59, excited Dong Chunjiao

The first call I received for the final exam results was Yang Jiajia.

Yang Jiajia on the phone, "Teacher Jiang, all my grades have come out, thank you from the bottom of my heart." ”

On the phone, after Yang Jiajia reported the results of each subject to me, I was in a very good mood, "Yang Jiajia, I am not surprised that you have achieved today's results, because I am most sure of you." In recent times, your progress has been expected by me, your mood has changed, and your ability has improved, because you are no longer looking at problems from tangled, but very open to some problems, and your attitude towards these problems is more positive than before. So I'm sure you'll improve your grades across the board. ”

Yang Jiajia was a little unhappy, and probably pouted on the other end of the phone, and complained to me, "Teacher Jiang, you are too demanding on me, I think my results this time are very good, I feel a little proud of my own efforts, why are you so calm, don't you praise me well?" During this period of time, I studied so hard and hard, and I didn't have any decent praise, and I was sent away with confidence, and I really have some opinions about you. ”

This is a performance that Yang Jiajia has never had, to be able to boldly express dissatisfaction with the teacher, and to be able to go straight to the point in character, which is a more gratifying change, "Yang Jiajia, I can praise you, but not from the heart, it is at your request, you have great potential, your intelligence, your academic performance can be greatly improved, you play well this time, and show that your study period is more clear, if you work hard to be admitted to a famous university, It is expected that you will get excellent results in the college entrance examination, and if you start to be proud now, then we will have lost all our efforts, and I will not only criticize you, but also criticize you harshly. My attitude actually tells you a very real problem, you still have a lot of potential to tap your progress, you can take bigger steps, achieve better results, and then I can really praise you. ”

Jiajia heard that my tone was very harsh, but to achieve such good results, she really couldn't hide her excitement, sincere communication has become an effective bridge for the two of us, I don't talk about feelings, criticizing her is also a disguised encouragement, and then in front of a little girl who is a little fluttering now, if you praise it easily, it will backfire, Yang Jiajia is now starting to be a little vanity, so I am asked to praise her, but at the crossroads of life, there are still a few months before the college entrance examination, if fluttering, That would be counterproductive, which is why I took this stern attitude.

Yang Jiajia said to me in a different tone, "Teacher Jiang, I am not only the first in the class this time, but also the first in the whole grade, our class teacher and the school feel very amazing, since you say that I have greater potential, then I am no longer proud, I will work hard to get better results, when do you say when you can be satisfied, I will let you praise again, as long as you have requirements, I will work resolutely and hard to achieve your satisfaction, okay?" ”

His determination made me feel a kind of breath, and I couldn't help but be happy, and said to him in an encouraging tone, "Yang Jiajia, you have to ask me, when will I be satisfied?" That is the day when the results of the college entrance examination are announced, you can be admitted to Yenching University to be my junior sister, that is my happiest, your strength can be done, and you have the talent to learn, now you have adjusted your emotions, the basic knowledge is also solid, the next step depends on whether you really work hard, really study hard, this goal is not an unattainable goal set for you, but a very realistic goal, you must now muster up courage, drum up energy, and take this fortress in one go, This time next year, we will both be the best sisters at Yenching University. ”

Yang Jiajia was indeed a little surprised to hear my goal, and defended, "Teacher Jiang, it's a bit hypocritical for you to say this, if I really achieve the goal you said, not only will I create a miracle for myself, but also a miracle for our school, you know that no one has ever been admitted to Yenching University in an ordinary high school like ours, if I can be admitted to Yenching University, wouldn't it be a miracle?" Isn't it a miracle of school? Your goal is really a bit unrealistic. ”

I said disapprovingly, "Yang Jiajia, this goal is not high for you, and it is realistic, this semester contact, I know that the education level of your school is not the best, but the level of basic education has been reached, as for the extent to which students can play, it completely depends on your own efforts, about the problem of teachers, you don't have to consider which aspect, if you have a problem, I will contact you which person, just like your foreign language, Zhang Lili teacher has made a lot of progress after tutoring you?" In addition to foreign languages, I will check for you, other subjects you say which subject is not successful, I will help you tutor which subject, I have firm confidence in you, you must achieve this goal, you will be able to achieve, don't tell me to create any miracles, you can be admitted to Yenching University is your normal level of performance, if you can't pass the test, you must be out of order, I am sure of you, I am confident in you, the key is to see whether you have this confidence. ”.

Yang Jiajia was speechless by what I said, I guess Yang Jiajia has never thought of such a higher institution as Yenching University before, and to give him this kind of request, but also to give him a psychological hint, but also to give him an invisible pressure, let him study harder, in the emotional adjustment better, as long as he plays seriously in the college entrance examination, his level is reached, my goal is not purposeless, but targeted.

Yang Jiajia was silent for a while, and finally expressed her attitude to me, "Teacher Jiang, since you say so, I will work hard to win this goal in this direction, and it is also the goal of my college entrance examination, as long as you escort me, I feel that there is no problem, I have firm confidence to study hard with you, and I will be compatible with you at Yenching University." ”

I heard Yang Jiajia answer like this, I was very happy in my heart, and finally planted her confidence in this little girl's heart, this confidence is extremely heavy, to this goal is extremely clear, with this direction her efforts will be more hard, her study will be more hard, her academic performance will also be stable, let Yang Jiajia embark on her normal life path, let her make a little pride in her studies, and achieve brilliant results, Yenching University is her clear goal, with my understanding of her, With the efforts I have put in her this semester, I will also make greater efforts in the next semester to make her life more brilliant.

I further told her, "This year's Spring Festival is in mid-February, this winter vacation is relatively long, you have to do a good job of hard-working, I don't go home because I have other things, and I won't go home too long during the Spring Festival, so I want to keep an eye on your learning, our tutoring should increase time and increase problems, and we will review other subjects together, to improve their ability in an all-round way, improve their learning performance, start from the learning method, and analyze the problem with comprehensive ability. The ability to solve problems is the key to your next progress, you have to be mentally prepared, take advantage of this holiday, so that you can improve in an all-round way, after the Spring Festival, you will have a thorough exam, three exams, I hope you are more and more confident, your grades are getting better and better, and finally you will not say that I am hypocritical. ”.

After hanging up Yang Jiajia's phone, I invested in the preparation of the copywriting team, Lu Xiaoqing sent a lot of dance information, these materials are very precious, for the study of dance theory, for the study of dance cases, let my mind enrich a lot of ideas for dance copywriting, Professor Yang Their preliminary plan has also been sent, although there are some things I don't understand very well, but also to check the information for in-depth study, but I have seen the heavy work, the huge workload, Start thinking about recruiting volunteers.

Xu Fengqin's video materials are still being sent to me, Xu Fengqin's perspective is different from others, in addition to emphasizing the sense of picture, he pays more attention to the political background, social background, and world environment background of this event, and pays more attention to the reference opinions provided to me are also some macro milestone events, guiding me to think about this issue at a higher height, and playing a decisive role in guiding my copywriting.

After all, Lu Dachuan has been working in the media for many years, and he has a very detailed idea of this copywriting, and many details are very thoughtful.

Just when I was thinking deeply about the future direction of the copywriting team, Dong Chunjiao's phone call, which I had been looking forward to for a long time, finally came in, I quickly connected the phone, and Dong Chunjiao's extremely excited voice came from the phone.

Dong Chunjiao said excitedly, "Teacher Jiang, the final exam results have just been announced, I didn't disappoint you, this time I played very normally, and the results I achieved also made my father very satisfied, and I sincerely thank you." ”

Dong Chunjiao happily listed her grades in various subjects to me, and hearing that Dong Chunjiao was able to achieve such results, for a high school student who had just suffered a major emotional blow, it really made me extremely excited, and I was really happy for her from the bottom of my heart.

I've been with her for so long, I can understand her situation, but as a family, the situation is completely different, what is the child growing up in this single-parent family, I'm not sure at all, her mother appeared before the exam, and suddenly found her This scene, disrupted her emotions, and also disturbed her state of mind, although I tried my best to calm this matter, but can the trauma of the soul really be healed in such a short time? Wouldn't it have any effect on her final exams at all? These questions have been entangled, and I have made my worries about Dong Chunjiao stronger and stronger.

Caring about a person, especially caring for a person wholeheartedly, is the first time for me, Dong Chunjiao's situation, Dong Chunjiao's family situation, I know very well, but Dong Chunjiao's own strong character characteristics are a reason for me to worry, Dong Chunjiao's emotionality in dealing with problems has been a few times, this time the matter is too important, will she be an emotional expression, on the surface I can't see what the heart is like, I am not sure at all.

If you look at the foundation of learning, Dong Chunjiao's learning foundation is the best among the three children, and Dong Chunjiao's character is also the best among the three children, but at the crossroads of life, the impact of major events is really a test of Dong Chunjiao's humanity and patience, and it also makes her emotions a little unstable. It's always been a big question mark in my mind.

As the saying goes, care is chaos, as a teacher, I should have objectively judged students, judged students' learning efforts, basic knowledge mastery, analysis of problems, problem-solving ability, and also needed to include family conditions and emotional reactions, but I invested so much affection in Dong Chunjiao, so I really cared about him and lost his normal judgment, and I couldn't predict how he would perform in this final exam. But I am not sure how much positive energy Dong Chunjiao can have in this final exam.

In fact, in the face of this final exam, I estimate that my mood is more nervous than Dong Chunjiao, from Dong Chunjiao's point of view, I have been dependent on my father for so many years, and suddenly killed a mother who has never met for 18 years, the huge impact in my heart is unimaginable, and high school students who are in adolescence can correctly deal with family conflicts and the biggest impact in life, and it is also the biggest emotional reaction in life? I'm not sure at all anyway.

Although I tried my best to stabilize his emotions before the exam, I also tried to think more comprehensively for him in terms of knowledge, and tried to take measures to accompany him in combing his emotions, whether this series of measures can play a role in calming his emotions, really restore his soul to calm, let his life return to normal, let him study harder, and let this midterm exam result be a phased victory, this is my best wish, but my tangled heart can not let me have more optimistic thoughts.

In the course of my life, I care so much about a person, so deeply, this may be the first time, I like Dong Chunjiao, I am easy to say, the two of us are only one or two years apart, his situation makes people feel that they should sympathize, but his character does not allow others to sympathize, in the relationship cultivation of getting along for so long, love with sisters is also our truest portrayal, as a tutor and a student has become a sister's relationship, it may be a wonderful flower for others, But it's normal for my relationship journey.

In addition to the normal teacher-student relationship, a special feeling makes my love for Dong Chunjiao deeper, single-parent family is not his weakness, but emotional performance, he is definitely his fatal weakness, can stabilize his emotions, can play seriously and normally, his grades must not be wrong, but Dong Chunjiao has higher requirements for himself, his father has higher hopes for him, and I also have ardent hopes for him in my heart, will these cause pressure on him? After reflection, I feel that the comfort for him during this period of time should be in place, his emotions should be stable, and his normal level should be able to play out.

Now that I heard his results on the phone, I couldn't suppress a feeling of great joy, and I said to Dong Chunjiao, "Dong Chunjiao, do you have time at night?" Do you have time for me to come to your house, you and your father will prepare me a good dinner, and we will talk together so that we will be happy for a while. ”.

This is my initiative to ask to go to Dong Chunjiao's house for a meal, Dong Chunjiao on the other end of the phone is estimated to have jumped up with joy, and said loudly to the phone, "Teacher Jiang, I'm so happy, if we have anything to say, you can come to the house and talk about it, my father and I will go to prepare now, but wait for you to come." ”

Hanging up Dong Chunjiao's phone, I couldn't restrain myself, excited into emotions, two tears of excitement flowed out of my eyes, I was not prepared at all for the catharsis of my emotions.

I decided to ask Senior Brother Qingfeng to go to Dong's house for a banquet together, I picked up the phone and made a call to Senior Brother Qingfeng to confirm this matter, and after dialing the phone, I quickly heard a response.

I said excitedly into the phone, "Senior brother, how about accompanying me to the banquet tonight?" I'm so happy, Professor Dong and his daughter Dong Chunjiao, under the impact of such a big event, Dong Chunjiao was able to achieve such good results, I'm so happy, so I want to ask you to go to their house for a meal, do you have time? ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng on the other end of the phone was still so calm, "Bang Bang, why are you so excited?" I can accompany you tonight, but I advise you to calm down your emotions, I know that Dong Chunjiao can achieve such results, you are very excited, but as a teacher, after calming down your emotions, you can accompany him through this difficult period. ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng is right, I have been a little emotional by this incident, but I still make no secret of him, "Let's go together in a while, I still have some things at hand now, I'll call you again when I leave, okay?" ”

After hanging up the phone call to Senior Brother Qingfeng, I was immersed in excitement, still efficiently preparing for the copywriting team, working in this happy atmosphere, it was really a pleasure, as if all the pressure had become motivation, inexhaustible, inexhaustible, let me feel that life is incomparably beautiful, and happiness came too appropriately.

Because it was so close to Dong Chunjiao's home, the two of us didn't take a taxi, but rode two shared bicycles.

The weather was too cold, although the two of us were fully armed, and the cold wind still blew us very embarrassed, but Dong Chunjiao's achievements gave me too much encouragement, riding on the bicycle, the two of us were still talking and laughing.

Senior Brother Qingfeng asked me, "Bang Bang, what's wrong with you today?" The mood is abnormal, does Dong Chunjiao's achievements make you so happy? ”

I smiled and said to Senior Brother Qingfeng, "I've been too busy for a while, Dong Chunjiao's affairs have made me entangled for a long time, what are the final exam results?" I'm really not sure, his mother's affairs make me a little overwhelmed, although I tried my best to calm down this matter, Dong Chunjiao is such a girl at the crossroads of life, I am really afraid that he will not be able to withstand such pressure, so I am very entangled. Today's final exam results are all out, better than the midterm exam, the most important thing is that he got a full score in his essay, it seems that this girl's ability to bear still really admires me, I can't suppress my excitement, today the two of us went to their house for dinner, in fact, I want to take this opportunity to communicate with Professor Dong again, and also relieve the pressure on Dong Chunjiao's family, you can understand. ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng smiled when he heard my explanation, "It's not so much that Dong Chunjiao is under more pressure, it's better to say that your pressure is greater than his, I haven't seen you so entangled, it seems that your tutor life is very dramatic, and you have completely entered the role, and you have taken up a lot of weight in your heart, which shows that you care about people and love students, I should be very happy." Winter vacation is coming up, what are you going to do? ”

I said softly to Senior Brother Qingfeng, "Senior brother, this winter vacation has been made with Jiang Feifei, the two of us went to Liu Qianqian's company to work together, and experienced the mental journey of you and Liu Qianqian to start a business together at that time, which is also part of the deepening understanding between the two of us, Liu Qianqian also sent a warm invitation, now the situation has changed, and now I have received a new task, you know, all the winter vacation plans have been lost, for this political task, I may not be able to take a vacation, to use the vacation time, Sort out the work of the copywriting team, prepare the copywriting in the early stage, and participate in the training of dance coaches, after these things are completed, it may already be the Spring Festival, and the first Spring Festival will go home to accompany my parents, I don't know how to make myself a busy person, what are you going to do? ”

Senior Brother Qingfeng said to me, "After the exam, I am collecting materials for the next step, because to reflect the grand scene, the history of the war of resistance must be collected in an all-round way, and we must put the history of our war of resistance in the big perspective of the anti-fascist battlefield, so these materials may have to be checked for a while, in addition to the school library to check some materials, it is also possible to go to the national library to check some World War II materials, I can accompany you during this period of time, and I can accompany you for a longer time during the winter vacation. Then after sending you back to Suzhou, I will go to Guangzhou to meet my parents, this year Xiaojuan has also been admitted to high school, I also want to check his studies. ”

Hearing Brother Qingfeng say this, I smiled sweetly, in this cold winter, there is a confidant by my side, first of all, I am not lonely, but more importantly, I am with my lover, the sweetness in my heart, not to mention how happy I am, even if the cold wind blows in my face, I feel a fever on my face.

I smiled and said to Senior Brother Qingfeng, "I will accompany you when you go to check the information, it just so happens that my copywriting team also needs background information inquiries, where do you go to check the information, call me, let's go together, if you are too busy, I can also help you, this cold winter vacation let us plunge into the hot life, I hope your second part can cause a sensation, according to your writing, it must be no problem." ”

Brother Qingfeng said to me with a smile, "Time flies so fast, a semester is about to pass, we met in this semester, and we came together in a short time, from acquaintance to acquaintance, and now we are in love, what a beautiful memory, you have also changed from an innocent girl to a female poet who stands alone, you have published three books this semester, and your achievements in the field of literature really impress me." ”

The two of us had already arrived at the entrance of Professor Dong's home community, and we put the shared bicycle on the road and walked into the community hand in hand.

Senior Brother Qingfeng said to me, "It seems that you have had a good life as a tutor in the past six months, and the three students have also become your best friends, and the teaching results are also very impressive, so I am happy for you from the bottom of my heart." ”

We held hands and listened to Brother Qingfeng's beautiful words, my heart rippled again, how good it would be for us to hold hands like this and never be separated.