Chapter 51: Xiaode's life experience
Speaking of Xiaode's life experience, it is also quite complicated.
Although Yucheng and Xiaode were both born to Wu Miaoli, and Xiaode is younger than Yucheng, it is Yucheng's father who lives with Wu Miaoli now, not Xiaode's father.
The reason is that Wu Miaoli divorced his father not long after giving birth to Yucheng, and then married someone else a few years later and gave birth to Xiaode.
It's just that Xiaode's father was not in good health and died not long after.
Later, Wu Miaoli had some hard work with her two children alone, so she came together with her father again.
But they did not remarry, they just stayed together as lovers and raised children together.
As for Wu Miaoli's current shop, she and her second husband worked hard to earn it, and her father is not in the city, but he will come back to reunite with them on weekends.
As a result, Wu Miaoli is usually a person who watches both the store and the two children, so it is a little hard.
Therefore, Wu Meiyun often went over to help.
As for Wu Miaoli's parents...... Wen Jiali's aunt is a bit patriarchal, so they rarely interact with each other.
But what made Wen Jiali a little strange was that her aunt was very enthusiastic about them.
Later, she slowly understood that her aunt was saving the country with curves. knew that his daughter had opinions about him, so he borrowed Wu Meiyun's hand to care for Wu Miaoli.
Wen Jiali felt a little twisted in this regard, since she wanted to care about her daughter, she would come to see her directly, or come directly to help her take care of the child.
You must know that Wu Miaoli has said more than once that she has no one to help, and it is very hard to be alone. She also said that her mother would care about her daughter like everyone else.
So Wu Miaoli would never push the people who came to help out because of those grievances when she was a child.
It's just that my aunt didn't figure it out, and Wen Jiali didn't want to get involved in this matter.
As for Wu Meiyun, she knew that her sister-in-law would not come over to help at all, and she would definitely watch her grandson at home.
Aunt Wen Jiali was reluctant to let go of her grandson, and she couldn't worry about Wu Miaoli, so she often sent them meat or something, and brought a little to Wu Miaoli by the way.
"You tell Sister Miaomiao, let her take her to the hospital for a look. Otherwise, the people over there will find out about this and make trouble again. The person Wen Jiali said over there refers to the relatives of Xiaode's biological father.
Xiaode's grandparents are still alive, and she also has an aunt, and they have always wanted to get custody of Xiaode.
But Wu Miaoli is her biological mother, so it is not their turn. But even so, they have made trouble many times, and even fought lawsuits.
In the end, she even said that if Wu Miaoli didn't fulfill her mother's responsibilities, she would snatch the child back.
So Wen Jiali was afraid that the people over there would find out about this matter and make a fuss. Besides, if the child is sick and does not go to the hospital for investigation, what should I do if there are other problems?
But Wu Miaoli is a careless person who doesn't care much, so she doesn't realize the importance of this matter at all.
"I'll say, just stay at home." Wu Meiyun nodded over there and hung up the phone.
Wen Jiali, who was sitting on the sofa, did not turn on the lights, she liked this quiet and dark environment, and felt that the world was clear.
The house they live in now is a two-bedroom apartment of more than 80 square meters, and it is very spacious for two people.
After living in a cold and damp small single room in a big city for a long time a few years ago, Wen Jiali misses their small city very much, where she can live in a bright and spacious room.
Although the city is not as prosperous and less convenient than the big cities, it is not bad.
In addition, the houses in the suburbs are big and cheap, in fact, they are said to be suburbs, but they are actually still within the third ring road of urban planning, but the city does not focus on developing this area, so this side is called a suburb.
And the landlord is not bad, because he is not in this area all year round, so as long as she pays the rent on time, he will not even come.
Therefore, Wen Jiali is still very satisfied with this house, but she now needs her own space to put things or something.
Wen Jiali, who hadn't slept at night, ushered in Wu Meiyun, who returned late.
"Hey, haven't slept yet?" After Wu Meiyun entered the house, she put the call on the shoe changer and put the slippers on.
"Well, how is Xiaode?" Wen Jiali asked.
"I went to the hospital for a check-up, and the doctor said that the cold was too heavy, which led to a urinary tract infection." Wu Meiyun walked over and sat next to Wen Jiali.
"Didn't you say that your stomach hurts if you eat too cold? How do you still have a urinary tract infection? "Wen Jiali didn't know anything about medicine.
"I caught a cold, so I couldn't pee. And this child is so old and often pees his pants, so he is infected. Wu Meiyun said a little speechlessly.
She also didn't understand how a child who was almost five years old still peed his pants, and told her many times that she wanted to pee and go to the toilet, but she just didn't listen.
"It's better for you to bring." Wu Meiyun is a little tired, after all, she is old and can't take care of children like young people.
"Sister Miaomiao never thought about hiring a nanny? She is so busy in the store, not only does she have to take care of Xiaode, but she also has to tutor her homework after class. She couldn't keep her busy. Wen Jiali felt that her sister seemed to be too busy.
Two children, the eldest is in elementary school, and now he is still worried about his junior high school. Although the little one is in kindergarten, he has to stay in the store with his mother at night or on weekends.
The boy was still idle, so he always ran out, and got lost once, but fortunately he was sent back by a kind person.
She said that she had no money to hire a nanny, that her house was still paying off the loan, that she still had no house, and that the tuition fees for her two children were still very expensive. And the child has already been sent to kindergarten, and it is a bit redundant to hire another nanny. Wu Meiyun shook her head.
Wen Jiali had a headache when she heard this, she really felt that getting married and having children was too uncomfortable.
Maybe Wu Miaoli didn't expect that she would divorce her first husband, nor did she expect that her second husband was short-lived, otherwise she might not have given birth to two.
After all, her parents can't count on it, her husband can't count on it, and her ex-parents-in-law are even more far away.
It was Xiaode's grandparents who wanted to help, but they directly wanted to take the child away.
"I have a headache when I hear it, anyway, Mom, you help me to help, don't be too tired." Wen Jiali didn't say anything about other people's affairs, don't worry about it.
After all, her mother couldn't really leave it alone.
As for why Wen Jiali didn't go to help...... She might have broken down if she went, because she hated children.
Don't look at the fact that they are willing to play with her every time they come, but Wen Jiali hates children very much, and she doesn't want to contact them, just because she endures them for the sake of their relatives.
Wu Meiyun, who knows her daughter's character, never forces her, anyway, her daughter also has to work by herself (although she doesn't have it now), she has her own things to do, and there is no need to help out for free.