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At this juncture, it is indeed irrational to have a stalemate with him, the real ruler of Beishan County.
Then find a temporary balance and bring out a few children from the Chen family first.
The matter of his big house's property, hehe, before Beishan County was not solved, his big house and any family property were all jokes! Including what I have now, it's all a joke.
Only when the world is settled and King Yan ascends the throne may reward Chen Mingyi with some family wealth.
But at that time, he definitely returned to Yanjing's parents, and he would definitely buy a shop and courtyard house in Yanjing as early as possible.
When the time comes, there is no need to face Chen Mingyi directly, and let his parents kill him, this is a strange practice.
Zhang family, do you still need Chen Mingyi's family property?
His Zhang family has already arrived in Yanjing, and at this time, he has already bought a yard and a field shop to accompany him, not to mention, when King Yan rewards meritorious ministers, can he still have his own Zhang family?
Why is there still a lack of your Chen Mingyi's family property for the rest of his life?
Whether you want to make a name for yourself, or if you want to pull and pull with me, it's all your wishful thinking.
No matter how good I felt to you before, I would never be ambiguous about such a principled matter.
Zhang Yurong said it to this point, and Chen Mingyi also knew that he couldn't chase it anymore.
Okay, just follow what Yurong said, and go back to Yanjing to talk to the second elder of the Zhang family.
The second elder, who believes that the Zhang family protects his shortcomings, can't wait to pick his own skin and vent his anger to the girl of the Zhang family.
I hope that the second elder of the Zhang family can kill himself.
Immediately, Zhang Yurong took the nurse, Zhao Chong, Chen Shimei, and Chen Shimin, and several people drove the carriage together, took the things that should be brought, and walked away cleanly at one time.
Chen Mingyi naturally arranged for the secret guard to accompany him for protection, and Zhang Yurong knew through Zhao Chong that someone was following him to protect him, and he also pretended not to know and left.
From the moment she walked out of the Chen family with the book of closure, Zhang Yurong made a decision, and from then on she was a passerby with the Chen family.
She doesn't hate Chen Mingdong, and she doesn't think he's a bad man.
It is actually very good for an ancient man to be able to do something like Chen Mingdong, objectively speaking, it is not his responsibility that this marriage has come to an end, but he is also responsible.
In this marriage, he actually worked hard for ten years.
In the end, he embraced other women, which can only mean two things, one is that as long as the hoe is waved well, there is no marriage that cannot be dissolved.
The second is that I have never been seriously wary of this aspect, and I have never held an indifferent attitude of disagreement.
And this kind of attitude, a man can actually feel, he doesn't get sincere love from himself, he naturally cares about the love he gets from other women.
Along the way, Zhang Yurong talked lightly with a few children about the courses that would be arranged for them, diluting the reluctance and discomfort in the children's hearts.
On the one hand, he also carefully summarized the various factors that led to the failure of his marriage in ancient times.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not any problem at all, and in ancient times, it was a blessing to meet a mother-in-law like Mrs. Chen.
In fact, the relationship between concubines and concubines has not become a factor in destroying marriages, because Chen Mingdong himself has later determined Cao Weijun's hostile position.
There is no problem with the education of family children, and in this regard, it can be regarded as the same direction.
After digging deeper, after all, there is still a lack of love for each other, but there is a lack of attitude of resignation.
He is a cold person, so ordinary men are destined to be unbearable.
Thinking about it this way, Zhang Yurong felt that Chen Mingdong gave up on himself and was the right choice for him.
So in ancient times, I restored my single self, don't go out to Huo Huo other men, men's hearts are also fragile!
Chen Mingyi doesn't know whether he is alive or dead, and he still wants to bump into it?
With the experience of his brother, he still doesn't know whether he is alive or dead?
What does it mean to say to yourself today that you have withdrawn from the back house? What does it mean to give yourself all the money for the rest of your life?
Aren't you afraid that I really have the heart to go to Huo Huo's Chen family and go directly to Huo Huo to the third generation?
Forget it, when she thought that the three boys of the second generation of the Chen family all came out of her belly, Zhang Yurong couldn't really Huo Huo her son.
Forget it, I'm not the kind of boring person, I have so much time, it's better to teach my children at home, accompany my parents, and then entertain myself, how to pass the time, it's much better than wasting on boring things.
Sometimes she can't understand why she has to entangle and waste time when enemies can stay away from each other and don't interfere with each other?
I'm afraid there can only be one explanation, at least one of them, and fierce love, or hate!
"Shimei, Shimin, Shihao, Shirui, all four of you listen, I have always wanted to educate you about frustration.
When children are growing up, if it is too smooth sailing, they will become adults in the future, and once they encounter setbacks, it is easy to fall into self-doubt.
Doubting that you are not good enough, suspecting that you have done something wrong, doubting that you didn't think so much, etc., once you amplify such emotions, it is difficult for the whole person to cheer up.
For today, the mother's marriage has officially broken down, and if she is an ordinary person, she may cry and grab the earth, or she may complain, and she may be full of hatred.
And how many of you see that look on my face? ”
After Zhang Yurong told a few people about the next lesson, she felt the children's uneasiness after a while.
I simply spoke again and seriously faced today's incident.
The emotions of adults, the attitudes of adults, can have a great impact on children, and may even be so great that they cannot feel safe.
This is what I don't want to see.
"Mother, are you sad?"
Shimei was the first to speak gently, and when she spoke, she took the initiative to hold her mother's hand very hard.
"People's negative emotions, whether they are sad, angry, or frightened, should not last long, otherwise they will be harmful to the actual life that we will face next.
My mother was in a daze for a while, but she was actually summarizing herself, what responsibilities do you have in this marriage!
It's not that I don't have responsibility, marriage is two-sided, even two-family, once it breaks down, you can't just blame each other, you should also find responsibility from yourself.
Maybe this will not help this marriage, but it will be beneficial to your future life.
Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is limited to failure, what is terrible is not daring to face failure, and even dare not plan for the future.
There is only one time in a person's life!
No matter what failure, any blow, any setback, it should not become a stumbling block to the pursuit of a wonderful life.
Try your best to let yourself live up to this life!
Maybe this may be a little selfish, because it seems that the mother cherishes herself the most, not her husband.
It seems to be contrary to women's morality, after all, women's morality says that women should marry and obey their husbands.
However, rules and customs can't restrain people's hearts after all.
In everyone's heart, there is the freedom they yearn for!
Therefore, the mother will admit that she did not manage her marriage well, but she will not avoid failure, but will cherish the rest of her life and try to make her life more enjoyable and live up to this life. ”
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