Chapter 197: The first step in love is to give up illusions
Outside the room, the boy walked anxiously with his hands behind his back, like a husband standing outside the delivery room, waiting for the accompanying nurse to come out and announce whether he needed to work hard for the rest of his life.
Zhang Wei, who was justified because he wanted to keep his distance, was lying on the door at this time, trying to eavesdrop on his ears, and the appearance of a hundred claws scratching his heart was in stark contrast to Lu Ziqiao, who was snorting melon seeds.
Meng Lang looked at the boy plowing back and forth in front of his eyes, waved his hand a little impatiently and said, "Dude~ Calm down, you can't solve the problem if you turn around like a headless fly here." ”
"Big brother, you don't know!" When the boy heard that someone was taking care of him, he was so upset that he immediately began to pour bitter water, "Unlike you, I finally got a girlfriend like me, and I really don't want to lose her." ”
Seeing that he was in a hurry, Meng couldn't help but wonder: "You don't want to break up with others, why are you still trying to find so many reasons to alienate others?" ”
When the boy heard Meng Lang's question, the expression on his face changed from reminiscence to sweetness, then from sweetness to pain, and finally from pain to helplessness, he sighed long and said in a muffled voice:
"What can I do? Since I discovered my werewolf killing talent, I have made some money by starting a live broadcast, and Xiaoxing has quit my job because of this, and has taken care of me wholeheartedly.
But gradually, I found that the two of us had less and less common topics, she didn't understand the games I was talking about, and I wasn't interested in baking.
I didn't realize what effect this had on our relationship...... It wasn't until two years ago that I won the championship in my first national werewolf killing competition.
That day, I opened the replay as soon as I got home and wanted to share the joy of victory with her, and I wanted to tell her what kind of fight I had experienced for the future of the two of us, but ......"
Speaking of this, the boy smiled bitterly, and Meng Lang saw confusion and despair in his smile.
"But it wasn't until that day that I realized that before I knew it, she and I were already people from two worlds.
I play werewolf killing every day, relying on hard work and cunning, she has a quiet life at home, and she studies firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
You know, when I got home from the competition that day, I excitedly turned on the replay and explained to her the wonderful operation in the competition, but she smiled indifferently and changed the topic and said that she was going to try the mask she just bought for me in the evening...... I was really desperate at that moment.
I don't know how, but since that day, I have felt a strange sense of alienation between us, and I can no longer find the kind of liking in her. ”
Looking at the boy's lost expression of grabbing his hair and sitting on the ground, Meng shrugged helplessly, after all, he is just a strong mouth king, and he also has no experience in this kind of thing, but it doesn't matter, there is a great god here.
Sure enough, Lu Laobu, who is a good teacher, couldn't see a little brother being stupid in terms of feelings, so he put down the melon seeds in his hand, and then ...... A kick in the boy's face.
"What are you doing?!" The boy asked angrily.
"What are you doing? Lao Tzu beat you to death! Lu Ziqiao sneered expressionlessly, "I always thought that straight men were either anxious or cowardly, but this is the first time I've seen this kind of mentally retarded type, what's the difference between you and eating hot pot with your bare hands?" ”
"Hot pot is meant to be eaten with chopsticks, you won't burn your hands with chopsticks, don't cry out in pain!
So you can't develop your own beautiful girlfriend there, and you're embarrassed to tell people that you don't feel it anymore? Tell you, you're not a scumbag, you're just stupid! ”
The boy with shining eyes/Meng Lang/Zhang Wei: "Ask the teacher for guidance!" ”
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Seeing the eager expressions on the faces of the three of them, Lu Ziqiao nodded with satisfaction: "Well, for the sake of you all being so humble and seeking advice, this senior will teach you how to dig out freshness in the same girlfriend......"
(If someone wants to see Mr. Lu's small class, they can check in here, and if more than 100 people want to see it, I will write out the knowledge points [yes, in fact, I just don't want to disclose the core technology])
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Just outside the door, Lu Ziqiao's boss was passionately teaching experience to the three emotional whites, and Chen Duo's little sister in the house was also relaying the content of a certain magical guide for girls:
"There are indeed perfect patterns of long-term love in this world, and there are not only two, but two.
The first model requires both men and women to find common goals and hobbies, bind the two together with a highly similar rhythm of life, and achieve the purpose of long-term love with the help of a special relationship intertwined with friendship and love.
The second mode requires one of you to take the initiative to integrate into the other's life by completely giving up the self, so that your partner will subtly get used to your company until you become a part of his life.
Don't think that the second method is very simple, integrating into life means integrating into his work, relatives, and circle of friends, rather than simply marrying to do laundry, cook and have children, many housewives feel that they are the second model, but in fact, they are just nannies that men marry home, and do you think men will be with a nanny for a long time?
So, strictly speaking, there is no superiority between the above two methods, and even you don't need to worry about which one to choose.
Because nine out of nine couples in the world cannot achieve a perfect relationship, so at this time we have to retreat to the next best thing and learn how to manage an ordinary relationship. ”
Secretly turning the text on the mobile phone to the next page, Chen Duo picked up the water cup and took a sip while recalling Sister Dali's teachings, and then continued to preach:
"As a woman in an ordinary relationship, if you want to have a long-term relationship, the most important thing is to give up your illusions."
"Give up illusions?" The girl looked puzzled.
The little girl's turquoise eyes were not wavering, and she said earnestly as she did when Sister Dali gave her a lecture:
"In short, you have to tacitly assume that your boyfriend is a big pig's trotter who likes the new and hates the old, and you have to find a way to manage the relationship on the principle of equal exchange, instead of blindly believing in the man's so-called 'love you forever' vow.
You must know that people will change, and now that this society is developing so fast, a man can't even guarantee that he will not be a man in three years, so why should he promise to still love you for him three years later? ”
"This ...... Professor Chen, you're right! So what do I do? ”
"It's very simple, you only need to do two things well-
First of all, to get a job, you must have independent property rights, even if the money is not much, but whether you work or not determines whether your status in the eyes of men is equal or vassal, which is very important and the premise of the second point.
After you are on an equal footing with a man, your pandering behavior will make sense, and it will make him feel that you are paying for him, and then he will be moved......"
After talking about the theory, Chen Duo smiled reservedly in the girl's adoring eyes, then took another sip of water, and concluded according to the teaching order of Sister Dali that day:
"Na, that's probably what you need to pay attention to, there are many ways to cater to each other, the most effective of which is men's animal instincts, you open the online shopping software, and I'll help you choose a few suitable clothes......"
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