Jiang Ru pouted, looked at the chocolate and didn't speak.

When Zhou Shaolin saw it, he made a gesture and stuffed it into his mouth again, his teeth were closed, and he was about to bite down.

"Ahh I know! I shouldn't have stuffed things up my sleeve without paying for them. ”

Jiang Ru suddenly became anxious, his face was full of anxiety, he grabbed Zhou Shaolin's wrist tightly, and broke his mouth with the other hand, for fear that he would eat the chocolate.

"Then mom won't be stuffed in the future?" Seeing this, Zhou Shaolin removed her hand from his mouth.

"No more." Jiang Ru stared at the chocolate tightly, her amber eyes motionless, and her face was salivating.

Zhou Shaolin shook the chocolate in his hand and reminded: "Then mom should remember what she said." ”

He split the chocolate in two and handed the small piece to Jiang Ru.

"But because my mother made a mistake, as a punishment, my mother can now only eat half of the chocolate. The remaining half will not be eaten until the evening. And if you make a mistake again in the future, you will deduct a day's snacks! ”

"Hmph." Jiang Ru put half a piece of chocolate in his mouth, and chewed it, looking reluctant.

Zhou Shaolin sighed when he saw her like this.

Teaching children is really a long way to go, and I suddenly found that I was really too obedient when I was a child.

Jiang Ru swallowed the chocolate in her mouth and strode to the front, but she kept her attention to Zhou Shaolin.

Zhou Shaolin's mood was very relaxed, and when he looked at her, he was also distressed and thoughtful, but he had a closeness that could not be concealed.

Many people who suffer from kleptomania are divorced or remarried, lack of emotional communication with their children, and are often isolated and punished at school, which makes them lack love and rational inducement, so that it is difficult for them to build self-esteem and self-love.

And when their happiness orientation is associated with some bad behavior, it subconsciously achieves a kind of self-spiritual compensation.

If you just blindly blame or criticize them, it means suppressing their spiritual needs, making them unhappy and their mood falling into depression.

After a long time, not only will it not have a good effect, but it will form psychological disorders and personality defects as you age.

Just like the original owner did.

She only knew that she was blindly abusive, and she blindly treated Zhou Shaolin coldly.

Not only did not make Zhou Shaolin feel his mistakes, but instead gave birth to a distorted revenge mentality, and then made mistakes continuously.

Of course, there is also the factor of nanny Chen Qin in this.

If Chen Qin hadn't framed Zhou Shaolin in the middle, maybe it wouldn't have been so serious.

The original owner cared very little about Zhou Shaolin, and usually gave money to Chen Qin, and bought whatever he needed.

The cost of the tutor is also directly paid to the tutor.

She only looks at the results.

I usually spend very little time with Zhou Shaolin, and I don't have a day in a month.

But because of Zhou Shaolin's theft, the original owner specially took out several times to ask.

Jiang Ru wondered if the original owner was angry, but stayed with Zhou Shaolin more often, which made Zhou Shaolin have an illusion of being concerned, which made him wrong again and again.

If you want to cure kleptomania, it's not difficult to say, and it's not easy to say.

Because the first step in therapy is to understand the identity and eliminate the impedance.

In other words, parents must face up to kleptomania as a mental illness and admit their past lack of care, so as to shorten the psychological distance and relieve the tension of their children.

At the same time, abandon extreme and ineffective education methods such as verbal abuse and beating, and let children slowly come out of the shadows.

If the child's parents only see the child stealing, and only know to beat him and scold him, but do not delve into why he stole it, then no matter how much the beating and scolding is, it will not necessarily be effective.

In addition, it is necessary to let the child realize the wrongness of stealing and discuss ways to correct it.

It is best to cooperate with the professional treatment of a psychologist so that the condition can be relieved more effectively.

What Jiang Ru can do at present is to have close contact with Zhou Shaolin, give him full trust, and strengthen the emotional connection between the two.

At the same time, she consciously repeatedly committed stealing, and specially let Zhou Shaolin find out.

Because this behavior was Jiang Ru learned from Zhou Shaolin.

Because Zhou Shaolin has deepened his relationship with her, he can't bear to let her become bad, so he will want to change her habit.

At the same time, in order to prevent her from imitating his behavior again, Zhou Shaolin will naturally change herself and try not to let herself steal again.

Of course, the method she used to pretend to be crazy and stupid could not be used by others.

After all, it is not so simple to want to fall downstairs, hit your brain but didn't have a problem, and make the doctor pretend to have amnesia when you think it was broken.

If it weren't for the system, she wouldn't have dared to do this.

If you really break your brain, it will be miserable.

Thinking of this, Jiang Ru sighed silently in his heart.

[I'm too hard! If I continue like this, I feel like my IQ is going to drop. 】

Eleven muttered secretly, host, you obviously enjoy tossing the mission objective, okay?

On the way home, I unexpectedly met an acquaintance - Chen Qin.

When Chen Qin saw Jiang Ru, she immediately looked overjoyed.

"Yikes! Ms. Si, you also live here? ”

As if she hadn't heard her speak, Jiang Ru walked past her without squinting with Zhou Shaolin in her arms.

She didn't believe it was a chance encounter.

Looking at Chen Qin's appearance, it was obvious that she intended to block them.

It can't be trying to blackmail her, right?

Hum! I'm not the original owner's fool! The son was framed and had to pay money.

Chen Qin probably didn't expect Jiang Ru to ignore her like this, so she walked over directly, and was stunned for a while.

When she came back to her senses, Jiang Ru had already walked more than twenty meters away with Zhou Shaolin in her arms.

"Ms. Division, Ms. Division...... Ay? Ms. Division, you wait for me! ”

Chen Qin pinched the small bag, chased after her high heels, and reached out to grab Jiang Ru's sleeve, wanting her to stop.

Jiang Ru reacted very quickly, pulled Zhou Shaolin's sleeve, and dodged it at once.

Chen Qin jumped into the air, stumbled forward for two or three steps, and almost fell into a dog and ate.

"Ms. Division! Didn't you hear me calling you? Chen Qin asked with resentment.

"Who are you?" Jiang Ru pulled Zhou Shaolin and glared at her vigilantly.

When Chen Qin heard her words, she suddenly became angry, feeling that Jiang Ru was humiliating her and deliberately pretending not to know herself.

However, she still said with a smile: "Ms. Si, I have raised your son for more than 10 years, how long has it been, and you don't know me?" Could it be that I'm taking too good care of it, and it's changed too much lately? ”

She wondered if Jiang Ru knew the truth from Zhou Shaolin, but she felt that it was wrong.

Zhou Shaolin didn't tell the truth before, and his mother wouldn't believe him at all.

Jiang Ru took two steps back, "Don't talk nonsense!" I don't know you! Son, is she the legendary madman, recognizing people on the street?! Shall we call the police to arrest her and send her to jail? ”

Chen Qin almost went crazy when she heard this, but when she thought of money, her anger was suppressed.

She pulled a stiff smile,

Ms. Si laughed.

Jiang Ru was about to speak, when a figure rushed out.

It turned out to be Wei Yifeng.