Chapter 868: And Feelings

"What should I do now?" Yu Yan lowered her head, and tears fell down one by one.

Gu Zhennan glanced at the door, it was not easy to come in, and silently went to the children's room.

"What do you think about it now?" Guo Xiang pulled Yu Yan to sit down and took a handkerchief to wipe her tears.

"I don't know......" Yu Yan shook her head.

"If you really want to leave, talk to him." Guo Xiang said.

"I ......," Yu Yan raised her head, "but what about Xiao Jin?" I can't live without him, but if he follows me, he won't have a father......"

Guo Xiang sighed lightly, it is often children who are injured when adults divorce.

Some people may say that many children from divorced families are just as good and excellent, but there are often more children in divorced families who have problems.

They may have grown up healthily, and their work and life may be no different from others, but the trauma often has a great impact on their future lives.

Even the marriage of their parents will bring them a big shadow and affect their view of marriage.

A healthy family plays a big role in a child's development.

In families where parents love each other, children are often happier and simpler, and know how to love others.

And children from families whose parents don't love each other often don't know how to love others, don't know how to express their love, and sometimes even do extreme things.

If it is the kind of family that quarrels and fights every day, it may be better for the children to divorce early.

But in the kind of family that is usually loving or normal, the parents divorce suddenly, the children generally can't accept it, and their study and life will plummet.

Some children even wonder if they are not good enough to cause their parents to divorce, blame themselves for all the faults, and fall into self-blame.

Especially for an introverted child like An Jin, maybe the divorce of his parents will hit him hard.

Yu Yan didn't divorce because she wanted to maintain the superficial harmony, so that the child thought that the family was normal and didn't want him to be affected.

Maybe it can't be seen on the surface, but the impact is very subtle, maybe the child's personality will become more gloomy, which Yu Yan doesn't want to see.

"I just want to keep this relationship and treat each other with respect!" Yu Yan said.

"But......" Guo Xiang pondered what to say, "but An Rui is a normal man, he will be in need, you ......, cough, men will be stronger than women's needs, if you want to keep doing this, I'm afraid he won't be able to bear it......"

"What if he cheats again?" Guo Xiang asked.

Yu Yan looked dazed, "I, he ......" She didn't think about this kind of thing at all.

"It's been more than half a year since the last incident, think about it, you can't be like this for a lifetime, either you accept him and slowly overcome the obstacles in your heart, or you divorce him and completely liberate yourself......," Guo Xiang said.

"It's not impossible for you to maintain it like this, but can it last a lifetime? You can stand it, he can't stand it......"

"He can't stand it, so he will mention the divorce first, anyway, I will agree." Yu Yan said.

"However, if he doesn't leave, he can't leave for the sake of his future, and then he goes to find another woman, will you have to endure it for the rest of your life?" Guo Xiang frowned.

"I, I don't know......" Yu Yan was at a loss, that definitely can't be, but if she wants to forgive him now, she can't do it.

"Why don't you talk to him? Let him give you a little more time. Guo Xiang said.

Yu Yan pinched her fingers nervously, "I don't know how to tell him......"

"So, do you want me to help you talk about it?" Guo Xiang asked.

"But......" Yu Yan's eyes were confused, "I don't know what I want." ”

"Then let him choose." Guo Xiang said, "I'll tell him." ”

Guo Xiang took Yu Yan's hand, "I'll accompany you." ”

Yu Yan's hand shrunk, as if she was a little scared, Guo Xiang sighed lightly, is she afraid that An Rui has reached this point now?

She felt the need to see a psychiatrist.

Guo Xiang went to talk to Gu Zhennan, and he said, "I'll go with you!" ”

What if An Rui loses her temper and is not good for her daughter-in-law? He didn't want his daughter-in-law to be hurt.

"Good!" Guo Xiang nodded, turned around to take Yu Yan's hand, and buttoned her coat, "I'll tell him, let him choose, and when he says his decision, you can decide whether to agree or not." ”

Yu Yan mechanically let her hold her hand, completely overwhelmed.

The three of them arrived at Yu Yan's house, opened the door, and An Rui heard the movement and hurriedly walked out.

Seeing Guo Xiang and the others, his brows couldn't help frowning.

Gu Zhennan walked to the front, and when he saw An Rui with a hesitant face, he raised his vigilance in his heart.

When Guo Xiang took Yu Yan's hand and walked to her room, he patted her, "You go in first, I'll talk to your lover." ”

Yu Yan looked at her, then at An Rui, and when she came into contact with his sharp eyes, she immediately lowered her head again, and her body trembled.

"I want to talk to you!" Guo Xiang confronted An Rui.

An Rui glanced at Yu Yan and then at Guo Xiang, and nodded, "Let's go into the study!" ”

Gu Zhennan wanted to follow up, but Guo Xiang stopped him, "You go to Xiao Jin's side first, go and see him, you don't have to worry, he ......"

Guo Xiang glanced at An Rui, sneered, and clenched his fists, "I can still deal with it, although I haven't moved for a long time, but my skills are still there." ”

Gu Zhennan glanced at An Rui, nodded, and turned around to go to An Jin's side.

An Rui looked at Guo Xiang in surprise, what does she mean, she still has kung fu?

I really can't see it.

The two walked into the study, An Rui took a chair to Guo Xiang, and sat opposite her, "What do you want to talk about?" ”

"Why don't you want a divorce?" Guo Xiang went straight to the point, "Is it because of your future?" Or do you still have feelings for Yu Yan? ”

An Rui frowned at her, "Both!" ”

"If you have feelings, how can you be willing to hurt her?" Guo Xiang narrowed his eyes.

"I ...... That's the past, in fact, ......" An Rui's face was slightly red, and he seemed a little embarrassed, "Although I have liked others before and have cheated, in fact, Yu Yan still has weight in my heart, but I don't know it......"

"I've thought about it a lot during this time, and I'm reluctant to leave her." An Rui sighed, it was also the first time he had spoken his heart.

"Then you still ...... Love her? Guo Xiang looked at An Rui.

"yes, I'm not sure...... "An Rui looked melancholy, "This time may have allowed me to see my heart clearly, as for love...... I don't know, but it must be emotional, and the thought of her leaving me for a divorce makes my heart ache......"

"But that incident hurt Yu Yan a lot." Guo Xiang said.

"I know, so I want to make amends, for the rest of my life, but she doesn't seem to want to give me a chance." An Rui said.

"Because you hurt her too deeply, she is afraid of getting hurt again. And you have slept with other women, she has a knot in her heart, if it is you, can you accept that she cheated? ”

"I ......" An Rui stammered, unacceptable, people are like this, they think it's not a big deal if they make a mistake, but it's unforgivable to change it to the other party.