Chapter 123: The Wu Family's Genes
"Wu Miaoli is different from you and us, she didn't go to college, although she opened a store in the future and the harvest was good, but she was only busy and didn't enrich herself too much, so her concept is still relatively old." Wu Meiyun said after taking a bite of the red fruit.
"I'm also surprised, she's not old, why is she not as good as you." Wen Jiali said a little speechlessly.
Because information is now advanced and the convergence between various regions is wide, many people can learn some advanced technologies and ideas from the Internet.
But Wu Miaoli is so old that she hasn't learned how to communicate with her children, which always hits her children's confidence.
Although Wu Miaoli did not have a parenting exam when she gave birth, she passed the exam when she gave birth to Xiaode, so how could the result still be like this.
"This kind of thing depends on age, and I'm also a master of law, so I shouldn't know more than her." Wu Meiyun praised herself clearly.
Hearing this, Wen Jiali suddenly remembered that her mother seemed to be the most educated in their family.
"So, I'm curious. You and your uncle are in the same family, and there were many people who favored sons over daughters at that time, why did you study for a master's degree and your uncle didn't go to college?
And Wu Miaoli, a junior, did not go to college. Wen Jiali was very puzzled.
"Your uncle didn't go to college because there were a lot of things going on at that time, and your grandfather had just passed away, so there was no one to help him pay his tuition.
He said that he, as the male of the family, should drop out of school to take care of the family, and then I couldn't help the family if I dropped out of school as a girl, after all, your grandmother was still alive at that time, so I continued to study.
Although there was still a patriarchal phenomenon at that time, there were almost no of them there, and mainly because I studied better than your uncle. Wu Meiyun told the situation again.
There is no patriarchal preference in their family, but her parents love Wu Meiyun, a relatively smart child.
Wu Meiyun's elder brother Wu Enjie is more honest and has average academic performance, but he is very responsible and knows how to feel sorry for his mother and sister, so he doesn't want them to suffer so he drops out of school to help his mother work and provide for his sister to study.
It is precisely because of this that Wu Meiyun takes care of Wu Miaoli so much, and a big reason in her heart is because she wants to repay her brother's kindness.
And her brother didn't need her help at this time, so she repaid Wu Miaoli with this kind of reward.
"What about Wu Miaoli? She didn't say that her family treated her badly, that her uncle and aunt were patriarchal and didn't let her study. How did you go back after a generation? Wen Jiali was puzzled.
Since her grandparents are not patriarchal, and her uncle is still so good to her mother, why is he not good to Wu Miaoli?
"This has nothing to do with your uncle, and even if it does, it's because your uncle is too honest and doesn't like to talk, so he is a bit of a cold observer." Wu Meiyun covered her mouth after speaking.
"That's my aunt's business, strange, she is also a woman, why did she treat her daughter like this?" Wen Jiali knew that Wu Meiyun didn't want to discuss her aunt behind her back.
But Wen Jiali's chatterbox was finally opened, but it was not so easy to close, so she kept luring Wu Meiyun to continue.
"Your aunt's family is patriarchal, so subtly turned your aunt into that kind of person.
And she didn't have a good relationship with your grandmother for a while after giving birth to Miaomiao, and your aunt liked to drill the horns of the bull, and she didn't ask clearly, thinking that your grandmother didn't like her because she gave birth to a daughter.
So I've always had a grudge against Miaomiao, but in fact, my mother doesn't care if her daughter-in-law gives birth to a boy or a girl. ”
Wu Meiyun's mother didn't like Wen Jiali's aunt Liu Qing at all, and she endured it for her son's face when she first got married.
But later, after the child was born, she didn't want to endure it anymore and didn't want to serve it, so she went out to live by herself.
The old lady suddenly moved out to live, which made Liu Qing, who was already a little sensitive, think that she had given birth to a daughter and was suspicious, so she began to think crankily.
At the beginning, Wu Enjie also explained to her, saying that his mother was not the kind of patriarchal person, and he was embarrassed to say such things as being too lazy to serve.
But Liu Qing didn't listen at all, she thought that Wu Enjie was just comforting her so as not to let her think about it.
During the confinement, she did not call her mother to come over to help, but quit her job to watch the children at home.
Although Wu Enjie sometimes helps, as a man, he still has a bit of a man's bad habit, that is, he feels that children are a woman's responsibility.
Therefore, Liu Qing has suffered a lot alone, and the so-called confinement hatred will be remembered for a lifetime, so Liu Qing has never let go of this knot.
It's a pity that her resentment is not directed at Wu Enjie's mother, nor Wu Enjie's husband, but her innocent daughter Wu Miaoli.
She thought that it was Wu Miaoli, a small disaster star, that made her suffer for so long.
Wu Enjie's mother was also a little embarrassed because she was hiding from Qingjing, so she felt that she had no face to get close to her granddaughter, so she rarely got close to Wu Miaoli.
When Wu Enjie and Liu Qing's second child Wu Sifan was born, the old lady had already entered a nursing home, and Wu Enjie was afraid that she would be lonely, so he often took Wu Sifan to see her.
This made Liu Qing and Wu Miaoli mistakenly think that the old lady only likes boys and doesn't like Wu Miaoli as a girl.
"Actually, everyone is at fault in this matter, your uncle is too wooden to express his thoughts. Your aunt is too sensitive and cranky, and your grandmother is too egoistic, regardless of other people's feelings, only Miaomiao is the most innocent.
Later, when she was going to college, in fact, your uncle had already said that any school would be for her. After all, at that time, universities were already everywhere, and you could get one of them if you took any exam. ”
"You're talking about specialists." Wen Jiali interjected.
"Whatever, it's pretty much it. It's easy to get into the undergraduate program now, isn't it?
But your aunt said that as long as she couldn't pass the exam, she wouldn't let her go to college. Your uncle didn't explain it well, he didn't feel good about it, and he didn't do well in the exam.
When she saw her results, she came out of the house with her bag on her back, and everyone else said that she would not go back. ”
"I didn't expect Sister Miaomiao to have a backbone." Wen Jiali still admires this a little.
"Why do you use it on your family if you have backbone? Your aunt and uncle must want her to do well. You see that she has been out alone for so many years, and she only talked about getting married and having children, and she didn't let them get involved at all. Wu Meiyun shook her head after speaking.
"Well, it's just a bit tough, this seems to be your Wu family's genes." Wen Jiali raised her head and glanced at Wu Meiyun.
You must know that although her uncle Wu Enjie is not very good at dealing with people, he is very tough, and sometimes it is difficult for anyone to say something when he recognizes it.
"I'm fine, just your uncle and your grandmother, you are also strong." Wu Meiyun nodded Wen Jiali's forehead.
"I'm okay." Wen Jiali also feels that she is not the kind of person who is tough, and sometimes she will bow her head when she should bow her head.