Starting from educating several grandchildren, Yang Xiangwei made a very obvious distinction between the education of several children.

Thick Black learned together, and everyone learned the basics together, but when they were almost ten years old, they began to separate.

Depending on the child's talents, the focus of learning is different, so that they can forge their own path in the future.

Concubine, if you want to take a scientific examination, she will not stop her, but you have to work hard yourself, after the age of 18, the Wei family will not support you if you take a kiss.

Therefore, at the age of thirteen or fourteen, the concubine still needs to learn to do business.

This is second-hand preparation, which means that if the scientific examination is not successful, at least you still have the guy to eat, and the family will not starve to death. There is no guarantee that you will be rich and expensive, but it is OK to be rich and prosperous.

Concubine, if you are going to do business, then simply learn to do business directly, and make the business bigger, you can enjoy the same preciousness. If you are afraid that your property will not be able to keep, it is okay, pay a part of the money to the family, and the family will be your backer.

The concubine is also divided into two groups, one group wants to live a stable life, so teach her how to be a good wife and mother, and even learn how to protect herself when she meets a scumbag. One is ambitious, the princess doesn't dare to think about it, but there are still people who dare to think about it.

But because as the concubine grows up, the emperor is also getting old, and several of his princes have also grown up, once marrying the prince involves the question of position.

Yang Xiangwei thought about it, and was afraid that they would work too hard and make their illnesses disappear, so she taught them a lesson - either to pick the kind of prince who can't get on the throne at first glance, or to marry a prince who was originally a prince, such as Prince Rui, several children in their family are good.

Fortunately, Yang Xiangwei is actually reluctant to be a good girl in her own family and go to be a concubine for others. Although it's a princess or something, it's also a side, and the side is a concubine.

Their mother has been a concubine for a lifetime, should they also be concubines for a lifetime, and let their children suffer such unfair treatment?

Therefore, when they were very young, Yang Xiangwei began to take vaccinations, and from time to time gossip about how other people's concubines lived, and what kind of life the concubines and concubines lived, so that they could clearly realize their position - if they were not born in the Weihou Mansion, they would be waiting to be raised and wasted, or sent out as objects.

When you know how miserable others are, you will know how lucky you are!

In this case, most girls are actually reluctant to be a side room, and would rather find a family with a poor family background and marry into the main room.

There are many families like this who are small and wealthy, and work hard to train their sons to study the imperial examination, and change the fate of a family, with different levels of wealth, different reading talents, and different future fates.

This Yang Xiangwei couldn't help them decide, so she sorted out all the candidates and sent them to their own hands for them to choose.

Fortunately, each of them has a different personality, and the personality of the future husband they are looking forward to is somewhat different, and few of them can bump into each other.

Except for having a concubine, who wants to be a "human being".

I don't know if Wei Minwen is not good enough, she seems to be born with a man's heart, even if the man she marries now looks good, she may take a concubine after a few years. Give him children, and as a result, he has to help him take care of his concubines, and he may be disliked, how sad is this?

"Instead of revolving around this man for the rest of my life, I might as well change my goal." She looked at Yang Xiangwei and said with a firm face, "Grandma, I know you want us to live happily, if it weren't for you, I'm afraid we would have been sent to the powerful family as goods."

"But grandma, everyone's thoughts are different, I have seen too many unhappy families, including my grandmother, she spent her whole life in my father's heart, I don't want to live like that.

"If I'm destined to revolve around men for the rest of my life, then I'm going to pick the biggest man and make my position as high as possible, so that I can look down on all the women in the world......"

Yang Xiangwei didn't know where she got this idea at all, and tried to persuade her: "Not all men in the world are like this, look at your uncle, isn't he and your aunt also very good?" ”

She smiled: "That's the eldest aunt's luck." Grandma, not everyone is an uncle. I wish that the sisters would be able to marry a man like my uncle, but if one day, they marry a non-human, only if I stand tall, I can support them and prevent them from being bullied by their in-laws. ”

Yang Xiangwei frowned: "Aren't there still a few brothers from you?" They won't sit idly by. ”

"Grandma, they're them, I'm me. What's more, they are men, and it's not very convenient to meddle in other people's housework, I'm a woman, and my daughter's family is amorous, and I can say that my sisters in the family have a good relationship, and others have nothing to say. But a few elder brothers are people who do big things, they are our backers, and we can't let them be talked about by others for such small things, and it is not good for everyone to talk too much. ”

Yang Xiangwei thinks that she usually talks about the relationship of interests, does she talk too much?

In fact, there is still affection between siblings.

Then, Miss Wei Jiu, Wei Yingying, was determined to enter that place, she didn't even want to marry the prince or the prince, but directly married the current saint who was only a little younger than her father.

Marrying a man who can be her father is really big-hearted.

For the sake of power, completely disregard ......

"Everyone has their own fate, and how to live it is a lifetime. You have to think about it, if you go in, you may not have your own children in this life. ”

"Although I may not have a son of my own in my life, I will at least be an imperial concubine in the future, I don't meddle in political affairs, I only take care of my sisters' housework, who can take care of me? Even if the future prince succeeds to the throne, he will have to be filial to me, the imperial concubine. As for me, I don't bother him, just a little affection, I think this face is still willing to give, right? He doesn't need to do anything, as long as he doesn't squeak when I intervene. ”

"Okay, okay, I'm too old to talk about you. Yingying, in fact, you are the smartest of the girls, I have always wanted to find the best man to be your husband. Alas...... It is a lifetime to marry, and it is a lifetime not to marry, in fact, it doesn't matter whether you marry or not, what matters is what kind of life you want to live. The secret of a wise woman's happiness is that no matter what kind of life circumstances she is, she can enjoy herself and gain spiritual enrichment. I hope you will be able to remember Grandma's words. ”

"Grandma, I'll remember." Wei Yingying, who was only a teenager, smiled sweetly, and there was a pair of cute dimples at the corners of her mouth, which looked particularly sweet.

"Our Weihou Mansion has nothing to ask the emperor for, you don't have to worry about your father and your uncle in the court, they are loyal to the emperor and do not stand on the throne, and it has nothing to do with them which prince ascends the throne in the future. After you go in, you may not be so well-informed, don't take it seriously when you hear anything, only if you are comfortable inside, we outside can rest assured. Those of us outside will also find ways to make ourselves comfortable. ”

Probably, people talk a lot when they get old. Yang Xiangwei felt that after she was ten years old, she had more things to worry about, and she didn't say anything, and she had more words, and she could repeat a sentence many times.

She also knew that she had become verbose, but she couldn't control herself, and she always felt that if she didn't say it, the people who were children and grandchildren would forget it.

"I don't know, after you go in, I can still see you!"

"Yes, grandma, you must be healthy and 100 years old, waiting for your granddaughter to become the imperial concubine in the future, and then come to see you!"

"Okay, grandma is waiting for you."

"Hmm."

……

(III, end)