81, Warm Heart (7)

Time is like flowing water, the climate has reached the late autumn season, the biting cold wind swept the fallen leaves, turning a green field into a desolate place, but the forest in the distance is still lush, where the pine and cypress, still standing in this cold wind, to the earth is still full of vitality.

The heart-warming action of dormitory 408 is still ongoing. There is warmth and cold in the world, there is true love in the world, 4 first-year college students, in a kind of flower buffet, spend this vast autumn night, the weather in November, although the cold is approaching, but can not stop the warmth between the 4 girlfriends.

Shen Xiaofu, looking at the three girlfriends with enjoyment, savoring the rose cold meal carefully prepared by herself, her heart was full of a sense of accomplishment, and the discussion around her rose products was a clever trick, and then another trick, which made her feel the deep love of the three sisters.

The customer group of rose products, mainly women in the world, has infinite attraction to those innocent girls, these simple female students, while they enjoy the flower feast, let go of their thoughts, talking about the marketing of rose products, although not marketing masters, but the feelings in the hearts of all girls are accurate, Shen Xiaofu has received a lot of inspiration from it, in the minds of these female elites, really anything can be released, she is clearly aware, This is an inexhaustible spiritual treasure.

After ridiculing and abusing each other, Jiang Feifei started a new topic, "Today's atmosphere is really good, but every day the four of us can get together and discuss with each other in such an atmosphere, how rich the college life should be in the past 4 years, so I suggest that if there is no special situation, we should gather here often, let go of all the topics, let our thoughts fly, and there will be many dazzling sparks." ”

Shen Xiaofu was the first to express his support, "Fei Fei's suggestion is really good, we all met together, it shows how many lifetimes we have had in life, cherish the good times of these 4 years, let our youth bloom, and when we recall this college life in the future, it will definitely make people feel angry." ”

Jiang Feifei looked at Jiang Wan and Xu Gezi, and then Shen Xiaofu's words, "We want to spend 4 years of good time together, the campus of Yenching University will definitely leave us the best impression, every roommate between us is the best girlfriend, caring for each other, caring for each other, and completing our university studies together, is the last period of our study life before facing the society, so we must cherish it, we are often together, and we will have good memories in the future." ”

Xu Gezi responded to Jiang Feifei's eyes, as the eldest sister, she should also express her position, so she said happily, "Our classmates in a dormitory are united, like a family like sisters, and it will be more warm in this big family, no matter how chaotic the world is, and no matter how warm and cold people are, as long as the family affection of the four of us is still there, our college years will definitely be youthful and gorgeous." ”

Jiang Wan looked at the heated discussion of the three sisters, especially seeing Shen Xiaofu's eager affection, Xu Pigeon's expression, and Jiang Feifei's sincere proposal, he couldn't help but be moved by this atmosphere, "I am your youngest sister, for more than two months, you have been taking care of me every day, making me feel sincere and brave, no matter what, the time we spent together for 4 years should be the best memory, no matter how many years later, these things will be remembered vividly, I am a loyal follower of the three of you, I am willing to study hard with you, live together, and compose a sisterly love song on the Yenching campus. ”

Shen Xiaofu looked at Jiang Wan enviously, although it was a few sisters talking to each other at night, an ordinary conversation, still by this little sister said like a song and crying, the wonderful language organization, breathtaking, worthy of a young female poet, "It's better for all of us to choose a few themes, every time we get together, you can discuss the same topic, you can also change a theme, in short, it can't be empty, just a simple get-together, and finally it becomes formalism, only the topic is updated frequently, and the discussion is constantly deepened, It's more meaningful when we get together. ”

Jiang Feifei responded, "We should relax the atmosphere between us, and we should set up some topics when necessary, but we are in the same dormitory, and we can't need a theme idea for every sentence, and we will have an in-depth discussion when needed. Make the best memories in the process of forgetfulness. ”

Xu Gezi originally wanted to agree with Shen Xiaofu's theme, but after listening to Jiang Feifei's answer, she felt that Jiang Feifei was more realistic in the face of this matter, originally the four sisters were all classmates in the same dormitory, and the mother-in-law and mother did more things between girls, so why should there be a theme for every gathering? As long as the atmosphere is harmonious, isn't it okay to deepen friendship? So she also said, "What Fei Fei said is really reasonable, but Shen Xiaofu's proposal is also very meaningful, and some major issues faced also need us to discuss, and naturally the theme is formed, not necessarily let the theme go first, but in the chat, which will be more vivid than deliberate arrangement, and will deepen the memory of all of us." ”

Shen Xiaofu immediately added, "I also agree with Fei Fei's statement, I don't mean that we must have a theme every time we get along, but everyone discusses with each other when they feel necessary, and sets up a theme, every day we live in the same dormitory, looking down and not looking up, how can there be so many formal topics?" It's not, it's just a normal thing, a normal heart. ”

Xu Gezi said, "But our school time will be more and more busy, each semester of the homework burden is not easy, if you want to use the 4 years of college time, to build yourself professionally, we may be the most time to soak in the library, we have mastered the best way to learn, access to information, read reference books is our spare time the largest student life, a few of our girlfriends get together to discuss problems, it will also happen between the lines, as long as we are sincerely accompanied, We will surely create the best tomorrow. ”

Jiang Wan looked at the aphorisms spoken by the three sisters, and silently blessed himself in his heart, three classmates in the same class were in a dormitory, she was the youngest girl, these three big sisters were like lights on the road of their own lives, not only illuminating their own future, but also illuminating the road under their feet, "Three sisters, we have relaxed enough tonight, we have discussed so many topics at once, and we have snatched back the lost time in the previous period, and we can't live independently like the previous one. Like a sister, walk hand in hand and shoulder to shoulder on the road to the temple of literature. ”

Shen Xiaofu said a little emotionally, sincerely and sincerely, "I was confused by my own small business in the previous paragraph, there is a kind of psychology of being rich and peaceful, and I want to expand after making a few dollars, but fortunately, my little sister helped me solve the problem, the two top talents recommended by Senior Brother Qingfeng The two top talents recommended by Senior Brother Qingfeng have made our company run normally, and I will get along with the three sisters more in the future, so that we can leave a better memory with the girlfriends in the dormitory. Make this youthful time more magnificent and colorful, no matter when, in my memories it is the best college life, and the most memorable is still the three of you girlfriends who have nothing to say. ”

Jiang Feifei also did self-criticism, "A while ago, I was too focused on literary websites, and I interacted less with everyone, not as close as when we first entered the school, but now we have realized that in the next step, I will definitely spend more time with my three sisters, confide in each other, make our friendship more innocent, make our sisterhood stronger, and leave more time for ourselves." ”

Jiang Wan looked at the humility of the three sisters to each other, remembering that she had been immersed in love for a period of time, and the feeling of first love had intoxicated her, ignoring the interaction with several sisters, and she was about to become a lonely person, although she was insignificant in this dormitory, but this beautiful collective still made her linger, and then Jiang Feifei's words, she continued, "Because I also did a part-time work-study job, the hope of the three children going to school in the future is in my hands, So I'm going to have a certain amount of time to help them with their tuition, and the rest of us will live together and study together. ”

Xu Gezi looked at his watch, and then said wittily, "The time that can't be kept, the time that can't be stopped, such a pleasant life, it's so beautiful, ignoring the passage of time, the passage of time, it's now more than 11 o'clock in the evening, we still have to go to class tomorrow, everyone hurry up and clean up, wash and go to sleep, keep the best energy to use in our studies, we must not disappoint Yenching University, the highest institution, let us devote ourselves to the courses in the university, Find yourself in the ocean of knowledge. ”

Xu Gezi, as the eldest sister, finished a speech, this pleasant conversation, 4 people took basin towels and some necessary daily necessities, began to do their own personal hygiene, and then quietly went to their own bed, ready to strengthen the relationship in their sleep.

At this time, the night was already very deep, Jiang Wan lay in bed and didn't feel sleepy at all, and the various situations where everyone was together today, like a movie, shone in her mind, and the inspiration for creation came to the middle of her consciousness again.

So she took advantage of the light of the desk lamp and the soft pink light to open the laptop, expressing her feelings in poetry and writing the sweetness between them.

Sisterhood is deep

Late autumn nights are deep

The autumn wind howled outside the window

Thoughts run wild

Girlfriends' love words are like a drizzle

Open your heart and talk

The words are heartwarming

There are stars in the sky

Happy words stir up the dark clouds

Short time together

Tenderness is like water, and the affection is deeper

Cherish the good times

It's more considerate to each other

It's a long way to live

Sisters meet by fate

Complain to each other

It is spring to live up to the time

The sky is a crescent moon

Jealous girls are more intimate

How many sweet dreams

The girl is more emotional

Can't keep time

Solidarity and mutual help to spend time

Strive in youth

Magnificent life is new every day

In this quiet night, the discussion of several girlfriends together aroused our poetess's deep thinking.

In a person's life, there will be a lot of good things, but also a lot of bad things, first of all, we must see from which angle we understand, to see, with what kind of mood and what kind of mind to treat these things, our own subjectivity, our own thoughts, our own psychology is a decisive role.

Look at those good things with a peaceful mind, your mood will be calm, and you will not get carried away because of a moment of pride, people have made achievements in life, especially those extraordinary achievements, are because of their hard work, no good thing is falling from the sky, even if it is a coincidence, the right time and place and people are in the situation, it seems that people have good luck and bumped into good things, that is also because of your usually, accumulated knowledge and experience, seized the opportunity, created these family environments, There are no opportunities that are impossible to face with ordinary efforts, and those who give full play to their talents to achieve results, so no matter what kind of achievements are made and what kind of brilliance they create, they should be treated with a normal heart.

In the same way, there will be many ups and downs on the road of life, and no one will be smooth sailing. On the journey of life, it is normal to encounter unpleasant things, and the reasons are complex, and they are multifaceted and diverse, with subjective reasons and objective reasons, organic coincidences, and the evil consequences that you usually plant.

In fact, the ups and downs and setbacks you encounter are the same as the achievements you have achieved, which are the norm, some people face these setbacks, which stimulates her fighting spirit, the more frustrated and brave, the fight is not stopped, in the face of setbacks and bumps, thinking that it is a challenge, a kind of motivation, and will make your life more brilliant and colorful.

When you encounter difficulties and setbacks in life, when your emotions are at your lowest point, what you need most is friends. What is Friend? What is a girlfriend? It is the person who accompanies you and encourages you to move forward when you are at your most difficult and lowest point, they do not necessarily give you much support, nor do they necessarily give you much encouragement, but accompany you with their hearts and go through the most difficult times, then they are already the best friends and best friends.

Don't ask others to stick a knife in the ribs for a friend, and don't let yourself go to a knife in the ribs for a friend, this unrealistic luxury must be dispelled between friends, of course, many righteous people will stick a knife in the ribs for a friend, hurt themselves for a friend, this is a neither cost-effective nor economical, not worth advocating things, there are difficulties, there are setbacks, just want others to block the gun hole and block the muzzle for themselves, this is not a good habit, nor is it a good way to solve the problem substantively, Everything must be solved by your own efforts in the end, so why let your friends do it for you?

The poetess had a lot of feelings about Xu Pigeon when everyone accompanied her eldest sister recently, her inner world was greatly shocked, she had a further understanding of the word friend, and she had a deeper understanding of the word girlfriend, and she was glad that she had such three friends, three girlfriends, and she was even more glad that she lived in the dormitory of 408, full of happiness, she fell asleep.