Chapter 440: A Strong Mother Who Is Good For You (11)
Teacher Yang shook his head, looked at the little boy not far away, and said, "No thanks, I am his teacher, this is what I should do." ”
Yin Yin stared at the little guy with his little head hanging down not far away, and sighed slightly.
"An An, let's go home."
Xu Qingan raised his head, carrying his schoolbag, and was led by Yin Yin in the direction of home.
On the way, both of them were a little quiet, and it was not normal.
Xu Qing'an was in a mess because of the midterm exam, while Yin Yin didn't know what to say for a while.
Thinking of the education of the original owner for the three children in the past, she secretly supported her forehead.
In the past, on the way home, for fifteen minutes, every time the original owner asked about Xu Qing'an's learning, he didn't ask him about his life at school, such as getting along with teachers and classmates, what was happy, happy or sad, and the original owner always cared about Xu Qing'an's grades.
Only Xu Qing'an's excellent grades and good ability in art classes mean that her education is successful.
Yin Yin thought about it and felt that this kind of education method was ridiculous.
There is nothing wrong with the idea of hoping that the son will become a dragon and a daughter will become a phoenix, and there is nothing wrong with hoping that the child will have good grades and be excellent in all aspects, but the original owner's fault is that she is too demanding.
It seems that only Xu Qingan's good grades can show that Xu Qingan is an excellent child, otherwise he is an ignorant bad boy.
Yin Yin felt that the original owner was like treating Xu Qing'an, a small person, as a sculpture, and the original owner held the carving knife in her hand, and she carved her ideal Xu Qing'an according to her own ideas.
She strives for perfection.
But the original owner forgot that Xu Qingan is not a cold sculpture, he is a person with a soul, emotions, and his own thoughts.
It's just that the original owner never asked.
Yin Yin couldn't help but recall the sad life of the original owner and his three children in their previous life.
The original owner's husband cheated, the original owner divorced him, got money, and got custody of her three children, she behaved decisively, as if she didn't care about this failed marriage at all.
But in fact, the original owner was deeply stimulated, which made her a little paranoid, sensitive, and even a little neurotic, but she didn't show it, but buried it in her heart.
Especially in front of her three children, she became strong and in control.
She doesn't feel that because she is disappointed in her marriage, she has to become a loser in the eyes of others.
So, she put all her hopes on the child.
She wants her child to be excellent, so good that others will think that the man's departure is that the man is blind, she wants to make that person regret it, so that others dare not talk behind her back, she wants them to know that even if there is no man, she can raise the child to be better than any of them.
Because of this thought, the original owner has a strong desire to control her three children, and if the three children do not grow up according to her ideas, she will be anxious, will break down and cry.
Xu Qingge was her first child, and when Xu's father cheated, Xu Qingge was only thirteen years old.
Xu Qingge has seen the pain of the original owner when she divorced, she has always been a good child, she knows that it will be very hard for her mother to raise their three sisters and brothers alone.
At that time, she was only a sixth-grade elementary school student, and she had no way to make money and give her mother a better life, and the only thing she could do was to take care of her two younger brothers, and then she had to listen to her mother.
As soon as I heard this, I listened to it for thirteen years.