This is the first time that two mothers and daughters have gone out to play.

So Chen Jing was very excited.

So on the first day, Jiang Ru checked a lot of things with great interest, and in the process of playing, he shared what he found with Jiang Ru.

Jiang Ru listened very seriously, and praised while listening: "My daughter is amazing!" Knowing so many things, Mom doesn't know anything. ”

She knows that many people with depression are due to their low self-esteem and sensitivity.

Therefore, if you want to improve, you must build her self-confidence and change her inner inferiority complex.

The first step to change is to praise a lot.

As Jiang Ru expected, looking at her mother listening carefully, Chen Jing couldn't help but be triumphant in her heart, and there was an indescribable snickering joy.

Therefore, the next day, Chen Jing still checked many things seriously.

Day 3 is also ,......

Day 4 is also ,......

For a whole week, no matter where she went, Chen Jing made a strategy very seriously, where to play, how to play, what to eat, and what places suitable for taking pictures, she checked it clearly.

In order to hear her mother's praise, she put a lot of effort into it, and even took a lot of notes.

And Jiang Ru is just like what she thinks, no matter what she says, even if it is wrong, she is very supportive.

My daughter is awesome!

Jingjing is amazing!

Jingjing knows a lot!

Although there are only a few words of praise, Chen Jing is tired of it.

Every time I look at my mother's proud gaze, I secretly stay up late at night to do the hard work, all of which turn into excitement.

From unconsciously cowering at the beginning, to being generous later, even if others watched, she didn't change her face.

From the beginning, she was always afraid that she would say something wrong, and she looked at her phone from time to time, and even if she said something wrong, she could change her mistakes calmly.

A person's change is as simple as that.

It's only seven days, and Chen Jing's temperament has slowly become gentle and sunny.

It's like a piece of jade being polished, gradually revealing its beautiful light.

All this is just because of Jiang Ru's repeated praise of a few words.

Eleven was a little incredulous.

"Host, the target person's depression value has been reduced to 18, how did you do that?"

Jiang Ru said: "Actually, it's very simple, the reason why Jingjing has psychological problems and suffers from depression is because her heart is too sensitive and fragile.

Children who have not grown up under the care of their parents are always sensitive in their hearts, and many things they cannot face the hardships and worries of the world calmly and gently like children who grow up in normal and warm families, and these hardships and worries cannot be relieved, and they will suffer from depression. ”

"Host, there are not as many children in this world as parents care for, and not everyone has depression." Eleven's voice was full of confusion.

It can look at a lot of data, and from the data, there are people with depression, old and young, rich and poor, some with good family environment and some with bad family environment, and there is no specific pattern.

It's like there are hundreds of families similar to Chen Jing in Rongcheng, but she is the only one suffering from depression at present.

Jiang Ru said: "People's growth is not only related to their parents, but also related to their growth environment. Some children may be left-behind children like Jingjing, but they may have a good grandparents or other elders. They were taught by good elders to establish the correct three views.

Or, when they were in school, they met a good classmate or a good teacher.

At an early age, children are like flowers, they need sunlight, and children without sunlight will grow up, even if they want to stand in the sun, it will be difficult. Because her roots are all in the shadows, she has to move her roots if she wants to go out into the sun.

If you move the roots yourself, you need to pull out the roots yourself, which is very painful and painful.

And what I want to do is to make up for her the sunlight she lacks, to make her stronger, to grow her into a tree, to let her rise above the shadows, to let her see the sunlight without moving her roots, and to make her realize that the shadow is just a speck of light under her feet. ”

……

In the evening, the two returned home, took a shower and lay down in bed together.

Chen Jing hugged Jiang Ru's arm and tilted her head on her arm.

"Mom." She called softly.

"What's wrong? Jingjing. Jiang Ru asked suspiciously.

She knew in her heart that Chen Jing should have no money on her.

Although the places they go to these days are free of charge, they also spend a lot of money on food and transportation.

"Mom...... Mother...... I don't have any money on me, I can't take you to play anymore, I'm going to look for a job. Chen Jing lowered her head guiltily.

She felt that she was very useless, and she didn't even have the money to take her mother out to play.

The places they went to for a week basically didn't need tickets, and just like that, all the money on her was spent, and there were not a few dollars left.

Think about other people's children, who buy cars and houses in their teens and twenties, and travel the world with their parents, but they ......

She leaned her head on Jiang Ru, exuding a sense of frustration all over her body.

"Mom~ Am I useless......"

Maybe it's the nature of mother and daughter, after seven days of getting along, the two became intimate.

Chen Jing also had no scruples when she spoke.

She doesn't have to worry that what she says will be misunderstood by her mother, and she doesn't have to worry that her mother will be unhappy when she hears what she says.

Jiang Ru touched Chen Jing's hair, and first praised it.

"My baby girl is amazing! How could it be useless? Look at it, you took your mother out to play, you didn't let your mother worry, everything was well arranged. ”

"Don't you know, your Aunt Wen's daughter, every time she goes out to play, she still asks your Aunt Wen to take it, buy tickets, how to go, and even ask her to come for what to eat. You know, her daughter is two years older than you. ”

Chen Jing sat up and looked at her with a blank stumbling gaze.

"Mom, are you telling the truth? Didn't lie to me? ”

"What am I lying to you for?" Jiang Ru patted her head, "You still don't believe your mother and me?" ”

Chen Jing covered her head and pretended to be in pain and cried out: "Ah! Mom, I was wrong! I was wrong! I shouldn't have disbelieved you! ”

Jiang Ru smiled in his eyes, "You are getting skinny!" ”

Chen Jing rubbed her shoulders with her head attachment, "Mom has learned more and more Internet vocabulary, look at you, you can use the word skin now." ”

She smelled the smell of her mother's body, it smelled so good, it was the smell of the sun, warm, and it made her feel at ease.

"Mom, how do you think I'm a travel expert?" Chen Jing suddenly had an idea, jumped up suddenly, and asked Jiang Ru excitedly.

Jiang Ru asked suspiciously: "What is a travel expert?" ”

"Travel experts are the kind of people who make money by writing travel guides, and they can make money while traveling." Chen Jing explained with great interest.

"As long as the manuscript is favored by the editor, you can get money! And now it's so popular to shake it, if you shoot a short video and watch it, you can also make money. ”

"So good?" Jiang Ru said in surprise, "Then you can do it if you want!" Mommy has your back! I remember when you were a kid, you wanted to be a tour guide, saying that you could go to many places for free as a tour guide, and some places could go in at half price. ”

Chen Jing received support from her mother, but she flinched and hesitated.

"I ...... Can I do it? ”