Let's indulge again, I'm sick anyway, and I'm still very serious!

"This matter can be analyzed from two perspectives.

The Cao family valued your uncle's father with discernment, and then taught him and cultivated him until your uncle was the top student in high school.

There are two completely different statements, one is that the Cao family has invested in the right potential stocks, and the Cao family has obtained a return far higher than the payout.

What is the return of the Cao family? It is the reputation sought after by countless people, as well as the profits brought by fame.

Of course, this kind of statement, the Cao family and your uncle's father will never dare to admit it, they will say this in another noble way, that is, the Cao family's kind-hearted promotion of the younger generations and the younger generations after becoming talents.

The latter statement is considered to be the mainstream statement today, and it is also the truth, goodness and beauty that ordinary people yearn for, but the real calculation behind it can only be calculated in their hearts.

In addition, the way your uncle's father repays his kindness can actually be said in two ways.

One is that your uncle was forced to marry by the Cao family, and if you don't marry, you won't be able to gain a foothold in officialdom, because reputation is really important, and civil officials can't be officials without reputation.

The second is that your uncle respects Dean Cao, a teacher, and can be regarded as growing up with your uncle's childhood sweetheart, and he will get married when he grows up.

But judging from the details of your mother's observation, there is a big problem between your uncle and your uncle's mother.

The biggest problem is that husband and wife can't be together, and the two look at each other with respect, but they often act in opposite directions.

Shimei, my mother didn't treat you as a child after you passed away, so what my mother is telling you now is also treating you as an adult.

This can be regarded as evidence based on facts, what kind of person do people want to be if they live for a lifetime!

You must not be like your uncle, my mother is not allowed, I am too tired and aggrieved!

My mother would rather you live like your father, a little stupid, but you live a real life, with your own thoughts, and even your own joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

This is the living person, so that my mother brought you to this world, and my mother brought you to make you feel happy, not to let you experience misery.

Happiness is the feeling of the heart, suffering and suffering are not necessarily unhappy, and eating well and dressing well to live a life of superiority does not necessarily mean happiness.

To have something to rely on is to be happy! Shimei, my mother will always be your solid support.

Someone bullies you, your mother helps you bully you back, someone beats you, your mother also helps you fight back, someone fails you, your mother helps you get angry, someone wants to give you a heavy burden, if your mother can, your mother will help you share it.

If your mother feels that the burden is inexplicable, her mother will overturn your burden with her own hands.

In my mother's eyes, nothing is as important as Shimei in my mother's heart, Shimei, do you understand what my mother thinks now? ”

Zhang Yurong didn't know that what she said so softly and softly hugged Shimei was all listened to by Chen Mingyi, who was sitting at the door outside.

I don't want to admit it, he deliberately leaned his head to the door and heard it.

It's really cold outside, but at this moment, Chen Mingyi's heart is inexplicably warm.

It turned out that someone in the family understood that he was very tired and aggrieved, and he was picking up the child inside, and he couldn't live like himself if he was killed!

Yu Rong looks like this, I don't know how to say that she is good!

actually regarded the child as an adult, and told him such a deep adult problem, and even the way of getting along with husband and wife was so thorough.

"Mother, in fact, I also feel sorry for my uncle, I can see that he is very tired, so I want to help him, I can help him with a child, that is, I will give him a son and give him a hope!

Mother, I'm sorry, at that time, I only felt that my uncle was pitiful, thinking that my mother had two sons, and I didn't feel so pitiful, so I would bring it up myself, mother, I'm sorry! ”

When Chen Shimei said this, even Chen Mingyi, who was sitting outside against the door, couldn't help crying.

He didn't even realize that there was a child in the family who understood him.

"You don't need to pity him, that's the path he chose early on, what you can do is respect his choice and understand his choice.

Everyone has to make a choice for their own life, and you have chosen to succeed your uncle's father.

In the future, in front of outsiders, you can only be the son of your uncle's father, and when he goes behind people's backs in private, he gets along with his mother like this, which is the secret of our mother and son, huh? ”

"Well, mother, but I don't understand, why doesn't my father talk to that mother well? My mother didn't tell me such a heartfelt thing before, and I always thought that my mother blamed me.

But I know now that you feel sorry for me, mother, and I have always been secretly speculating that I don't like me, mother, and you don't want me anymore!

Ahem, ahem, ahem! I now feel that I should speak honestly so that I don't get misunderstood! ”

Chen Shimei really has the mind of an adult, and he has personal experience, so he knows that communication is very important.

"Hehe, Shimei, the closest relatives in this world are husband and wife.

It stands to reason that husband and wife are the closest relationship, but there is also a saying that husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes.

Even the family positions between many couples are opposite, and it is difficult for this kind of husband and wife relationship to have a good result.

Normally, talking more between people should eliminate a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings.

However, the current mainstream consciousness does not pay attention to speaking directly, but to leave a few points for anyone to speak, and leave room at any time.

In this mainstream consciousness, if you speak directly, you will be hit on the head by the real world.

Survival of the fittest!

In what environment, what to say, what to do.

Even when I want to say what is in my heart, I feel that the time has come.

Tell your mother that you're tired of talking so much, right? My mother still holds you like this, you close your eyes, listen to your mother's casual talk, you relax and try to sleep! ”

Zhang Yurong then deliberately lowered her voice, casually talking about all kinds of trivial things at home, saying it without logic, but for Chen Shimei in her arms, it was an extremely reassuring voice.

Soon, Chen Shimei, who had relaxed, fell asleep.

Zhang Yurong didn't dare to let go, and still fell asleep half-leaning on the head of the bed and holding the child in a semi-recumbent position.

Chen Mingyi listened outside for a long time, and gradually couldn't hear any sound.

Even the child's coughing voice gradually became more and more sporadic.

Chen Mingyi stood up gently, slowly, moved his legs and feet, and did not go back to the second house, but went to the front yard to rest.

Before going to court the next day, Chen Mingyi still went to the courtyard in Sanjin to listen to the movement for a while, and when he saw the nurse come out, he knew that the child was still asleep, so he continued to go to the court with anxiety.

"It's so cold, don't send me to the court so early in the future, lest you get sick from the cold! Let's go back! ”