Chapter 277: The Child Doesn't Know How to Write (11)

Chen Die suddenly remembered at this time, it seemed that her husband had indeed not given his son a gift.

Even on her son's birthday, most of the time it's something she helps buy.

[So, the star was so angry because it was a gift from his father himself, so he was so angry after someone else used it?] ]

[I guess so.] Jiang Ru said.

For many children, what is not important in the eyes of adults is extremely important to them.

Chen Die didn't know how to speak for a while.

Is this a dereliction of their duty as parents? I didn't even notice my son's thoughts.

Maybe Xingxing already knew that I was the one who prepared every birthday present for his birthday, right?

It's ridiculous, and I've been coaxing him like a child who doesn't know anything.

[Children are often the most sensitive, many things you think he doesn't know, but he knows it clearly, it's just that there are some things he can't understand.] ]

Meng Xingyun saw that Chen Die didn't speak, and immediately lowered his head in frustration.

Mom must have been angry.

He was a little sad. Why should I make my mother angry?

Usually, my mother has a headache for my grades, and I still make trouble for her like this.

Meng Xingyun made up his mind, so he apologized to Chen Die in a whisper: "Mom, I'm sorry." ”

Chen Die was blaming himself, and suddenly heard his apology, and his eyes were wet in an instant, as if he was choked by something, and he was extremely uncomfortable.

"Xingxing, you don't have to apologize, it's your mother who didn't do a good job."

She hugged Meng Xingyun tightly, tears streaming down her face.

Meng Xingyun was startled by her sudden hug and tears, and asked nervously, "Mom, what's wrong with you?" Why did you cry all of a sudden? Is it because the stars are not doing well? But I won't fight with my classmates anymore, and I'll study hard! ”

As he spoke, he gently patted Chen Die's back with his small hand.

Chen Die shook his head, "Xingxing doesn't have to worry about grades in the future, Mom and Dad just hope that Xingxing grows up happily." ”

"But......" Meng Xingyun pursed his lips and lowered his head, "Didn't my mother want me to study hard before?" ”

How can you suddenly change your mind?

"It used to be my mother's mistake. It is still necessary to study hard, but academic performance is not the most important thing. Mom hopes that Xingxing can enjoy the learning process instead of blindly focusing on results. ”

Chen Die smiled and brushed back the hair in front of his forehead.

"Would it be okay for mom to read you a storybook now?" She changed the subject.

Meng Xingyun nodded cautiously, "Well, what does mom want to read?" ”

"What do the stars want to hear?" Chen Die pulled him to the bookshelf.

There are already a lot of books on it.

From the most basic picture books, to fairy tales, to children's must-read classics, to various famous books, everything is available.

Meng Xingyun thought for a long time in front of the bookshelf, and pulled out a book called The Adventures of Ma Xiaoyue.

"Mom, I want to hear this."

When he took out the book, he also glanced at his mother cautiously.

His mother didn't like him to read this kind of book before, and felt that it had an impact on his academic performance.

Chen Die naturally took it and said with a smile: "Then let's read this one." ”

Dr. Sun said that when he first reads, try to let him read books that he is interested in, so that he can stimulate his interest and make him willing to read and enjoy reading.

Seeing that his mother really read this book to him, Meng Xingyun's face showed joy.

obediently ran to the table and sat down, looking at Chen Die expectantly.

Seeing that he was so excited, Chen Die picked up the book and began to read.

"In a small town called Wujiang Town, there lives a cute boy named Ma Xiaodian......"

Chen Die's reading skills are good, and when he reads the story, he is full of emotion, which makes Meng Xingyun listen to it with relish, as if he is there.

I wish I was the horse Xiaoyue, running wantonly in the fields of the countryside, catching fish barefoot in the river, and catching sparrows in the bamboo forest......

Suddenly, Chen Die's voice stopped.

Meng Xingyun was hearing that Ma Xiaoyue had discovered a cave, and he was curious about what he would find in the cave.

Chen Die stopped reading, and he became anxious.

"Mom! And then what! Did Ma Xiao jump into the cave, what was in the cave? ”

Chen Die deliberately cleared her throat and pretended to be uncomfortable.

"Xingxing, mom has been reading for a long time and her throat is uncomfortable, why don't you read it for a while?"

Meng Xingyun listened and nodded again and again.

"Okay, okay."

He can read it faster by himself, so that he can know what happened after Ma Xiaoyu.

However, the process of reading aloud was not as simple as he imagined.

He found that there were many words that he didn't recognize.

But after glancing at his mother, who had been drinking water, he was embarrassed to let his mother, who had an uncomfortable throat, continue to read for him.

Fortunately, there is pinyin on every word, and he can even read it with a guess, but the reading speed is a little slow, and the reading is not as good as his mother.

He lowered his head in shame, "Mom, am I not reading well?" ”

Chen Die said: "The first time the stars have read so much, it is already very powerful. When you read more, you will naturally read well. ”

"But I don't know a lot of words."

"What's this? Aren't there all pinyin on it? You've just done a good job. Chen Die said, "Do you remember what words you don't recognize?" You can circle it with a red pen and read it a few times. Maybe you'll know each other next time. ”

Meng Xingyun's face was full of embarrassment.

Even if it is circled, it will definitely not be of much use.

He himself doesn't trust himself very much, and he can't remember the words he usually writes so many times......

Chen Die saw him with his head down, and a fire came out of his heart.

She really doesn't like his state, she is not confident, and she even has some inferiority.

But immediately her anger was extinguished by Jiang Ru's words.

Jiang Ru said coldly: [Why does he have low self-esteem? Didn't you get it out of it by hitting his self-confidence so often? ]

Who is born with self-confidence or low self-esteem?

Not yet an acquired environment? If you want a child to be more confident, you have to praise him more.

If you want a child to feel inferior, you have to hit him more.

Chen Die came back to her senses, and suddenly felt a little guilty in her heart.

[You're right.] ]

She was a first-time mother and didn't understand a lot of things, but she never thought about learning them.

In other words, she learned more about how to take care of children from books, but she did not have a deep understanding of how to establish a child's three views and how to make children have self-confidence.

She smiled and explained, "It's good to mark the stars and look at them twice." Anyway, there are pinyin, and the next time I encounter it, I'm not afraid that I won't recognize it. ”

Meng Xingyun heard this, and his face showed surprise.

He pursed his lips, "Okay." ”

After marking it with a red pen, he looked at it several times, as if trying to remember him, though perhaps with little effect.

But he still tried his best to remember the unfamiliar words.

In this way, the next time I read a book, I will be able to familiarize myself with it.