Chapter 0503 - Learn to Refuse

Busy with his own business with his own hands, he no longer cares about the outcome of the case.

The result was told to him.

Old man Sun was sentenced to three probations, and Yan Guigui was sentenced to two probations.

However, the nine gangsters were sentenced to seven to three years in prison respectively because they set aside the radishes and brought out the mud, and the new accounts and old accounts were counted together.

The white-handed approach is sophisticated and thoughtful, and has won the praise and respect of the vast majority of peers.

The popularity is getting higher and higher, and there are more and more white-handed socials.

Peers invite you, you can't not go, you succeed, you can't put on a show.

If the supplier invites you, such as Tang Yunping, you can't go either.

The person in charge of the relevant department, everyone invites, you can't help but invite, promise you to give you face.

After a few weeks, the white hand discovered a problem, not a single dinner was eaten at home.

Sometimes, there are several drinking parties in one night.

The amount of alcohol has increased, there are more friendships, and there are more acquaintances and friends.

But my mind is confused, my eyes are confused, and my mentality is crooked.

It can't go on like this, one day, the white hand suddenly thought like this.

On this day, Rohan called and said that he had invited a few friends to drink in the evening and asked him to accompany him.

The white hand had an idea, saying that he had made an appointment, and politely declined Luohan's invitation.

Chen Lan had no complaints, as always.

But after Bai Shou realized the problem, he knew that he had snubbed Chen Lan.

took the initiative to enter the kitchen and cook a few good dishes to please Chen Lan.

"Yo, busy people aren't busy today?"

Chen Lan leaned against the kitchen door and asked with a smile.

"Wife, I was wrong, I want to correct my mistakes with practical actions."

With white hands, he flattered with his mouth, kept his hands, and cooked another dish.

"Is it a whim, or a discovery of conscience, or a change in the past?"

"Change the past, decide, change the past."

Three dishes, one soup, rice, and Chen Lan was still diligently helped to sit down.

"Wife, please. Wife, I haven't had dinner at home for 22 days in a row, and this mistake is unforgivable in nature. In order to show my determination to change my past mistakes, I decided to learn from some little Shanghai men and kneel on the washboard later. ”

"Hee-hee...... Kneeling on the washboard and forget it. ”

"Really? Thank you, wife, thank you, wife. ”

"Eat and eat, the dishes are almost cold."

As usual, eat two bowls of rice in a row with white hands.

After Chen Lan ate well, his white hands swept away the leftovers and soup.

Chen Lan made a gesture to put away the dishes and chopsticks, but immediately stopped with his white hands and cleaned up by himself.

Chen Lan enjoyed it.

After finishing the kitchen with his white hands, he poured another bucket of water and mopped the floor with a mop.

"Don't be busy, I'll drag it tomorrow." Chen Lan said.

"No, no, wife, you'll check later. Wife, you are not strict with me, I don't agree. ”

"Hee-hee...... That's good. ”

I worked hard for twenty minutes to wipe the floors of all the rooms on the third floor.

After finishing the housework, the white hands were already sweating profusely.

After taking a shower, I returned to the living room with my white hands.

Chen Lan was reading a book, an English book.

Mopping the floor just now, the doors and windows were open, closed them one by one with his white hands, and then came to Chen Lan's side, and asked flatteringly: "Wife, what book makes you so fascinated?" ”

"Guess what."

"Well, I don't know it, and it doesn't know me, isn't that embarrassing me?"

"You look it up in an English dictionary."

While flipping through the dictionary with his white hands, he said to himself: "N, O, T, I seem to remember this, but it doesn't mean it." The previous one, study, wife, you taught me the word, as if, as if it means learning. What's the word in the middle? ”

It turned out that Chen Lan was urging him to learn English with his white hands, and begged him to learn three to five words and a common sentence in English a week.

It's hard to be white-handed, in order to please your wife, you have to be hard-headed, learn in the front, forget in the back, forget while learning, and keep learning hard.

"Think about it, husband, you're very smart."

The encouragement and inspiration of his wife made the white hand particularly energetic.

"No...... Learn? Learn...... No? Learn to say no? Learn to say no? ”

Chen Lan gave a thumbs up to her white hand, "Husband, you're awesome." The title of this book is, Learning to Say No. ”

Learn to say no? The white hand muttered and pondered.

Chen Lan threw the book aside at this time.

Bai Shou understood Chen Lan's good intentions, she was educating him.

"Wife, I'm sorry, I was wrong."

"You're not wrong." Chen Lan smiled and said: "If you have to say that you are at fault, it is that you have not grasped a good degree." ”

"Wife, you go on." picked up Chen Lan with his white hands and rested her on top of him.

"Socializing and learning to socialize is an essential social skill for those who do this. I can't drink, smoke, socialize, and I can't do it. I've known this for a long time, and I understand it very well. ”

"Wife, thank you for your understanding."

Chen Lan said: "But, but." As the old saying goes, if you walk by the river, you can't get your shoes wet. If you socialize too much, you can easily get into trouble, because alcohol can make people dizzy and lose judgment. This is one of them. ”

"Second?"

"Second, there are three religions and nine streams in the wine field, and there are mixed fish and dragons, which is easy to offend people and easy to be calculated by bad people."

"What about the third?"

"Third, drinking too much alcohol hurts your body, and now that you are young, you don't feel it. But when you're a little older, you'll be able to appreciate the dangers of alcohol. ”

"Is there a fourth?"

"Fourth, friends who drink and meat, not true friends, are friends when you drink, and you won't be friends when you have something."

"Is there another five?"

"Fifth, you're driving. In case you drink and drive, it will harm others and yourself, and the harm is great, you should know. ”

I don't know if I don't listen, I was shocked when I heard it, it turns out that there are so many harms of drinking.

"So, you have to learn to say no." Chen Lan said.

Bai Hand nodded, "Wife, is it okay to refuse the drinking party by lying?" ”

Chen Lan smiled slightly, "It's not good to lie, it's not good to drink, refuse to refuse, lie or not, you control it yourself." ”

"So, please teach me which drinking parties I should refuse?"

"Well, I can't say it."

"Wife, help me think about it."

Chen Lan pondered: "Any dinner and wine that is not reserved a day in advance, you can refuse it all." The reason is very simple, either make an appointment in advance, or make an impromptu idea, which is disrespectful to you. ”

"Wife, you said it too well, keep going."

"Secondly, you have to ask the participants of the wine party and dinner, and if there are strangers involved, you can refuse to do so."

"Makes sense."

"Also, you have to ask about the nature of the wine party dinner before deciding whether to participate or not. Among them, there is also a question of degree, and you have to master it yourself. ”

"It's too difficult to grasp this degree. Wife, is there anything else? ”

Chen Lan grinned, "There is one more, which is the most important." ”