Meng Lang and Dali entered the office and walked towards Zhuge Dasheng's office.

At the same time, in just a few steps, Meng had already flashed many thoughts in his heart.

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"Knock, knock."

(One long and two short, the iconic office knocking etiquette.) ）

"Who?" A neutral woman's voice came from inside the door.

"Aunt, it's me, Meng Lang."

(A voice that is neither humble nor arrogant and appropriately addressed can implicitly add points to the first impression.) ）

"Is that you? Come on in. ”

"Okay, sorry to bother you."

(Even if you have the permission of the other party, you still have to maintain politeness and humility, which is the secret of allowing your mother-in-law to give you a high score in your upbringing.) ）

Meng Lang pressed the handle with moderate force, opened the door at a uniform speed, and at the same time took a very gentlemanly half a step back, letting Dali enter the house first, he followed the door and turned around lightly, and closed the office door carefully with his backhand, without making noise during the whole process.

(The first time I met my mother-in-law was like the first time I met HR, the core skills are to show yourself to the other party, at this time, not only to show your strengths, but more importantly, not to make any mistakes.) ）

"Huh? Lili, you're here too? Sit down quickly, and I will pour you water. Seeing the two of them enter the door, Zhuge Dasheng put down the documents in his hand and prepared to get up.

Meng Lang took the opportunity to briefly glance at the furnishings in the office, and his eyes condensed slightly when he saw the honeysuckle tea in the Zhuge Great Sage Water Cup.

(At this time, it's all about the details, don't rush to do things when you first arrive at the other party's house, which will cause some unnecessary trouble while lowering your identity.)

Instead, it's the right thing to do by taking advantage of the preparation time they're hosting to gather first-hand information to start the conversation. ）

Meng Lang pulled vigorously to Zhuge Dasheng's desk, and moved two chairs over in two times with both hands, and also did not make any sound.

(Continue to pick out the details, modern society emphasizes etiquette, even if you have the strength to move two chairs at the same time, don't do it, that will create a little recklessness and affect the impression score.) ）

Then, after motioning for the little girl to sit down in a seat close to the desk, Meng smiled and went to another chair a little farther away to sit down, with her butt only sitting on the front third of the chair, her hands crossed on her laps, leaning forward slightly, and not leaning on the back of the chair.

(Knowledge points, pay attention to the seat when you meet for the first time, and be sure to sandwich your girlfriend between yourself and your mother-in-law, which can give the other party a slight psychological cue while avoiding direct line contact, implying that you and her daughter are inseparable.) Of course, the subsequent sitting posture is also important. ）

"Come, Meng Lang, Lili, you drink water."

Meng Lang hurriedly left his seat, bowed slightly and took the water cup with both hands, and then gently handed it to the little girl: "Thank you, auntie...... Come vigorously and drink water. ”

(It's still a detail, there are two times to receive water here, the first time you take it, you have to hand it to your girlfriend first, and the second time is your own.) In addition, don't draw a snake after receiving the water, say something like "aunt, you also sit", this is someone's home, you don't need to make arrangements for the elders, that will easily cause disgust. ）

Sitting down again, Meng Mou smiled and waited for Zhuge Dasheng to sort out and collect a few documents, and then he said hello:

"Auntie, I just saw you drinking honeysuckle, have you been staying up late lately? I have some supplements that are not available on the market, so I will bring them to you next time. ”

(Or the details, from the subtleties you are sure of to lead the topic to the other party first, and then have the ability/financial resources to find a way to solve it, and those who don't have the ability to do this must find a way to care about it.) ）

"Hey! No need, my aunt is just a little nervous in the past few days, and it's not a big deal. Zhuge Dasheng chuckled and shook his head, as if he wanted to brush the topic over.

Meng also nodded lightly as if he was careless and said, "Well, you are busy with you, I will tell you the dosage and dosage when the time comes, so you don't need to worry about it." ”

(After opening the topic, pay attention to observe whether there is an embarrassed expression on the mother-in-law's face, prevent the horse's fart from slapping on the horse's leg, and wait to confirm that the other party really needs help, and then make a moderate contribution according to your actual situation.)

In addition, I would like to remind you that taking insomnia as an example, persuasion, popular science, and chatting and sighing are not the so-called "contribution".

Be sure to use health products that you can see and touch, soothing tea, and sleep pillows...... As a matter of sincerity, such gifts can not be expensive, but they must be had, even if they know that the other party does not need them, they still have to give them, which is a matter of attitude. ）

Zhuge Great Sage had a good impression of Meng Lang, but now he is more pleasing to the eye, and he pursed his lips and said with a smile:

"Hehe~ You kid has a heart, it seems that our family strength is still very attractive, you are such a big leader will slap me as an old woman."

Hearing the words of the mother-in-law-to-be, Meng Lang replied with a witty smile: "Dali is indeed very attractive, but isn't she also the daughter you raised?"

Besides, aunt, you look very young, and when you go out with Dali, people may think that you are sisters~"

(The key point is that more than eighty percent of the mother-in-law will dig this kind of pit, that is, directly mention you, her, and her daughter in a sentence. ）

"Alas~ You don't have to pick it up in front of your aunt, I know what kind of situation I am, you can remember to be good to Dali...... By the way, aren't you very busy? Why do you remember that I'm here? ”

Meng picked up the paper cup with both hands and took a sip of water gently, and then said with a smile: "Look at what you said, aren't you still working overtime in the company on Sundays?" I don't want to learn from you, so I can be more motivated~"

(Knowledge points, don't be in a hurry to drink the water when you get it before, when you can't think of the wording, you can use the move of drinking water slowly to buy time, and remember to talk about your girlfriend and mother-in-law first, don't be stupid when people ask you how you are, you keep talking about your own business.) ）

As he spoke, Meng Lang put down the water glass in his hand, his face turned solemn, and he said solemnly: "However, I really have an important matter to ask for your opinion on this time.

There is already news about Uncle Dali's whereabouts, the younger generation of the things you explained dare not slack off, and has already found someone to arrange the itinerary to prepare for the overnight, and now I want to ask you, what should I say to him after meeting? ”

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