25, The Story of Reluctant (7)

The peaceful life is soon shattered by the birth of a small life.

After Dong Jianjun and Fang Lingzi got married, because of the shortage of housing, the two of them were not qualified to share the room, but in the graduate dormitory, the two single beds were combined into a large bed, and the other students in the same dormitory went to find a place, and Dong Jianjun's dormitory became the marriage room for the two of them.

After receiving the marriage certificate, the two people moved together, no luxurious furniture, and not many electrical appliances, in the student's single dormitory to complete the most glorious wedding of their lives, simple and simple, several teachers and classmates sat around for a meal, both parents because they are in the field, and are at work, so did not come to participate in the wedding, the simple wedding is still lively, the two common classmates Zhang Luo everything about the wedding, a tense and happy day, soon ended, In the dead of night, the two lovers face the newly furnished student dormitory, which will be their lair of love, although it is warm, but after all, it is a little shabby.

Dong Jianjun said very apologetically to his wife, "Lingzi, because both of us are poor students now, we can't give you a very luxurious wedding, but I will give you a lifetime of happiness." Such a simple wedding really made you feel wronged. ”

In the 1990s, the Chinese who had just come out of that extraordinary era, the country was better, people's lives were better, the people in the city, living a rich life, everywhere was a thriving scene, especially in the capital Beijing, it was changing with each passing day, thriving, everyone's face was filled with the brilliance of happiness, when encountering wedding and funeral matters, all people would use a grand ceremony to commemorate their most extraordinary world, hold a grand wedding, has become the city of Beijing, A beautiful scenery that happens every day.

At that time, young people were together to socialize, especially paying attention to external conditions, houses, cars and tickets, which became an indispensable prerequisite for young people to fall in love at that time, but these were a kind of luxury for Dong Jianjun, who was born as a poor student, his parents had been laid off in advance, and now all this allowance for graduate students should be taken out to subsidize his parents, and life is tight. So that this young scientist could not hold a decent wedding, color TV, refrigerator and other fashionable electrical appliances did not want to buy, a student dormitory with two bare beds, became the property of two people's wedding, this may be the simplest wedding on the campus of Beijing City University in the 90s.

As a student from other places to study in Beijing, 4 years of university life has caused a very heavy burden on the family, you must know that in the early days of reform and opening up, the income of Chinese families is still very meager, although it will not be as poor as that era, but all the income adds up to such a few hundred yuan, this is the normal state of an ordinary family, facing the reform of the price system of reform and opening up, all the things that can be bought are rising in price, and the salary in hand is so tight.

Dong Jianjun, who has not yet joined the work and is currently studying for graduate school, has a monthly allowance of more than 100 yuan, but although his parents in Shenyang have not been laid off, the recession of the factory has already begun to appear, and the phenomenon of half of his salary being paid for several months, or even being in arrears for several months, often occurs. In order to reduce the burden on his parents, Dong Jianjun, who had already done some work-study when he was an undergraduate, although he also saved thousands of yuan in his hand, but if it was used as the cost of a wedding, it was indeed too shabby, although Fang Lingzi's family was stronger than Dong Jianjun's family, but as an ordinary salaryman, he was not rich, and the two of them could only maintain a simple wedding if they put together all the money in their hands.

The wedding is a day's time, and the married life will continue, for a wedding and let the future married life become a problem, it is too uneconomical, the two students are still calculated, this account can not be for a moment of glory and cause too many difficulties to their future life, the two people's ideas are the same, since the two people have been married, the new family can no longer cause a burden to the parents, but should use their hard hands to give back the grace of parenting.

A simple wedding is lively, but the newlywed's life is sweet.

Fang Lingzi has always been a very simple girl, never like the girls around her, eating, drinking, and dressing, but paying special attention to frugality, now the small family of the two has been established, so that the family can live better, so that both people can feel the warmth of this small family, this is what a newlywed woman wants, because a house can do nothing, except for sleeping, all other activities are carried out in the classroom canteen, reading room and laboratory, this small family is just at night they return to the nest like swallowsand enjoy the warmth of this nest.

Of course, there are not so many housework in the simple family of two people, neither fire cooking, nor so many things of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the school canteen meals should still be relatively rich, two people have a rice basin, and they eat together in the canteen, sit on the table and wash the dishes before returning to this warm little home. Dong Jianjun is a diligent man, and he rushes to finish some trivial things at home, which makes Fang Lingzi feel that in the world of two, he is completely a backer that can be relied on, and even the matter of washing his face and feet with washing water is contracted by Dong Jianjun alone.

One morning in the third month of marriage, Dong Jianjun woke up from his sleepy sleep, smelled a bad smell, and watched his wife vomit on the basin, Dong Jianjun sat up from the bed suddenly, and asked with concern, "Fang Lingzi, what's wrong with you?" Have you eaten a bad stomach? Why don't you call me when you're not feeling well? Let's go to the hospital and have a look. ”

Dong Jianjun said as he got out of bed, walked to his wife's side, and patted his back gently, seeing that his wife was still nauseous and vomiting there, Dong Jianjun was really a little anxious, "I'd better take you to the hospital quickly, it's so uncomfortable to see you like this, what did you eat to make your stomach bad?" What's wrong with you? ”

After a period of vomiting, Fang Lingzi relieved herself and smiled at Dong Jianjun and said, "Honey, are you stupid or stay?" Don't you even have a little common sense? ”

Dong Jianjun looked at her expression strangely, so uncomfortable, how could he still have time to be bored with me? Said eagerly, "Reiko, why are you talking like that?" ”

Fang Lingzi said with a happy face, "You, you're such a cute nerd, why don't you understand anything?" It's a matter of common sense, my dear, and if I'm not mistaken, you'll be a dad in no time. ”

Seeing his wife's happy face, the pain just now still appeared in his mind, and the news that came out of his mouth was like a thunderbolt, exploding in Dong Jianjun's mind, the love nest that had just been established was about to join a new member in such a short time, his beautiful wife was already pregnant with her own flesh and blood, and soon the two of us were going to be parents, this thought made Dong Jianjun very excited, and rushed to his wife's side at once, and quickly picked her up with his strong arms, Kissed her on the cheek a few times, then gently lowered her to the bed.

Dong Jianjun's series of actions were very agile, so that his wife had no time to react at all, and his excited expression made him smile as innocently as a child, and the sweet and happy love crystallized, which made this beautiful family full of joy, Dong Jianjun covered his wife's stomach with a big hand, feeling the little life.

Seeing her husband so excited, Fang Lingzi also felt very excited, as a woman, she fell in love with the prince charming in her mind and married a small family, and had her own love crystallization for him, which is how happy and lucky she is for an innocent woman, immersed in happiness, enjoying the sweetness of the world of two, and then looking at the excited husband next to her, the hot heart of the young woman is even hotter.

A life is in conception, and the mother of this little life is happier. The first few months were peaceful, the early stages of pregnancy were not drastic, except for a few mornings of retching and vomiting, the rest of the pregnancy was calm. But the inexplicable desire to eat something, this wonderful feeling gives him the opportunity to be coquettish with his husband.

Dong Jianjun reported the good news to his parents as soon as possible.

The old couple was very happy to know about it, and the mother told her son vigorously on the phone, "Xiaojun, now that your daughter-in-law is pregnant, you have to be careful about what you do, a woman's pregnancy is a pass, you have to take care of her wholeheartedly, especially women are easy to hurt her during this period, if she wants to eat something, you must satisfy her, don't send money to the family in the near future, women who are pregnant with children need nutrition the most, buy her more delicious food, you can buy her whatever she wants." , don't count it, don't be too frugal in life, it's not easy for other girls to follow you, our family is an ordinary working class, and we can't give people any material enjoyment, and what you want to eat must satisfy people. ”

In the face of his mother's advice, Dong Jianjun knew that when a woman was pregnant with a child, she would be hurtful, and this common sense made him even more obedient to his wife, and he would buy whatever his wife wanted to eat as soon as possible, put it in front of him, and meet all his requirements.

The most concerned about his wife is the father-in-law and mother-in-law, since knowing that their daughter is pregnant, the father-in-law and mother-in-law will call his wife every day, the mother-in-law's meticulous care, a phone call may take an hour, the mother and daughter have detailed exchanges, of course, between some women, especially secret words, the wife also listens to the mother-in-law's words, and is even more well-behaved and sweet during pregnancy.

Be careful, but when you are 4 months pregnant, there is still a false alarm, one day when you are doing an experiment, your wife suddenly fainted in the laboratory, and was sent to the hospital by her classmates.

This phenomenon scared Fang Lingzi into tears. Dong Jianjun rushed over at this time, he hugged his wife tightly, comforted him, and accompanied him to do a comprehensive obstetrics and gynecology examination, color ultrasound B ultrasound, blood and urine tests, after all the examinations and laboratory tests were completed, he happily told the two of them that this is a common phenomenon, don't panic, don't worry, but you still need to take a few injections, take some folic acid, and you have to come regularly for prenatal checkups every month in the future, pregnant women can not be too tired, you must know that it is now two lives, you must be careful and careful.

After the fright of this incident, Fang Lingzi, who has entered the pregnancy for more than 6 months, has a belly that is getting bigger day by day, and she is completely unable to adapt to the experiment, although the master's thesis is the most critical experiment, but for the sake of this little life, she had to stop, in order to ensure the safety of the pregnancy, she can no longer be as thrilling as this time, so after careful consideration, she submitted an application for suspension to the school.

In accordance with the school's regulations on student status management, and in accordance with past practice, the school approved the application for leave of absence, decided to take a one-year leave of absence, and postponed the defense of the master's degree for one year.

After all the formalities were completed, Fang Lingzi told her husband Dong Jianjun the news.

After Dong Jianjun learned about this incident, he could only admit this reality for the sake of his children, but he felt sorry for his wife from the bottom of his heart, and it was normal to get married and have children, but at this critical moment when his master's thesis was about to be defended, for the sake of his own health and for the sake of giving birth to a child smoothly, he had to apply for suspension of study in accordance with the regulations, which was not only a helpless move, but also the best protection for his wife.

As the due date is getting closer and closer, the place of the student dormitory is becoming more and more inconvenient, it is not impossible to give birth in the student dormitory, but the production place here is too crowded, considering that after the birth, you will definitely have to ask someone to serve the wife's confinement, whether it is the old family or the father-in-law, or to invite a nanny, you need to have a place, this student dormitory is obviously too crowded.

Considering these things, Fang Lingzi did not discuss with Dong Jianjun at all, but held up her belly for seven or eight months, found a few rental houses around the school, and finally found a one-bedroom apartment in a nearby community, negotiated the price, signed the contract, and purchased simple furniture, Fang Lingzi told her husband.

With the help of his classmates, Dong Jianjun and his wife bid farewell to their newlywed Yan'er's student dormitory, moved to a rented house, and re-established their own small home. After everything was ready, Dong Jianjun called his mother to discuss how to serve his wife's confinement child.

Dong Jianjun's mother has been laid off internally for a long time, and she knows that her daughter-in-law is pregnant, and she is also a little anxious, and the two children are outside, and now they are dragging a very heavy body, and they really need to go to Beijing to take care of them, but the housing conditions do not allow her to go over, so it has been delayed until now.

Hearing her son's call, Dong's mother rushed to Beijing from Shenyang as soon as possible.

When my mother came to Beijing, she took all her family's savings and was ready to help her son financially. As a working-class family, Dong Jianjun never asked his family for a penny since he went to graduate school, and he often sent part of the money he earned from his work-study to his home to supplement his family. The mother who is used to saving her life does not spend the money, but saves the money little by little, and this time, Dong's mother came to Beijing with the money.

Two students, set up a small family, there is no income, and now they have to pay rent, this is the practical problem that two students from other places must face, the income of two people, mainly is the post of graduate students, which adds up to only a few hundred yuan, although they have lived in the school for a long time, the meals in the canteen are not very expensive, and they can live well if they save some, but now after the two people have organized a family, the rent has become their biggest expense, since they no longer live in the school, It is inevitable that you have to cook by yourself, although it is more economical than eating in the school cafeteria, but it is also a bit stretched in terms of money.

Fang Lingzi, who is now pregnant, needs to supplement nutrition, and shopping for vegetables should be more balanced, so as to ensure the nutritional supply of their mother and child, and understand the arrival of her mother, which can not only help them cook on the fire, buy vegetables and do housework, but also add some saving experience to this small family. Dong's mother's cooking is very delicious, the first meal is cooked, she asked Fang Lingzi to eat the dishes on the plate cleanly, she is pregnant in this month, she eats a lot of food, her appetite is very good, and Dong's mother's cooking skills are very good, so that Fang Lingzi eats deliciously.

Eating in the school cafeteria for a long time, the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar of the big pot dishes are the same, basically not having any characteristics, although the school canteen is now very good, I still think it is okay to eat a few meals, and it doesn't matter if I eat the canteen for a few years in a row.

Dong's mother is very happy to see her son and daughter-in-law's happy life, and she is very happy with this sensible and well-behaved daughter-in-law, and her relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is better than that of ordinary families, although Fang Lingzi is also an only child from an only child, but unlike other only children, she is happy about the arrival of Dong's mother, especially her body is getting heavier and heavier, Dong's mother takes on all the housework, changes her ways, and helps her improve her life. Coupled with Dong's mother's hearty personality in the Northeast, this southern girl feels like a mother, especially Dong's mother's enthusiasm for her, which deepens her closeness to this mother.

At this time, Dong Jianjun was in the critical period of the master's thesis defense, the arrival of his mother was a kind of liberation for him, the pregnant wife entrusted to his mother, Dong Jianjun could devote himself to the final revision of the thesis, in addition to some experiments to supplement the data, the master's thesis was adjusted on a large scale, enriched a lot of new data and calculation methods, carried out detailed statistical demonstration of the results of the experiment, and put forward many new views and new measures in the process of discussing the experimental results. After reading the draft of the paper, the supervisor praised the paper.

After Dong Jianjun's detailed and careful revision, the day of defense of his master's thesis finally ushered in.

After 8 o'clock in the morning, several professors of the defense came to the scene of the defense, and several brothers successively read out their papers, and finally Dong Jianjun also read out his own papers. All the teachers and professors who participated in the defense were very excited after listening to the paper, which was one of the best papers they had heard in the field of new materials for so many years, and the paper made them satisfied in terms of structure and innovation, and these experts could not help but applaud in the face of such a rookie in science and technology.

After the dissertation defense, Dong Jianjun excitedly returned to his small home and told his wife the good news that the thesis was rated as an excellent thesis.

Fang Lingzi, a very heavy wife, heard her husband's paper and received unanimous praise, and after the paper was rated as an excellent paper, it was like she had obtained good grades, she was as happy as a child, and she almost cried with joy.

At the same time, Dong Jianjun announced to his wife the good news that under the recommendation of his supervisor, the school had decided to let him stay on to teach, and at the same time, with his excellent results, he was guaranteed to be a doctoral student.

The new wife has that kind of appreciative vision of her talented husband, and laughter is full of laughter in the rental room, and Dong's mother is also infected by the atmosphere of the two people, and she is proud to have such an excellent son, and the happy family has had the happiest day.

In the joy, Fang Lingzi suddenly felt unbearable abdominal pain, because it was very close to the due date, Dong's mother realized that her daughter-in-law was about to give birth, so she quickly called an ambulance and hurriedly sent her daughter-in-law to the hospital.

The ambulance roared in, Dong Jianjun carried his new daughter-in-law and child on his back with his tall body, and sent it from upstairs to the ambulance, and then followed the ambulance to the hospital, and in front of the doctor, the nurse pushed Fang Lingzi into the delivery room.

The delivery room was busy for a while, the doctors and midwives of the obstetrics and gynecology department helped Fang Lingzi to the delivery bed, this time the frequency of Fang Lingzi's abdominal pain has increased, the pain is unbearable, and the abdominal pain makes her want to be a mother, so he insisted more tenaciously than other women, and did not shout like others, beads of sweat fell from her beautiful face, and she muttered silently in her heart, "Dear baby, you will come to this world happily, let our happy family add another joy." ”

The peaceful life is soon shattered by the birth of a small life.

After Dong Jianjun and Fang Lingzi got married, because of the shortage of housing, the two of them were not qualified to share the room, but in the graduate dormitory, the two single beds were combined into a large bed, and the other students in the same dormitory went to find a place, and Dong Jianjun's dormitory became the marriage room for the two of them.

After receiving the marriage certificate, the two people moved together, no luxurious furniture, and not many electrical appliances, in the student's single dormitory to complete the most glorious wedding of their lives, simple and simple, several teachers and classmates sat around for a meal, both parents because they are in the field, and are at work, so did not come to participate in the wedding, the simple wedding is still lively, the two common classmates Zhang Luo everything about the wedding, a tense and happy day, soon ended, In the dead of night, the two lovers face the newly furnished student dormitory, which will be their lair of love, although it is warm, but after all, it is a little shabby.

Dong Jianjun said very apologetically to his wife, "Lingzi, because both of us are poor students now, we can't give you a very luxurious wedding, but I will give you a lifetime of happiness." Such a simple wedding really made you feel wronged. ”

In the 1990s, the Chinese who had just come out of that extraordinary era, the country was better, people's lives were better, the people in the city, living a rich life, everywhere was a thriving scene, especially in the capital Beijing, it was changing with each passing day, thriving, everyone's face was filled with the brilliance of happiness, when encountering wedding and funeral matters, all people would use a grand ceremony to commemorate their most extraordinary world, hold a grand wedding, has become the city of Beijing, A beautiful scenery that happens every day.

At that time, young people were together to socialize, especially paying attention to external conditions, houses, cars and tickets, which became an indispensable prerequisite for young people to fall in love at that time, but these were a kind of luxury for Dong Jianjun, who was born as a poor student, his parents had been laid off in advance, and now all this allowance for graduate students should be taken out to subsidize his parents, and life is tight. So that this young scientist could not hold a decent wedding, color TV, refrigerator and other fashionable electrical appliances did not want to buy, a student dormitory with two bare beds, became the property of two people's wedding, this may be the simplest wedding on the campus of Beijing City University in the 90s.

As a student from other places to study in Beijing, 4 years of university life has caused a very heavy burden on the family, you must know that in the early days of reform and opening up, the income of Chinese families is still very meager, although it will not be as poor as that era, but all the income adds up to such a few hundred yuan, this is the normal state of an ordinary family, facing the reform of the price system of reform and opening up, all the things that can be bought are rising in price, and the salary in hand is so tight.

Dong Jianjun, who has not yet joined the work and is currently studying for graduate school, has a monthly allowance of more than 100 yuan, but although his parents in Shenyang have not been laid off, the recession of the factory has already begun to appear, and the phenomenon of half of his salary being paid for several months, or even being in arrears for several months, often occurs. In order to reduce the burden on his parents, Dong Jianjun, who had already done some work-study when he was an undergraduate, although he also saved thousands of yuan in his hand, but if it was used as the cost of a wedding, it was indeed too shabby, although Fang Lingzi's family was stronger than Dong Jianjun's family, but as an ordinary salaryman, he was not rich, and the two of them could only maintain a simple wedding if they put together all the money in their hands.

The wedding is a day's time, and the married life will continue, for a wedding and let the future married life become a problem, it is too uneconomical, the two students are still calculated, this account can not be for a moment of glory and cause too many difficulties to their future life, the two people's ideas are the same, since the two people have been married, the new family can no longer cause a burden to the parents, but should use their hard hands to give back the grace of parenting.

A simple wedding is lively, but the newlywed's life is sweet.

Fang Lingzi has always been a very simple girl, never like the girls around her, eating, drinking, and dressing, but paying special attention to frugality, now the small family of the two has been established, so that the family can live better, so that both people can feel the warmth of this small family, this is what a newlywed woman wants, because a house can do nothing, except for sleeping, all other activities are carried out in the classroom canteen, reading room and laboratory, this small family is just at night they return to the nest like swallowsand enjoy the warmth of this nest.

Of course, there are not so many housework in the simple family of two people, neither fire cooking, nor so many things of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the school canteen meals should still be relatively rich, two people have a rice basin, and they eat together in the canteen, sit on the table and wash the dishes before returning to this warm little home. Dong Jianjun is a diligent man, and he rushes to finish some trivial things at home, which makes Fang Lingzi feel that in the world of two, he is completely a backer that can be relied on, and even the matter of washing his face and feet with washing water is contracted by Dong Jianjun alone.

One morning in the third month of marriage, Dong Jianjun woke up from his sleepy sleep, smelled a bad smell, and watched his wife vomit on the basin, Dong Jianjun sat up from the bed suddenly, and asked with concern, "Fang Lingzi, what's wrong with you?" Have you eaten a bad stomach? Why don't you call me when you're not feeling well? Let's go to the hospital and have a look. ”

Dong Jianjun said as he got out of bed, walked to his wife's side, and patted his back gently, seeing that his wife was still nauseous and vomiting there, Dong Jianjun was really a little anxious, "I'd better take you to the hospital quickly, it's so uncomfortable to see you like this, what did you eat to make your stomach bad?" What's wrong with you? ”

After a period of vomiting, Fang Lingzi relieved herself and smiled at Dong Jianjun and said, "Honey, are you stupid or stay?" Don't you even have a little common sense? ”

Dong Jianjun looked at her expression strangely, so uncomfortable, how could he still have time to be bored with me? Said eagerly, "Reiko, why are you talking like that?" ”

Fang Lingzi said with a happy face, "You, you're such a cute nerd, why don't you understand anything?" It's a matter of common sense, my dear, and if I'm not mistaken, you'll be a dad in no time. ”

Seeing his wife's happy face, the pain just now still appeared in his mind, and the news that came out of his mouth was like a thunderbolt, exploding in Dong Jianjun's mind, the love nest that had just been established was about to join a new member in such a short time, his beautiful wife was already pregnant with her own flesh and blood, and soon the two of us were going to be parents, this thought made Dong Jianjun very excited, and rushed to his wife's side at once, and quickly picked her up with his strong arms, Kissed her on the cheek a few times, then gently lowered it to the bed.

Dong Jianjun's series of actions were very agile, so that his wife had no time to react at all, and his excited expression made him smile as innocently as a child, and the sweet and happy love crystallized, which made this beautiful family full of joy, Dong Jianjun covered his wife's stomach with a big hand, feeling the little life.

Seeing her husband so excited, Fang Lingzi also felt very excited, as a woman, she fell in love with the prince charming in her mind and married a small family, and had her own love crystallization for him, which is how happy and lucky she is for an innocent woman, immersed in happiness, enjoying the sweetness of the world of two, and then looking at the excited husband next to her, the hot heart of the young woman is even hotter.

A life is in conception, and the mother of this little life is happier. The first few months were peaceful, the early stages of pregnancy were not drastic, except for a few mornings of retching and vomiting, the rest of the pregnancy was calm. But the inexplicable desire to eat something, this wonderful feeling gives him the opportunity to be coquettish with his husband.

Dong Jianjun reported the good news to his parents as soon as possible.

The old couple was very happy to know about it, and the mother told her son vigorously on the phone, "Xiaojun, now that your daughter-in-law is pregnant, you have to be careful about what you do, a woman's pregnancy is a pass, you have to take care of her wholeheartedly, especially women are easy to hurt her during this period, if she wants to eat something, you must satisfy her, don't send money to the family in the near future, women who are pregnant with children need nutrition the most, buy her more delicious food, you can buy her whatever she wants." , don't count it, don't be too frugal in life, it's not easy for other girls to follow you, our family is an ordinary working class, and we can't give people any material enjoyment, and what you want to eat must satisfy people. ”

In the face of his mother's advice, Dong Jianjun knew that when a woman was pregnant with a child, she would be hurtful, and this common sense made him even more obedient to his wife, and he would buy whatever his wife wanted to eat as soon as possible, put it in front of him, and meet all his requirements.

The most concerned about his wife is the father-in-law and mother-in-law, since knowing that their daughter is pregnant, the father-in-law and mother-in-law will call his wife every day, the mother-in-law's meticulous care, a phone call may take an hour, the mother and daughter have detailed exchanges, of course, between some women, especially secret words, the wife also listens to the mother-in-law's words, and is even more well-behaved and sweet during pregnancy.

Be careful, but when you are 4 months pregnant, there is still a false alarm, one day when you are doing an experiment, your wife suddenly fainted in the laboratory, and was sent to the hospital by her classmates.

This phenomenon scared Fang Lingzi into tears. Dong Jianjun rushed over at this time, he hugged his wife tightly, comforted him, and accompanied him to do a comprehensive obstetrics and gynecology examination, color ultrasound B ultrasound, blood and urine tests, after all the examinations and laboratory tests were completed, he happily told the two of them that this is a common phenomenon, don't panic, don't worry, but you still need to take a few injections, take some folic acid, and you have to come regularly for prenatal checkups every month in the future, pregnant women can not be too tired, you must know that it is now two lives, you must be careful and careful.

After the fright of this incident, Fang Lingzi, who has entered the pregnancy for more than 6 months, has a belly that is getting bigger day by day, and she is completely unable to adapt to the experiment, although the master's thesis is the most critical experiment, but for the sake of this little life, she had to stop, in order to ensure the safety of the pregnancy, she can no longer be as thrilling as this time, so after careful consideration, she submitted an application for suspension to the school.

In accordance with the school's regulations on student status management, and in accordance with past practice, the school approved the application for leave of absence, decided to take a one-year leave of absence, and postponed the defense of the master's degree for one year.

After all the formalities were completed, Fang Lingzi told her husband Dong Jianjun the news.

After Dong Jianjun learned about this incident, he could only admit this reality for the sake of his children, but he felt sorry for his wife from the bottom of his heart, and it was normal to get married and have children, but at this critical moment when his master's thesis was about to be defended, for the sake of his own health and for the sake of giving birth to a child smoothly, he had to apply for suspension of study in accordance with the regulations, which was not only a helpless move, but also the best protection for his wife.

As the due date is getting closer and closer, the place of the student dormitory is becoming more and more inconvenient, it is not impossible to give birth in the student dormitory, but the production place here is too crowded, considering that after the birth, you will definitely have to ask someone to serve the wife's confinement, whether it is the old family or the father-in-law, or to invite a nanny, you need to have a place, this student dormitory is obviously too crowded.

Considering these things, Fang Lingzi did not discuss with Dong Jianjun at all, but held up her belly for seven or eight months, found a few rental houses around the school, and finally found a one-bedroom apartment in a nearby community, negotiated the price, signed the contract, and purchased simple furniture, Fang Lingzi told her husband.

With the help of his classmates, Dong Jianjun and his wife bid farewell to their newlywed Yan'er's student dormitory, moved to a rented house, and re-established their own small home. After everything was ready, Dong Jianjun called his mother to discuss how to serve his wife's confinement child.

Dong Jianjun's mother has been laid off internally for a long time, and she knows that her daughter-in-law is pregnant, and she is also a little anxious, and the two children are outside, and now they are dragging a very heavy body, and they really need to go to Beijing to take care of them, but the housing conditions do not allow her to go over, so it has been delayed until now.

Hearing her son's call, Dong's mother rushed to Beijing from Shenyang as soon as possible.

When my mother came to Beijing, she took all her family's savings and was ready to help her son financially. As a working-class family, Dong Jianjun never asked his family for a penny since he went to graduate school, and he often sent part of the money he earned from his work-study to his home to supplement his family. The mother who is used to saving her life does not spend the money, but saves the money little by little, and this time, Dong's mother came to Beijing with the money.

Two students, set up a small family, there is no income, and now they have to pay rent, this is the practical problem that two students from other places must face, the income of two people, mainly is the post of graduate students, which adds up to only a few hundred yuan, although they have lived in the school for a long time, the meals in the canteen are not very expensive, and they can live well if they save some, but now after the two people have organized a family, the rent has become their biggest expense, since they no longer live in the school, It is inevitable that you have to cook by yourself, although it is more economical than eating in the school cafeteria, but it is also a bit stretched in terms of money.

Fang Lingzi, who is now pregnant, needs to supplement nutrition, and shopping for vegetables should be more balanced, so as to ensure the nutritional supply of their mother and child, and understand the arrival of her mother, which can not only help them cook on the fire, buy vegetables and do housework, but also add some saving experience to this small family. Dong's mother's cooking is very delicious, the first meal is cooked, she asked Fang Lingzi to eat the dishes on the plate cleanly, she is pregnant in this month, she eats a lot of food, her appetite is very good, and Dong's mother's cooking skills are very good, so that Fang Lingzi eats deliciously.

Eating in the school cafeteria for a long time, the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar of the big pot dishes are the same, basically not having any characteristics, although the school canteen is now very good, I still think it is okay to eat a few meals, and it doesn't matter if I eat the canteen for a few years in a row.

Dong's mother is very happy to see her son and daughter-in-law's happy life, and she is very happy with this sensible and well-behaved daughter-in-law, and her relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is better than that of ordinary families, although Fang Lingzi is also an only child from an only child, but unlike other only children, she is happy about the arrival of Dong's mother, especially her body is getting heavier and heavier, Dong's mother takes on all the housework, changes her ways, and helps her improve her life. Coupled with Dong's mother's hearty personality in the Northeast, this southern girl feels like a mother, especially Dong's mother's enthusiasm for her, which deepens her closeness to this mother.

At this time, Dong Jianjun was in the critical period of the master's thesis defense, the arrival of his mother was a kind of liberation for him, the pregnant wife entrusted to his mother, Dong Jianjun could devote himself to the final revision of the thesis, in addition to some experiments to supplement the data, the master's thesis was adjusted on a large scale, enriched a lot of new data and calculation methods, carried out detailed statistical demonstration of the results of the experiment, and put forward many new views and new measures in the process of discussing the experimental results. After reading the draft of the paper, the supervisor praised the paper.

After Dong Jianjun's detailed and careful revision, the day of defense of his master's thesis finally ushered in.

After 8 o'clock in the morning, several professors of the defense came to the scene of the defense, and several brothers successively read out their papers, and finally Dong Jianjun also read out his own papers. All the teachers and professors who participated in the defense were very excited after listening to the paper, which was one of the best papers they had heard in the field of new materials for so many years, and the paper made them satisfied in terms of structure and innovation, and these experts could not help but applaud in the face of such a rookie in science and technology.

After the dissertation defense, Dong Jianjun excitedly returned to his small home and told his wife the good news that the thesis was rated as an excellent thesis.

Fang Lingzi, a very heavy wife, heard her husband's paper and received unanimous praise, and after the paper was rated as an excellent paper, it was like she had obtained good grades, she was as happy as a child, and she almost cried with joy.

At the same time, Dong Jianjun announced to his wife the good news that under the recommendation of his supervisor, the school had decided to let him stay on to teach, and at the same time, with his excellent results, he was guaranteed to be a doctoral student.

The new wife has that kind of appreciative vision of her talented husband, and laughter is full of laughter in the rental room, and Dong's mother is also infected by the atmosphere of the two people, and she is proud to have such an excellent son, and the happy family has had the happiest day.

In the joy, Fang Lingzi suddenly felt unbearable abdominal pain, because it was very close to the due date, Dong's mother realized that her daughter-in-law was about to give birth, so she quickly called an ambulance and hurriedly sent her daughter-in-law to the hospital.

The ambulance roared in, Dong Jianjun carried his new daughter-in-law and child on his back with his tall body, and sent it from upstairs to the ambulance, and then followed the ambulance to the hospital, and in front of the doctor, the nurse pushed Fang Lingzi into the delivery room.

The delivery room was busy for a while, the doctors and midwives of the obstetrics and gynecology department helped Fang Lingzi to the delivery bed, this time the frequency of Fang Lingzi's abdominal pain has increased, the pain is unbearable, and the abdominal pain makes her want to be a mother, so he insisted more tenaciously than other women, and did not shout like others, beads of sweat fell from her beautiful face, and she muttered silently in her heart, "Dear baby, you will come to this world happily, let our happy family add another joy." ”