Chapter 386: Refusal
When Xiaowen's mother saw Xiaowen so nervous, she knew that she absolutely couldn't add pressure to her child, and if she added another pressure, his child would definitely not be able to bear it.
"Mom, I know everything about you, in short, it's for my good, and I know what you're thinking, but I really want to. Go out and venture out, so that I can increase my knowledge and experience. ”
Xiaowen's mother hadn't thought about this before, but she felt that her daughter was still not so good, and she didn't see that her family didn't have so much money, so he still felt that he didn't want his daughter to go out.
"Mom, I've made up my mind now, whether you don't agree to this matter, I'll go with them after a while, so you can just agree now."
Xiaowen's mother never thought that her daughter would talk to her like this, because Xiaowen was definitely not such a person before.
He not only felt even more angry with that girl in his heart, because I was a wild girl like Xiaowen when he met Xiaojing, how could his daughter become like that?
The reason why his own daughter is so wild now is all because of that woman's relationship, and he decided to find that Xiao Jing to theorize about it.
Because Xiao Jing's parents are very cheerful people, Xiao Jing went home and talked to his parents about this topic.
After saying that, his father and mother did not refuse the request, but they felt that as long as their daughter was happy, it would be fine.
"Mom, do you really think that, if you really think that, I am really happy and excited, I thought you would refuse me this thing."
When Xiao Jing listened to her mother say those words, she was having fun in her heart, and she was very happy that her mother was a really good person.
His eyes were filled with tears at the time, because he really didn't expect his mother to think like this.
"Mom, if my dad knew about this, would he say anything about me, I don't think my dad would necessarily agree to this."
In fact, Xiao Jing felt that this matter was still very acceptable to his mother, and the only thing in their family that was most unacceptable was his father.
Xiao Jing's father is a very old-fashioned person, he thinks that a girl's life should be at a certain age, find someone to marry, and then teach each other husband and children, so that a woman's perfect life is possible.
If, as her daughter said, you should go out and break in, he thought it was incredible.
He felt that it was too dangerous for a girl to have such an idea in her heart.
When Xiao Jing thought of this, he was very unhappy in his heart, because he felt that his father was the most difficult person in the world, and if he couldn't even make his own poop, then he really couldn't go out.
"It's okay, Xiaojing. You have to believe in your mother, don't you still believe in your mother? The things that Mom promised you will definitely help you. ”
"Mom knows what your dad is thinking in his heart, but in fact, his heart is also for your good, but the way he expresses it is different."
Xiao Jing explained, "I also know that my dad is for my good, but now that I'm grown up, my dad really can't control me like this anymore, if he really pays attention to me like this, I really won't come back for the rest of my life." ”
Xiao Jing's family is really only Xiao Jing, a girl, so his family is still very worried about him, and he will always stare at her scars in everything so that he will not encounter a little danger.
When she heard this, her mother actually made a guarantee like herself, and he felt that his mother would definitely succeed.
"Xiaojing, now leave it to your mother, your mother will definitely solve this matter for you, if it really doesn't work, you can only do it yourself, I think as long as you talk to your father well, this matter will definitely succeed."
Xiaojing's mother knew that she said that this thing should be successful, but she felt that the chances of success in this matter might be a little small.
After all, her husband had told her about it, and she really didn't want her child to go out and sleep in the open, so it would be a painful thing to treat it like this.
In fact, Xiaojing's father and mother only got this child very late, so they have always treated this child very dotingly.
But for Xiaojing's mother, she feels that as long as it is what her daughter wants, she will definitely be satisfied.
Just when Xiao Jing and his mother were ready, they received the news that his father would not come back tonight, and Xiao Jing's heart was very lost.
Because he didn't expect his father to come back tonight, usually his father would get off work early.
Xiao Jing's mother looked at her child's sad face, and he was also a little unhappy in his heart. After all, this matter is still a bit serious, and if his father doesn't come back tonight, this matter will be difficult to solve.
"It's okay child, I'll tell your dad about this, you don't have to take it to heart anymore, the final exam is coming soon, you must prepare well, so that your dad can agree to this matter."
Xiao Jing's mother knows how much Xiao Jing's father attaches importance to Xiao Jing's studies, in fact, if it weren't for the fact that their family is a little too poor, how could Xiao Jing not go to college?
Xiao Jing's mother is also thinking about this matter, and she thinks that she should think about how to deal with her husband and talk about this matter.
"It's okay, Mom, I know how I can fix this, you don't have to worry too much about me."
When Xiao Jing said this, there was no divorce, what was his mother saying, he turned around and went back to his room, he knew that he was going to go back and think about this matter.
After so many days, it seemed as if his efforts were about to go to waste, and he felt that he must not allow himself to fail in what he had done.
He felt that he was already a seventeen or eighteen-year-old girl, and he was already an adult, so there were some things he had to decide by himself.
"What the hell am I supposed to do to get my mom and dad to agree that I'm going out with my friends?"
Xiao Jing not only felt some contemplation for this question, he didn't feel that this matter was so difficult to decide when he was imaging this matter before.
Because she feels that after all, she is so old, her parents should not be so in charge of herself, not to mention that she is still so young, she must not be in a hurry to get married.
But what he never expected was that his family had already prepared for getting married, although there were no people to marry, but they had already prepared early.
In fact, it was not only Xiao Jing who encountered ups and downs, but when those friends came home and talked to their parents about this issue, their parents completely disagreed.
"No, I don't agree with you going out, you have to go home after graduating from high school, stay at home and find you a few suitable young men on our side, you can take a look at it when the time comes, choose it, so that you can find it and marry out."
When this parent spoke, not only did he look at his daughter's eyes viciously, because he felt that his daughter was her saying that she was not sensible, and the family was already poor, and they still wanted to go out, which was really unknowing.
"Don't you remember what Mom said to you before, you just want to do this kind of disobedient thing, it's really that the child is older, I can't control it anymore."
When the other parent said these words, he was sad in his heart, because they felt that they had already made it clear to their daughter before, and they didn't know how he could have such thoughts in his heart, it was simply too undeserved.
Xiao Jing's friends all listened to these words, but they didn't know how to refute them, after all, his mother had been educated like this since she was a child, so they were used to such words, and they didn't think it was strange.
In fact, they didn't think about it, if it wasn't for Xiao Jing putting forward his idea, maybe they really wanted to live in this small village.
In fact, there is a reason why these parents do not let their children go out.
It's because they think that the people in their village are still relatively simple, and if they go to the big city, the people in those places are not as friendly as they are in their village.
If these girls are deceived, how should they find them?
"In fact, it is not bad if the children go out, it will also give them a long understanding and give them a better future."
It was one of the fathers who said it, because he really felt that the current society really needed more youth, strength and more fresh knowledge, and the blood could change the status quo of the village.
"But have you thought about it, it's not that our village hasn't been to the city before, what kind of faces do they have, have you forgotten? I really don't want the kids to go out and talk about that kind of suffering. ”
When the woman said these words, the man did not speak in time, but fell into reflection, and he knew what had become of those people after they came to our village, but he still felt unbearable in his heart.
Because he felt that these children should not simply stay in the village and enjoy a lazy life like them. After all, they are still so young, and they should have the days of enjoying life and enjoying such struggles, so that they will not become a person without ideals and dreams.
In fact, for them now, he felt that he should have gone out to have a good time, otherwise he would not have become what he is now, so he felt that he should tell them about it, after all, he is still an ordinary person now.
"Actually, I've not thought about what you're talking about, but do you think they can live in this village for the rest of their lives? And now that the economy is developing so rapidly, it is not a way to let them stay like this forever. ”
"They can live in this village now, but they will have children in the future, and if their children go out, what will they say?"
"I don't think it would be if we let them out now. It's not beneficial, but it also allows them to learn more about the outside world, and I think it's good. ”
In fact, what this father said is still very reasonable, but they still think that if these little girls go out together, it will be very difficult for people to let go of the new.
But for their children, this father still thinks that he should let them go out and let these girls go out, so that they will know that the outside world is not only dangerous, but also beautiful, and will make them feel that the development of the village is also relatively backward.
If they really have the heart, they can also bring some new technology back to make their village better and better.