"You probably haven't done any counseling, right? In other words, he never regarded this as a mental illness. However, a person with emotional trauma is not suitable to work as a psychiatrist. Because almost all of them are unable to recover from emotional trauma on their own. Huo Bufan said.

"Are you done?" Pan Simi looked at him coldly and said, "Do you know psychology very well?" It's so powerful, why did your wife bring you to me? ”

"Because she doesn't understand me." Huo Bufan said: "At least, I can see that you are not very professional. You haven't even been cured of your own illness, so how can you cure me? Besides, I really don't have a disease, and I don't need so-called psychotherapy. ”

"A sick person will always say that he is not sick, just like a drunk person who never admits that he is drunk." Pan Simi said, suddenly as if she thought of something, the anger on her face gradually disappeared, replaced by a smile that seemed to be a smile: "I see, you feel too embarrassed, so you want to provoke me in this way and make me give up your treatment?" I have to say, your methods are quite useful, and I really want you to be a useless man forever! However, I won't do that. Because I'm a psychiatrist, I won't give up my professional ethics because of your little trick. ”

Huo Bufan shook his head and said, "If you think too much, provoking you is not much better than the result of deceiving you." I just wanted to tell you that you probably don't know Ji Xiangning very well. She doesn't disdain to fight with others, so she won't fight, and there should be a misunderstanding in the things of the past. Perhaps, you should meet and sit down and find time to have a good chat. Don't look at me like that, the reason I'm telling you this is because my wife seems to care about it. Even though she didn't say it, I knew she cared if your relationship could be repaired. I swore that as long as I lived, I would never bother them in any more ways. ”

Looking at Huo Bufan, who was full of seriousness, Pan Simi's heart was full of surprise.

She could tell that the man wasn't lying.

However, how can there be people in the world who think about their wives to this point?

Just because of the possible worries in her heart, eliminate any hidden dangers for her in advance.

But thinking about Ning Xueqing's concern for Huo Bufan, Pan Simi had a certain identity. Maybe the relationship between the couple is even better than I imagined.

"Aren't you afraid that I'm really angry and don't care about you in a fit of anger? Wouldn't your wife be more worried in that case? Pan Simi asked.

Huo Bufan smiled and said, "Are you so angry that you want to leave me alone?" ”

Pan Simi was stunned, yes, she was not really angry enough to coax this man out of the car, and then called Ning Xueqing to get angry.

Why?

The grievances that have been buried deep in her heart for many years should have made her so angry that she was going crazy, and no matter who mentioned it, it made her want to bite someone.

But why is it that after this man said it, he was not as angry as he imagined?

"Time is the best weapon to eliminate all negativity. And you have studied psychology for so many years, you should also vaguely understand that Ji Xiangning's kind of character is absolutely disdainful of competing with others, even if she may indeed like it. It's just that the longer things are buried, the more they can't get off the stage. Huo Bufan said.

This time, Pan Simi did not refute, because what Huo Bufan said was also what she thought.

In her years of psychological research, she did have such thoughts.

Ji Xiangning's family background is the best among everyone, and her personality is also the proudest, when she was in college, her tutor's daughter won the first prize in the painting competition by her relationship, and she didn't argue about anything.

If there is, there will be none, good and bad, just know it in your heart.

If you fight with someone you look down on, you will only become the person you hate.

Including the occasional mention of the events of the year later, no one said that Ji Xiangning was with that junior.

All the anger stems from seeing them hugging each other, and I can't remember if any of the details have been overlooked.

As Huo Bufan said, being talked about too much, after a long time, it will be difficult to step down, and you can only make mistakes.

And what Huo Bufan did was a catalyst to completely explode the contradictions that should exist, revealing the most essential problems inside.

When the problem is exposed, some things are easy to articulate.

"If you continue to be stunned, you may not be able to catch up with kindergarten playtime." Huo Bufan reminded.

Pan Simi came back to her senses and looked at Huo Bufan with a smile on her face, she suddenly asked with a strange face: "I'm a little skeptical now, are you a psychiatrist or me." This way of yours is very professional, have you really learned it before? ”

"What do you think?" Huo Bufan asked rhetorically.

Pan Simi made a thoughtful look, then smiled and asked, "Do you guess I guess?" ”

Huo Bufan laughed out loud and didn't dwell on this topic.

Sometimes you don't have to answer a question because whoever answers it loses.

Pan Simi is obviously also a character who does not admit defeat, but compared with Ji Xiangning, she seems to be more flexible.

If it were replaced by Ji Xiangning, it might be smoked with two big mouths, and you would answer your questions, what so much nonsense.

After that, Huo Bufan did not embarrass Pan Simi again, and similarly, Pan Simi did not criticize him again.

As the flow chart says, first go to the kindergarten to play games with the children, and then go to the nursing home to sweep the floor.

After lunch, Pan Simi drove Huo Bufan to the riverside square again.

There are a lot of pigeons here, wandering around the square, and they are not afraid of people, but they are very close to people.

It is said that a long time ago, it was a forest, but later the city expanded and the forest was cut down to make a square.

Birds that have nowhere to call home either go elsewhere or stay and become friends.

Whether there were really so many birds left, few people remember clearly, but there are indeed a lot of pigeons in the square.

There are also vendors who sell all kinds of bread crumbs and sell them to people.

The children bought the most, and the elated appearance made people look happy.

Pan Simi went over to buy two packs, handed one to Huo Bufan, and then opened another pack by himself, pinched a small pinch and squatted down in the palm of his hand.

A few pigeons cooed, jumped up to her hand, bowed their heads and ate merrily.

Huo Bufan did what he did, and while feeding, he asked, "You often come here?" ”

"Of course, when I was a child, my parents liked to bring me here, but then they were busy with work and had less time to spend with me. When I'm fine, I come here to play by myself. Feeding pigeons may seem inconspicuous, but in fact it is easy to relax. These little ones don't have any bad intentions towards humans, and they don't think humans have bad intentions towards them, and sometimes they think it's easier to get along with pigeons than to make friends with humans. ”

"I think pigeons are more complex than humans." Huo Bufan said.

"Why?" Pan Simi turned to look at him.

Huo Bufan looked down at the breadcrumbs in his hand and said, "You feed the pigeon once, it is difficult for it to remember who you are." But if you give money to a guy, he will remember you for a long time. The next time he comes, he will take the initiative to find you and try to get more benefits. Therefore, it is easy to make friends with wine and meat, but it is not so easy to feed pigeons as friends. ”

"What you say sounds a little dark, why, have you also been traumatized? Is it convenient to listen to it? Pan Simi asked.

"It's not very convenient." Huo Bufan shook his head and said.

"Don't treat me as a psychiatrist, just be an ordinary friend?" Pansmi asked.

"Nope." Huo Bufan still refused very decisively.

"Stingy." Pansimi pouted.

After feeding the pigeons and patting the remaining crumbs on his hands, Pan Simi took out his mobile phone and said, "It's all here, take a few photos?" ”

Huo Bufan doesn't have any hobbies for selfies, and like most men, he prefers to take pictures of beautiful women.

Seeing that he looked lacking in interest, Pan Simi simply handed him the phone and said, "Then you can help me take a few beautiful photos." ”

With that, she ran to the railing by the square and turned slightly sideways.

The gradually setting sun reflects the brilliant sunset by the river, and in the camera, a woman in a formal dress stands.

A few strands of hair fell to her ears, making her serious temperament a little more playful.

It was very beautiful and attracted many passers-by to see it.

Huo Bufan found a good angle to take a few photos, and then shouted: "It's done." ”

However, Pan Simi beckoned to him, and after Huo Bufan passed, she asked, "Is the shooting good?" ”

"It should look good." Huo Bufan replied.

Pan Simi lifted the hair between her forehead, showing a slightly charming expression on her face, and she didn't know if it was her cheeks blushing or the reflection of the sunset, she bit her lip lightly and asked, "Is it me who is good-looking, or is your wife good-looking?" ”