Speaking of this, Guan Wenliang's eyes came to mind the last time she went to find her before she got married.

The woman's name was Lian Yufang.

Lian Yufang said to Guan Wenliang: "Please don't pester me anymore, I will soon marry the person I love!" ”

Guan Wenliang said: "With whom?" ”

"It's none of your business."

"I already knew that you just disliked me because I didn't have the ability! You yourself are so capable, you must look down on me! You don't want to get married, okay? Give me time and I'll become capable! ”

"Haha, so you think I don't like you because you don't have the ability? It's ridiculous! I think you don't know what I am, you don't know what kind of person I am! You don't know me, you use your imagination to distort my thoughts, and you say you like me, you like the person you imagine, right? Lian Yufang said helplessly, "Let me tell you, the person I love, he knows how to respect me, he won't entangle me, and he won't care about who is more capable of such a boring thing!" He was very concerned about my feelings when he did things, not like you, who only cared about doing what you wanted in front of me without thinking about how much your actions bothered me! Love is based on mutual respect. If a person respects me but doesn't love me, I can be friends with him, but if a person doesn't respect me, even if he says he loves me, in my heart, he is not even a person with a sound personality! I'm human, when you face someone, you have to respect her at least, if you don't even have this minimum, what kind of love is there to talk about?! People who don't know how to respect others, no matter how great their ability is in other areas? I say that, you know? ”

"But I love you, how can you marry someone else?" Guan Wenliang said, "I love you, what should I do if my heart is placed with you?" How can you compensate me for my sincerity for you? ”

Lian Yufang smiled helplessly and said: "I have already rejected you when you first confessed to me, I have never asked for anything from you, and I have never wanted you to pay me sincerely, isn't this a long time ago?" Why is it that now that I am going to get married, you are pestering again? You and I are both independent people, you are you, I am me, there is nothing between you and me, it doesn't mean that I have an obligation to satisfy you if you think anything about me, understand? ”

Guan Wenliang shouted: "Why don't you satisfy me, I am sincere to you!" I love you so much that I give you my whole heart, but you are not moved at all. For you, I live so lowly, have you ever given me dignity? ”

"Dignity? Do you want me to give you dignity? Lian Yufang smiled helplessly again and said, "Dignity is never given by others. You want to say that you gave me your whole heart, but I have the right not to accept it, I have never accepted it! Do you think that whoever you give your heart to will be tempted by you? When you like someone, do you really want them to be good, or do you just want her to trade with you in this way so that you get what you want? If you regard the so-called love as a transaction, then I can also tell you from the perspective of a transaction - be fair and voluntary, don't expect to buy and sell! It is your right that you want to sell your heart to a particular person, but that person also has the right to choose not to buy it. ”