Forty-two, nursery
After Di Renjie left, Shen Mengxi called Yu'er and told her about Di's marriage alone, Yu'er first blushed and was a little ashamed, and then stared at a place and thought for a while.
Shen Mengxi was curious about what she was thinking: "Yu'er, do you also have an impression of that young man?" ”
"Auntie, how can there be!" Yu'er snorted, and refused to say anything to Shen Mengxi, "Yu'er hasn't been married yet, does A-Niang want to marry Yu'er, Yu'er has been with A-Niang all her life and won't marry!" ”
"The princess's mansion will always be the home of the four of you, if you really don't want to get married, you can live for a lifetime." Shen Mengxi said seriously.
Yu'er was stunned, seeing that her mother's expression didn't seem to be laughing, she also smiled, "Auntie, are there very few people as good as Daddy?" ”
Shen Mengxi had a headache.
She struggled to recall, "Not necessarily, it's important whether the two people are suitable." Yu'er, A-Niang and you will be honest, in this world, there are always more unsatisfactory things, but they will always get better. A-Niang's choice may not be suitable for you, and even what you think is good today will feel that you are not a good person many years later. The world is changing every day, people's hearts are changing, others are changing, and you yourself are also changing. Shen Mengxi was very cruel to tell a girl the truth, she didn't want to talk to Yu'er too early, the relationship was the most torturous, but she was afraid that Yu'er would be defenseless if she encountered it in the future.
"Hmm." Yu'er is a smart girl, she seems to understand Shen Mengxi's words, "Yu'er always listens to A-Niang." ”
"If you have a chance, A-Niang will let you get in touch, if you don't like it, just tell A-Niang, even if it is His Majesty's marriage, A-Niang will refuse him!"
Yu'er blushed shyly, and said generously: "Yu'er thanked A-Niang!" ”
After Yu'er left, Shen Mengxi still couldn't hold back, and said to Qingfeng: "You quietly probe, did Yu'er go back and say something to Qin Nuniang again?" ”
"Oh, princess, that's the nurse of the eldest lady, they live in the same courtyard, of course I will talk to her when I go back, princess, don't worry about yourself!"
"No, you go!" Shen Mengxi patted the case.
Qingfeng was helpless, so he had to call Shen Fifteen and confess.
An hour later, Shen Fifteen came back, "Your Highness, the eldest lady went back to the courtyard and immediately went to find Qin Nuniang, and the two talked for more than half an hour. To the effect that the eldest lady said that Di Fu came to ask for marriage, and asked Qin Niangniang for advice, Qin Niangniang said that Di Fu's family background is very good, Di Gong's prestige is prosperous, and she said a lot carefully, saying that if you have the opportunity to see Di Jiaxiao Langjun in the future, you should pay attention to see whether his face is upright, whether his eyes are clear, whether his words are polite, and then inquire whether his father and brother are lustful prostitutes, and whether there is a room now, and also said that the eldest lady wants to mention to His Royal Highness the matter of looking for a bride maid, as well as the wedding grange and so on. ”
Shen Mengxi was expressionless when he heard the end.
She admitted that she didn't think as carefully as Qin Nanniang.
Over the years, Qin Niangniang really loves Yu'er, whether she relies on her for the rest of her life, she is dedicated, and she also has some brains, and when Yu'er marries in the future, she will inevitably leave and be raised by Yu'er for the rest of her life, as long as she doesn't intend to control Yu'er, although she has some jealousy in her heart, she will not drive her out of the house.
In fact, in the official eunuchs' families, the children are mostly raised by the nurse, and the little lady has followed the nurse since she was a child, and it is normal for the feelings to be deeper. Taiping and the nurse also have a very good relationship, very dependent on her, but when Taiping was thirteen years old, the nurse fell into the lake and drowned, Taiping was extremely sad, in memory, it was a place that hurt when touched, and she even avoided remembering this incident.
Shen Mengxi faintly understood, thinking about the current Yu'er, and said to Shen Shifu: "I know, you go and rest." Some of them were disheartened, and they tilted their heads on the Luohan couch and stopped talking.
She somewhat understood Guan Xiuqin's feelings.
For a mother, the person her daughter relies on the most is not herself, but an outsider, and that kind of mood is really tormenting.
She also has a deeper understanding of the partiality of her parents, not how much her parents dislike which child, but, when there are many children, the likable nature makes her the happiest, no one wants to ask for hardships, and reflexively she will put the unlikable and hard-mouthed children back the most, so most of the unfavored children are because of personality.
A virtuous ruler does not love a meritorious man, and a loving father does not love a useless son.
In short, there is no love in this world for no reason.
Yin'er is a qualified eldest son, excellent everywhere, Shen Mengxi can't dislike such a child, that is her pride. Jian'er is naughty and a little funny, thirteen years old, about the teacher has taught the way of survival of the youngest son in the family, and listens to her brother very much. Lu'er was raised by Shen Mengxi since she was a child, and there are not many times when she needs to be taken care of by a nurse. The boy's world is always bigger, and his social circle is wider after studying, so only Yu'er has had the most contact with the nurse since she was a child, and she is very dependent on her. Even Shen Mengxi found that Yu'er rarely mentioned the nurse in front of her, as if she was afraid that she would be angry.
Before she was five years old, she spent almost all of her time with her nurse, careless and peaceful, only caring about her love and sweetness with Xue Shao, and she had no time to take care of her children.
Shen Mengxi sat up suddenly, instructed He Yu, and prepared to hold a flower-viewing banquet in the mansion of the Daofang three days later, and invited the housewives and little ladies of Luoyang to participate.
He also scattered his hands to inquire about Di Jingen's situation in many ways.
Shen Mengxi called Yu'er and Qin Nuniang together, Yu'er was a little nervous, this sensitive child, she could feel her dislike for Qin Nuniang. Qin Nuniang is over thirty years old, slightly plump, has a good appearance, behaves decently, can't find any faults, and stands respectfully below after saluting to listen to orders.
Shen Mengxi wanted to say something to Qin Nuniang to exercise Yu'er's independence, but now looking at the appearance of the two, she suddenly lost her mood, "Yu'er, three days later, A-Niang will hold a flower-viewing banquet in the Crawler Workshop, and the invitations will be sent to the official eunuchs in the city. ”
Yu'er understood the purpose of the banquet, lowered her head and said with a smile, "Er knows." ”
"Qin Niangniang!" As soon as Shen Mengxi opened his mouth to call out to Qin Nuniang, he found that Yu'er clenched her fists nervously.
"Qin Runiang, this palace can see that you really love Yu'er all these years, take care of Yu'er wholeheartedly, and your credit is not small, and in the future, Yu'er will marry and let you follow, Yu'er also has feelings for you, she will treat you well and send you to the end of your old age." After saying this, Shen Mengxi let out a breath.
Qin Nuniang knelt down with a plop when she heard this, and kowtowed again and again, "The slave and maid don't dare, the slave and maid are just serving the eldest lady's subordinates, how dare you ask the eldest lady to support her for the elderly, the princess has tormented the slave!" ”
"Don't knock it, it's distressing to see it!"
Qin Nuniang immediately stopped kowtowing and fell to the ground without moving.
"Every mother, who brings her child into the world for ten months, wants her to be happy and healthy. Yu'er is the first daughter of this palace, and she is especially loved. From now on, I'll leave it to you, Qin Niangniang! ”
Qin Nuniang kowtowed again, "Oh, the slave obeys!" The slave will use her life to protect the eldest lady. ”
Yu'er suddenly cried too, stumbled to Shen Mengxi, pulled her sleeve and cried, but couldn't say anything.
"Silly girl, what are you crying about, it's not a marriage!"
Yu'er snorted and laughed again.
Shen Mengxi signaled, and Qingfeng hurriedly went to help Qin Nanniang.