On the eighth day of the new year, Zhou Yan and Wang Dahu got married.

Yang Xu went early, and he could talk to Zhou Yan early. And at that time, it was not very busy, so it would not be crowded if there were few people.

It's almost the coldest time, there is a heater in the donkey cart, Yang Xu is not wearing much, she has felt hot since she was a month old.

After Wang Dayi asked the doctor, he said that it was a normal phenomenon to rest assured, and the doctor also said that as long as it is not cold, there is no need to wrap it too tightly, and the pregnant woman herself feels warm.

"It's warm inside the donkey cart, it's still cold outside, can you tie your cloak and take it off when you get inside?" Wang Dayi coaxed.

"Okay."

Wang Dayi wrapped the prepared cloak for Yang Xu, and even brought his hat, there was some wind outside.

Yang Xu didn't say anything, although the gate was not far from the house, but it was indeed windy, Brother Dayi cared about her so much, and her heart was also warm.

Yang Su went to the house with Zhou Yan, Wang Dayi was not good at entering the girl's boudoir, so he went to chat with Zhou Shu.

"This curtain looks good."

"Sister Yang, you're here!" Zhou Yan heard the voice and said in surprise.

"Today, you are married, how can I not come." Yang Su walked over with a smile.

"No, my sister is a month old, so it's inconvenient to come out and walk around, and it's very cold outside, and I feel sorry for my sister. I can understand that my sister is not coming, but now that my sister is here, I am very surprised! "

Yang Xu's stomach was very inconvenient, so Zhou Yan went over and took off her cloak, and then helped her sit on the bed.

"Actually, it's okay, I came by donkey cart, and the distance between our two families is not far, there are few people today, otherwise I really won't be able to come."

"Fortunately, when I got married, my sister had already given birth, and I was just in time to bring my goddaughter with me." Zhou Yan said with a smile.

The marriage is set today, but it is still early to get married! Daddy means about the second half of the year.

"Speaking of which, your goddaughter has now become a godson." Yang Xu sneered when he heard Zhou Yan talk about the child.

"Huh? Sister, what does this mean? Two in the belly? Zhou Yan asked in surprise.

"No, where do I have that blessing, that is, a few days ago, I went to the doctor, and the doctor said, there is a good chance that this belly is a male doll, don't you know, Brother Dayi was stunned on the spot, and I was laughed to death." As soon as Yang Xu said this, she wanted to laugh again when she recalled that expression.

"I also said that Brother Dayi, even if I listen to it now, I can't react a little, we all think it's a daughter, it's coming, and I've become a son. It's so surprising and a little unprepared. Zhou Yan said.

To tell the truth, she was also surprised, she was all ready, why did she suddenly change.

"Actually, I'm fine, I still like boys more! That's acceptable. Yang Xu touched his stomach with a gentle face.

"I'm okay, I just hope this kid is as well-behaved and smart as Tianbao, sister, don't you know, Zhou Tao's stinky boy, when he was a child, he was not well-behaved at all, he was very naughty every day, but it made me angry, but I still like him very much, but sometimes I am tired and panicked."

She was not very old at that time, and she had to take care of the house, and the stinky boy didn't look at it, so he ran outside to play wildly, and when he came back, his clothes were dirty, and sometimes he fought with other children, and she was angry.

"It's okay, it's okay for boys to be lively, as long as they don't make big mistakes, it's okay to have fun, and I think Taotao is very good, and now he is very sensible."

Yang Xu is not afraid, as long as the child's thinking is okay and the education is good, his liveliness or quietness is related to the environment, and if there is no big mistake, she will not dislike it.

And she thinks it's better for boys to be lively, and lively and active children have always been in good health.

"Speaking of which, Taotao has been sensible in the past two years, and he doesn't fight anymore, I'm quite happy, but the problem is that I didn't specifically educate him, and he himself is obedient, which is quite strange."

"So let's just say, Taotao is also a good boy, he used to be fierce, but he was also young, lively and active, and now that he is a little older, he will naturally be stable." Yang Xu said with a smile.

"Probably, I sometimes think it may be the role of friends, he has known Tianbao since last year, a group of people play together, and they slowly learn from each other and become more sensible."

"It's also possible that this group of children are measured, and they also influence each other, Tianbao used to be a little too dull, but now it's a little more lively, I think it's good."

I didn't come to town before, Tianbao didn't have any friends, and the family conditions were not good, this child was fragile and insecure, and he had an inferiority complex in his bones.

It was also since he arrived in the town and went to the school, the teacher's teaching, the praise of the people around him, and the getting along with his friends, slowly, the child became more and more cheerful and more and more confident.

Now that he has grown up quickly, Tianbao has been judging two people in just three years. She is also very pleased to look at this child now, polite, smart and smart, and most importantly, he plays with a group of children, quite a leader, but humbly listens to opinions, which is rare.

Yang Xu and Zhou Yan discussed the children's affairs for a while, and felt that Tianbao's group of children were very good, and their foundation was good.

"Boys are okay too! It's a pity, I still want to take my goddaughter to wear beautiful clothes and teach her how to make rouge gouache! Zhou Yan felt a little pity, these things are learned by girls, and boys can't learn them.

"Why have you forgotten yourself, you are going to get married in the second half of the year and give birth to one of your own! How can there be half the probability! Yang Xu quipped.

"Sister!" Zhou Yan blushed and said angrily.

"Okay, okay, I won't tease you, in fact, I'm not wrong, you and Big Tiger always want children."

Rouge is old enough, and it is okay to have children, and Brother Big Tiger is not too young, so he definitely wants a child.

"Yes, then the boy and the child can only follow fate, I like it all." Zhou Yan said shyly.

She doesn't have any patriarchal thoughts, she is a woman herself, she doesn't think there's anything wrong, doesn't her father like her too!

As for Brother Big Tiger and their family, there is no need to say it, when Aunt Wang chatted with her, I don't know how many times she said that she wanted a daughter, but she gave birth to a son, and later because of physical reasons, she could only give birth to such a child.

Later, their family recognized Xiaoda as their godson, and there were three big men in the family, and the queen mother was a rare girl.

"Well, boys and children are good, they are all parents' treasures." Yang Xu said with a smile.

"By the way, Sister Yang is still young, and when she gives birth to this belly, she can have a few more, there is always one who is a girl, and it is best to have both children and daughters." Zhou Yan said.

She doesn't particularly like children, but she likes them a lot, she thinks about it, and it's just right to have two children. However, everyone seems to think that it is better to have more children, anyway, a family like them can still raise a few children.

"I haven't thought about it yet, but I read a medical book before, saying that it is not good for a woman to have children in a row, and it is better to have another child every two years. And it's dangerous for a woman not to have children after the age of thirty-five. "

Especially in ancient times, it was particularly dangerous to have children, and Yang Xu himself would never have had children after the age of thirty.

"I know a little bit about this, but I don't say it so clearly, it's really dangerous for a woman to have a child when she gets older." Zhou Yan has also read this kind of book.

"Well, so, I'll pay attention to these two points except for these two points, and let the rest be as fate is! But seriously, I only want two children, after all, it hurts to have a child, and it is enough to have a companion for two children. "

Modern people generally want one child, and she thinks that it would be good for two children to have a companion. Even if it is more, it is not easy to have a child, she is still a little afraid, I heard that it hurts very much......

"My sister and I thought about it, I don't like those children to make a lot of noise, the noise hurts my head, I think I may not be able to bear it. Two children are enough, but many people don't say that more is better! I saw that my sister also likes children, and I thought you would want several! "

Yang Xu is really gentle, not the kind of pretending, Zhou Yan feels that Sister Yang is the kind of gentleness that comes out of her bones, and she is very patient with children and adults.

"I'm afraid it hurts! And it is not easy to raise a child, not only to feed them and clothe them. It is also necessary to educate them attentively, so that they receive the best education and care for them. Moreover, each child's personality is different, and they cannot be educated in the same way, so they must be taught according to their aptitude. In short, it is not easy to raise a child seriously and responsibly. "

"It's really troublesome to hear my sister say this! I haven't gotten married yet, I'm a little scared, I'm afraid I don't know how to educate my children. Zhou Yan held his chin and was a little worried.

"Hey, take your time, we haven't been educated, just read more, think more, reflect more, teach them to be kind, friendly, filial piety, and etiquette, it's very good."

Looking at Zhou Yan was still a little sad, Yang Xu couldn't cry or laugh, this girl, think too early!

"Look at you, you were shy when it came to getting married at first! It's not too early to worry about children's education. My belly is about to give birth, and you only got married today! Don't think about it too much, be happy today, it's almost time soon, Brother Big Tiger, they're coming over! "

Yang Xu was really amused, this is unfounded, this girl is rarely confused today.

"Oops, I'm about to forget, what my sister said makes too much sense, it's the first time I've heard of this, but I'm not fascinated by it, so I brought myself into it, I forgot it, I haven't married yet!" Zhou Yan was a little embarrassed.

She was confused, and she was brought into it for a while, and she was confused, but she was not worried here! As soon as he remembered that today was the day of marriage, but he was thinking about the future of the child, Zhou Yan inevitably blushed.

"Okay, okay, I'm not laughing at you, aren't we chatting! Chatting is like this, the past and the future, everything can be said, now with this awareness, it will be more convenient in the future! Yang Xu smiled and comforted.

This girl is so shy that she buried herself in the quilt and refused to come out, but don't suffocate it.

"Hurry up, don't mess up your hair, it's an important day!"

"That sister is not allowed to laugh at me, and let's stop talking about this topic." Zhou Yan said coquettishly.

"Okay, okay, I won't say it, and I will never laugh at you." Yang Xu hurriedly promised.

Zhou Yan got up at this time, his face was still red, and he was very ashamed at first glance.

"Ah, my hair is messed up, my sister will tidy it up for me." Only then did Zhou Yan remember about hair.

Brother Tiger's family is coming over soon, and he can't make a mess.

"No, no, it's good to watch!" Yang Xu carefully checked it, but fortunately, the hair was still in good condition.

"When my sister married Brother Dayi at that time, was she married?" Zhou Yan was a little nervous, so he asked.

"This is really nothing, I told you something before, I was calculated by my aunt to marry Brother Dayi, and the village is poor, it is very simple to propose marriage, and it is very simple to marry, and there is no marriage." Yang Xu said.

"Ah, I see. When the women in the town get married, there are also some who are not fixed, and when they propose marriage, they say that they will get married, and then they will get married directly. "

That's a family that is not very wealthy, and they all do it like this, and there are many rules in the big family, and there are marriage ceremonies. As for their family, there are no rules, but Brother Dahu feels uneasy, so he wants to settle down first, and he is not in a hurry to get married.

Zhou Yan felt a little pity, a good girl like Sister Yang was too sloppy when she got married, and a person like her sister really shouldn't be born in a poor family.

And she used to be very strange, Sister Yang came from the village, but she didn't mean to discriminate against the people in the village, but most of the people in the village were not rich, and there were very few literate people.

But Sister Yang is not at all different from those people, she is knowledgeable, although she does not say that she has read a lot of books, but when she talks on weekdays, she can find that she knows almost everything, that must be that she has read more books to be so knowledgeable.

And not only that, Sister Yang is much smarter and more capable than the children raised by these families, it seems that she can do anything, and there are many things that they have never heard of, Sister Yang will.

The most wonderful thing is that everyone will have a unique temperament, cowardly, inferior, self-confidence, proud, Sister Yang has a kind of rich and noble charm, that is confident and calm, not humble or arrogant.

In short, in the eyes of others, Sister Yang is a woman who can't be cultivated by a big family, and she has a special temperament that is very attractive. No matter how you look at it, it can't be a woman in the village.

However, strange is strange, the sister Yang she knows has always been like this, she will not get to the bottom of it, after all, everyone has their own secrets and adventures.