At the end of the afternoon, Chun Tao hurriedly came over to find Qingshu: "Girl, the second girl came back crying just now, and the old lady asked you to go back quickly." ”

Qingshu hurriedly got up and walked out.

Walking to the door, Qingshu suddenly stopped, turned his head to look at Chun Tao: "Do you know why An An came back crying?" ”

Chun Tao shook her head and said, "I heard Caidie say that it seems that she was scolded by the student's parents, but I don't know the specifics." ”

Qingshu stopped and returned to his position and said softly: "You go back first, figure things out and tell me." ”

Chun Tao was a little stunned: "Girl, don't you go back?" ”

Qingshu shook his head and said, "I haven't finished dealing with my affairs yet, and I'll go back later." ”

Chun Tao was a little stunned, but seeing that Qingshu was not in a hurry, she could only go back first.

Old Madam Gu couldn't help but ask when she saw that she was the only one coming back, "What about Qingshu?" Why didn't I come back with you? ”

"The big girl is very busy and can't leave for the time being."

Old Madam Gu didn't think much about it, and continued to comfort An An: "Don't be sad, let's just don't do it if you're not happy." ”

Originally, letting An An teach was to let her be gilded, so that she could better say goodbye in the future. didn't expect to be angry, how could she be willing to let An An go again.

An An was very uncomfortable, and said with tears in her eyes: "If you don't go, I will accompany my grandmother at home in the future." ”

After Chun Tao exited, she looked for Caidie and asked in a low voice, "Sister Caidie, why did the student's parents scold the second girl?" ”

Caidie said: "That student is stupid, no matter how you teach, you can't learn." Yesterday, a girl was a little annoyed and said a few words to her, and then her parents found out and ran to the private school to scold my girl. ”

"What did you say?"

Caidie sighed a little: "The girl was also in a hurry at the time, saying that she couldn't teach it so many times?" With just one sentence, who knew that the girl would go home and complain. ”

Caidie pursed her lips and said, "Actually, if I don't teach, it's hard work and I can't make money." ”

Earn a lot of money and be decent like a big girl, and this errand for your own girl is not very good.

Chun Tao asked, "Has that girl ever suffered such a grievance before?" ”

"Not really, the parents of the other students still have a lot of respect for the girl."

Turning his head, Chun Tao relayed these words to Qingshu as they were.

Qingshu nodded and said, "I see." ”

It wasn't until school was out that Qingshu went home.

When An An saw her, he said with an aggrieved face: "Sister, why are you only coming back now!" ”

In the past, no matter what happened to her, her sister was the first to comfort her.

"You come with me to the study."

Old Madam Gu looked at it and asked, "What do you have to say here, what do you want to go to the study?" ”

An An saw that Shu's face was not right, and said with a sigh in her heart: "Sister, if you have anything to say, say it now!" ”

Qingshu said with a calm face: "Follow me to the study." ”

An An watched Qingshu walk out, and had no choice but to follow. If you don't listen, you will definitely be punished severely.

Entering the study, Qingshu said, "What's going on today?" ”

When An An heard this, she was immediately aggrieved: "Sister, Chen Fang has studied for a semester, and she can't even write "Hundred Family Names" silently. Chen Fang's mother didn't want her daughter to be stupid, but she blamed me, saying that I was a misguide.

"That's all?"

An An raised his head, looked at Qingshu and said, "That's all." Sister, Chen Fang's mother is going to beat me, if it weren't for Caidie for me, my face would have been scratched by her. ”

I scared her just now, how can I find my in-laws if she wants to break her appearance!

Qingshu said: "Is that really all? ”

An An was a little weak-hearted, but she still said quickly: "Sister, I didn't lie to you, that's really all." ”

Qing Shu glanced at her and said, "Chen Fang is as stupid as a pig, did you say this?" ”

An An felt very aggrieved and said, "Sister, I didn't say this, it was Chen Fang and her mother who wronged me." ”

Qingshu looked at her and said, "Only those who love their daughters will send them to the women's private school to study." You talk about other people's children like this, how can you make her parents not be angry. ”

"What did I tell you in the first place? Some children are gifted and intelligent, while others are slow to respond. Since you are a gentleman, you have to teach every child carefully, even if they can't learn you, you must be patient enough. ”

An An hung his head and said, "I—I also tried my best to be patient. But this Chen Fang is so stupid, she can't remember it after I taught it more than 20 times, and I'm really angry. ”

"Then you can call that kid stupid as a pig?"

An An said with red eyes: "Sister, I didn't, how could I say such things to students." ”

Qingshu said: "Chen Fang's parents can't wronged you with this kind of thing. ”

Seeing that Qingshu didn't believe her, An An said with tears in her eyes: "Sister, I really don't have it, why don't you even believe me?" ”

"And have you ever said anything like that to someone?" Qingshu said: "For example, I complained to other people that the child was stupid? ”

An An thought for a while and said, "Yes, I told He Lingwan in the same room about this. At that time, I was in a hurry, so she asked me. I complained to her, saying that I had never seen a student with such a bad memory. Sister, believe me, I really didn't say that Chen Fang was stupid as a pig. ”

"How many people were there when you said this?"

An An shook his head and said, "There was no one else, there were only me and He Lingwan in the room at that time." ”

After saying this, An An said: "Sister, this must have been said by He Lingwan, but I don't understand why she hurt me so much." ”

"Find out for yourself."

An An was very uncomfortable: "Sister, I know it's wrong, don't be angry." ”

Qingshu shook his head and said: "You are also so old, you should learn to solve things by yourself, I can't follow you for a lifetime." ”

An An didn't cry this time, nodded and said, "I'll ask her tomorrow and make it clear." ”

Qingshu hummed and said, "Later, I will ask Steward Kang to prepare a gift, and you will go to Chen's house tomorrow to apologize." ”

An An's face froze.

Qingshu stared at her and said, "If you know your mistakes, change them." You did something wrong, you caused a serious shadow on that child, shouldn't you apologize? ”

"Do you remember when you first went to Lan's private school? Are you stupid, you ask me? What would you have done if I had said the same thing to you? ”

An An was suddenly ashamed. At the beginning, she saw that other seniors could learn things as soon as they learned, and she had to learn them several times before she remembered them. At that time, she had low self-esteem and almost gave up. At that time, it was Qingshu who encouraged and praised her, so that she survived the most difficult period.

Seeing that she didn't speak, Qingshu said again: "Just imagine, if your child is insulted like this by her husband, will you be angry?" Will you find her desperate? ”

An An looked ashamed: "Sister, I know it's wrong, I'll go to Chen's house tomorrow to apologize." ”

Qingshu hummed and asked, "Is there another question that you realize?" ”

An An looked up at her.

"In interpersonal communication, the biggest taboo is to communicate with each other. You have to learn a lesson from this incident and don't do it again in the future, otherwise you will suffer losses in the future. ”

People have negative emotions, and it is normal to complain and vent or even speak inappropriately, but the premise is that the other party must be someone you trust, like Feng Xiaoyu once complained to her that the emperor was stunned and that Concubine Yu Guifei was a demon concubine who would not die well in the future. So An An's biggest mistake in this matter is that she said this kind of thing in front of people with shallow friendships.

An An nodded, "I see." ”