244 Temper your temper
Now that she learned this information from her eldest brother, Zhang Yurong did not have many surprises, but had a feeling that the second shoe had finally landed.
It's just that she never thought that as the eldest brother of the Chen family, she would make such a decision for herself, which was absolutely impossible in the eyes of other men in ancient times.
At dinner, she thought that the eldest brother would persuade her to accept the concubine, and she also thought that the eldest brother would control his temper and let him deal with the little three and four, and let him clean up and vent her anger.
She didn't expect that her eldest brother would say a ruthless word to his only brother who depended on him for his own sake, completely separating the family and leaving only the surname Chen.
If this is the case, in the eyes of outsiders, it means that the eldest brother has completely given up his own brother.
From now on, Chen Mingdong is no longer the second master Chen who is considered for him everywhere.
"Big brother, thank you for still trusting me so much at this time, and I will also give you a bottom line today.
I will definitely take the three children with me to raise adults, and I will take care of the expenses by myself.
Of course, I won't change the surname Chen for the children, and then I will live in Fang Zhong's farm and take my three children to live.
In the future, when we don't go to the mountains, I should take my three children to Yanjing, yes, I can only go to Yanjing and my parents' side.
As you said, I don't know how far I'm going to go if I'm angry, so I'm really glad that you're out of it, big brother.
If Chen Mingdong gave the child to me and made a deed, I would naturally not let Mu Rongbei and them find him embarrassed.
It can even be temporarily not announced to the public, and I have separated from Chen Mingdong and will not expand the impact on the hearts of the people in the entire Beishan County.
In addition, by my side, eldest brother, you can also put Shimin by my side under the banner of not worrying about the child, and I will teach you as if it were my own child.
As for your mother, please forgive me, I have always been not filial and considerate enough to her, not gentle and understanding enough, I think the woman Chen Mingdong likes should be able to do what I can't do! β
If you want to say that Zhang Yurong is ruthless, she is indeed ruthless, Chen Mingyi just said this, Zhang Yurong ignored Chen Mingyi being so sentimental, and negotiated coldly and rationally.
She didn't have so much emotion to soothe the big brother who covered his face and cried, and she didn't have so much grief that was difficult to accept.
In the face of established facts, she will rationally choose the path she wants most.
The marriage broke down, the relationship failed, and it seemed that the sky was falling!
But for Zhang Yurong, it's not a big deal, and she feels that life is very beautiful when she can have three such excellent sons.
But I felt a little guilty in my heart, so I just proposed to help and continue to take Shimin's words.
"No, my mother, I won't put her under Zhou Bingqian's control, my mother is also a naΓ―ve person, I will take her to my county town courtyard and let Tan Wan take care of her.
Although Tan Wan herself is weak, the people around her still have a lot of experience in taking care of the old, weak, sick and disabled.
Cao Weijun's side, from now on, I can only give her a false name, after all, I can't let her ruin Shimin's reputation, Shilian's child, I'm afraid I won't be able to break it.
I'm not a good husband, I'm not a good father, I'm not a good big brother.
In the past, I always thought that when my father was gone, I would support this family, but now I find that my daughter has grown up and my brother has grown up, and it is not something I can support if I want to help them.
Yurong, will you be disappointed in me? Didn't I be the head of the Chen family? Have you suffered too much? β
Chen Mingyi wiped his tears with his hands, and then Zhang Yurong's words continued.
It is impossible for the mother to be placed in Zhou Bingqian's hands, don't go to the Chen family, even the mother's heart is coaxed by Zhou Bingqian to distinguish between north and south.
"Big brother, in fact, I think you should let go earlier and let them each be responsible for their own lives.
Even when they are children, as long as they understand what adults mean and have many choices, let them do it themselves.
I have analyzed the pros and cons and guided the upward, if it still goes against your original intention, this is regarded as the will of God.
Big brother doesn't need to blame himself, everyone shouldn't live for others all their lives, always leave some time for themselves.
I've talked to three children before, and I'm going to train them to start their own families.
After that, my family property is my own, my time is also my own, and my life will be easy and comfortable for myself.
The three of them, now know that I, the mother, will not work hard for them until they grow old and die.
I also have my life, big brother, you also have your own life, don't carry so much until you get old, everyone always has a time period for themselves. β
Zhang Yurong's feelings for her eldest brother are still a little complicated.
The eldest brother is a typical ancient patriarchal style.
For his younger brother, for his mother, for his wife and daughter, and for his family, he has shouldered the heaviest responsibilities along the way.
It is a pity that even so, his wife abandoned him, his eldest daughter abandoned him, and his own brother, although he did not abandon him, also turned his back on him.
Even so, a patriarch like him made such a way to defend his younger brother and sister who were abandoned by his younger brother.
He is willing to hand over his eldest son, Shimei, to himself to adulthood.
is willing to completely separate from his own brother for herself, without the will of her eldest brother, she naturally does not need to be soft when dealing with Chen Mingdong.
It is not difficult to have custody of Shirui Shihao's two sons, who has more people to support him?
At this time, Chen Mingdong, after the eldest brother left, was still slumped on the ground for a long time, but no one dared to step forward to help him up, and they all pretended to be dead and couldn't see it.
Finally, when it was night, Chen Mingdong woke up as if he was startled, and suddenly thought that Zhou Bingqian was already hungry, so he was cheeky and borrowed a tael of silver from a big brother guard in the government who he was just familiar with.
The guard really wanted not to borrow it, but it would be bad if he didn't borrow it, people can cry to you with a cheeky face.
After Chen Mingdong, who had borrowed a tael of silver, came out of the mansion, he didn't see any snacks on the street, so he went straight to the small courtyard where Zhou Bingqian temporarily stayed.
He was worried that after so much time, she would have to wait in a hurry.
I thought about running back first, and handed over a tael of silver to the nurse to find a place to buy food.
Zhou Bingqian saw Chen Mingdong coming back with red eyes and tears, holding a tael of silver, and immediately felt disdainful in her heart.
Such a weak and incompetent man turned out to be carefully calculated by himself?
But when I think about it, during the period of being trapped in Beishan County, this weak and incompetent man was indeed the only driftwood he could grasp.
"Second master, what's wrong with you? Is it because the uncle doesn't agree with Bingqing to follow the second master? β
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