2. Online chat teenagers

Qingfeng came out of Xiaoqiang's house and returned to the university dormitory.

In the dormitory, Liu Chenyang, Zhang Xiaoguang and Lu Mingxiang, all three of them were there, and when they saw Qingfeng coming in, Zhang Xiaoguang said, "Li Yufeng, my neighbor, isn't it a little difficult to deal with?" Xiaoqiang's child turned out to be very good, and his academic performance was also among the best in school, but because of the chaos on the Internet, this child fell into a preliminary understanding of the situation, what do you think? Can you save this child? ”

Qingfeng, "I talked to his parents and got to know him a little bit about this child, and then I talked to him for a long time, and the general situation was clear. Now such children, there are some people in the school, are caused by the chaos on the Internet, we may encounter a lot of similar problems in the future, we should discuss and discuss, for this kind of children, how should we start? What kind of measures are being taken? Let them indulge in the heart of the Internet and change their minds. ”

Liu Chenyang, "There are not a few such children, and I think they should be divided into three categories." The first category is Internet addiction, these children are generally playing games, indulging in the virtual space of fighting and killing, in reality, they get too much love, there is no place to vent, active psychology, so that they love the blood of the regional space more, so these children are a little difficult, now many institutions, have tried various methods to let them quit Internet addiction, some children really quit, and some children repeatedly, because their environment has not changed, their active heart has not changed, In fact, this is a psychological problem, a habit problem, which should be solved by a psychiatrist, and what we have to do is to cooperate and consolidate their withdrawal results. ”

Lu Mingxiang, "Now we are encountering, this situation is basically none, because these children have been addicted to the Internet for a long time, their academic performance is not very good, and their learning foundation is also very poor." The children who come to us for tutoring now are all children who are particularly good at learning, but the learning method is not right, or there is a phenomenon of bias, and it is easy to tutor, so we have not yet met the kind of children who are addicted to the Internet as you said. What we encounter the most, is curiosity drives them to try the Internet, they are in adolescence, boys and girls are in love, those flowery worlds on the Internet, let them have a strong interest, for a while can not control themselves, enter the cyberspace, explore the emotional world, find these things, are not allowed to see things in school and at home, their curiosity is lured out, they want to try all kinds of software, see more novelties, in the process, their minds are polluted, The visual impact fully satisfies their curiosity. After we intervened, their focus shifted back to learning, their curiosity also returned to the exploration of difficult problems, the thirst for knowledge, and opened up a new world, because we gave them good methods, they grew up very quickly, and those curiosity, with the end of adolescence, also lost interest and focused on learning. ”

Zhang Xiaoguang, "Lao Lu is right, my neighbor Xiaoqiang belongs to this category, he is more serious than others is that he has spread this curiosity, so he made such a big mistake, and caught up with the net action, the school and the family pay special attention to it, he has become a negative model, in fact, it is a child's curiosity, if we want to look at it with a normal heart, guide him back, he will still be a good boy, in his circle, guide him back, the original people who were affected by him, will also be affected by him to get better, This requires us to do a lot of work, including school work, parents' work, to give him a good atmosphere, so that he can get rid of those messy networks as soon as possible, and transfer his curiosity to curiosity about knowledge as soon as possible. ”

Qingfeng, "Since you didn't think about everything about him so clearly, why didn't you try it yourself?" Do you have to let me go on a trip, is it because the monks who came from afar can recite sutras? Xiaoqiang's situation, I know a little bit, you know him best, your two are neighbors, your parents and Xiaoqiang's parents are a unit, it can be said that the two of you have played since childhood, or you watched him grow up, you go to help him solve the problem, isn't it more targeted, more able to prescribe the right medicine? ”

Zhang Xiaoguang, "This matter really makes you right, the child is in a period of confusion, and he has encountered such a big problem, he is reluctant to say it to acquaintances, just like he says everything to the object of online chat, the more so, the stronger his self-esteem, he is unwilling to talk to his parents, teachers, friends, and all familiar people, because it will hurt his self-esteem." On the contrary, it is a person who does not know in the virtual space, and he can open his heart, express his curiosity, and find answers. Now that he is facing a problem, he is still the kind of habitual thinking, trying to find people who don't understand him and his environment, that is, strangers, open their hearts and have no scruples, this is the real reason why I asked you to go. ”

Liu Chenyang, "Lao Zhang is right, Lao Li, Lao Zhang also said a key for us to solve this problem, just because we are all outsiders, from thousands of rivers and mountains, and they are not familiar with them at all, we can be friends in the virtual space, help them solve problems, guide them to focus on learning, there will be a particularly unexpected effect, we can use it as a rule, that is, for these Internet teenagers, do not let familiar faces appear, the more unfamiliar faces, the easier it is to solve their problems, By removing their ideological defenses, we can guide them back in a targeted manner. ”

Lu Mingxiang, "Lao Liu, you just said two categories, and there is another category, why can't I think of it?" ”

Liu Chenyang, "The third type of problem is more difficult to handle, that is, it is injured in real life, either a child from a single-parent family, or a child whose parents have been noisy at home for a long time and have been hurt. There are also others, that is, in real life, they are obedient men and women on the surface, but in fact they are timid and afraid, cowardly and not strong enough, often very inferior children, they are looking for themselves in cyberspace, where they can be a strong person, in that virtual space, they can release to their heart's content, perform as much as they want, can shape themselves into a strong person, realize their dreams that they can't get in real life, and achieve the purpose of comforting the soul. For this kind of children, they need long-term counseling, so that they can build self-confidence, remove inferiority complex, and let them become real powerhouses, the most able to build their confidence is to let them achieve good academic results in a short time, so that the society, the school, and the family all look at them differently, they will not be immersed in that virtual space, and there will be no desire to perform. ”

Qingfeng, "I see that Liu Chenyang has analyzed this matter very thoroughly, they are all children around us, they can be seen and touched, we have the responsibility to let them get rid of the virtual space, return to real life as soon as possible, let them live well, study hard, and become a generation of promising young people." Lao Liu, let's sort out what we are discussing today, make a plan, and open a special class for Internet teenagers, we don't talk about saving them, but follow their ideas, in cyberspace, let them learn to turn back, which may be more conducive to their mental health, and unconsciously guide them back to the right track, and we do these things, don't do publicity, don't let the media intervene, protect their self-esteem, I think the vast majority of children, soon be able to extricate themselves, Soon we will be able to return to real life, and for individual addicts to the Internet, we will conduct 1-to-1 counseling according to each person's situation, and the effect will be more obvious. ”

Zhang Xiaoguang, "We can cooperate with the school in this matter, cooperate with them, first try it in a school, and after the successful experience, we can specialize in this kind of cram school, if this thing is done, how many peers can be saved?" Maybe in two years, we will have a younger brother and sister in the school that we saved, and then let him join us, and they will take care of others more attentively, because they have the same experience and empathize. Two days ago, my homeroom teacher heard that we were running a cram school, and he contacted me and said that there was a project in the education system, which happened to be placed in their school, and I would contact him in a while to see if we could work together on this project. ”

Qingfeng, "This is a great thing, several students in our class want to do cram school with us, I am still hesitating, if there is this topic, we can absorb them, our cram school team can grow, and at the same time, we can also recruit some people in the school, conduct interviews well, and pick a few people with this kind of talent, doesn't Liu Juanjuan have classmates in Normal University?" If we can contact the students of the Normal University, they have studied educational psychology, have studied psychology of all ages, plus the teachers of the school, we will definitely do a good job in this topic, Lao Liu Lao Zhang, the two of you make a complete plan, we will talk to the school, and then there is the new people we recruit who also need training, and our career will be done. ”

Liu Chenyang, "I've been paying attention to this matter for a long time, Lao Zhang, the two of us have also discussed it very deeply, you and Lao Lu will make personnel reserves, go and talk to them about the cooperation of the school, make preparations as soon as possible, and strive for the winter vacation We will start classes." Lao Zhang and I prepared copywriting, wrote teaching materials, wrote outlines, and when the time came, we trained the new and old people together, and then did two more seminars, and really made the project mature, which is the largest market in our area. ”

Qingfeng, "We are just a few people, self-made, with two months to earn the first pot of gold, but also let the children we counsel by leaps and bounds, the original direction can not be given up, mainly let the mother take over to do, select some freshmen who have just taken the college entrance examination, or such a 1-to-1 counseling, so that more children can achieve good results, cultivate top-notch talents, make more parents happy, and let more schools transmit word of mouth for us." Although this market is large, but the competition is also fierce, all kinds of educational institutions are staring at this piece of fat, we can not occupy a large share, how much can be done is how much, know that our cram school, will also let us gain fame and fortune, this piece can only be strengthened, can not be weakened, our resources are very rich, every year the college entrance examination high scores of new students are concentrated in our schools, even if we mobilize a few percent of the students, it will be a large force, and the cost is low and effective, is our brand, It is also our biggest achievement in the future. ”

Qingfeng paused and then said, "The Internet juvenile class is set up according to the needs of the times, in response to the problem, this area has a large market, many tutoring institutions dare not touch this piece, we just take advantage of the void, a lot of energy in this aspect, those Internet addiction is relatively light, the time is relatively short, the effect is relatively fast, this part of the children, together, as soon as possible, so that they can achieve good results in the near future, open up our market." According to the three types of students that Liu Chenyang just mentioned, we will establish three classes, write different teaching materials in different directions, and gradually let them return to normal life and study, so as to reassure both schools and parents, and also turn this kind of class into our characteristic class and occupy the education tutoring market in Beijing. In addition, Lao Liu wants to do more work in the student union, Zhang Xiaoguang, you are mainly responsible, leave more time for the old man, so that he has the energy to do a good job in the work of the student union, we can't let our college life be bleak because of work-study, we try to participate in the school things, other work is mainly to see our energy and time, appropriate arrangements, to focus on the experience of each of us, on learning, not only we have to do a good job, but also to create brilliance in learning, Only by continuing our honor and status in secondary school will we be more convincing, our students will trust us more, those parents will feel comfortable entrusting their children to us, and the society and the school will support us. If our own academic performance is not good, we have no reason to tutor children, especially the senior students, who are not a few years older than us, we need to teach by example more than words, manage ourselves, set a good example for them, let them have goals, let us become the most living goals around them, we can speak only with power, and the results of our education can be more brilliant. ”