When listening to the play in the teahouse, there was an elegant room, and Sanya went in with the eldest girl, and Erlang stayed under the teahouse, afraid that he would go in and bump into the little sisters and friends of the eldest girl.

In fact, there are no little sisters in it, it is Yao's, Yao's eating melon seeds and listening to books.

When you open the window, you can see the gentleman who is telling the story outside, and from time to time he pats it again and again with a startling wood, which is very wonderful.

Seeing Sanya enter, he hurriedly beckoned the shop guys to come in, ordered fresh and delicious pastries for Sanya, and put a few plates in front of Sanya, all of which Sanya had never seen before.

"Come on, today the aunt invites you to listen to the book and eat something, this is our time-honored teahouse in Shazhou County, the pastries taste good, you haven't been to Shazhou County, I guess you haven't tasted it, since you come to relax, the aunt invites you to eat, don't be restrained, it's a good day to eat and drink and have fun."

Beckoning Sanya to sit down, it is still the best position for her.

Sanya was flattered.

The eldest girl said, "I was originally going to introduce you to my little sisters, but my mother said, on the first day of today, I am afraid of scaring you, so let you get familiar with it for a few days, and then take you to meet friends, it is good for us to listen to books together as a family, and in a few days, we can also go to the play, and listening to the play is more fun than this." Come, eat, you're welcome. ”

As he spoke, he picked up a piece of pastry and began to eat it beautifully.

Sanya swallowed her saliva, picked up a piece of pastry, carefully put it to her mouth, and took a sip, an unprecedented sweet and soft feeling filled her taste buds.

Although the old Xu family is living a better life now, after all, in the countryside, this kind of exquisite life is still worse than the county seat.

"Thank you, auntie."

Yao said, "We are all a family, we don't want to thank or thank you or anything, it's just because I see that you are a poor girl, so I let the big girl call you out to relax." Tell your aunt what you're thinking? Those people are so hateful, they all hope that you won't find a good in-law in the future, are you sad in your heart? ”

Sanya was about to cry.

"Don't cry, your aunt is right, don't care about the eyes of outsiders, take what those people say as a P, don't feel uncomfortable. However, it's okay for others to say this, but it is estimated that it has been replaced by the parties, and it is not so free, so I pity you good girl. Yao persuaded.

This made Sanya even more aggrieved, and it went up to her heart.

Others have made her want to open some, and she has said a lot of this truth, and she understands it, but she is still painful, scared, and sad.

"Auntie...... I ......"

"Good girl, it's inconvenient for me to persuade you when there are a lot of people, if you really want to block the mouths of the countrymen, if you find a good gateway in the city, marrying out in a beautiful way is better than doing anything, do you think about it carefully? Some of what your aunt said is right, but there are some things that she is also a little girl herself, and she is not well considered, how can any woman not marry? ”

Yao continued, "What should a woman do when she doesn't marry and gets old? Your parents and parents are gone, your brothers and sisters are old, and they all have their own children and grandchildren, and you are alone? People are sick and weak, and their daughters-in-law take care of them, and you are old and sick and can't walk, who cares if you live or die? Don't talk about these things, a woman who doesn't marry is bad luck to stay in her parents' house all the year round, you know? This is one of the manifestations of the family's unhappiness, in the future, maybe it will affect your fourth brother Xiaoshan's career, obviously a good future, can not be lost in your hands, and how good your second brother is to you, and you can't because of your affairs, touch the head, in the future, your sister-in-law or your brother and sister will pass the door, they will not say it on the surface, but they will also dislike you in private, chew the root of your tongue, so you can live breathlessly, right? ”

Sanya's face turned a little paler, and the countrymen are superstitious about these things.

There are many older unmarried village girls, and there are people who have pointed out before and after.

Not only are there people who criticize it outside, but they are also not welcomed at home.

Lao Xu's family, she has an old aunt who patted the board to support her waist, and she won't eat the white food at home, but it is difficult to guarantee that her sister-in-law who has not passed through the door in the future will not gossip with her younger siblings.

didn't say anything in front of people, but made a face to her behind her back, and she was also sad.

Yao continued, "Your aunt said that if you recruit a son-in-law, it is even more impossible, people recruit a son-in-law, because there is no male in the family, or a particularly favored daughter, just like your aunt." But you have an elder brother above, a younger brother below, and a person with a bad reputation, is it to add to the family's blockage by recruiting a son-in-law to come back? Besides, who in the countryside doesn't know your situation now, as long as it's a good man, he won't come to you as a son-in-law, do you think you can still recruit someone like your Uncle Liao Qing? Impossible! You can only recruit some rags, don't say that you have been wronged, I'm afraid that the future will be a chicken, a dog jumping, it's not hot, and the babies will be born in the future, it is estimated that they will also be crooked and bad, is this the life you want to live? ”

Sanya's eyes were blurred with tears.

I can't eat the pastry in my mouth.

The eldest girl said, "Mother, what are you talking about these disappointments, sister Sanya, don't cry, eat pastries, listen to books, now in the county, no one knows you, out of sight is clean, don't care so much, besides, you are not in a hurry, I am older than you, I am not in a hurry." ”

Yao said with a smile, "Don't make trouble for me, you are different from Sanya's situation, Sanya is now on the cusp, it is best to find someone to marry, in order to calm down the turmoil, Sanya, you give me a quasi-word, the family matter that the eldest aunt paid attention to you, are you willing?" ”

"My father and mother said that if there is a suitable person, it will be successful......"

Yao's smile swept away, "That's right, the family surnamed Zhao I said is quite suitable, if you don't object, you can go with me to have a secret look?" ”

Sanya's face flushed, "How can that work?" ”

"Why can't that work? Now your third uncle and second brother have probably listened to your aunt's arrangement, and they won't let you go to see others, no one will help you see each other, you can go and see it yourself. If you really do, you go back and tell them that they will definitely believe in you, and you have to make your own decisions about your own marital happiness, and others will only persuade you as bystanders, what is the use of persuading you? If it doesn't happen to you, who can truly understand your suffering? If you are Erya, your sister and Erya will not do anything in the future, her life is good, and the people who ask to marry are all serious people, you are different, if you don't strive to seize the opportunity yourself, your future life will definitely not be as good as Erya......"

Sanya was poured into an ecstasy soup, and her heart was shaken a little.

She was originally an unassertive person, and she inherited Yuan Chunhua's temperament.