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Teacher Zhang's family, faced with Li Yimeng's participation in the draft competition, had a serious conflict. Therefore, Mr. Zhang hoped for a clear breeze and persuaded Li Yimeng.

Li Xiangqian, "The situation is like this now, Teacher Zhang and I are against him doing this, this kind of commercial reality show is not good for a student, it can only promote speculation, if it succeeds, it will not be good for his growth path, people on the road of acting are very hard, don't look at their scenery outside, every move will be concerned by public opinion, the entertainment industry is not very clean, all kinds of intrigues are not something that a little girl can bear, take 10,000 steps back, You have succeeded, there will be more difficult roads in the future, will you be able to persevere? If you don't succeed, it will be a blow to your life, it will mess up your life and learning rhythm, can you still study in front of the desk with peace of mind? I think about it, it should end here, you have achieved good results in this division, and your vanity has reached the satisfaction of vanity, why do you want to rush forward desperately? As a father, I hope that you will accept what you see and devote yourself to learning, which will be very beneficial to your life and your future path. ”

Li Yimeng, "Dad, let's talk about things, okay?" Don't think about some bad things in society, I have been putting all my energy into studying for more than a year, and after more than a year of tutoring, I have also achieved very good results, I should say that I have not disappointed you. This time it was also an accident for me, I wanted to accompany the school to sign up, who knew that they took a fancy to me, and all the way through, I didn't spend much energy, as a girl, I already had the talent of singing and dancing, and the external conditions were also very good, I didn't prove independent thinking, and I didn't have the mood to gamble as you said, I just let it be. Dad, as your daughter, you should know me, I don't have so much competitiveness, just live and study according to my own way of life, for more than a year, I have put all my mind on studying, and I have tasted the sweetness, no matter how the situation develops, I will not give up my studies. ”

Teacher Zhang, "What you said is so good, this point is worthy of full affirmation, at your age, you should focus all your energy on learning, increase your knowledge and improve your ability, expand your horizons and lay a good foundation for further study in the future, why do you want to participate in that kind of draft activity?" I think you should regain your attention, put more effort into your studies, and show your talents, this is the right way. ”

Li Yimeng, "Mom, I focus on studying, this is what I have determined, but now this situation is that this opportunity is in my hands, why let me give it a try without affecting my learning?" You should believe your daughter, since I have made up my mind to study hard, why should some spare time be more colorful? You should allow me to live a better life without affecting my studies. ”

Qingfeng, "Teacher Zhang, Uncle Li, as parents, I can completely understand your feelings, I also understand the hard work you have spent on Mengmeng, Mengmeng has made so much progress in the past year or so, and you have also seen it, so let's calm down now, stop arguing about this matter, and happily discuss this matter." Do you think it's okay? Li Yimeng, do you agree? ”

Li Yimeng, "Mom and Dad, I have always been a naughty child, you have tolerated me for more than ten years, your love is more than others, and your tolerance makes me feel happier, so I am determined to put all my energy on studying, more than a year has proved that I can do a good job in studying, and I promise that I will put more energy on learning in the future, and will definitely make my study better, for the sake of my own life path, for the sake of my own future, and glory to you. ”

Li Xiangqian, "That's right, daughter, what we want is your words." You have just entered high school now, and there is a lot of pressure to study, and the foundation of your studies is not solid, although after more than a year of tutoring, you have achieved very good results. You should put more energy and vitality into learning, as you said, to create a bright future for yourself and win glory for us. ”

Qingfeng, "Teacher Zhang, Uncle Li, the only thing you are worried about as parents is that Li Yimeng has been distracted and affected his studies. Now that he's made it clear, and I believe he's a man who does what he says, we all agree on that. Now we will discuss the issue of Li Yimeng's participation in the event, I think this is a good thing, no matter what young people do, it is a kind of learning, Li Meng has improved his musical literacy and his singing level through this activity, which should be a good thing. The problem with both of you is that you have a preconceived notion of this, because this is a new thing, so there is still a process for you to accept it, and this should be allowed. The key is that you two can't have resistance to new things, this kind of draft activity does do a lot, and some of the activities are obviously commercial in nature, if we don't think about those negative things, we should discuss whether this thing has a positive meaning, so that it may be easier to judge this matter. ”

Li Xiangqian, "This matter is too unexpected for us, so considering things is not comprehensive enough, as far as this matter itself is concerned, it is a kind of exercise for Li Yimeng, to participate in this kind of activity, first of all, we must adjust our mentality, treat him correctly, not from the interference of others, nor from the interference of other factors, maintain a normal heart, as long as you give full play to your ability, it is not a good thing." Of course, as long as it does not affect learning, students should still put their learning first. ”

Qingfeng, "I see that Li Yimeng has thought very clearly about this matter, just to increase the exercise of life, and there is not much hope, in the process of this pursuit, participation is the most important, through activities, broaden their horizons, expand their knowledge, improve the ability to deal with things, improve the ability to observe and analyze things, this should be a kind of comprehensive ability cultivation and exercise, I think, this is not a kind of quality education." ”

Teacher Zhang, "This matter came too suddenly, as soon as Li Yimeng told me, my brain was confused, and I focused all my energy on those negative influences, and I didn't take into account Li Yimeng's thoughts, let alone he treated him so calmly, so I was a little too aggressive, after Qingfeng such an analysis, I think we should really analyze this matter comprehensively, everything is divided into two, if it really does not affect learning, it is really a good thing, and it is really a good thing to rely on him to deal with such a complex thing independently." It is indeed a test of his ability, not only the ability to analyze and solve problems, but also a kind of psychological adaptability, just like his father said, it is most important to maintain a normal heart, so that in the process of participation, broaden their horizons and expand their knowledge, it is really a kind of quality education. ”

Qingfeng, "Actually, as soon as I heard about this matter, I was also blinded, after two rounds of arguments between you, I stabilized, in fact, the initiative in this matter is in Li Yimeng's hands, this matter, you have to grasp it well, it is a great thing, if you have to grasp the deviation, there will be problems." First of all, I think to participate in this activity to have a good psychological ability, do not be confused by some of the strange phenomenon of the field, we participate in this kind of activity, is to exercise yourself, broaden your horizons, improve your singing ability, fully show yourself on it, just like the Olympic spirit, focus on participation, the process of participation is a learning process, improve the process, so that you can grasp this matter well, no matter how tense the event, don't forget your own learning, As long as we do a good job in studying, it will not affect our main goal, and the purpose of increasing this kind of exercise will be achieved, so I say that the initiative is in Li Yimeng's own hands. ”

Li Yimeng, "I didn't have any pressure in the first place, but when you say this, I have pressure." Participating in this kind of activity is not my own initiative, coincidence pushed me here, these days I have also repeatedly considered, it is normal for my parents to oppose it, because they are afraid that the results of more than a year will be in vain, if my heart is unstable, let them lead the nose, I will abandon my studies. But from the very beginning I have made up my mind, no matter how I want to put my studies in the first place, no matter how tense the situation of the competition, I have to squeeze time to study, not to fall behind in class, but also to do a good job, and strive to achieve a good result, after a semester, I have adapted to the learning environment of the first year of high school, and the early courses are also very good, which also reflects this, the interest in learning is getting stronger and stronger, participating in this kind of activity, just want to show yourself, No matter what the final result is, it will not affect my mentality and emotions, and I will focus my best energy on studying. Even if the final result is very good, I will not take the road of acting, but will work my studies, take a good university in the future, find a career that suits me, and take my own life path. ”

Qingfeng, "Li Yimeng, you have really grown up, I believe that if you make all this clear to Teacher Zhang and your uncle, there will be no such controversy in your family." In the face of the road of life, we must strengthen our confidence, we must take the initiative in our own hands, and create our own beautiful life through our own struggle and efforts. I am impressed with your thoughts, and it seems that we have been together for more than a year, and it is still helpful to you, and I really feel a little relieved. Don't worry, in the process of your participation in the competition, the two of us use the computer to communicate well, I will not let you fall behind in all the courses, you also fight for breath, it is best to achieve a double harvest in academics and competitions, show your strength, let us be proud of you. ”

Teacher Zhang, "Mengmeng, my good daughter, what you said just now really touched me, I didn't expect my daughter to really mature, and she is no longer that little naughty ghost." Do you know? For more than a year, your dad and I have been proud of you and proud of you. We are all looking at everything you have done, and we are overjoyed and relieved by your changes. After this happened, our biggest worry is that you are back to the previous kind of muddy days, and the results that were not easy to achieve were ruined, we did not stand in your perspective for your sake, but I didn't expect you to think about this matter so clearly, so clearly, Mom and Dad believe in you, can grasp this matter well, grasp the relationship between learning and this matter, and believe that you can deal with these well, and finally you have to get your studies up, if there are any difficulties, Mom and Dad are with you, We are united to create a better life. ”

You move forward, "What you said just now, my daughter, really makes us parents ashamed, forgive us for our lack of acceptance of new things, since you have such a good attitude, Dad firmly supports you, let us deal with this unexpected challenge, I wish you a good harvest in your studies and competitions." ”

At this time, the family hugged each other tightly.

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