Chapter 1018: Feeling Uncomfortable
As a mother, she feels most distressed about her children, Lin Changfu is so distressed about Menghuan, and Liu's is even more distressed, but over the years, she has also figured out a lot of things.
If this was before, she must have felt aggrieved in her heart, and when she said it in the upper room just now, she was thinking about it in her heart, and she didn't know what her daughter would bring when she got married in the future.
When Mengshan and Mengzhu got married, the dowry was not the same, when Mengshan got married, the Lin family had not yet lived, that is, it was prepared according to the marriage of the daughters of ordinary people, not to mention how good it was, but it was not inferior, and it would not make her mother-in-law laugh.
And Mengzhu is much better, the same as Si Yao, but even their dowry, compared to Si Qi's, it is completely unworthy.
When she arrived at Menghuan, she was still behind Siqi, and it stands to reason that it should get better and better, but she also knew in her heart that the dowry given to Siqi was the top of the sky, and her daughter's was definitely not comparable.
Just now she thought the same as Lin Changfu, if the dowry is lower, how can she hold her head up in the village in the future?
She even thought about whether it was time for her father and mother to divide the family and prepare for the marriage of their own children.
But as soon as she thought about it, she immediately figured it out, if she really divided the family at this time, she was afraid that the dowry they prepared for Menghuan would be worse.
The way this family is now is the credit of the third family, even if it is divided, the third family will have to share more, it is impossible to account for the majority because they are a big house.
The third family has brains, and it won't take a few years to live a better life than the current family.
And the big house and the second room, can only rely on the existing industries to operate, a few years later, it must be better than now, but how much better?
What's more, most of the money that the family makes now is because of the third family, and they also know people outside, if they really divide the family, maybe these businesses will not be able to operate.
As soon as he thought of this, Liu understood everything, what was there to feel sorry for? Over the years, Menghuan has indeed not bothered as much as Siqi, and when he gets married, the dowry should be different.
Fortunately, the old couple are not so eccentric, and they will not be too wronged by her daughter, as long as they figure it out in their hearts, there is nothing unconvinced.
Liu told Lin Changfu these truths, Lin Changfu smiled and nodded, "You're right, you shouldn't think about it so much, her son is a girl's family, and she has put a lot of effort into her family over the years, and everyone in the village knows that our family holds her in the palm of her hand, and if she doesn't prepare a rich dowry when she gets married, it is really unreasonable. ”
"Menghuan is really incomparable, as long as you figure it out, it's fine, hurry up and go to bed, you have to get up early tomorrow to work."
Seeing that he had figured it out, Liu was relieved, and the husband and wife talked for a while, and then fell asleep.
Lin Changgui's house is similar, after all, the two of them also have a little girl, and she is still so young, he also has to think about what to do with her relatives in the future.
Besides, he hasn't read any books, so his ideas are more old-fashioned, thinking that the property in this family is reserved for boys, thinking that he is a girl's family, and it seems a little inappropriate to marry with so many things.
And Xiurong, like the Liu family, analyzed the situation in this family for him, and he could be considered to have figured out most of it, plus Xiurong persuaded him on the side, telling him that he didn't mind, marrying into the Lin family, and having so many family members to accompany him was already her blessing, and she wouldn't worry about more things, those were all things she deserved.
If they want their daughter to have so much dowry in the future, then the couple will have to work hard and earn money for the family, the father and mother are fair, whoever contributes more will have a good idea, as long as the husband and wife have contributed to the family, can the child's family affairs still bear the grievances?
Lin Changgui thought about it, this is also true, he doesn't believe that he works hard and works hard for the family, his father and mother can treat him badly, definitely not.
The same conversation was also carried out in the upper room, Lin Dezheng, as a member of the family, is a little patriarchal, or will feel that this girl is going to get married, not as good as a boy, although he also loves his granddaughter, but not as willing to love as the Wu family, but not like those old people in other people's families, he treats his granddaughter as a commodity that can be sold when he is raised.
But no matter what, Siqi didn't have such a high status in the Wu family here.
Closing the door, the old couple also talked for a long time, Lin Dezheng was a little unhappy, "You, I didn't speak just now, I was afraid that the scene would be ugly, and nothing else, why did you take out some of the money-making business at home to give Siqi as a dowry?" This is a bit too much, the girl who marries out spills out of the water, and then it will not be her own person in the future, like you are so prepared, the money earned by the family every year has to be prepared for Siqi, and they are already married, and they also get annual dividends from their parents, which is not suitable. ”
Wu got angry when he heard this, and slapped Lin Dezheng twice, Wu rarely got so angry.
She pointed at Lin Dezheng and scolded, "You, you, let me say something about you, thanks to these words are said in front of me, not in front of the third and second children, the eldest and the second can figure it out, why can't you figure it out?" Our family is so prosperous now, because you don't know who it is? The Jiang family's business, if it weren't for him, who would have thought of that layer? ”
"You are not short of food and clothing now, and you don't have to work in the field, the people in the village say that we are blessed, and we are old ladies and old ladies, but you haven't thought about it carefully, is it because of whom we have such good blessings?"
"If you want me to say, these are not enough, if it weren't for the fear that you wouldn't understand, I would still want to let him bring all these deals."
"Do you know that her son told her father and mother early that she didn't want to marry too early, do you know why? I haven't mentioned this to you, I'll tell you about it today, her son doesn't want to get married, just want to make our family's life prosperous, to buy industrial land for our family, to make money in business, so that her mother's family will not have to worry about life, she can rest assured that she will marry, otherwise she will marry someone, it is another family, it is not good to blatantly help her mother's family live, afraid of people gossiping. ”
"Your granddaughter thinks so much about the family, you, who are grandfathers, said these things when she got married, I don't bother to talk to you much, anyway, those things are for her son, think about it yourself."