Sighing, Tian Tian said a little melancholy: "But at that time, my parents were so busy that they couldn't take care of me when they were busy with their careers."

Although the conditions of our family are better enough to afford a nanny and aunt, my parents still think it would be better for me to follow my grandparents.

Because after all, they are all cultural people. My grandfather was a university professor, and my grandmother was the principal of an elementary school. My parents thought it would be better for me to follow them and accept their influence than to follow an illiterate nanny. ”

Speaking of this, she smiled happily again, and her tone became cheerful again, where is there any remnant of envy and melancholy?

She even said with some joy: "Fortunately, their wise decision taught me to be self-reliant and self-reliant since I was a child." It also taught me to learn consciously.

Otherwise, after I returned to the capital, my parents were still busy all day long, and they were almost nowhere to be seen. I can only eat with them three or five times a month at most.

You don't always have time to take me to the park playground during a semester. If I hadn't been able to study consciously, how could I have been admitted to this Beijing University now?

It's pitiful, even if the family's conditions are good? Since I was a child, I couldn't grow up with my parents when I was a child, and I was a little capitalized, and I finally returned to my parents, and I had to endure seeing my parents only a few times a month......

Even if Tian Tian said cheerfully, Peng Ying and Zuo Liuliu still couldn't help it, and looked at her with some sympathy.

"Don't sympathize with me, really, I don't feel like I need sympathy anymore." Tian Tian was amused by Peng Ying and Zuo Liuliu's eyes again, and hurriedly said.

"Did you feel like you needed sympathy?" Seeing that Tian Tian was telling the truth, Jiang Ni couldn't help but ask with a smile.

This Jiang Ni is too bad at looking at people's eyes, right?

Tian Tian said this clearly, but he didn't want to admit it, but in fact, he was still uncomfortable in his heart.

Why can't she hear it, and she still has to reveal other people's scars?

Peng Ying and Zuo Liuliu looked at Jiang Ni helplessly, and they both wanted to support their foreheads.

"That's right, that's exactly what I felt when I was a kid when I first came back to my parents."

Tian Tian didn't seem to see Peng Ying and Zuo Liuliu's reactions, and nodded at Jiang Ni again and again: "But later, I saw that the children of the neighbor next door were accompanied by their parents every day.

But their family is arguing all day long over some trivial things. is also very patriarchal.,The boys in the family are treated as treasures and are reluctant to do anything.,The girls are desperately calling to work or they can't look at it.,Every day is either beaten or scolded.。 ”

Tian Tian blinked: "So I figured it out later, instead of living in such a family, I just don't usually have the company of my parents." But they didn't ignore me and didn't care about me, and they didn't beat me or scold me.

They still care about me. At least no matter how busy they are, they try to find time to be at home together on weekends every week, to have a meal with me, or to take me to the playground.

They are busy, but they will also care about my studies, and care about whether the nanny and aunt at home are dedicated to me and take good care of me. They didn't really mean it, they just gave me money and didn't ask me.

I'm still very important to them. And they are busy, also because they want to be able to take me to a better life. After all, if you want to make more money, you always need to pay something.

So I can't be too greedy, let me choose, of course I don't want to choose to be like the little sister of the neighbor next door, although my parents are around all day, but I live a more miserable life than people like me who are not accompanied by my parents.

So in the end I figured it out myself. It is said that mentality is everything, and it was from that time that I felt as if I had grown up all of a sudden, knowing what I really needed and what I should do. ”

Looking at Peng Ying, Zuo Liuliu and Jiang Ni, Tian Tian said with a smile: "My parents are in business, but the business is only good and not too big.

Although they are still busy all day long, there is no way to stop. But now I don't feel wronged, but feel sorry for them.

When I was a child, I asked, and they said that if they had a choice, of course they would prefer to be able to give me better living conditions and grow up with me.

But what if they started poor and didn't do their best? After all, poor couples mourn everything. They also don't want to be like our neighbor's little sister and parents, and they need to quarrel over a little bit of money and lose their feelings.

If you are unfortunate enough to encounter a little bigger change, you may also have to face the crisis of family separation. That's why they want to make more money.

Making money is not only about changing their own lives, it's also about creating better conditions for my future. At least I don't need to be in a dilemma about whether to grow up with my children or have to go out to make money for money in the future. ”

"Yes, poor couples mourn. But whether this is true or not depends on each person's mentality. ”

Peng Ying also said with special emotion on the side: "Tian Tian, you are right, mentality can really determine fate, not only your own fate but also the fate of children."

Like my mother's aunt's daughter. At the beginning, she was also a high school student, her family conditions were very good, and her studies were not bad, so she hoped to be admitted to university.

But she fell in love at the age of study, and finally gave up the college entrance examination to go to college regardless of it, and decided to marry a poor and irresponsible, but especially sweet and coaxing man.

Especially that man, in fact, a discerning person is not good at first glance. But she followed the devil and had to sacrifice her good future, and finally lived a good life.

Despite the opposition of her family and relatives, she insisted on marrying that man. As a result, not long after getting married, she was beaten by her man, and even the children she gave birth to were beaten together.

Her man often forced her to go back to her parents' house, her brother and sister-in-law, her younger brothers and sisters to ask for money, things, and even a house. If you don't go back, you'll punch and kick her again.

But that's it, her parents persuaded her to divorce, but she still insisted on gritting her teeth and refusing to divorce. I have to say that she is a man with ability, but because she was born at the wrong time, she has no place to show it.

No one wants to believe in supporting him and giving him a chance, so he is so depressed that he has to find a place to vent. She felt that her man was also very pitiful. ”