Chapter 450: The World and You
The weather is gradually getting hotter again, and Meng Hainan can't wear her thick coat anymore, so she can only change into a thin coat, especially when the sun is out, the temperature will rise.
He seemed to suddenly remember that he had made a mistake last time and walked to the classroom in his junior year, and then the man should be a foreign teacher, and he was quite good-looking. Meets Westerners.
Meng Hailan: "Sting, is there a particularly handsome foreign teacher with blonde hair and blue eyes in the junior year?" And he speaks English fluently. I always felt like I had seen him somewhere? I can't remember it though. ”
Chu thought for a moment: "Huh? You should be talking about Cyril, a foreign teacher, who fully fits the characteristics you said, and is indeed one of the handsome guys in foreign teachers. This is a popular saying among students. ”
Meng Hailan: "Oh, it's him." ”
Chu was stunned: "Let me think about it, where did you say you saw him, if I'm not mistaken, it should be, it was at the speech contest in your sophomore year, because it seems that he was also a judge at that time." ”
Meng Hailan: "Ah, yes, when you say that, I remember, at that time I thought that although this man was a little handsome, he was so fierce, so I thought you were the best-looking." But does this foreign teacher have a wife and children? ”
Chu was stunned: "I don't know, I'm not very familiar with him, but I shouldn't have it, because I've seen it before." ”
He seemed to remember something funny, "The last sentence said that I thought I was the best at that time?" ”
Meng Hailan said it as a matter of course: "Of course it's good? Whether it was then or now, you are the best to watch. But now that I think about it, I was actually a little nervous at the time.
Even sometimes I felt that my voice was not particularly stable, because at that time I thought you were so serious, I didn't dare to look at you, and then I couldn't help it, so I looked at you twice, and then I said my own. Speaking of which, she was complaining again.
Chu was stunned: "What's there to be nervous about, think about it now." Actually, you were doing pretty well at the time. ”
Meng Hailan: "Well, I still really want that notebook." At the time, I thought I wanted to buy a new notebook, but I thought it was a bit too expensive, but fortunately, I got it in the end. ”
Chu was stunned: "Hmm." ”
These days when Meng Hailan is resting, she occasionally takes a little time to think about the plot outline and character settings of the next book.
I don't have as much time to code words as before.,And it seems that the computer has been watching too much recently.,The eyes are not very comfortable.,Maybe I'll have to see less time in the future.。
One afternoon, Meng Hailan went out and went to drink tea and chat with a few of his current colleagues, Chu Jingzhen saw the breeze at home, and thought of what Meng Hailan said last time, and then he opened it to read.
The title page reads: The sun is just right, the breeze is not dry, and the world and you are just right. — Tsui Creek.
Chu Jingzhen suddenly laughed, this girl, why do you still like to write these words now, but it's very interesting, isn't it?
At the party with colleagues, everyone talked about what had happened around them recently.
Meng Hailan spoke very little, because he found those things, at least not yet, so she listened to them while drinking tea and eating.
A middle-aged female teacher said: "My husband and I have been married for so many years, and our feelings for each other have long faded. But it's still not easy to divorce anyway. ”
Meng Hailan recognized that person was an old teacher with more than ten years of teaching experience, and Meng Hailan generally called her Sister Zhao.
"I'm pretty much the same, anyway, everyone lives like this, each in their own circle, except for sleeping in the same bed, there is almost no other connection."
"Xiao Meng, you are still young, but remember our advice and don't trust and rely on men too much." Sister Zhao looked at Meng Hailan and said.
Meng Hailan: "Sister Zhao, I don't really understand it now, because I haven't been married for long." ”
Sister Zhao: "It's because of this that you have to remember to learn the lessons of our elders, especially after giving birth to a child, my husband almost doesn't touch me."
Anyway, if you take care of your own family and children, you will become a yellow-faced woman, and many of these men like the new and hate the old. ”
Meng Hailan seemed to understand: "Ah, okay, I'll remember." "I really don't understand.
In fact, she didn't understand it at all, because Meng Hailan's living conditions since she was a child were the kind of parents who had a better relationship and a harmonious family.
So she doesn't just think that having a child will have a big impact on the marriage, unless it's because your marriage didn't start with a particularly sincere purpose.
But then again, it is indeed not easy for a woman to take care of the child and the family after giving birth. So the world is actually too demanding for many women.
Meng Hailan doesn't like it, why should women become fertility tools and fertility machines?
Some of these female teachers have been rated as particularly senior titles, and it should be said that the monthly salary is not low, but ...... Privately...... So nothing is as glamorous as it seems.
Meng Hailan: "Okay, thank you Sister Zhao and a few teachers for their suggestions." ”
Sister Zhao: "You're welcome, Xiao Meng, you really have to pay special attention, don't be as miserable as us in the future." ”
Meng Hailan: "Oh. No, thank you. ”
When she went back, Meng Hailan was also thinking about this problem, and she felt that she wouldn't.
But maybe some things still need to be prevented, but she believes that Chu is stunned.
Chu was stunned, Meng Hailan went back just in time for dinner, as if she found that she hadn't cooked yet, so she cooked the meal.
During the meal, Meng Hailan talked to Chu Jingzhen about the topic they talked about today, "Jingjing, you say, why do they say anything?" ”
Chu was shocked: "I did see books on this aspect before, many marriages will be affected to varying degrees after the birth of children, and some divorces are also because of different concepts, and all kinds of problems have come out." ”
Meng Hailan: "That's really troublesome to say." ”
Chu was shocked: "Yes, but the situation of each family is different, and we still have a lot of considerations about these issues." ”
Meng Hailan: "Shocked, I didn't ask you, why did you think so at the time?" Independent, and after going to college, you come out and live on your own? ”
Chu was stunned: "This is that they have been more relaxed with me since I was a child, much like Western-style education.
A lot of things are because I am interested in learning and want to learn by myself, and then I have not thought about anything else, and I feel that I have to study first, so that I will be qualified to speak later.
When I go to university, I should be self-reliant, and I shouldn't rely entirely on my family......"
Meng Hailan: "That's right. ”