49, goodbye Li Yimeng (2)

The caller was Yu Fangfang.

Yu Fangfang called out affectionately, "Brother, are you on the way to Li Yimeng?" I'm also on the way, today this third ring road is really impossible to go, the congestion is too bad, it is estimated that when you get there, how can it be seven or eight o'clock, are you also blocked on the road now? ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng said into the phone, "Yu Fangfang, why did Li Yimeng also make an appointment with you?" We are also blocked on the road, now we are still in the North Third Ring Road, the car is motionless, to her will not be much earlier than you, let's meet in a while, don't worry, it's useless to be anxious, this is the case on the road in the evening rush hour, wait patiently. ”

Yu Fangfang on the other end of the phone said, "Brother, I'm not in a hurry, I just haven't seen you for a long time, speaking from the heart, I do miss you a little, today Han Wei also passed, it is my cousin, he especially wants to see you, he has been terrible recently, what award did he win for a college student at Tsinghua University?" I heard that it's still international, so I guess you want to show off. ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng said to Fang Fang, "Han Wei also came over, I know the award he won, he is a mathematician, an award that is very influential in the world, no one has solved the problem for a long time, he can achieve such results, it really makes me happy, I want to meet your aunt Professor Yu, and I also want Jiang Wan to meet your aunt, she is now working as a tutor for three children, I want your aunt to inspire her, for tutoring students in the college entrance examination, that is what really works." Now the two of us will go to Li Yimeng's place together, and we will be able to meet in a while. ”

Yu Fangfang said, "If you want to see my aunt, you have to hurry up, I recently heard that he is going to go abroad to teach, if it's late, you won't be able to find him if he is not in the country, Jiang Wan is next to you, you two must be coquettish, I won't bother you, hang up the phone." ”

A blind tone came from the phone, and the other party hung up the phone first.

I said to Senior Brother Qingfeng, "What's the situation with this Yu Fangfang?" Why did I hang up the phone as soon as I mentioned it, who is his aunt? Why? Are you going to take me to her? ”

Brother Qingfeng said to me, "Her aunt is Professor Yu of Beijing Normal University, when I used to tutor several students, I often listened to Professor Yu's teachings, under her inspiration, the counseling of college entrance examination students can play a role, because she specializes in the college entrance examination, the trend of the college entrance examination, the situation of students, and the direction of the questions have a very deep research, after listening to her class, you give students to tutor, it is a different scene, not only as a tutor, we all benefit, but also in accordance with her method to tutor students, The students we tutor benefit even more. ”

It turns out that this is the case, no matter what I do, in Senior Brother Qingfeng's heart, he wants to do his best to help me, I said with deep feelings, "Senior Brother, you are too good to me." No matter when, no matter what, you think about me, as a tutor, in fact, I just want to experience your mental journey, want to understand you more from one side, want to understand you deeply, I now know how great the sense of responsibility is to be a tutor, I don't understand you anymore, I put my heart and soul on these students, I am very happy with every bit of their progress, and the final exam is coming soon, and it is also a test to test my tutoring results, I wish they did well. ”

As I spoke, I leaned my head on him, and Senior Brother Qingfeng said affectionately, "Bang Bang, I know that you are a strong girl, you want to do it well, you want to do it perfectly, if you want to do a good job as a tutor, you have to pay more than others, your current three students are the first time in your life to tutor others, the joy of being a teacher, that is responsible for people and things, all let you devote yourself wholeheartedly, with your redoubled efforts to learn what you have learned all your life, I can't wait to give them one day, I understand this feeling, and I think it was the same when I first started tutoring three students. But you have to understand a truth, 10 years of planting trees, 100 years of tree people, education is a subtle process, although now I feel very accomplished, is the result of your efforts, but to let students really get knowledge, real progress, that still needs little by little to come, can not be in a hurry, the counseling of students to tutor more basic, the cultivation of terminal illness to cultivate more students' comprehensive quality and comprehensive ability, or that sentence, teaching people to fish is better than teaching people to fish, this is the truth. ”

I also said to Brother Qingfeng affectionately, "Senior brother, I first started to be a tutor, mainly to experience your mental journey, to walk the road you have walked, so that I can understand you more deeply, and can slowly enter your heart, but after becoming a tutor, I abandoned this idea, but really wanted to tutor these students, students are becoming more and more important in my heart, their every move even if there is a little progress, I will be happy for them, people are like this, As long as you invest in the feelings, then this feeling plays a subtle role, when the tutor does give me a deeper life experience, the road of life is richer, because your life has students to join, it seems to increase the strength, the original life of one person suddenly has become a life with three other people intersecting, it is really an inexplicable pleasure, now I have invested in the relationship with them, that kind of teacher-student sisterhood, really let me feel the warmth of the world. ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng looked at me, and then said to me with a full heart, "This is the difference between people and anything else, where there are people, there will be feelings, what you do is emotionally invested is one-way, and emotionally invested in people is two-way communication, that feeling is irreplaceable by anything, investing in students will definitely make you feel your sense of existence, your sense of achievement, your three students are excellent, your own investment in them is also true temperament, as time goes by, their progress will be greater and greater." , Their growth will become more and more obvious, there is your hard work here, there is your life, and your life, we dedicate our lives to others, what a noble sentiment. ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng regards the profession of tutor as so sacred, and the contribution of people to people from his mouth is so wonderful, so enviable, if there is no personal experience, it is impossible to say such vivid words, to express such vivid feelings, empathy, this is the most accurate word, a life that once started from a tutor, so that my life and Senior Brother Qingfeng finally have similarities, there are overlapping places, intersecting places, and the exchange of our feelings is more in-depth. This is thanks to Jiang Feifei's reminder to me, if it weren't for his words that woke me up, I wouldn't have remembered to be a tutor, and I couldn't remember to experience it, the life path that Senior Brother Qingfeng had walked would not have entered his heart, and it would not have allowed our feelings to merge together.

The two of us have a common language, a common feeling, a common life in the matter of being a tutor, if you love someone only from the surface to understand him, not from the heart to understand him, from his life path to understand him, how superficial it is, now the two of us can speak with the same voice, the same mood is the same emotional investment, what a wonderful life.

Brother Qingfeng's experience is rich, I can't put myself in his shoes, and I can't go through it all over again according to the trajectory of his life, but I can find the entry point of the tutor to understand him, and it is still possible to go deep into his heart, and the feelings of the two people have an intersection, not only the love of classmates, lovers, but also a feeling of colleague love, which makes me feel extremely happy, love a person should invest all the feelings, love a person should do your best to understand him, To love someone is to let your life overlap with him, and to complete this wonderful life experience in mutual understanding and mutual help.

First love, I am ignorant of love, but in the sweetness of this first love, the understanding of love is deeper, the understanding of the lover is deeper, under the nourishment of love, there is a deeper understanding of people, there is a deeper understanding of this matter, a deeper understanding of emotions, after the nourishment of first love, love begins to understand.

Love is by no means a simple collision of hearts between people, but in the process of realizing the ideal of life, the union of two souls, without a common cause, there is no unforgettable love, there is no basis for the outlook on life and the world, and there will be no long-term love, no matter how many opportunities people have, how many lucky people, the basis of love is a common ideal, a common pursuit, a common world view, Dong Jianjun and Fang Lingzi have love, not to mention the pursuit and persistence of love, but also show loyalty to love, The reason why they caused a tragedy in their lives is that there is a fundamental difference in their outlook on life and worldview.

To stick to a love, the most basic is to have a sense of the world, the cultivation of the worldview, the consistency of the outlook on life, the same generation of young scientists who grew up in the reform and opening up, the same in the field of scientific research, has made brilliant achievements, the pursuit of the small self at the same time to achieve the love of the big country to keep the youth, everything from personal interests, to achieve generous treatment, the achievements of science and technology, enjoy only the selfish side, and Fang Lingzi's contact process, is a shock to my soul, but also let me reconsider the basis of love.

Now I am more calm in the face of Senior Brother Qingfeng, our life paths have crossed together, you have me, I have you, under the guidance of common pursuit, common career, and common ideals, love seems so sweet, how many people can understand this matter thoroughly, figure it out, first love can be ignorant, but after falling in love, it should be sober, for love, for love, two people must have common ideals and common cause, so that love can be stable and far-reaching, and can develop in the process of love, It is not only the development of oneself, but also the development of each other, but also the common development.

Brother Qingfeng looked at me in thought, a pair of affectionate eyes stared at me, my heart was pounding, after this time, the progress of love between us, let me better understand this only others, no own people, with great love to take care of everyone around him, with a broad mind to contain everything around, into his great love, you will feel happy, but also feel that the road of life is so broad.

Thinking of all this, my excited heart made me unable to extricate myself, stretched out my arms, wrapped around his neck, and used my affectionate kiss to stick tightly to his resolute face, which was affectionate, love, and mutual admiration.

Apparently his passion was ignited by me, and the big hands around my waist became more powerful, and at the same time conveyed a stream of heat that flowed into my body, and we hugged each other tightly.

There are no words needed at this moment, and all languages are pale in the face of tenacious love.

After a long time like this, I murmured to Senior Brother Qingfeng, "Senior Brother, I feel so happy. ”

The traffic flow of the evening rush hour is like a snail, moving forward little by little, the sunset is like snow, shining on the land of Jincheng, the surrounding cars, and the people around quietly show helplessness in this congestion.

Once the phone ringtone broke the boundary, the call was from Li Yimeng.

Li Yimeng's eager voice came from the other end of the phone, "Brother, where have you been?" It's been more than an hour, and you're supposed to be there. ”

Brother Qingfeng said to the phone, "Today's evening rush hour is really congested, more than an hour we estimate that we will walk 10 kilometers, now just from the North Third Ring Road into the East Third Ring Road, at present, the Sanyuanqiao District may be the most congested, the car is almost crawling, it is estimated that it is less than 10 kilometers away from your place, and it will take more than an hour to see the situation." ”

Li Yimeng complained, "This damn evening rush hour, I can only wait for you quietly here, I wanted you to come early, this time we went to the west to shoot a lot of feelings, I want to talk to you, who knows let this evening rush hour be ruined, it's really a little helpless, I don't know when Yu Fangfang can arrive, the two people I made the appointment can't arrive on time, I'm really a little lonely here alone, I haven't returned to Beijing for so long, and it's really a little difficult to adapt to the traffic jam here." ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng smiled and said, "Don't be in such a hurry, such a big person, why are you in such a hurry?" The problem of frizziness can never be changed, and I can't bear the loneliness for so long, isn't it even more uncomfortable in the west? This is your state of mind, just wait there, we estimate that we will come to you at 7:00. ”

Li Yimeng also smiled on the phone, "This place is given by the crew, it should be good to live in the west, I didn't think about it so well at the time, with their arrangement, when I come back next time, I must put my residence in the western half, and the distance will not be affected by the evening rush hour." ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng said to Li Yimeng, "Since this is already the case, don't worry, wait a while and we will arrive, and then whatever time you want to say is yours, we will all be listeners, okay?" ”

Li Yimeng giggled, "I heard that you went back to your hometown on New Year's Day, my dad said that he met you, who did you see in your hometown?" ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng said, "I mainly went to see Uncle Feng this time, and Uncle Feng haven't been together for the New Year for several years, this time I made a special trip to see him, I didn't want to meet others, I made a special trip to see Uncle Li and Teacher Zhang, and then Uncle Feng felt that it was not easy to come back, so he got some acquaintances together for a meal, there were Qi Liangliang's parents, and Yu Fangfang's parents, as well as a few teachers in high school, everyone saw each other, talked very happily, so long without meeting, endless words to talk about, It's quite hilarious. ”

Li Yimeng said, "Let's talk about it when we meet, don't delay the golden time of the two of you." Then he laughed again and hung up.

I said to Senior Brother Qingfeng, "Li Yimeng went to shoot this time, he went to the remote mountainous areas in the west, it is estimated that he was suffocated, one is that the conditions are very difficult, and the other is that these acquaintances have not met for a long time, when the two of us met at the Bayi shooting range, he also said that they would meet before New Year's Day, and then contact again, he has gone to the west to make a film, and this time he met us as soon as he came back, and it seems that he has been suffocated." ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng said, "This poverty alleviation film looks very meaningful, Li Yimeng can participate in such a film, it is a kind of education for herself, playing a main role, and the main plot takes place in the countryside, it is not easy for her to be a girl in the city, to enter the scene, to experience the character of the character, it is estimated that the life path of the main character in the process of filming is also an inspiration to her, a deep understanding of the countryside, and an inspiration for her, such a deep understanding of the countryside, Especially in the poor and remote rural areas, for people who have lived in the city for a long time, it is completely a kind of spiritual shock, making a film is not a tour, nor is it a sightseeing view, it is necessary to go deep into the hearts of the characters and experience various plots in the countryside, which enriches her life experience for her, and she must have held back a stomach and wanted to tell me, because I came out of the marginal countryside, I can understand her current mood. ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng's analysis should be very accurate, as a modern girl who grew up in the city, she has no impression of the countryside at all, let alone a remote rural area, poverty alleviation will definitely find those families with stories, it should be difficult and difficult, as a character in the TV series, entering the plot to feel the psychological journey of the whole process of poverty alleviation is not only an education for her, but also a test, and it will be good for her outlook on life and worldview.

From this point of view, Li Yimeng is lucky to be able to get such a role, which will be a plus for her growth, her acting career, and her image among fans, but this process is like being reborn, not something that can be solved by simply feeling something, but in the impulse of the heart, the touch of the worldview, and the touch on the road of life

I said to Brother Qingfeng, "It looks like we're going to prepare, and she's complaining to us." ”