical records, in order to teach you how to be weak and strong! ”
Zhang Yurong put Shirui on the ground and taught Shirui common sense in negotiation with a smile.
It can be regarded as an opportunity to educate children, and it can be regarded as a step down a step for Chen Mingdong, a father who has nowhere to start?
If he really loves the child, he will go down the steps, otherwise, he will force the child so much and cause the father and son to lose harmony!
"I'm sorry, Dad! I won't say I don't want you in the future, but I still hope that my father can agree, and the three of us can eat and talk to my mother every day.
My mother speaks very well, and what she says is very reasonable, which is what my brothers and I want to hear, and I am very serious in negotiating! ”
Suddenly, the little adult got up.
First, he stood in front of his father, bowed and admitted his mistake, and said that he would not say anything about his father in the future.
Then continue to negotiate, stick to your bottom line, and come up with arguments.
Shirui almost said to Chen Mingdong's father, you don't know as well as your mother?
When my mother taught us, she never read a book, and she knew which page of the book she was talking about!
The most powerful is still my mother, who often teaches some knowledge that is not available in the book, such insight, hehe, my father doesn't have it!
"Shirui is very powerful, continue to maintain his original conditions, as a father's side, how are you going to respond to your three-year-old son's conditions?"
Zhang Yurong smiled brightly and brightly, happy, her sons are so good, she is proud of her mother!
Chen Mingdong pursed his lips, and finally dropped a sentence, whatever!
Deserted and fled!
This night, Chen Mingdong tossed and turned and couldn't sleep.
Although Shirui obediently came back and slept quietly with him, can he say that he has won?
He can't seem to say in good conscience that he has failed!
The three children, even the youngest three-year-old Shirui, have to admit that they are very good, and I have to admit that their excellence is more due to having a mother who is so good at adapting to the situation and extremely knowledgeable.
Zhang Yurong is very erudite, that is, she can tell astronomy and geography even after a meal, even up and down for 5,000 years.
The most speechless thing is that Zhang Yurong really has the ability, and the historical records that she talked about can directly tell the children which book and which page it is.
Zhang Yurong deliberately showed off like this tonight, the three children, no, all the children, including Shi Min, adored her very much.
If you marry a wife like this, you should be glad and proud.
Marrying such a wife and benefiting three generations can be foreseen.
But he was so depressed that he couldn't breathe!
I feel that he is very useless in front of such a wife, and even feels that he has no status in front of his children.
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