The Queen Mother is actually a very good elder.

Whatever her grandson Zhu Rui said, she praised it. Whatever her granddaughter-in-law Xie Mulin said, she was happy to hear it. She pulled Zhu Rui with one hand and Xie Mulin with the other, first praised the good words of King Yan and his wife, and then said the filial piety of the county lord of Yongping, and then sighed Zhu Rui's bitterness from snacks, and then praised him for his good marriage with Xie Mulin, and he could keep the contract and get married, and he couldn't have done it more correctly.

In fact, the children of the clan and the royal family of the current dynasty, especially the concubines, really few can marry the daughters of the second-class masters as wives. Regardless of whether this second-class official is from a merchant who broke out, his official rank and rank are all real, and he has talent and merit. No one can take such a high-ranking official lightly. The crown princess married by the prince, although she is the granddaughter of the prince, but Mrs. Xue does not have a good family background, and she is still a poor child who has studied well. The former second prince originally said that he was the daughter of the general, and the family has been a general for generations, so there has been no reading seed. Although the Lan family, who was married to the three princes, was the queen of the nobles, they were also not the daughters of scholars.

The queen mother, who was born in a scholarly family, is most satisfied with Xie Mulin for several granddaughters-in-law or prospective granddaughters-in-law. Not only was she born in a high-ranking official family, but even her conversation and demeanor were very much in line with her old man's wishes, and the Queen Mother was even thinking about whether it would be better to go to the scholarly family when she chose a daughter-in-law for her youngest grandson and the fourth prince?

Whether there are high-ranking officials in the family, whether the ancestors have an outbreak, in fact, are secondary, the key is that the girl herself has a good temperament and good conduct. Even if the crown princess Xue and the princess Xie of Yongping County are from a similar background, the difference is quite big!

The Queen Mother likes the latter, but the former is ...... The Queen Mother listened to all kinds of news from the capital in the past two months, and she became more and more disappointed with the princess, and secretly regretted that when the queen chose her daughter-in-law, she didn't intervene, so that now the prince is making more and more trouble.

At the beginning, whether it was the Zhao family for the crown prince, or the Lan family, which had a bad reputation, among the three candidates for the crown princess, I am afraid that it would not cause today's chaos!

Thinking of the negative example of the crown prince, the Queen Mother couldn't help but teach her eldest grandson Zhu Rui: "Brother Rui, your daughter-in-law is married to you, and you like her again, then live a good life with her in the future, don't think nonsense all day long, eat what is in the bowl and look at what is in the pot, for the sake of some cat and dog outside, let your daughter-in-law be wronged!" The royal daughter-in-law is not easy to do! Because she married into our old Zhu family, her mother's family can't give her anything to rely on.

"All the riches and glory of her life are tied to you. It's okay if you treat her well, husband and wife are one, share honor and disgrace, no matter what happens, there is always a companion; But if you treat her badly, she will be pitiful. The mother-in-law can't manage it, and the mother-in-law's family is naturally biased towards you, so she is angry, and she has nowhere to go, so she can only hold back in her heart and be secretly sad! When you didn't recognize your ancestors and returned to your ancestors, your daughter-in-law was willing to marry, and this heart is more important than anything else! Don't learn those useless things, make your daughter-in-law sad, and regret that she shouldn't have promised you in the first place! ”

The Queen Mother's eyes were slightly red when she spoke, as if she was very touched, and when she heard Xie Mulin's heart, she subconsciously stared at Zhu Rui's eyes.

Zhu Rui also stared at her, but his mouth was answering the Queen Mother's words: "Queen Mother, don't worry, I know what to do." There is no one else in this world who can move my heart except her. How could I be willing to let her be wronged? If she is sad, I am even more sad than she is! What does it matter to me how others behave? Anyway, I won't change my mind. If I break this oath, I will be struck by thunder from heaven. ”

The Queen Mother was suddenly frightened, and hurriedly glared at him: "Nonsense! This oath can also be taken casually?! Aren't you afraid that God will really punish you?! Don't tell God that what you said just now is not counting, you are just joking! ”

Zhu Rui grinned, but he didn't plan to change his words.

The Queen Mother was angry, and Xie Mulin hurriedly comforted her and said, "Don't worry, Queen Mother. Brother Rui will not break his oath, God will never split him. ”

Having said that, the Queen Mother couldn't rest at ease when she thought of the risks her grandson might encounter. She took Xie Mulin's hand and said, "Good boy, Rui Ge'er is a stupid child, and he didn't cover his mouth." But his intentions for you are true, that is, if you really do something that makes you angry in the future, don't worry about him, don't be sad for him. If he bullies you, you just have to come to the mourning family, and the mourning family will teach him a lesson for you! But don't complain to God! ”

Xie Mulin smiled dumbly: "Don't worry, Queen Mother, how can I not know the seriousness of the matter?" She winked at Zhu Rui and said that I now have the Queen Mother as a backer, if you kid really change his mind, just wait!

Zhu Rui also squeezed his eyes at her, and hugged the other arm of the Queen Mother: "The Queen Mother can rest assured." I dare to swear this because I am sure that God will not split me, so what does it matter what I say? ”

The Queen Mother spat him, and finally sighed helplessly.

Anyway, young couples are just the time when love is hot. Now what does she say to this little couple that she will change her mind in the future, where will they take it to heart? Anyway, her body is still quite strong, it's a big deal to stare at them for a few more years, send them letters and rewards every year, let them come to Beijing to see her more, if the two have a quarrel, they will mediate more......

The Queen Mother felt that it was not easy for her grandmother to do it, but she felt a little new when she thought that her old man had never felt this kind of feeling so far.

The emperor married his wife Cao, and the husband and wife never loved each other, but just pretended to be each other. The Cao family is arrogant, and does not look down on the queen mother who is born as an ordinary concubine and has an inconspicuous mother's family, and the queen mother has endured it for a long time for the sake of her son's great cause, and over time, she has developed the habit of not interfering in the affairs between her son and daughter-in-law.

King Yan married his wife Yue, and he has always been affectionate, except for having no son, there are no regrets between husband and wife. As a mother-in-law, you don't have to do anything at all, let alone be far away.

The prince won't mention it. He and the crown princess have been making a lot of trouble since they got married. The queen mother knew that the emperor intended to abolish the prince, so she didn't plan to care about the prince's affairs, but every time she was quarreled by her grandchildren and daughters-in-law, disturbing the quiet, she was more upset and had no intention of asking.

The other grandchildren haven't married a wife yet, and even if they do, it is estimated that she doesn't care about any idle things.

Now that I think about it, the pair of Zhu Rui and the Xie family, in terms of blood, is her own grandson and granddaughter-in-law, but in terms of etiquette, she is a distant branch of the clan, she can manage it, and she doesn't have to worry about any taboos, and people are still willing to be close to her, isn't it the most suitable for her to enjoy the joy of family, and she can love her grandchildren and granddaughters-in-law to the fullest, teach them about the world, and mediate the small quarrels between them? !

The Queen Mother looked at Zhu Rui and Xie Mulin, and the gaze in her eyes became more and more loving.