Chapter 200: Park Nak-hee's lover
"Unexpectedly, Mr. Huo, you are really here!! It seems that sometimes the rumors are not so credible, at least I see Mr. Huo now, and the appearance here is already unexpected. ”
Park Luoxi is not wrong at all, because the previous legends about Huo Ruixuan all said that he had an extremely serious cleanliness disorder, and under normal circumstances, if you talk about cooperation, few people can get close to him one meter away.
But now Huo Ruixuan still appeared firmly and brought here, Park Luoxi couldn't help but start to doubt the truth of the rumors, maybe those are groundless, Huo Ruixuan has no cleanliness at all, he is lying to them.
If that's the case, then things are really getting more and more interesting, and he has a mind to explore this rumored president of Hyunran Multinational Group.
has grown so big, except for the person Park Luoxi saw back then, he has almost never seen such an interesting person as Huo Ruixuan.
As soon as Huo Ruixuan stepped into the door, he heard Park Luoxi's nice and magnetic voice coming from the innermost part of the hot spring room, and heard what he said. Huo Ruixuan was stunned for a moment, and then said coldly: "Mr. Park, in fact, you are not wrong from beginning to end, I am the same as what the rumors say, with a little more serious cleanliness, if it is just an ordinary handshake, I can't see anything, in the hot springs, if the soaking time is not long, as long as it is still within the range that I can accept, nothing will happen under normal circumstances." ”
A small number of patients have a weak mental character, are timid and afraid of things since childhood, afraid of making mistakes, lack confidence in their own abilities, are very cautious in encountering problems, think repeatedly, constantly muttered afterwards and checked many times, and always hope to achieve perfection. It can be seen that the harm of obsessive-compulsive disorder will have a certain negative impact on work, study and interpersonal relationships in daily life, but at this point, it is actually possible for anyone to happen, but it is indeed unlikely for Huo Ruixuan.
The harm of obsessive-compulsive disorder is very great, because there are involuntary entanglements of thoughts, or stereotyped etiquette or meaningless repetition of behaviors, which seriously affects the patient's concentration, seriously affects the study and work of the parties, and can completely lose the ability to learn and work, resulting in mental disability. Patients want to get rid of it, but they all end in failure, and they are unable to get rid of it, causing great pain in their hearts.
People with obsessive-compulsive disorder have a sense of imperfection, and the compensation for this imperfection is the pursuit of perfection. Patients blame themselves for perfection and find faults, lack the ability to express warmth to others, are rigid and stubborn, and always ask others to follow their rules. If they are in good times, they are praised by the authorities at work, they are satisfied with their achievements, they can stick to quite effective practical actions at this time, and they have considerable self-control without going too far. But if you are in adversity, your self-control ability will decline rapidly, and at this point, Huo Ruixuan can still control herself.
But Huo Ruixuan knew very well in his heart that it was only temporary now, his emotions were completely changing with Mu Yanran, if things related to Mu Yanran were not as he wanted, then his obsidian-like flickering eyes might turn scarlet, and finally until he lost his mind, in this way, it was easy to hurt Mu Yanran.
He loves her, so Huo Ruixuan doesn't want anything to happen to Mu Yanran at all.
Cleanliness is largely due to genetics, seventy percent of patients have obsessive-compulsive personality, which is the internal psychological basis of cleanliness, and external social psychological factors are also a pathogenic factor that cannot be ignored. On the basis of obsessive-compulsive personality, some people gradually develop symptoms of cleanliness, especially when entering the adolescent period, obvious changes in physiological development, and discomfort in the process of increasingly close social interactions, which can lead to the appearance and aggravation of symptoms. There are also some people who are induced by the bad stimuli of the outside world, including long-term mental stress, such as the change of work and living environment aggravates responsibilities, excessive tension at work, excessive strict requirements, or the situation is not smooth, often worried about accidents, etc.; In addition, there are severe mental traumas, such as the death of a close relative, sudden shock, serious accidents, and near-catastrophic bankruptcy.
Cleanliness refers to paying too much attention to hygiene, especially paying attention to hand hygiene, washing dozens of times a day, soaping three times each time, every time you come into contact with something, you always feel that you will be infected with germs, you have to wash your hands once, otherwise it will be painful, and you can't do anything. Pay attention not only to your own hands, but also to the others around you. If you don't do this, you will feel very anxious, and you will wash and wash it every time, so that you will feel better. But it repeats itself after a while, just like other types of OCD. After a long time, such bad habits will seriously affect work and life, and I know that it is not necessary, but I can't control it.
The symptoms of cleanliness are obsessive-compulsive neurosis, which can be regarded as a type of obsessive-compulsive disorder, which is a very common and stubborn psychological disorder. Patients subjectively feel the existence of some irresistible, compulsive and helpless thoughts, emotions, intentions, or behaviors, and they are able to realize that these should not appear or are meaningless, but they have strong anxiety and fear in their hearts, and they have to take certain behaviors to comfort themselves.
Hygiene is for health, but hygiene is not the goal of life that we pursue. The practice of cleanliness seems to be very hygienic, but it does not feel happiness, only anxiety and pain, feeling that life is very tired, there is no time to enjoy life, and most of the time in life is spent washing hands. Therefore, the value concept of cleanliness must first be adjusted, and think about why we live. Secondly, when a person is moderately infected with germs, he will develop resistance. There are two people who go to a place where there are germs, one is a cleanliness addict who loves cleanliness very much, and the other is not a cleanliness addict, and some of the germs in the latter's body make him produce antibodies in his body and will fight with foreign germs, while the cleanliness sufferer has no defense, and the germs can drive straight in. After entering adulthood, you are exposed to a wide range of social aspects, and if you still make yourself too clean, you are prone to illness. There are many patients with obsessive-compulsive disorder who are also prone to mouth ulcers, diarrhea, colds, pharyngitis and other diseases in the psychological counseling clinic, because they love cleanliness too much.
"Since your body can't bear it at all, then why did you come here and choose to go to my hot springs?" Park Luoxi was slightly surprised in his heart, it was really a thousand calculations Oh it was useless to think that Huo Ruixuan obviously didn't like such a place, why did he come anyway, in fact, he could have refused.
In fact, even in the end, it would be useless for Huo Ruixuan to refuse, because Park Luoxi would think of other ways to let Huo Ruixuan go somewhere else to make an appointment.
The agreed place, in fact, does not have to be a hot spring venue, but Park Luoxi must be the Huo Ruixuan he wants to meet.
Originally, he really asked Huo Ruixuan to come to talk about things, but what he didn't expect was that now that he suddenly saw Huo Ruixuan, Park Luoxi wanted to change his attention a little, he suddenly didn't want to talk about things at work today, so he wanted to talk about some things outside of work.
On the other hand, Park Luoxi, he wanted to verify whether Huo Ruixuan really had a cleanliness certificate.
If he really has an extremely serious cleanliness disorder, Dad may really recognize the person he has been trying to find for so many years.
That's right, he claims to the outside world that he has a favorite person, the person he likes, but in fact, Park Luoxi has never seen the person he likes a few times, and he only knows one thing in his subconscious.
It was when he was very young that the three-year-old brother left directly after saving him, and Park Luoxi's last impression of the other party was that he really knew that the other party had a serious cleanliness habit.
When he first met Huo Ruixuan, he felt that the other party was a little like the person who saved him at the beginning, as long as Park Luoxi confirmed the last step, it was basically considered a success.
If the cleanliness habit is severe enough to obsessive-compulsive disorder, the treatment is mainly psychotherapy, supplemented by medication.
Cognitive therapy finds out the cause of cleanliness and uses scientific knowledge to dispel misconceptions.
1. Let the patient change the way of thinking, have a plan, and do the main thing first.
2 Aversion therapy: The rubber band method is often used. That is, let the patient wear a rubber band on his wrist, and once he is about to have compulsive actions or behaviors, let him use the rubber band to flick his wrist dozens or even hundreds of times, until the obsessive thoughts disappear and there is pain, so as to achieve the purpose of inhibiting the compulsive behavior.
3. Full Irrigation Therapy: Have the patient sit in a room and ask a friend or relative to be an assistant. The patient relaxes the whole body, closes the eyes gently, and then asks the assistant to apply various liquids on the patient's hands, such as water, ink, rice soup, oil, dyes, etc. When applying, the patient should try to relax as much as possible, while the assistant tries to verbally describe the dirty hands. The patient should be patient until he or she opens his eyes and sees how dirty the bottom is. The assistant should use transparent and opaque liquids randomly, and water and other liquids randomly when applying liquids. In this way, when the patient opens his eyes, his hands are not dirty, at least not as dirty as he imagined, which is a shock to the patient's mind, indicating that "dirty" often comes more from his own thoughts and does not match the actual situation. When the patient finds that his hands are indeed dirty, the urge to wash his hands is greatly enhanced, and at this time, the treatment assistant must prohibit him from washing his hands, which is the key to treatment. The patient may feel a lot of pain, but try to hold on, and the assistant should be there to actively encourage them.
If it was really him, then Park Luoxi would definitely not give up this opportunity, so he let Huo Ruixuan leave.