Seeing that there were no guests now, Lan Xiang closed the kitchen door, lowered his voice and said, "It's okay, you can tell me anything, I have a tight mouth, I won't talk out, it will be much better to say it." ”

Now that Chen Mengyao is not there, Wen Yan can only talk to Lan Xiang, the confidant big sister: "Sister Lan...... Mu Tingchen went to my place last night, he was injured, I can't leave him alone, but in this case, I started to contact him again...... I thought that in this life, except for him asking me for a divorce, there would be no intersection between me and him. ”

Lan Xiang didn't know what had happened between them, and he couldn't judge it very well: "What you did was right, you won't care about strangers, let alone your husband?" Although I don't know what happened to you in the past, and I don't know why he was hurt, but when he was most vulnerable, he went to you, I'm afraid he also regarded you as the most reliable person, he must have you in his heart, everything follows his own heart, you ask yourself, if you really don't love, then it's completely broken, if you still love, then don't let go, because there is no regret medicine in the world, and it is too expensive and painful to forget a person for a lifetime.

Even if something terrible happened to you before and it became a hurdle that you couldn't get over, you have to remember that there are always more ways than difficulties, and the emotional truth is the same, how can there be any hurdle that you can't get over? Like me, there were times when I had a breakdown, when I was so angry that I wanted to get a divorce and take my children away, and finally I calmed down and felt that there was still nothing that I couldn't forgive. ”

Wen Yan couldn't confuse his experience with Lan Xiang's: "When will it break you?" ”

Lan Xiang sighed: "I'm not afraid of your jokes when I say it, it's all trivial things at home." When I gave birth to Yaya, I started to take a vacation on the day of birth, the child was given birth to my mother-in-law, saying that she could help bring it after birth, but after giving birth it was completely different, I watched the child alone during the month, my mother-in-law said that it was convenient for the child to feed with her mother at night, and during the day she excused herself to go out to buy vegetables in the morning, and came back at noon.

Maybe my mother-in-law is patriarchal, she doesn't say that I can feel it, it's okay, it's out now. Before Yaya went to kindergarten, I couldn't work, because taking care of the children took all my time, as well as taking care of the housework at home, cooking, laundry and cleaning, my father-in-law was served by my mother-in-law all his life, and he wouldn't help, so my mother-in-law pointed at me alone, I felt out of breath a lot of the time, and I was ridiculed by my mother-in-law openly and secretly that I didn't make money, so I knew that I spent her son's money, and even bought a diaper and milk powder for the child, and she thought I was spending money indiscriminately......"

Speaking of which, Lan Xiang is no longer as relaxed as she was just now, no matter how intellectual and elegant a woman is, she will become a resentful woman in the chicken feathers of life: "Do you know Xiaoyan? When I told my mother-in-law that I was working as a cashier in the dessert shop, she also ridiculed me for looking for a job that was not decent, and there must not be much salary, in fact, you are very good here, you have enough freedom to give me, and the salary is higher than the average person in this city, I think it is no worse than that of a white-collar worker.

The key is that she doesn't help me take care of the children and all kinds of hands to take care of my personal affairs, many times I asked me how much my salary is, where I spent it, I really have no good feelings for my parents-in-law, and even had the idea of living separately, they are now in good health, there is no serious illness at all, the hair is not very gray, I can play outside all day and go out to climb the mountain or something, as long as I go home, I say that I am uncomfortable, everything is done by me. I mentioned living separately, and my mother-in-law told me that my husband was going to drive them away, saying that they were old and needed someone to take care of them, and they were disgusted by their daughter-in-law, but did I owe them? I don't owe. ”

Wen Yan hadn't experienced this, and she couldn't feel the same way, but she felt incredible, she felt that Lan Xiang was very strong, she couldn't imagine what it was like to be alone around the child every day and take care of the whole family, it was simply dark and there was no light.

Lan Xiang's words rarely mention her husband, so it can be seen that her husband is a man who doesn't care about anything but his own work, and he knows that instead of participating in this place, it is better to use his work as a shield to live a chic and comfortable life, and Lan Xiang is the only one who suffers.

"Sister Lan, I don't think it's easy for me, and now I know that no one in this world lives easily. Not only you, but also Anya, I hope that everyone can live the life they want in the future, the world will always get better, and when Yaya grows up, you will be relaxed. ”