"Tang Tiantian, tell me, what's going on between you and Yu Yan?"

"Isn't your little boyfriend quite cute, why are you two starting to quarrel again? Are you still running away from home? ”

"What does it mean to run away from home, that's not my home at all, okay?"

Tang Tiantian's eyes were full of tears, this always hearty girl rarely showed weakness to others, this time Tang Tiantian shed tears, and she was a little distressed in early summer.

It turns out that love cannot solve all the problems in life, and people still have to return to reality.

"In the early summer, you don't know that the metaphor is too possessive, since I was pregnant, he stopped me from going to work and let me raise the baby in the apartment every day!"

"How can there be such an eventful boy, and I am still ready to continue to work until I have children?"

Tang Tiantian wiped her nose and tears with a tissue, her voice was a little impatient, and she held back her depression in Yu Yan, this time she finally had a place to vent.

"However, Tiantian, what the metaphor said is not unreasonable!"

"You're mainly engaged in design work, which requires a lot of brain cells to be wasted, and it's not good for children.

"In early summer, when Yu Yan bought you, you spoke to Yu Yan!"

Tang Tiantian was deflated, she didn't expect her good girlfriends to help Yu Yan speak, which the girl didn't expect.

"It takes too much energy to conceive a child now, why don't you take this opportunity to take care of your body now, and wait until the child is born before starting your own business?"

Chu Xia persuaded that in fact, Chu Xia had no experience in these things, and she just heard from her relatives and friends around her about such things.

Fortunately in early summer, fortunately I was not pregnant, and I was so fortunate to be pregnant, it is said that a woman's figure will be deformed and out of shape after pregnancy, and the consequences are really unimaginable.

"Hmph, why, but I'm really bored to stay at home every day!"

Tang Tiantian muttered, unwilling to give birth to a child before she even wore a wedding dress, how bold is this!

Tang Tiantian likes children, and she doesn't have too many opinions on being an unmarried mother in the future, but the elders of the Tang family are different, if you know that Tang Tiantian is pregnant without getting married, don't you want to peel Tang Tiantian into a skin?

Now Tang Tiantian can only hide in her own nest, give birth to the child first, find a nanny to slowly take the child up, and then talk to the Tang family.

Tang Tiantian's shocking approach, I'm afraid ordinary families don't dare to agree, the Tang family is also a wealthy family, will Tang Tiantian's parents agree?

"Actually, Tiantian, I think you can tell your family about you!"

Chu Xia handed Tang Tiantian a glass of water, and persuaded in a soft tone, this girl who wants to be a single mother.

"Your parents are so open-minded, they don't care when you have a child, your mother, who loves you so much, maybe she will try her best to help you take care of the child?"

In the impression of early summer, Tang Tiantian's mother is a gentle and kind woman, especially open-minded in terms of children's education.

Therefore, Tang Tiantian and Tang Feng, twin siblings, can choose not to study business, but choose their favorite design and painting majors.

Sometimes, in early summer, I really envy Tang Tiantian, the Tang family's family style is so free and open, Tiantian not only has a warm home, but also can do things according to her own ideas.

"I don't dare tell my mother, when my mother finds out, I'm afraid she will break my leg!"

Tang Tiantian covered her face and fell into fear, the girl didn't dare to tell Tang's mother, if Tang's mother knew, where would the Tang family's face go? Tang Tiantian's father Tang Mingguang is not angry, so it's no wonder!

"Actually, I think that Tiantian, you really think too much, your brother Tang Feng and Yu Qing are dating, your family doesn't object, your mother may not object to you being with Yu Yan!"

"Your mother, she really may not care, who her son-in-law is, as long as there is a lovely niece or nephew to accompany them, it's fine!"

Tang's mother, she is not yet fifty years old, she is fully capable of using her energy to help Tang Tiantian raise her children, and when the time comes, if the Tang family has one more baby, Tang Tiantian's mother is very happy, and Tang Tiantian's father is also a person who loves children.

"If you have a child and they help you bring it, it's too late to be happy, and they don't care if you're married or not, whether you have a boyfriend?"

"Of course, it's best if you have a boyfriend, and if you don't have one, they don't mind helping you with the kids!"

Chu Xia said comfortingly, but the only thing to worry about now is that after the child is born, what will happen if Yu Yan knows that Tang Tiantian is determined to raise the child alone?

"Will Yu Yan be in a hurry to marry you? What if he wants to raise a child and put it in his house?

"Besides, you have said that the conditions of Yuyan's family and yours are comparable, if Yuyan's family knows about the existence of this baby, will Yu's family come over and snatch the child with you?"

"He can't rob it, there's no reason at all!"

"The legal age of marriage for a boy is now 22 years old, and Yu Yan is only 20 years old, he wants to get married and have children, but he doesn't have the right to be a guardian?"

When the child was young, the mother was the first caregiver, and Yu Yan had no right to meddle, Tang Tian smiled proudly!

Abducting and selling a small milk dog, giving birth to a child through the body of a small milk dog, Tang Tiantian's wishful thinking is loud enough, there are still such women in the world, and the biggest advantage of falling in love with a little man is that if you have a child, this man will not be strong with you.

"But Tiantian, although Yu Yan has not reached the legal age, he is already an adult and has the right to raise his own children, if you do this, it is not fair to Yu Yan!"

The early summer is bad, and Yu Yan is not a scumbag, why can't he look at his baby?

"What's fair or unfair, he always wants to tie me up with a child in marriage, which makes me too tired, I don't want to be with him every day!"

Tang Tiantian said this, but for Yu Yan, the girl she still likes more, Yu Yan is so cute, she is willing to be with her at a young age, and even prepared a marriage proposal, Tang Tiantian is not impressed, how is it possible?

But love is so good, marriage is always the grave of love, Tang Tiantian doesn't want to go into the grave, after getting married, piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, hops, all turned into firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, such a life The smell of fireworks is too heavy, Tang Tiantian can't stand it!

"But what do you think of parables?"

For Tang Tiantian's explanation, Chu Xia was not satisfied, and now that Tang Tiantian has a baby, she neither let Yu Yan be responsible, but also didn't want to be with Yu Yan, and didn't let Yu Yan raise the baby.

If Yu Yan is a scumbag who doesn't like her, knows that Tang Tiantian is pregnant and doesn't want to be responsible, this is easy to say, you can break up with Tang Tiantian and cut it in two, of course Tang Tiantian can be a single mother openly.

But now Yu Yan is infatuated with Tang Tiantian, and he wants to marry this woman, although Yu Yan is not yet the legal age of marriage, but he is willing to make his relationship with Tang Tiantian public and hold a wedding in advance.

Yu Yan can do this, but Tang Tiantian can not care about Yu Yan's feelings so much, why is it? Tang Tiantian's explanation was beyond Chu Xia's comprehension.

"A strong life never needs to be explained, but in early summer, you are my good friend and best friend, I still have to explain!"

Tang Tiantian, who has never been serious in her life, became serious at this time, the woman was on the sofa, straightened up, looked ahead quietly, and explained in a serious manner.

"In my Tang Tiantian's eyes, men have always been just playing around before the age of twenty-five, you said that Yu Yan is different to me now, but he is different from me, how long can he last?"

"Three years, five years, ten years, twenty years? The essence of marriage is a contract, since both men and women are married, they must abide by the rules of marriage, but not everyone is suitable for marriage. ”

"For example, if I am married and want to divorce, why bother to get married and jump into the fire pit?"

Tang Tiantian said lightly, metaphor is a rare confidant in life for Tang Tiantian, but how long can this relationship last?

What the woman said is not unreasonable, it is now the twenty-first century, and there will be fewer and fewer men and women entering marriage, Tang Tiantian is a very rational person, she doesn't want to use a paper marriage to bind her relationship with Yu Yan.

Maybe two people will be very happy together for ten or eight years, or twenty years, but after a long time, everyone will get tired of it, and a well-informed girl like Tang Tiantian will not live with a man for the rest of her life.

No matter how infatuated Yu Yan is, now he is also a young man in his early twenties, and when he matures, he will like another type of woman, if he takes the marriage, Tang Tiantian will take the initiative to quit at that time!

When men are twenty years old, they may like more glamorous women, and mature royal sisters will broaden their horizons, but when men are thirty years old, their youth is no longer and their physical functions are declining, and men may appreciate some young and energetic girls.

In short, men are always an animal that seeks advantage and avoids harm, they need a stepping stone when they are young, a heart booster when they are middle-aged, and a woman who helps them with crutches when they are old.

At a certain stage of life, people's needs are different, and the requirements for the other half are also different, and the reason why many men and women can live a lifetime is because of their limited economic conditions and the cost of divorce is too high, so they can only stumble over the future.