26, Zhang Lili said chaos (1)
26, Zhang Lili said chaos (1)
Zhang Lili and Jiang Wan trained at the same table and became good sisters who talked about everything.
After a morning of training, the two of them received a boxed lunch together and returned to the classroom to chat while eating.
Zhang Lili, "Jiang Wan, didn't you ask me why our school has a similar institution, and I want to come here to sign up?" In fact, there is another reason, and it is also a very important reason, I don't know if you can accept it? ”
Jiang Wan, "Just say, what's unacceptable about this?" ”
Zhang Lili, "After I say it, you will be surprised." Many of these educational institutions, especially those for adults, sell dog meat with sheep's heads, and they are nominally training, but in fact they are doing particularly dirty hooks, and several of my senior sisters have experience in this area, so they remind us not to go to those adult educational institutions, so as not to be deceived. ”
Jiang Wan, "How can there be such a thing?" ”
Zhang Lili, "There are many such things, you must not be simple, as the saying goes, you can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people, college students of our age are used to being washed at home, and they have no social experience at all, those people, under the guise of social practice, actually do those things that make people look unsightly, if you don't raise your vigilance, it is a pity." There is a senior sister in our school, because after being a fool, he was recorded by those people, and he has been blackmailed to do it, and then he was forced to suffer from severe depression, and he wanted to commit suicide several times, if it wasn't for the family's watchful attention, she would have died in Huangquan a long time ago, and then she reported the case and brought those people to justice, but she also had to drop out of school and go home. ”
Jiang Bang, "These people are so hateful, they take advantage of any loopholes, what is the difference between this and human traffickers?" ”
Zhang Lili, "Therefore, college students of our age, especially female college students, must not be simple-minded, must be vigilant, and cannot be deceived." There are still some people in the society who specialize in defrauding training fees, registration fees, and introduction fees, although their harm is not very great, and the money is not much, but for those of us who have just gone to college, that may be our survival capital, so we must keep our eyes open, and we can't accidentally hit and become the prey of those people, but it is a big loss to us, and it also contributes to their unhealthy tendencies. ”
Jiang Wan, "It turns out that the situation here is so complicated, it's really a big world, there are no surprises, we were originally very simple-minded, we just wanted to increase our social experience, and if we were not careful, we would fall into this or that trap, it was really complicated, and now I think back on it, I am really a little afraid." ”
Zhang Lili, "Actually, there's nothing to be afraid of, as long as we don't have greed, we do what we can, and we won't fall for those people." Those people do things mainly with high salaries as bait, and those who are greedy will be deceived, if we don't participate, know how many pounds and taels we have, and not be tempted by them, then what danger is there? But now the vast majority of people are money first, those who have no money want to earn money, and those who have less money want to earn a little more, this is how they grasp people's psychology, using high salaries as bait, and leading people to their scam step by step, once you fall into their trap, it will be difficult for you to turn back. Those people are even more insatiable, and they will use college students as cash cows, which is really a wave of jackals in human skin, so we must keep our eyes open and not fall for them. ”
Jiang Wan, "How can we identify them? ”
Zhang Lili, "This is easy to do, people are self-aware, we don't have any expertise, except for just taking the college entrance examination, what else do we have?" With no social experience, no work experience, and no skills, if they don't see your beautiful face and slender figure, why would they give you such a high salary? It's 12,000 at every turn, no one's money is blown by the wind, how can a speaking training give you so much compensation? There must be something greasy here, don't you look at it like this, isn't it easy to identify their conspiracy? ”
Jiang Wan, "As soon as you say this, I understand how poisonous these people's intentions are." ”
Zhang Lili, "In fact, it's not simple, they won't use such a simple routine, in order to guide people to be deceived, they will use a lot of deceptive methods to cover, in order to identify them, we must always keep a clear mind, control their material pursuits, so as not to be deceived." ”
Jiang Wan, "How do you know so much?" We're both first-year students, and compared to you, I'm like a fool, and I've really asked you for more advice. ”
Zhang Lili, "Why are you so polite?" We are all girls, we should increase our awareness of prevention, because our dormitory is a mixed dormitory, we have two juniors in the dormitory, I have a very good relationship with them, and I have become a girlfriend who talks about everything, they have experienced a lot of things for more than two years, and a lot of things have happened around them, and they are afraid that I will be deceived, so they told me a lot of things. In addition, my mother is a teacher at a university in Shanghai, and he also has some preliminary understanding of the situation in the university, so he repeatedly told me not to trust some people in society, who are likely to do those things that are inferior to others under various guises, just to enhance my sense of self-protection. ”
Jiang Wan, "I have only been on the university campus for more than a month, I really don't know much about things in the university, and I don't have much contact with people, so I have no concept of these social chaos, lack of self-protection awareness, I still think so, in such a holy campus, the learning atmosphere is so strong, through my own continuous efforts, I will definitely realize my ideals, as long as I have no distractions, I will continue to make new achievements." Isn't that simple, you say? ”
Zhang Lili, "From a student's point of view, there is nothing wrong with thinking this way. But university campuses already have a social nature, and sometimes the social nature will be very prominent. It is not obvious when I am undergraduate, and only before graduation will the contradiction be more acute. Half of the university campuses are now filled with graduate and doctoral students, and the competition between them has become fierce. If you think about it, the first thing between them is the academic dispute, the same field, different schools, different tutors, their academic paths are different, although it is said that the road leads to Rome, but in this place where intellectuals gather, the competition between each other, the battle between each other's routes, and the competition between each other's achievements, concentrated on one point is the debate on academic status, for them who are engaged in learning, isn't it a big deal? ”
Jiang Wan, "If you don't say it, I really haven't thought about it, it's really scary to think about." ”
Zhang Lili, "so our thinking also has to change, in addition to understanding the academic atmosphere of the campus, we should pay special attention to his sociality, the original education system of our education has decided, a university campus is a relatively closed small society, all things in the society will be reflected in this campus, we can not use the high school campus and the university campus comparison, his complexity has increased thousands of times, if you don't recognize this, sooner or later you will suffer, by that time you realize." , maybe the consequences have already appeared, and it will be too late. ”
Jiang Wan, "That's really the case, my mind is still like a pot of water, it's not that complicated, it's all simple, so from today on, I have to face this social reality seriously, take things on campus seriously, think seriously, and do something carefully, otherwise, the consequences will be unimaginable." ”
Zhang Lili, "These things are not terrible when they are recognized, as long as there is a sense of prevention, there is no need to be a frightened bird, there is no need to be careful in everything, what to do and what to do, as long as it is not a desire for profit, it is not a deliberate matter, do not harm others, and strengthen the heart of prevention." You have to remember everything, a slap in the face can't make a sound, as long as we subjectively don't pursue those unrealistic things, no one can harm us, and our career will be more brilliant. There are some dirty things in the campus society, but they are much simpler than those things in society, so there is no need to be careful about everything. ”
Jiang Wan, "Looks like you're right. ”