"Dad, I'm grown up now, so there are some things that don't need you to call the shots." This was the first thing Li Wei's father dared to tell his father when he was eighteen years old.

Because in the long years before, all the things of Li Wei's father were decided by his father, so he decided that he must think about his future affairs, and he felt that he wanted to say this to his father.

"Okay, I got it." When Li Wei's grandfather said this, his expression was very serious, and he noticed how unhappy he was afterward.

Originally, today was a very happy day, but when Li Wei's father saw his father like that, he was also very uncomfortable and anxious.

At that time, his heart was very unhappy, but he didn't know what to say, so he had to leave him silently, and returned to his room, looking at all the furnishings in his room and the things on his table, as well as the trophies he had won over the years, he not only had some feelings in his heart that he didn't know what it was.

From childhood to adulthood, although Li Wei's grandfather did not have too many requirements for other things, nor did he manage his mood in life, all the decisions of Li Wei and his father were made by Li Wei's grandfather.

Because although his grandfather didn't think anything was going on, this was a very serious matter for Li Wei's father.

So Li Wei's father has become what he is now, and it has a lot to do with his father.

Li Wei's father sat on a stool, thinking little by little about all the roads he had traveled in the past 18 years, all the decisions they had made, and his future development.

He couldn't help but feel a little confused, he didn't know how he should choose his father, and he insisted on choosing the decision he wanted to make, but he didn't fully estimate his thoughts.

"Why did he look like that? It's been a long time since I've made the decision to disobey him, why is it still the way it is. ”

Li Wei's father was puzzled, he didn't know how he should deal with the stiff relationship between him and his father, after all, we had talked to his mother about this matter before, and his mother had told him a solution to this matter.

He had thought about this matter and made some efforts, but he still did not get certain results, he always felt that the relationship between him and his father was not such a sentence or two, and it could be reconciled.

Because there are some things that his father doesn't know about him, and his father is still a very macho person, he won't listen to other people's advice, but will only understand this matter within his own understanding.

So sometimes he doesn't feel that he is wrong, he just feels that his son did not do this according to his own wishes, and he feels that his son is still young, and some things are not very thoughtful, after all, he has walked the road for so many years, and has eaten salt for so many years, and he must be a little more mature than his ideas.

In fact, he still has a bigger ambition in his heart, he feels that he can't rely on his father, he feels that he can have his own little world. But now his little world is directly strangled by his father.

He also doesn't understand why his father just doesn't agree with his own ideas, obviously his own method is so feasible, and his method he thinks is very profitable, if he can really do this thing well, his future road will definitely be better and better.

Li Wei's father also has some thoughts of his own, and he said he knows. If his father doesn't agree to this matter, he really has no way to do it, because the power of their family's property is in the hands of his father, and his mother can only help him say these things, but she can't help him make any decisions.

"Mom, I want to ask you first, can you help me?"

Because his father knows about this, not only does he have the ability to do it alone, but he also wants his mother to be his father, because his mother talks, his father listens very much, if he doesn't say it, this matter is really desperate.

"Now you can say what you have, what mom can help you will definitely help mom to know that your idea is already very good."

"I asked your father that although he was tough on some things, his main intention in his heart was also for your good, don't look at the very serious expression on her face, but he very much hopes that you can live better than now."

This is Li Wei's grandmother has always been able to see the stiff relationship between their father and son, and he has been taking action to alleviate it, but it can still achieve the desired effect, and she is also very distressed about this matter in her heart.

Because she had a friend before, it was because her husband and her son had a very bad relationship, so there was no intersection between the two of them, and it was not until the father of the child died that the child felt regretful.

So Li Wei's grandmother felt that he would not let his son regret it at that time.

After all, this matter is a lifelong thing, if you really regret it, you will be very sad, she doesn't want her son to take him and wants his son to come, his father will be able to be good when he is alive, and then the family will be harmonious, this is the best picture.

"Son, are you a mother who has nothing to do today, tell you a story?"

Because his grandmother felt that he had to talk to his own son about it, and then she was talking to her husband about it, so that the relationship between their father and son could be improved, otherwise he felt that the relationship between their father and son would not be improved after this incident.

He thinks that the main reason for family harmony is that the temper of the two people before their father and son should be appropriate, and then they should discuss everything in a good way, so that they are the best between them.

Otherwise, if you look like them now, the contradictions between them will definitely get deeper and deeper, and it will also cause their later emotions to become not particularly good.

In fact, Li Wei's father is not in a very good mood today, and she doesn't really want to hear this story, but when he knew that his mother would definitely tell him about it, he must have thought about it for a long time, otherwise he wouldn't have said these things to him.

Although the relationship between Li Wei's father and his father is not very good, in a certain respect, it is still very fragrant to his father.

His temperament is very similar to his father, he sometimes does things very decisively, and he doesn't think about other things, because he feels that it is futile to think so much, and it is better to be bold and let go of it, so as to create a better future for himself.

He always has such a thought in his heart, he feels that only by letting go and working hard can he have a better future, otherwise when will he be able to create more wealth and happiness after a lifetime of cringe.

Because in Li Wei's father's heart, she feels that only when she is rich can she have her own happiness, and she feels that the things she likes now are very expensive, so he must make a lot of money to satisfy the things he likes. Only in this way will he be able to get more happiness.

For example, there are many boys who think that girls are very material now, but in fact, in the heart of Li Fei's father, he doesn't think so, he thinks that girls are very material.

If women are not materialistic, how can men choose to earn money, it is because of their material psychology that these men have some ideas of making money. There will be more and richer people popping up.

So in Li Wei's father's psychology, he would feel that if it weren't for these material women, there would not be so many men who work hard to make money, so he feels that he should be more grateful to these material women, so that he and those other boys feel that it is the most important thing to become more excellent.

Although Li Wei's grandfather never said this, he thought the same as his son in his heart, which is why he became so motivated and hardworking.

Although his wife usually doesn't ask for anything, he just feels that he must not let his wife suffer, otherwise his wife's hard work will really be wasted.

He felt that it was because his wife didn't want anything that he felt more and more pressured in his heart, after all, his wife was so good and beautiful, if he didn't work hard to earn more money to protect her and give her a good life, she was likely to run away with other people one day.

Although he knows that his wife is not that kind of person, but in all things, one of the things he is most afraid of is comparison, he is afraid that his wife will be said by his friends about such things, talk too much, and then have the psychology of comparison, so that his wife will have such ambitions. will abandon himself.

You will let such thoughts be stifled in the cradle, and he will strive to give his wife a beautiful myth. So that his wife will feel happy, so that their whole family will feel happy.

It is because of this that Li Wei's grandfather feels that it is because of his own self-motivated psychology that he should let his children have such a motivated mentality. In this way, he will be able to have better development and find a better life, so that he can work harder.

"Mom, if you have anything to say, you can just say it, I will listen to it by the side, there are some things I know you are for my good."

Because his father knew that even if he didn't let his mother say this, his mother would say such things again at the right time, after all, his mother had always been for his own good, and she would definitely not hurt him.

Li Wei's father is very confused now, and he doesn't know what to do about this matter, so he thinks that his mother must have been thinking about it for a long time if she can say these things by herself, and thinks that this matter is helpful to him, so he wants to listen to it.

"It may be a bit long, but I hope you can listen to it and understand what I mean by telling you this story."

"Mom also knows that you have reached the age of an adult now, so sometimes you don't want to say anything deeply, and Mom really hasn't studied much, so Mom can only let her actual experience tell you something, and I hope you can listen to it."

Li Wei's grandmother had a very good friend named Xiao Wang, and Xiao Wang had a very happy family.

Her husband is very good to her, and her parents-in-law get along very well with her parents, they are very good to her, so she has always lived in joy and happiness.

Li Wei's grandmother and Xiao Wang met when he was in his first job, and the two of them had similar personalities at that time, so they never broke off contact, and sometimes Xiao Wang would go to Li Wei's grandmother's house to talk to her about her own things.