45, Dinner at the student's house

After Dong Jianjun knocked on the door, he pushed the door and entered the room, "I'm sorry, you're Teacher Jiang, right?" I'm Dong Chunjiao's father, Dong Jianjun, I made you a glass of water, it's been so long since you've been tutoring, you must be thirsty, can you take a break? ”

Jiang Wan quickly stood up, smiled and said to Dong Jianjun, "Are you Professor Dong?" We communicated very well on the phone, and we met for the first time, so please take care of it. It's almost time, let's go to the living room and sit down, Dong Chunjiao, you also adjust your brain, and then we can communicate further? ”

The three of them came to the living room together, Professor Dong Jianjun, "Teacher Jiang, you are the first time to come to the door to be a tutor, and it took so long to tutor her homework, now it is eight or nine months away from the college entrance examination, and there is still the Spring Festival in between, so I hope you work harder, there is nothing else, you come to the house for the first time, stay and have dinner with us, it is really not respectful, please don't refuse." Yenching University is also a stop away from us, we are all on Xueyuan Road, you can tell us anything in the future, don't be polite, just like going home. You know, the language in our home is very simple, and you are always welcome to come and play. ”

Jiang Wan, "Uncle, you're polite, I'm about the same age as your daughter, you can call me Xiao Jiang." Among my three students, Dong Chunjiao is the closest to me, so you can ask me any questions at any time, in addition to the tutoring time stipulated by the school, we need more time to communicate with each other, only by talking about the problem thoroughly, understanding clearly, in order to have a targeted tutoring, the effect of review will be satisfactory. Today is the first time we have an exchange, so it will take a little longer, and in the future, we will put these exchanges on a regular basis, and focus more on some problems during the tutoring time, which will get twice the result with half the effort. You have been teaching for more than 20 years, and you are a senior in this area, and you still need to learn from you. ”

Dong Chunjiao, "Mr. Jiang, my other homework is personally tutored by my father, he is a professor with a background in science and engineering, he has a lot of scientific research achievements and educational achievements, and among his students, he is also a god." But for the tutoring of the language, he is not as thorough and so good as you say, especially today, you help me with the perspective of logic, which is a weakness of mine in the past, and I have not noticed it at all, so you must not be polite to him. ”

Jiang Wan, "Professor Dong, don't call me any teacher in the future, I'm a freshman now, I can't learn anything, I hope you want to treat me like your own students, I just went to college for more than a month, I don't know a lot of things, I hope to get your advice." You have been living in the university for more than 20 years, and you have a complete grasp of the campus ecology, so I am still a bit of a student, how dare you call yourself a teacher in front of you? ”

Professor Dong Jianjun, "You are a teacher in learning, you are very professional in tutoring Dong Chunjiao, in the teaching of Chinese, you are a veritable teacher, I am a person who studies science and engineering, so I am far from in literary attainments, I am usually studying professional things, so in the field of literature, I am completely a layman, I heard your tutoring of my daughter outside, yes, I also benefited a lot." I don't have to worry about other homework, including English, I can tutor her, but in terms of language, and writing, I really can't tutor. You know that there is a big gap between the writing of academic papers and our general articles, so if you want him to grasp the knowledge of literature and write the articles well, you really need further guidance from a professional like you. Let's wash our hands first, let's talk while eating, otherwise the food will be cold. ”

The three of them went to the bathroom to wash their hands and sat around the dining table.

Jiang Wan, "The first time I came to tutor, I ate at your house, thank you, uncle." ”

Dong Chunjiao, "My dad has been busy for so long today, it's just a snack, Mr. Jiang, don't be polite." ”

Jiang Wan, "Uncle cooks really good food, you usually have such heavy scientific research tasks, you must be very busy in teaching, and you usually have to take care of your daughter, you are really a father and a mother, thank you for your hard work." ”

Professor Dong Jianjun, "It's not impossible, there are just two of us at home, and his grandmother helped when I was young, because my brother's family also gave birth to a child, and the old man wants to go back to his hometown, and he has been homesick, although I know that I also need people here, but I still sent him home, my daughter is like this, she went to kindergarten before she was three years old, and it is a full nursery, there is really no way." Since then, our father and daughter have been dependent on each other, and we can only take care of each other in life. In my heart, I have always been accommodating to my daughter, if it weren't for our own reasons, how could the child have been living in this single-parent family. I also hope that the teacher will experience my feelings as a father more and give more snacks to my daughter, and I also want to make up for my mistakes. ”

Dong Chunjiao, "Dad, what are you talking about?" Since I can remember, you have been busy all day and night, busy at home, there are so many things in school, scientific research, and teaching, but you have been worried about me from beginning to end, and I have grown up as a high school student from a baby in treasure grabbing. You can rest assured, I can ask you about other homework, your tutoring is also very easy to understand, so other subjects are among the best in school, I am not much worse than others in the basic knowledge of Chinese, but I am lacking in writing, today listening to Mr. Jiang's tutoring, I also have a bit of a feeling of openness, you can rest assured, my daughter will work hard, will win glory for you, although it is an ordinary high school, I am also determined to want to be admitted to a key university, to repay you for so many years of parenting. ”

Professor Dong Jianjun, "Dad deserves all these contributions, whose parents don't want their children to be good?" You don't have any burden, don't do any housework anymore, I will do all these things, you just need to study hard and have a good future. As for what kind of university you go to, it doesn't matter to me, the important thing is that you are physically and mentally healthy, in a single-parent family like ours, there has always been a lack of maternal love, and my father is a person who studies science and engineering, although he tries to be patient and careful, but after all, he can't replace a real mother. In a word, you should grow up physically and mentally healthy, and this is my most heartfelt hope. Eat more, kid, while it's hot. ”

Jiang Wan, "Uncle, don't worry, I will have more friends with Dong Chunjiao in the future, we are both of the same age, and we are both little girls, so there is no obstacle to communication." Today the two of us chatted for a long time, although they are all some problems in language knowledge, but Dong Chunjiao is not ashamed to ask, he is not shy about his own problems, and he is also very talented, a little thorough, is a good material for learning, there is no problem with other subjects, if you improve some in writing, it will be more perfect, time is still in time, from now to the college entrance examination There are eight or nine months, we have targeted teaching for each topic, I hope he will improve, There should be no problem in getting into a major university. ”

Professor Dong Jianjun, "It's good that there are no problems, I don't want to put any pressure on him, I have lived in the university all my life, so I don't pay as much attention to these problems as other parents, as long as it is higher education, as for what kind of university to go to, as long as he likes it, the key is to protect the body and mind, and healthy growth is more important than anything else." ”

Dong Chunjiao, "You're really about to become an old lady." I am with you, a man who stands up to the sky, every day, like a tomboy, not afraid of heaven and earth, and my personality is more cheerful than their average little girl, where can there be any psychological problems? It's completely unnecessary to worry about this and that every day. Not only for myself, but also to keep you from worrying, I will also grow up healthily. This year is the year of the college entrance examination, and there are candidates at home who are anxious, and you are about to become a typical, such a big university professor, can't you bear this pressure? I don't have any pressure, I just want to study happily and get my best grades. ”

Jiang Wan, "Dong Chunjiao is telling the truth, her personality is too good, among the students I contacted, they are facing a lot of pressure in the college entrance examination, so relieving their pressure has also become a part of our counseling, I think Chunjiao doesn't have to work hard in this regard, although it is not that there is no pressure at all, but just right, maintain this state, face everything easily and normally, and when the time comes, you can play normally in the examination room, you must believe in your own strength." Speaking of this, I also hope to learn from you, when I took the college entrance examination, although there was not much pressure, but the mentality was not as good as you, although my college entrance examination results were still good, but it would be better if I relaxed a little. ”

Dong Chunjiao, "Teacher Jiang, don't be modest, you can still take the first place in Suzhou under the pressure, if you relax, isn't it the first in Zhejiang?" You students, you have to give us students a little room to live, otherwise the gap will be too big, and no pressure will become pressure. ”

Jiang Wan, "How do you know that I was the first in liberal arts in Suzhou last year?" ”

Dong Chunjiao, "I checked it on the Internet, but your photos are not as good as you, when I saw you just now, I was really a little ashamed, there is a beautiful girl like you in the world, even my little girl is pleasing to the eye, a talented girl like you is really a rare thing in the world, don't all the boys in your school have to go crazy, right?" ”

Jiang Wan, "One is really cheerful enough, make fun of me now, I don't know how to be presumptuous in the future." But I like the feeling of you, the two of us have been together for a long time, and we have become good sisters. Just tell me anything in the future, our school is so close to your home, I can call me at any time, as long as it doesn't interfere with my classes. To tell you the truth, I think the burden of schoolwork is heavier now than in high school, so I can't let those provincial champions be too proud, and I have to step up my studies, work hard to catch up, and live up to your evaluation of me. ”

Professor Dong Jianjun, "Mr. Jiang, I am so happy that you stayed for dinner today, and I believe that you will definitely take him well when you see the relationship between the two of you like sisters." It's just that Dong Chunjiao is a little bit big and small, you have to discipline him strictly for me, where is this like a young girl, completely like a bald boy, regardless of what he says, Teacher Jiang came to tutor you for the first time, and you joked with her, it's really a bit big and small. Mr. Jiang, don't you mind. ”

Jiang Wan, "Uncle, I'm not so squeamish, the two of us are already good sisters, don't you fight, don't laugh and be lively?" Isn't that a great family atmosphere? You are ready to have an extra daughter to disturb you, Dong Chunjiao, you be careful that I come to the door every day to urge you, don't talk about my mother-in-law and mother when the time comes. ”

Dong Chunjiao, "I wish you came every day, you see how good the atmosphere of our dinner is today, our two sisters are talking and laughing, and my father is so happy to watch." ”

Dong Jianjun looked at this kind of family atmosphere with a strong atmosphere, thinking of his lonely life for more than 20 years, the excitement in his heart has been suppressed, there are two tears in his eyes, and he can't stop spinning, but he still can't hold back.