Thirteen-year-old Meng Xiaolang Hello, I'm your mother!

Well...... Although I don't know if your own mother will be surnamed Zhuge or Feng, I am your mother!

This letter was written long, long before you were born, and it is your mother's love for you, so read it carefully!

Thirteen-year-old you should have entered puberty, right? I wonder if you have met someone around you who makes you feel excited?

Hee-hee! (^?? ^)

Don't be shy, although mom doesn't advocate early love, mom also doesn't support the nature of oppression of children.

Children of your age should have begun to think about life and love, you are the most sensitive and vulnerable at this time, so your mother specially wrote you this letter and asked your father to show it to you on the day you turned thirteen.

First of all, Mom wants to tell you that the world you live in is not as beautiful as the books and teachers describe.

There are not only blue skies and white clouds here, as long as you are human, you must have your own troubles to a greater or lesser extent, even if you are supposed to be carefree in the eyes of adults.

That's right, don't believe the of other adults (especially your grandmother), they don't know that children who can laugh can be sad, and they don't know that the word depression was not coined specifically for adults.

"Where do children come from to be unhappy, what children just need to study hard, what children think so much" - these are all excuses that we adults use to perfunctory you.

Mom is here to tell you clearly - it's normal for little children to have troubles! It's reasonable and common, and Mom and Dad have been through it at your age, so don't be afraid.

But what~ just like adults will ignore your feelings because they don't understand, Mom also asks you not to give up communicating with us because adults don't understand temporarily.

When my mother was a child, she had a hard time because of your grandmother's neglect, and because she didn't know how to communicate, it led to very bad results!

So please don't keep your worries to the bottom of your heart, and if you are unhappy, please be sure to speak up!

Although your dad is a little wooden, he is still very open-minded at critical moments, and if you talk to him more privately, you will have less trouble.

And if you feel that our love is in the wrong direction, please tell us in time, and we will be willing to correct it in time.

Because, just as the person you love the most at this time is us, the person we love the most will always be you.

Meng Xiaolang promised his mother not to hide everything in his heart alone, whether it was good or bad, he must learn to share it with his family.

Don't take it personally! Children will become stupid when they are lonely for a long time! Mom doesn't lie to you!

Finally, what Mom wants to say to you is:

Don't care too much about what others think of you, and don't care too much about your academic performance, Mom and Dad may be strict with you, but at the end of the day, what we really want is that you can always be healthy and happy.

The theory of the uselessness of reading is nonsense, but the theory of reading is not very clever, and academic performance is certainly related to hard work, but in fact, it is also due to everyone's talent.

In addition to learning, there are many, many beautiful things waiting for you to discover and feel in this world.

You may not know that you are very good at singing, you may not know that you are very good at playing the piano, you are very good at dancing, you are very good at drawing.

You may even be obsessed with poetry today, but physics will be more interesting tomorrow.

You may love small animals, you may have many kittens and puppies in the future, and you may even become a volunteer who wants to protect them.

Or maybe you'll have a strong interest in plants, and you'll be able to call each plant by name when you look at it from the top of the mountain—something that no other kid can do.

Meng Xiaolang, please remember that what Mom and Dad want is to grow up healthy and happy...... That's all.

In this process, you may encounter opportunities, challenges, and disappointments and bitterness.

But as long as you always remember to share your feelings with your family during this time, then at least on this road called "growing up", we will not leave you alone.

You must hate that kind of boredom that no one understands, right?

Mom knows it, because mom ...... I hate being lonely the most......

Finally, I would like to give you a serious piece of advice - leave! You! Outside! Old woman! Far! Dot!

By: Love your mom