65 The heart is like water

For Qingfeng, the growing pains have always been with him.

When working part-time during the summer vacation, in the face of Liu Qianqian's strong story, Qingfeng has always kept a cool head, responded appropriately, and finally responded with his wisdom to transform this strong secret love into pure friendship.

In the process of dividing the liberal arts and sciences in the second year of high school, the strong mobilization of the school, the frequent pressure of the science teacher to keep him in the liberal arts class, and finally Mr. Zhang came forward to talk to him on behalf of the school, and finally he firmly chose the direction of liberal arts, and his high school studies were back on track, so that he listened to his heart when facing life choices.

What touched him the most was the news from his parents, the little sister Li Xiaojuan's adolescent thoughts fluctuated, and the decline in learning really affected his heart, and his parents were also a little worried and anxious about his sister, so he used a lot of energy to communicate with his parents, so that they could be patient and do a good job of his sister Li Xiaojuan, especially let his parents communicate with her seriously, and warm his little sister with care and love. Success helped her through the ups and downs of puberty. Being able to help his parents and his little sister helped him find a place in the family atmosphere, and he felt a lot of comfort in his heart.

The friends around him have changed dramatically, and Li Yimeng's participation in The Voice is indeed a touch to his heart. In the face of this complex society, in the face of the surrounding environment, a lot of temptations are placed in front of him, and also in front of his peers, whether he can successfully face this temptation has become the most important issue in front of him, although Mr. Zhang's family finally faced this crisis harmoniously, so that Mr. Zhang and Uncle Li treated this problem correctly, but there was still a ripple in his heart. This is the social reality, with the growth of age, the increase of growth experience, this growing pains, at any time with his side, his own experience tells himself, no matter how complex the social environment, no matter how great the temptation in the society, as a young man who came out of the mountains, should have a certain concentration, not to be disturbed by these things, always learn is the first, only study well, increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons, in the future to be able to increase talents, in order to be able to adapt to this complex society and create a brighter future for themselves.

These things are easier said than done. According to his life experience of nearly ten years, many things are determined by his life foundation, for example, work-study is actually because of life, strong self-esteem, so that he has to choose this path, work-study solves economic problems, but also creates the ability to solve social problems, not only increases the ability of social activities, but also broadens his horizons, expands his knowledge, and cultivates social skills. Thinking about the problem from the perspective of society, this is actually a by-product of work-study, but it is more important to his life, but these subtle changes did not cause him at that time, complex social complex people, coupled with some complex things, forced him, a simple child who came out of the mountains, a young man without the slightest social experience, had to face it alone, and to consider it in his own place, calmly respond, and unconsciously improved his ability to cope with society. Our carefree children, enjoy the doting of their parents, but his parents are far away from the mountains, away from themselves, let him in a difficult environment, accompanied by the elderly grandparents to live, at this time, Uncle Feng is like a bright lamp, lighting up his soul, in the quiet mountains, quietly learning, laying a deep foundation of Chinese culture, but also found a simple learning method, and along the way, after the tempering of learning, these methods are becoming more and more perfect, In turn, it has promoted his academic progress and achieved remarkable results.

In the year of high school study, while studying, while the experience of work-study, he understood that the world is beautiful and kind, received so many people's attention and help, not only the academic performance is still maintained, but also exercised their ability to deal with the society, I must say, this is an objective growth experience, but contains a profound philosophy of life, growing in learning, work-study rich social experience, really improve their ability to deal with complex things.

If he successfully transformed Liu Juanjuan's feelings, it is actually a manifestation of self-protection ability, because he knows the social class he is in, and he clearly understands what his main energy is to do, and it is reasonable that he does not dare to get involved in feelings at his age. An innocent young man who has just started to fall in love, facing Liu Qianqian's powerful emotional story, makes him shy away, on the one hand, it is determined by his economic foundation, and on the other hand, his life situation does not allow it, so he tries his best to deal with it coldly, and he is not carried away by temporary feelings, and reason prevails.

In fact, the most critical thing in life is so many steps, his life should be said to be very smooth, although the foundation is not very good, but there will be nobles to help at critical times. In his stage of being a left-behind child, Uncle Feng miraculously appeared, becoming the key to his life turning point, but also his life enlightenment teacher, it seems that he just accompanied Uncle Feng to learn the knowledge of Chinese culture, in fact, his thoughts are deeply marked with Confucianism, which is in line with the ethics and morality of our contemporary life, although there is no advanced theoretical knowledge, but subtly affect his actions, along the way, let him benefit a lot, and finally as the champion of the high school entrance examination was admitted to the key middle school, This was the biggest turning point in his life.

After entering high school, the pressure of survival has become his biggest problem, for his own survival, for the opportunity to work and study, got the help of Mr. Zhang, who is in charge of logistics, is another noble person in his life experience, although there is no increase in knowledge, there is no counseling of life philosophy, but the experience of work-study has been increased, so that he has alleviated the economic difficulties, and by chance to tutor a few students, through these students and the outside world to establish a connection, see their beautiful family life, from the heart of the yearningThen he seized the opportunity to return to his parents, experienced the hardships of his parents, and enjoyed the warmth of the family, which suddenly increased his confidence in life and added positive energy to his life goals.

On the one hand, I wanted to experience the prosperity of city life, and on the other hand, it was to facilitate reunion with my parents, find back the warmth of the family, so that my parents could enjoy the joy of family and add family symbols to their memories. Because after meeting Liu Qianqian, he got a test of feelings, and participated in his project, put some hot social issues in front of him in advance, in the preliminary preparation process of the subject, for the gap between rural society and urban society, compared and detailed consideration, put it directly into the social level, with two months to experience this prosperous world, dealing with complex social relations and interpersonal relationships, let him grow into a thinking young man, I can't help but say, Liu Qianqian is also a noble person in his life, not only increasing the social experience of working life, but also having the opportunity to face major social problems, and in the economy and ideals, he is faced with another choice. Under the conditions of such generous treatment, he was not confused, but resolutely returned to the campus, in front of the quiet desk, and devoted himself wholeheartedly to his study and life.

It is said that the children of the poor are in charge of the family early, and the strong life pressure he faces forces him to embark on the road of work-study, but he has always maintained his original intention, which is really commendable. In fact, his roots are still the Confucianism created for him by Uncle Feng, and the traditional moral concepts have subtly played a role in his mind, so his thinking is rational, and his academic qualifications are also in line with his own identity and social status.

Qingfeng has clearly made up his mind that he must study hard, get good grades, and be admitted to a good university through his own efforts in the future, and completely change his life destiny.